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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by krushdripper(m): 9:12pm On Jul 22, 2020
tot:


Yeah, it keeps happening again and again to the extent that the post couldn't reference a recent link undecided
It is a topic of discussion not a news item. The post didn't come from a direction where referencing a link would be needed. The needed link is within the stories.
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by womenareapes: 9:17pm On Jul 22, 2020
Hintona:


[s]Speak for your mom, sisters, daughters, granddaughters infact all the females related to you.

Rubbish[/s] .
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by GboyegaD(m): 9:25pm On Jul 22, 2020
bukatyne:


The man should work harder to earn more.... Because his respect and identity is tied to his earnings? cheesy

By the way, why don't these husbands read the nursing themselves?

Many do, some wouldn't because of time and maybe other things. Both can't be studying at the same time. The most important as far as I'm concerned is everyone should keep developing themselves and be content with whatever they have.
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by GboyegaD(m): 9:27pm On Jul 22, 2020
bukatyne:


Sometimes, people have invested so much that it is hard (not impossible) to walk away.

Imagine a man losing his house he saved up 10yrs or 20yrs to buy?

How easy would it be for him to move on?


Aunty, it is better to move on than had I know. Freedom is way better than wearing an orange uniform for live. More so, he can buy a small unit in a condo if he is so concerned about property.
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by tarantino1: 9:28pm On Jul 22, 2020
jrusky:
Guys can't you all see this was 2014?

Pls check the posting heading you will see *posted 2014* pls if I'm right so because of 2014 matter I should be wasting my data and time?

There's a 2008 thread with same story sef
https://www.nairaland.com/160981/nigerian-nurses-beware
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by sonnie10: 9:29pm On Jul 22, 2020
blinking001:

Hmmm. I pray we never get married to evil women Amen. But why are some Nigerians not getting married to women from other races like latinas or women from Asia?
The devil you know is better than the angel you don't know. So they say.
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Nobody: 9:29pm On Jul 22, 2020
Hintona:


Speak for your mom, sisters, daughters, granddaughters infact all the females related to you.

Rubbish.


Helo bae
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by bukatyne(f): 9:32pm On Jul 22, 2020
FEGNO:
Just like someone pointed out in a video i onced watched last year, there are also women of other Nationalities who are also Registered Nurses in the US. Why is it only our own women who suddenly lose their heads when money begins to come?

I would not ask the question this way however, we need to ask:

Do other nationalities have this issue? If no, what is peculiar with Nigerians?

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by ScotMisile: 9:33pm On Jul 22, 2020
DAramis:

grin grin grin cheesy

Poor girl, village girl or otherwise does not count in this situation. A bad woman would always be a bad woman.

The only difference was that the law was on her side, hence her audacious actions towards the husband.
Ok, go and marry one...
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by webizone(m): 9:34pm On Jul 22, 2020
Hintona:


If I should marry at all it would be someone with Ozo's character, someone who comes from a stable home because family plays a very big role in forming a person's character.

Someone whose parents were not toxic.

I guess you are right. But sha women no dey try.
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Nobody: 9:35pm On Jul 22, 2020
solite3:
deep! I thought I was the only one who saw this. And the thing is that they export all these filt outside the shores in the name of woke, progressivism and rationality. This is the modus operandi of witchcraft.

Exactly. Ancient modus operandi of witchcraft to the world, most especially the black Hebrew Israelites who were bewitched and jinxed with demonic spell and injected with memory loss vaccination to forget their origin, history, and heritage after invading and stolen our originated land of our black Hebrew fathers. Jesus called them FALSE JEWS WHO ARE SYNAGOGUE OF SATAN.

Its really deep to unveil their ancient mysteries and betwitchments which are beyond carnal assessment, but with God of light we will continue to expose them all (Eph5:11 niv). They have covered most part of the earth with their Babylon caliphates and filths with only few stubborn countries left to lay their aggressive ambushment like China, North Korea, etc.. Pyschos!
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by King44(m): 9:36pm On Jul 22, 2020
Ladycewhy:
The ones here rape and impregnate their daughters while the ones abroad kill their wives.na wah o
The ones he cheat and kill their husband only to marry another man. The one's there forcefully take their husband family and properties in the name of liberation
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by mentored: 9:36pm On Jul 22, 2020
naptu2:


https://m.facebook.com/notes/jadesola-tai-babatola/an-epidemic-nigerian-men-killing-their-nurse-wives-in-the-us-by-abiodun-ladepo/667141363328281

This is what happens when a monkey goes to the city.

It will definitely look for a tree.

I mean both monkeys
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by ScotMisile: 9:37pm On Jul 22, 2020
DAramis:

grin grin grin cheesy

Poor girl, village girl or otherwise does not count in this situation. A bad woman would always be a bad woman.

The only difference was that the law was on her side, hence her audacious actions towards the husband.
Ok, go and marry one...their desperation at eradicating poverty drives their mentality....they don't fall in love with you,but with the prospect and hope that with you,poverty is gone ..as soon as poverty goes their true nature arises....and you now discover that you were never loved in the first place....

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by mentored: 9:39pm On Jul 22, 2020
GboyegaD:


Aunty, it is better to move on than had I know. Freedom is way better than wearing an orange uniform for live. More so, he can buy a small unit in a condo if he is so concerned about property.

Not everybody will take that.
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by bukatyne(f): 9:44pm On Jul 22, 2020
Idiotmod:

Some ladies like old men

cheesy

Can't process it sha.
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by mentored: 9:45pm On Jul 22, 2020
babajeje123:

I wish I could like this comment a million times. When did marriage become a competition for God's sake?


When a lizard sees her self as the crocodile and a dog sees him self like a tiger

Ndi ara
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by mentored: 9:46pm On Jul 22, 2020
wany:
[b][/b]
Your last paragraph MONEY


Chop and die ooo
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by purple2018: 9:47pm On Jul 22, 2020
tevinsolt:
Power intoxicates.

Siblings abuse power on younger siblings
Parents abuse power over kids
Husband abuse power over wives
Teachers abuse power over students
Pastors/Imams/priests abuse their power over followers
Policemen/soldiers abuse power over citizens
Government officials abuse their power over citizens

They all have 1 thing in common,
A sense of an arbitrary bestowed right of superiority over another by a diety, nature or some written document.

Any attempt by oppress to speak or fight back is rebellion against the aforementioned.


your head is there sir. u hit d nail on d head #gbam

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by od501: 9:48pm On Jul 22, 2020
greatbuc:
Hmmm foolish men. Some wise idiots will bring their wives back here, plan with boys to kidnap the whole family, kill the woman.. Mourn her and go back to their lives over there... Tabular Rasa! God get case to judge o.

Chisos... See format ooo lol.
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by PDPGuy: 9:49pm On Jul 22, 2020
magicminister:



Okay, let me school you!!
In US, if you owned the property before you guys got married, that property is yours. During divorce, it is not part of the settlement.
Only thing that is split are things that were gotten within the marriage.
The few exception are in states like Cali where there is a common law that means that half your shittt goes to her regardless of if it was gotten before or after marriage!

What i am trying to say is that if the court grants her ownership of the house and custody of the kids, that is because the house was gotten within marriage by either both of them or one of them!!

With regard to the bolded, you’re partially correct.
However, in CA, it is strictly funds in a joint account or property bought with community property (ie joint account or a combo of the man and woman’s separate money) that will be in contention to be split into half.

However, in order to avoid a messy divorce, a prenup agreement stipulating that both parties will leave the marriage with only the stuff the brought into the marriage, will be deemed to be enforceable by the court.
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by bukatyne(f): 9:51pm On Jul 22, 2020
VULCAN:
It's unfortunate that you started off well but went off point.

You completely ignored the actual reasons for these murders and went off on a tangent that although perhaps somewhat valid has little to do with this actual topic.

The point is the women tried to destroy the men by taking away their home and children. The women found out that the Family Court in US is heavily biased against men. So they took advantage.

Most of what you wrote completely ignores that salient point.

How many Nigerian men kill their wives who divorce them and leave with what they themselves own? Probably none.

I don't know whether you support destroying a man that opened the door to a quality of life you may NEVER have been able to enjoy simply because he isn't perfect. Perhaps you do as most toxic feminists see nothing wrong in it.

The ironic thing about these women is that when loneliness comes they are left to sleep with small boys or married men. Most of whom are no better than the husband they divorced so cruelly.


Very ironic innit?
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by Scott2071: 9:54pm On Jul 22, 2020
bukatyne:


Very ironic innit?

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by King44(m): 9:54pm On Jul 22, 2020
bukatyne:


I would not ask the question this way however, we need to ask:

Do other nationalities have this issue? If no, what is peculiar with Nigerians?
Women from all Asian countries are submissive to their husbands (only in very rare cases they don't) cos it's their culture and nature, they respect it so much and abide, no matter where they are or find themselves the culture goes with them. Their family or people in general won't tolerate such or see such woman in good light, that is how it is, fact check. They hardly divorce or go bizarre.

Western countries they see their female partners as equals but upon that they still compromise and strike a balance of understanding and when push comes to shove and the wife plays smart because the law is in their favour some premeditate killing their wives and some move on even if they are reduced to half of whom they are or nothing. People like Tiger wood etc, fact check. That is why a woman would born children for a man they are not married to or live with because the man does not want a committed marriage only few think otherwise, and that is why they always go to court for child support, their marriage foundation is shaky shaky. Most are not married only make babies, most that are married divorce later and since they have no property the woman can hold on to this it is a win win they only have to pay child support.

African countries especially Nigerians don't and cannot see their partners as equals, there must be and established superiority as the head in taking charge of things including responsibilities that is why we see men who are fed, clothed, housed by woman and lacks control over his family as useless men. It is our culture and tradition to establish authority as a man, in fact you are a symbol of authority. Just like the Asians but our African woman wants to go western on their men, thereby reducing them to nothing no man would ever take that except he has the fear of God and decide to let go. Most Africans can't tolerate such and find it difficult to move on.

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by almarthins(m): 10:01pm On Jul 22, 2020
MuttleyLaff:
Real moG (i.e. 2 Timothy 3:17) and woV (i.e. Proverbs 31 woman), who have the fear of God in them, will have nothing to be afraid of

Even most women of God dont have fear of God. Just give a mice a cheese, it wont mind to ask for a cup of milk. Na so sm women be, give dem power, they will bcom lord acton's Saying. Na dem kill demselv o! They know dat a typical african man covet respect. This life na sense otherwise devil go just use ur own against u unprepared. I no support killing their wives, so if u wan quote me, abeg quote me with sense
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by GboyegaD(m): 10:03pm On Jul 22, 2020
mentored:


Not everybody will take that.


Whoever doesn't like that should behave himself. If that is done and your wife wants the house to herself out of greed, be smart to sell off the house, pay of the mortgage, and move the funds back home.
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by CioAngels(f): 10:07pm On Jul 22, 2020
This keeps happening to men who marry and take their wives broad and send to nursing school and once they start to work their husbands becomes tagtag she makes sure her husband is sent back home. It is sad that our women are so heartless once they are working abroad and they forget the man thatade them..
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by bukatyne(f): 10:11pm On Jul 22, 2020
sonnie10:


1) The Nigerian mentally about male nurses.
2) Big man mentally to start college courses at 40years plus, when they actually have nothing
3) Pressure from other demanding responsibilities and bills. Nursing is a full time program
4) Qualification for the program (both educational and ethics)
5) Over attachment to previous worthless degree most times from Nigeria
6) Shame from peer pressure. How can a titled elderly man be carrying backpack
7) Lack of support. You need support while in nursing school if not, you might drop out
8] It is actually tough. Some of them tried and failed
9) Distraction from other rat race hustle that leads to nowhere
10) Emeka has completed his two decking and I am here reading biology 101. It is better I go and hustle.

This na ten point agenda grin

Hmmmmmm.
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by StubbornGENIUS: 10:11pm On Jul 22, 2020
LaEvilIMiss:
it goes to tell you that Marriage is a convenient sham
Including YOURS? undecided
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by bukatyne(f): 10:13pm On Jul 22, 2020
Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by tunjilana: 10:13pm On Jul 22, 2020
pocohantas:


Hahahahahaahahahahahaa!
This is so funny, but true. Why can’t they go to this nursing school or send their sisters?

That one no go pay them. grin grin

Because it is financially hard to work, sustain a family and school at the same time. so most men will rather use the limited "family" resource to push the woman ahead, while he keeps slaving to get her through school, with high hopes that once she is done, he can as well breathe and leave his minimum wage job to advance himself while the wife returns the favor. Only to be met with a woman who now accuses him of slavery and domination and what not to the point he gets divorced and loose his home and half of the small he has ad also given restraining order from the family/kids he has labored to push ahead

You think nursing will be so hard for the men to study if the wife was willing to work and fund him through school just the way the men do?

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Re: Nigerian Men Killing Their Wives In The United States. by pocohantas(f): 10:14pm On Jul 22, 2020
tunjilana:


Because it is financially hard to work, sustain a family and school at the same time. so most men will rather use the limited "family" resource to push the woman ahead, while he keeps slaving to get her through school, with high hopes that once she is done, he can as well breathe and leave his minimum wage job to advance himself while the wife returns the favor. Only to be met with a woman who now accuses him of slavery and domination and what not to the point he gets divorced and loose his home and half of the small he has ad also given restraining order from the family/kids he has labored to push ahead

You think nursing will be so hard for the men to study if the wife was willing to work and fund him through school just the way the men do?

Cool story... Such nice Nigerian men! grin grin

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