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Come In Your Help Is Needed Fast by nexttag: 7:41am On Jul 30, 2020 |
I will go straight to the point so u can't drop you suggestions I met this girl through social media , and fortunately for us we lived in same town from one thing to another we get close but not into any relationship just casual friends we go out drink and call each other on phone on a very good day at time goes on I notice she will always want me to come and see her she will form story just to get me to see her She even form a story to crash at my place One night , I no go blame alcohol conji hold me so I have to lash like three condo After the one night show she even became more , focused towards me I noticed. And sat her down and made her know am not ready for anything call relationship or anything like that I advise her never to fall for me Fast forward I got this big project I started working on an I have limited time , she keep disturbing with calls and SMS even when I told her to chill that when am free we will see and talk but she took it as. If am lying or avoiding her the action vex me to the core dealing with this project problem plus hers so I blocked her still she keep making my life hard unless I came me to spend time with her Me I vex more blocked her every dam channel she can contact me from Now she don recruit allies they are saying am wicked for allowing her fall sick because she missed me blah blah that I should go and see her to make I feel better But to me I decline coz if I do so she will have false belief that I have feelings for her and making her grow more bond and it will be more harder getting her off my grid in future. These allies are putting enough confusion on my head I don be doubt my desicions of not going to see her But am not going to see her sha I know a problem shared is a problem solved so I want to know if my desicions is ok Or am I just over reacting Insult is welcome , and before. U begin shout why did u chop her please know I didn't request for it , it was given to me freely by her 1 Like |
Re: Come In Your Help Is Needed Fast by Nobody: 7:44am On Jul 30, 2020 |
“Given to you freely” Why didn’t you reject the sex offer? 2 Likes |
Re: Come In Your Help Is Needed Fast by nexttag: 7:46am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Carchoice: We are taking about the desicion about going to see her and giving her false hope of love Not about sex sir 2 Likes |
Re: Come In Your Help Is Needed Fast by SavageBoy: 7:52am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Looking at this your situation from a microscopic point of view,I really don't have anything to say at the moment |
Re: Come In Your Help Is Needed Fast by Nobody: 8:02am On Jul 30, 2020 |
If you had refuse the Free Gift as a well disciplined and focus man that you claim you are, you won't find yourself in this mess. |
Re: Come In Your Help Is Needed Fast by Nobody: 8:02am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Small Boys will just be doing anyhow....yeye you better go and see her.
Not after bleeping her you tryna go like that! |
Re: Come In Your Help Is Needed Fast by nexttag: 8:04am On Jul 30, 2020 |
JidennaJason: It is always easy said than done |
Re: Come In Your Help Is Needed Fast by Nobody: 8:05am On Jul 30, 2020 |
nexttag:Then clear your mess up bro... |
Re: Come In Your Help Is Needed Fast by nexttag: 8:09am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Chibukings111: After I see her then what next be her. Boyfriend so that she will be normal coz I will definitely left one day. 1 Like |
Re: Come In Your Help Is Needed Fast by nexttag: 8:10am On Jul 30, 2020 |
JidennaJason: Then my desicion still firmly rooted |
Re: Come In Your Help Is Needed Fast by proclinician: 8:12am On Jul 30, 2020 |
The way you boys prioritize this sex makes these girls think they have gold between their legs while in reality it's just a repository of unspecific bacterial infections. 1 Like |
Re: Come In Your Help Is Needed Fast by Nobody: 8:29am On Jul 30, 2020 |
nexttag:You need to act wise.....you don't love this girl and you can't just go at this time. You guys started as friends to chilky relationship then Bleep. The way it start that's the same way it will end. Is not just for you to wake and ignore her calls,chat whatever. Slow down your pace at the end |
Re: Come In Your Help Is Needed Fast by MJBOLT: 8:30am On Jul 30, 2020 |
you have blocked her You don't have plans to see her Abeg,Wetin you want make we tell you again?? which kain nonsense be this See as dem dey manipulate the op like mumu
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Re: Come In Your Help Is Needed Fast by Nobody: 9:15am On Jul 30, 2020 |
I don't even know what to say Hope the next person below me help you |
Re: Come In Your Help Is Needed Fast by NobleDeSage001: 9:47am On Jul 30, 2020 |
What you had is called friends with benefits (FWB). Normally, there is no commitment, emotional ties or strings attached. Unfortunately, the girl has refused to accept the reality. She cannot guilt trip you into a relationship. You may go and see her but maintain your grounds. Next time, don't get sexually or emotionally attached to a girl you know you won't get serious with. |
Re: Come In Your Help Is Needed Fast by nexttag: 10:52am On Jul 30, 2020 |
NobleDeSage001: Ok |
Re: Come In Your Help Is Needed Fast by Liposure: 11:08am On Jul 30, 2020 |
You made a big mistake. You should have made your intentions known before bleeping her. That way you ve avoided stories that touch |
Re: Come In Your Help Is Needed Fast by nexttag: 11:16am On Jul 30, 2020 |
Liposure:I did my brother she was even advocate of I don't need boyfriend all men are scum |
Re: Come In Your Help Is Needed Fast by iInjureHerYansh: 12:14pm On Jul 30, 2020 |
Don't goan see nobody even if your family members join body. Trust me she would do worst if you were the one falling like an overripe pawpaw |
Re: Come In Your Help Is Needed Fast by Brardana: 2:29pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
It seems like this girl is really into you but you are doing everything it takes to ignore. Maybe this is the one that you have been looking for. She is chasing you and you do not want her. Do not let her go. Girls like this are hard to find. You may end up regreting it when she loses interest in you. |
Re: Come In Your Help Is Needed Fast by Edyice: 2:48pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
She falls for you ----good Because you can easily blend... But You fall for her , she finds out , she can do the undo .. Good luck ...mate |
Re: Come In Your Help Is Needed Fast by Tygrathris(m): 2:52pm On Aug 01, 2020 |
It seems like this girl has a serious problem. She is one of those people that crave for attention and he mind is set on you. You sometimes have to understand that it is not her fault. Just lay her off easy and do not break ehr heart like this. Just tell her that you are a very busy person and that she should give you some space. |
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