GboyegaD:


If the man has enough evidence to end the marriage, he could win custody of the children and keep the house. The house of given to whoever is awarded the custody of the children. In this case, the wife, because she has a better paying job. To the government, the children comes first.

On a lighter note, to the man who wants to reap because he sent her to school, how much does he give his parents of his earning? Did they not send him to school too?

jojoseph:


I think it will be very difficult for you to see my point of view because you're in Nigeria. Once you get to certain age in U.S. you can't even get a job even if you're white American not to talk about Nigerian. At age of 40s and above your divorce will cost you untold hardship in life, once you divorce your wife in America, your life is finished (UNLESS ) you're very very lucky to have a good. Because she will end up with the house and you still be responsible for the upkeep of the children. So now, tell me where will you get money to maintain yourself and your family back in Nigeria? Infact, i knew the guy that kill his wife and mother in law in Tennessee. The guy died in prison about 3years ago in Nashville prison.

iboboyswag:


You must be very foolish... are his parents his wife?

The parent owed that responsibility to him but not him to his wife. Any woman that tries that with me would get that treatment and more because I would kill her and not get caught.

alphaNomega:


Bloody basstard Nigerian women asking silly questions. I'm sure those ones were planning to scheme their husbands when they go abroad. I fully support the gruesome murder of any woman that dares exploit the system to take away what her husband has laboured for, all his life, for the sole benefit of the family.

Tonight I shall drink wine and break bread in solidarity with all men that are incarcerated for the murder of such foul women.

GboyegaD:


You are the most miserable. What stopped him from earning the nursing degree or some other degree to up his earnings? Was he forced to send her to school? The question is endless but go ponder on this few.

iboboyswag:


Dundee United... common sense is far from you as I can see. Whether he upgrades or not, the questions you have raised are not the points under contention.

womenareapes:
this is what happens when you bring a Naija woman to abroad.

those useless piece of trash called Naija women, when bring to abroad will start claiming feminist because the law favour them.

Guys stop bringing your useless wife to abroad!

this is why I always say foreign women are the best instead of our local piece of shiit full with self entitlement mental disorder


I always see this set of black species irritating! I wonder how you guys are copping with them?

kizyalex10:
thats the curse of staying abroad,once u relocate eh,it will be like ur facebook has entered friend request default,girls will flood ur facebook especially nurses advertising themselves,u will mistake that for love, but they re only looking for escape route to poverty ,u will see a local nurse eliza that u will manage to bring out from obscurity use ur hard savings to train her to a qualified nurse amd when she is done then she will remember that she is earning more than u or u re a cab driver or security etc nd overnight d same quiet innocent girl turna a tiger trying to devour you,calling d shots here nd there all in an attempt to fustrate ur life for divorce,and once u divorce her,she moves on with another man and with ur little peanut u still pay child support nd she enjoy free dicks while u pay nd with ur meager money,u cant afford to have another relationship or marriage.if u leave them in Nigeria out of d fear i stated above,most will still use ur hard earned money,nd d fleet of cars nd house u left for them behind to flirt with fuckboys ,and if they re brainwashed very well, they might even kill u on arrival nd elope with their lover.such is d curse of people living abroad,it takes only a God fearing woman which is very scarce in our country to get such a woman dat will be humble nd reciprocate all d sacrifice u sacrificed for her

Ishilove:

Can we say this is a crime of passion?

joseph1832:
I believe some Nigerian men abroad likes to keep their wives here in Nigeria, because they're afraid of what they might do, when they discover what it truly mean to be free.

Rest In Peace Lady.

J111333:
My brother, I know about at least three families in LA that are headed to this same direction soon if caution is not adhered to.

In my preliminary opinion, both the husbands and the wives have their fair share of blames. This is the reason I never get my little self involved in family drama majorly because I have little to no experience. I've bumped into such fracas by chance and I was lucky they listened to my plea. They knew I was young and inexperienced so only God knew how I was able to diffuse the situation.

My only issue in this your story is that the man went too far by killing the woman and that has made her a saint but if he were to tell you his story and pains, my brother.......

ModestGal:

Look at you, you are not even ashamed of yourself justifying MURDER in a public forum. Somehow
Anyway, nothing would ever be a justification for MURDER

joseph1832:
I believe some Nigerian men abroad likes to keep their wives here in Nigeria, because they're afraid of what they might do, when they discover what it truly mean to be free.

Rest In Peace Lady.

kizyalex10:
the question is now,can the children visit nigeria?most people re scared of marrying oyibo because they re scared thier children wont even visit nigeria so because of that they want someone who will atleast knw that Nigeria is their home,when u have kids that does nt come home or knw his place does it make u fufilled as a man?

mozzking:
It is evident that women are not home builders, they just move in, most rich men keep their homes but a rich woman will find it hard to.


From all the stories above it all pointed to one thing that all this women were brought from the village, sponsored with hard earned money by the same man they looked down on, only for them to make it in life and throw shit on their husbands face, ungrateful women marrying men who can't control thier emotions.


Tips, if you ever want to marry a Nigerian woman, make sure you make more money than she does, atleast thrice or else. You will weep

kizyalex10:
that does nt come home or knw his place does it make u fufilled as a man?

Liposure:
how is luv an illusion

mrchineke:


What do you need marriage for?

victorian:





Before I answer your question.

What's marriage?

In a sane country, outside the cunning mentality of people in Africa and Nigeria, why do people marry?

Answer these two questions first, before I proceed on yours.

LaEvilIMiss:


1: Is it FOREVER? does it not fade, wane, wax or die?
2: Is it a feeling, a behaviour, an ideal, a medical condition, a mental state or a spiritual state
3: Can you bet your life on Love?

It is just an illusion, it is something we want it to be - it is always what it is not

abeggnow:
men it crazy my uncle went thru the ssme thing d only driffence is he drank him self to death. but why wouldnt he after loosing everything he had inNigeria and the US to a woman he trained and sacrificed all for and d said wonan threw away her african culture and heritage to adopt d akata life style. what is a man without him familly and his hard work?? wat is d point living.??

GboyegaD:


Oga, don't jump into hasty conclusion about my location? Who said getting a job at 40 is difficult? I don't know where you are pulling your statistics from but I have never seen a job that ask for your age.

kizyalex10:
the question is now,can the children visit nigeria?most people re scared of marrying oyibo because they re scared thier children wont even visit nigeria so because of that they want someone who will atleast knw that Nigeria is their home,when u have kids that does nt come home or knw his place does it make u fufilled as a man?

azpekuliar:


Charles Emesibe and Ibiene Emesibe

mrchineke:


Marriage is an unnecessary legal or traditional entanglement of 2 individuals who seek exclusive sexual intimate relationship. That’s all it is.

People marry in the BELIEVE that they will support and look after each other, establish common goals and have a life together. In recent times this belief has proved to be shaky, complicated, unreliable with hidden motives. In Africa poor family have turned it into a breadline.

Ok questions answered.

shaddy2:
I'm thinking why nigerian men always bring their wives abroad when there are so many white girls you can marry up there and have rest of mind with understanding.

jojoseph:

Please, I'm not trying to insult you. You gave yourself away from your respond, no U.S. based or Nigerian returnee will disputes my assumption because they are the fact and they know it. Only the wannabes will disputes this. Thanks, have a blessed day.