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Re: Advise Needed For A Young Man About Marriage. by pocohantas(f): 2:30pm On Jun 17, 2020 |
saucecode: Explain please ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Advise Needed For A Young Man About Marriage. by Nobody: 2:32pm On Jun 17, 2020 |
Romangalactic:. |
Re: Advise Needed For A Young Man About Marriage. by saucecode(m): 2:33pm On Jun 17, 2020 |
pocohantas:Okay I'm sorry,you're not a pretender, you're a proud golddigger. So do u now agree you actively look out for money in your choice of a man, and that this is NORMAL BEHAVIOUR for nigerian women who are also like you? Simple question, no go shalaye again biko 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Advise Needed For A Young Man About Marriage. by pocohantas(f): 2:36pm On Jun 17, 2020 |
saucecode: Did I ever deny? ![]() ![]() ![]() saucecode: saucecode: Did I?? ![]() ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Advise Needed For A Young Man About Marriage. by jikins(m): 2:37pm On Jun 17, 2020 |
Ariza: Lol I understand your emotions, its justified. But I can't fully say he lacks sense or value base on one post. You see in the society we are in, its very easy to be that way. Its very easy to just bash and look down on women. Just as it is easy to glorify corruption. I will admit, I had similar opinions a while back. But as we grow, we learn, we develop our views on things. Granted not everyone will grow out of their prejudices. Some people will never even develop such prejudices in the 1st place. But it is what it is. Its just a prejudice. This reminds me of the ex US president Ulysses S Grant, whose father was against slavery. But Grant married a slave owner's daughter and even owned a slave. But do you know what, he fought in the US Civil war that ended slavery where he earned the highest military rank in US history at the time. He became the first US president post Civil war and he tried his best to promote equality for all. This is getting too long, but my point is we are complex beings. We aren't just one thing. He is definitely lacking in this regards, doesn't necessarily mean he is all bad. He just needs to expand his view on things. 1 Like |
Re: Advise Needed For A Young Man About Marriage. by saucecode(m): 2:44pm On Jun 17, 2020 |
pocohantas:Good,now you understand why OP should be scared of you and your naija based sistas. You for no dey counter am since u already know his fears are valid and he should be careful. Not every guy likes golddiggers the way I do 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Advise Needed For A Young Man About Marriage. by pocohantas(f): 2:53pm On Jun 17, 2020 |
saucecode: Please explain your contradiction. Am I a gold digger when you want 1:- saucecode: And a pretender when you want? 2:- saucecode: Since everyone knows 1, considering I DON’T HIDE IT. What do you think my sucre papito needs to know? ![]() saucecode: What is eating you up?? ![]() ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Advise Needed For A Young Man About Marriage. by oluwaseyi0: 2:53pm On Jun 17, 2020 |
Kriss216:Keep deceiving yourself, the idea of marriage over there is completely bleep off 1 Like |
Re: Advise Needed For A Young Man About Marriage. by pocohantas(f): 3:00pm On Jun 17, 2020 |
saucecode: No, I need everyone to see how double mouthed you are. Choke on your bile!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() Team #IMustAttackPoco. Anslem04 na president for this one. Lol 3 Likes |
Re: Advise Needed For A Young Man About Marriage. by saucecode(m): 3:01pm On Jun 17, 2020 |
pocohantas:Okay golddigger 5 Likes |
Re: Advise Needed For A Young Man About Marriage. by Thegamingorca(m): 3:02pm On Jun 17, 2020 |
saucecode: ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Advise Needed For A Young Man About Marriage. by Thegamingorca(m): 3:17pm On Jun 17, 2020 |
GuyInTheMirror: Dude focus on the passports. Forget about that marriage shiit. When the time is right, you'll swing your dick around with some broads in Europe or Canada in dire need of closure. Marriage systems are gradually phasing out. Whats more important is having a spawn to propagate your noble lineage 1 Like |
Re: Advise Needed For A Young Man About Marriage. by Thegamingorca(m): 3:24pm On Jun 17, 2020 |
Also it doesn't help that you are a teetotaller in the United States You need to get on out and experience the way of life in full force, both good and the bad. Unless you want to end up being altarboy to a parish 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Advise Needed For A Young Man About Marriage. by Nobody: 3:33pm On Jun 17, 2020 |
Ariza: commerce ke ![]() ![]() You could av just answered the question, the long speech was unnecessary. E.g Asides money, men offer a home, last name, security & protection, establishment to there wives. Asides sex, women also offer ..,..??.... you can follow my example ![]() |
Re: Advise Needed For A Young Man About Marriage. by Nobody: 3:52pm On Jun 17, 2020 |
saucecode: Even half of the minority will ridicule there husband in such situation, that is why you see most men with wives as breadwinner suffer the highest form of depression. 2 Likes |
Re: Advise Needed For A Young Man About Marriage. by Ishilove: 3:59pm On Jun 17, 2020 |
Thegamingorca:You must be a Marlian 1 Like |
Re: Advise Needed For A Young Man About Marriage. by Thegamingorca(m): 4:01pm On Jun 17, 2020 |
Re: Advise Needed For A Young Man About Marriage. by Nobody: 4:13pm On Jun 17, 2020 |
Nowhere also did I say you put a knife to his throat to force him to...Anyways, I can see you love to argue and type lengthy words just to make a concluding point, so, let me leave you to it. Yes, stress free life. Ciao, darling. annex1: |
Re: Advise Needed For A Young Man About Marriage. by Ishilove: 4:21pm On Jun 17, 2020 |
Thegamingorca:Trust me, you aren't missing anything. 3 Likes |
Re: Advise Needed For A Young Man About Marriage. by Nobody: 4:34pm On Jun 17, 2020 |
annex1: God bless you tremendously for this post. You said it all, really. As for the OP, you're a local champion. That girls will start falling over themselves because you're now in America. Lool. What a loser. Is it not men like you that built the country to its high standards that you were able to migrate? One of my secret wishes is that western countries will place a ban on African and Asian MEN from migrating abroad for at least 50 years. They must stay back in their home countries and build!!! If they can't build it to international standards, they should sit in the rot like that. Imagine Oga that migrated just 2 years ago to a country fellow men like him built for their women and children to enjoy, coming here to abuse and denigrate his own women. Is it any wonder they sit on you people's necks over there? I'm so angry because many men like him that manage to escape the hell hole they created with their low IQ and ineptitude will come and flex on women again to show that they are in the abroad. America and Canada, please grant my secret wish. Let African men stay back in their countries. Thank you. 6 Likes |
Re: Advise Needed For A Young Man About Marriage. by nkwuocha1: 5:03pm On Jun 17, 2020 |
GuyInTheMirror: Go through the list of ladies you have been 8n contact with years back before you travelled out.One must really not be that bad, contact her and marry her. |
Re: Advise Needed For A Young Man About Marriage. by Thegamingorca(m): 5:56pm On Jun 17, 2020 |
This guy don turn goldfish finally sha. The amounts of pm sliding into his email no go be here right now. ![]() |
Re: Advise Needed For A Young Man About Marriage. by Nobody: 5:59pm On Jun 17, 2020 |
pocohantas: I know what you are trying to do !! |
Re: Advise Needed For A Young Man About Marriage. by Nobody: 6:05pm On Jun 17, 2020 |
jikins: if she can't , can you please enligthen me, share what you know about these women that differs & applies to majority |
Re: Advise Needed For A Young Man About Marriage. by Romangalactic(m): 6:31pm On Jun 17, 2020 |
Rozz:Lol, did you edit your comment or what? Why? |
Re: Advise Needed For A Young Man About Marriage. by Nobody: 7:37pm On Jun 17, 2020 |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Now can It get any better? ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Advise Needed For A Young Man About Marriage. by Nobody: 7:45pm On Jun 17, 2020 |
Romangalactic:yes I did but it's nothing |
Re: Advise Needed For A Young Man About Marriage. by GuyInTheMirror: 7:54pm On Jun 17, 2020 |
![]() ![]() Thanks to everyone that contributed. |
Re: Advise Needed For A Young Man About Marriage. by Ejenavi18(f): 8:10pm On Jun 17, 2020 |
This thread is just too funny abeg.. Op, GuyInTheMirror, hope you've gotten the advice you seek? Fountainofyouth: |
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