Blackmiserable:

Paul why do you think everyone is a motherfuking hypocrite

because the bitter truth ia dt....Everybody is a hypocrite..

paulolee:

because the bitter truth ia dt....Everybody is a hypocrite..

No exceptions? Even you?

Goldenrod1:
Na only 3 of them remain for this country


Hold her firm

Oloun!

Na fowl u wan kill

You get better woman. Get sense and listen to her. I dey find this kind woman. My babe is telling me she wants a loud wedding, so I just jejely told her, wedding is till 2023, so I can save for her loud wedding, if I don't have it by then I will shift again till 2026.

I must say that she is a rare breed.
I understand that you want to show her how much you love her for the great impact she has had on your life.

Always listen to her advice in terms of money management.
#500,000 is more than enough to organize a low key wedding. Cut down on a lot of things. Plan for your marriage rather than the wedding day.

What is her dream car? Get it for her unannounced. Always surprise her and see how her head will be spinning. Honey, SweetHeart and Darling will never finish on her mouth.

Are you open to tourism? You can plan a vacation for two and get everything set and just show her the papers a day or two before you set out.
Good luck and best wishes for your marriage.

I pray the lady i will marry will be thinking like urs

Blackmiserable:

No exceptions? Even you?

Yup, no exception....na me worst pass..
a strong critic of no sex b4 marriage but still wan marry virg...d ones wey i don enter nko?? wu go marri dem?? wat do u call dt??

paulolee:

Yup, no exception....na me worst pass..
a strong critic of no sex b4 marriage but still wan marry virg...d ones wey i don enter nko?? wu go marri dem?? wat do u call dt??

Lol, is it just hypocrisy or other vice? Is it safe to say we're all liars or murderer?

Blackmiserable:

Lol, is it just hypocrisy or other vice? Is it safe to say we're all liars or murderer?

i dnt know about other vices...we all are liars and its not possible to find a person dt hardly tell lies but dnt kno about other vices such as murder....
my point is dt individually we all are hypocrites in our own special way and only u can jugde urself...jus lyl plato once said "man knows thyself"..

paulolee:

i dnt know about other vices...we all are liars and its not possible to find a person dt hardly tell lies but dnt kno about other vices such as murder....
my point is dt individually we all are hypocrites in our own special way and only u can jugde urself...jus lyl plato once said "man knows thyself"..

Okay. It's a pleasure.

Blackmiserable:


Okay. It's a pleasure.

yeah...dts hos we tag it but you wud see the clear picture the more when you are self critical

paulolee:

yeah...dts hos we tag it but you wud see the clear picture the more when you are self critical

I agree with you in one sense, critical self assessment and then you will discover you are not as nice and honest and good as you thought you are.

While it's true that everyone has indulged in the act of hypocrisy at one point, yet it is safe to say that not everyone is a hypocrite just like everyone lies but not everyone is a liar. My point is, just because you commit acts of hypocrisy doesn't make you a hypocrite.

Blackmiserable:

I agree with you in one sense, critical self assessment and then you will discover you are not as nice and honest and good as you thought you are.

While it's true that everyone has indulged in the act of hypocrisy at one point, yet it is safe to say that not everyone is a hypocrite just like everyone lies but not everyone is a liar. My point is, just because you commit acts of hypocrisy doesn't make you a hypocrite.

i dnt get ur last line?? pls explain wat u mean by sayin dt i commit d act of hypocrisy and still not mk me a hypocrite

paulolee:

i dnt get ur last line?? pls explain wat u mean by sayin dt i commit d act of hypocrisy and still not mk me a hypocrite

Lol, fine boy, no pimples, swaggerlicious, I no say you must ask. I just know, lol. Leave am like that jare.

Blackmiserable:

Lol, fine boy, no pimples, swaggerlicious, I no say you must ask. I just know, lol. Leave am like that jare.

lolz...u replying me asif u know me too well for real....do u??

paulolee:

lolz...u replying me asif u know me too well for real....do u??

No, I don't actually.

You're a pretty open person and I admire your openness - used to read your post here lol.

Blackmiserable:


No, I don't actually.

You're a pretty open person and I admire your openness - used to read your post here lol.

lolz...tanks man...hope say u be bea, i for jus tag along n collect digitd mk we push am for watsap..

paulolee:

lolz...tanks man...hope say u be bea, i for jus tag along n collect digitd mk we push am for watsap..

Thanks for the offer, but seriously I no dey Whatsapp and Facebook. I joined Telegram because of a business deal and I am not active there. My social interaction is sadly limited to forums.

Blackmiserable:


Thanks for the offer, but seriously I no dey Whatsapp and Facebook. I joined Telegram because of a business deal and I am not active there. My social interaction is sadly limited to forums.

then put me on map on business deals na...i want to stay connected and get busy with ma life, link me up mk i start business too n start making cash plss...wr are u based self??

Ninobraw:
I am a guy of 29 years old and she's 24 years old she is a nurse and she is working and earning good salary, we have been dating for the past 3 years ever since she came into my life things have been moving forward between the space of three years I was able to buy a land and build two flat(almost completed) and also buy a nice car. all this was possible because she was in my life. she assisted me with the money she accumulated before she met me, (2 million naira) gave it to me to add it to the money I was using to build the house, she has really be the best thing that has happened to me. we both has never cheated on each other, I'm very happy having her in my life during the period of covid 19 my business was shut down totally she was the one that sustain me Although and never complained.

she later resigned from her nursing work and started her own chemist shop, I supported her with 300k she rejected it and asked me to add it to the money for house project. she is making some good money from her store any way.

Now we plan to do our marriage by December and I budgeted more than 1 million naira.
the problem is that she insisted that it is too much that I should not spend more than 500k that's been a problem to us but later settle it. because she won't just listen to me she wants me to spend less than that the reason why I wanted to spend more than 1 million Naira was because she deserve it.

so because of that we adjusted the marriage to three months time since it's just 500k I am spending now my question is can I spend 500k for a moderate marriage? And I wanted to do something tangible for her because she deserve more than everything I have, please what other things can I do for her that will be equivalent to everything she has done for me.

since we have been dating she has never ask me for big money and also when ever I give her she always tells me that she gat money that no need to give her, in fact she love me so much that she don't even accept money from me unless gift. now I want to do something tangible for her because since I have been dating her she doesn't allow me spent on her that much, and she doesn't complain

Lucky you, good to hear this from a guy

Well there is nothing that can be used to measure her love and commitment in the relationship

I just like her economic sense and you will achieve more with her

But you can do the following to appreciate her

Love her beyond measures

Respect her and her ideas

Protect her before your family and hers

Make her your priority at any point

Be there for her and never make her eyes get wet talk more of crying

Always seek her opinion and support before you do certain things

Lastly, you can dash her parents one third of the money, that's 50each and let them know that you are lucky to have her in your life

Oga you amaze me ooh.

Okay, but a piece of land in her name.

And the truth is, she is not materialistic. She wants the best for the family, she is planning the future very well.

The only thing that you can do for her is to pamper her like an egg, she must not be taken for granted for any reason. Love her with all your heart and her alone. Be a perfect husband and a father to her and the kids when they start coming. Trust me, she will appreciate you more, than trying to get a material thing for her. Even the land I suggested you buy is a win win situation for you. As long as you do not misbehave, it is also still yours.

paulolee:

then put me on map on business deals na...i want to stay connected and get busy with ma life, link me up mk i start business too n start making cash plss...wr are u based self??

Nothing brother. No be you dey talk of "work colleagues" recently? You suppose dey work na!!! I am just trying to get directions in this online space. Really struggling. Not found anything good yet. I'm currently in Kano on top work matter.

Blackmiserable:

Nothing brother. No be you dey talk of "work colleagues" recently? You suppose dey work na!!! I am just trying to get directions in this online space. Really struggling. Not found anything good yet. I'm currently in Kano on top work matter.

so because i de work mean say i no go find oda better jobs..am working but no happy n comfortable with it.. and beaides i gat aim higher because i dnt see myself living my dreams wit ma kinda work..

paulolee:

so because i de work mean say i no go find oda better jobs..am working but no happy n comfortable with it.. and beaides i gat aim higher because i dnt see myself living my dreams wit ma kinda work..

Eyaah sorry about that

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It's obvious from comments that our whole existence is centered around money. Just look at them shout wife material, just cause she doesn't ask and dashed op 2m. Who wouldn't add their money to such project knowing in d nearest future they'll b the madam of d house? Who wouldn't invest in such knowing the guy has a good head on his shoulder to invest and build and not party money away like a lunatic?

She's prudent and that's good but hope she go fit good ur relatives food when they come visiting sha.

Chaiiiii, dis guy dont know d diamond wey God don give am. You better follpwe her instructions Mr man

Why are u spending 1million ?

Give her the 500k if money dey scratch u for body.

She knows u just want to spend because of Ur big Ego.

She would be blamed for Ur misfortune after Ur account red after Ur inflated Ego comes down

gnykelly:
if you don't mind can you give me her number

Thief but wait who no like better thing �����

Tales by moonlight. Check the OP's previous posts and see that this is a figment of his fertile imagination

So why are u now telling us

You're so lucky my guy. Just spend the 500k and get a nice gift with the rest