Mobree:


And what about the man!

That's how you people blame only women for the promiscuity of both genders.

Ade3131:
I know your boyfriend will regret loosing you. It's just a matter of time. I'm a guy and in that state of mind right now. He will grow up and realize it's late already. I wish you well in your next relationship bcuz you're obviously and definitely going to part ways with him. I pray you find a man you both have so many things in common with.

kalu61:
Your last paragraph has been used to scam men since Adam. Once she gets the ring and a son, she will turn to wolf. You will start hearing sentence like "You have changed" Fear women

UyaiIncomparabl:




That's exactly what you people say. Your main monikers are usually popular, why?

The trend of opening countless threads these days is unbecoming, astounding, and relentless!
Don't worry, we know you people's plot, to garner traffic of course. Please, entertain us whilst the offer lasts. I repeat I shall not waste my time trying to advise you ceaseless trolls. If truly you need advice and are in such a precarious situation, you should have, as a matter of necessity, unraveled the fact that you are being played by your bobo. But no, you're here to read what a bunch of unknown people will tell you. Please, have at it while at it. Au revoir.

Liposure:
see u. Empty net, u no fit score. nawa 4 u oh. U be yakubu?

PoliteActivist:


You know this forum has no age limit. He is probably 16 or so

alphaNomega:

Straight out of the fish brain!

As if sex is his problem.

PoliteActivist:


Yes, sex with this PARTICULAR girl (his girl) will be his problem and he can't get it

ashawopikin:
what's wrong with being a baby mama, your mates are doing it

LaJoe2:
In this 21 century, no guy wants marriage palava. They still haven't gotten over the peace and liberty of singlehood.

Nobody wants the stigma of a failed marriage, the unrest of domestic issues, and to top it up, the struggles of having to fend for another and being insulted or disrespected when you can't.

And to make matters worse, the Bible now supports singlehood. Assuming the Bible didn't support it, it would have been a problem.

PoliteActivist:

The bible NOW supports singlehood? Didn't know the bible changed

pansophist:


Love ke? Na to secure the bag bros. And that is natural. Women go for security and provision, men go for youthfulness and fertility. Blame nature

alphaNomega:


You don't understand the dynamics in play here

LaJoe2:


it didn't change, you just haven't read it well or haven't read it @ all. Apostle Paul adviced believers to rather be single like him than be married, because it would deviate your focus from pleasing GOD to pleasing your spouse.

DrayZee:

Imagine. So what exactly do men get married for? With all the stories I’ve been seeing everywhere, a lot of women just pretend to have a good character, so they can get married.
Of what benefit is marriage to men?, considering how these days, you can get every physical thing a married person has, whilst being single.

Come to think of it, if this woman had an actual reason to tell her man, as to why he should marry her, she’d have said it. But she doesn’t. He literally has no reason to marry her, other than the fact that she wants to get married. Honestly, she should be pleading her cause here, not demanding it.

PoliteActivist:


Here is what you wrote verbatim:

"And to make matters worse, the Bible now supports singlehood"

olumide4christ:
Some people are just a disgrace to us as men. Imagine a 35 year old man not thinking of getting married, but planning for baby mama. At his age, I had been married for 5 years and up till now, still enjoying my home - wife and children - after 9 years of marriage.
Some men will just be growing age-wise, but still be reasoning like a 21 year old!

What a pity!

LaJoe2:


Yes and I still stand by it 1 Cor 7:25-38

IME1:


Didn't you see baby papa there
What's the matter with you

Goodmorning

VenumX:


First, negroes convinced you African women to have sex with them before they wife you. Now negroes just want you to birth for them. Meanwhile, one kobo, your waste of space boyfriend has not given you to show he can be a responsible father.

When will you realise that the enemy you have been sleeping with is there to ruin your life?He has no home training and good values- nothing! I am sure he is one 35 year old agbero looking creature who is about to become a fool at 40.

Let me tell you something about this your blind bat boyfriend. By the time he is in his 50's and suffering from erectile dysfunction, nobody will tell him to go and get married. He will go and get one girl like Regina Daniels to wife. All his money, he will spend on her whether she is faithful to him or not. While you will be there struggling to pay your last child's school fees. You better don't fall into that trap!

Ignore all the miscreants with no future here telling you to listen to that fool you call your useless boyfriend.

Dump him fast and move on with your life. Let him go and meet all those ratchet broke jezebels that will deal with him mercilessly.

You have been warned!

PoliteActivist:


You wrote "NOW"!! Which means it was not so before!

I get your point now, when I said 'the Bible now supports it', I don't mean the Bible just started supporting it, I mean in addition the Bible also supports singlehood, u digg?

Confusedgirl869:
Hey guys, I have taken the bold step. I have blocked him on WhatsApp. Now to move on! It's really not easy, I've cried my eyes out. This is my first real and painful heartbreak, before him I learn to love with my head and not heart. I have no friends at all which will make it a more difficult journey.

I have an idea though, I will keep an online diary here so I need all support you can give, thanks

Confusedgirl869:
Thank you all so much for your contributions. Let me make a few things clear

I said he is a good man because he doesn't womanise which is very important to me because I so much hate cheating, he is hardworking, he lives a simple life just like me, he is very peaceful.

He was once married and the lady (a white girl) made life very difficult for him, he almost killed himself. But then, I'm not the lady abi

I have decided to ask him one last time today, if he still maintain that, I move.

PoliteActivist:

Loi

Topkush:


Please give him more time.

You said he is hurting from his last marriage.

Find a way to help heal and change his perspective.

He will respect you forever.

PoliteActivist:


[s]A family. Living with your own exclusive wife and kids. On the rare occasion it works it can beat singlehood[/s]