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Re: What's The Best Way To Discipline A Child? by Glorylynn: 3:38pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
Who are you and what have you become ?Pele o liquid metal .... Well I used to think flogging is a good way of correcting kids but right now my OT has changed Vyzz: |
Re: What's The Best Way To Discipline A Child? by kingxsamz(m): 3:39pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
Flogging is the best way to shape a child, yet Nigerians are still the worst set of humans, even to themselves. Rubbish. 2 Likes |
Re: What's The Best Way To Discipline A Child? by kingxsamz(m): 3:39pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
Vyzz: Flogging shaped you into what? 1 Like |
Re: What's The Best Way To Discipline A Child? by kingxsamz(m): 3:40pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
Jymsyno: We're talking about reality, you're talking about fiction. Not everyone is a Christian abeg. |
Re: What's The Best Way To Discipline A Child? by Adesam1972: 3:44pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
1. Sit them down and interact with them as friends. They will be free with you and adhere to your instructions. 2. Use the moral lessons from the scriptures to talk to them. 3. Ensure you keep to your word to punish for any disobedience. 4. Flogging with cane should be done rarely and with care. Don't flog with cane or beat with hands when you are angry. 5. Be calm enough to hear their reasons for committing such offence(s). 6. You can make them do more house chores as part of measures to discipline. 7. You can deny them some of their rights and privileges...the offender can be excused from outing, gifts, etc.. ## Pray with them. |
Re: What's The Best Way To Discipline A Child? by Adesam1972: 3:46pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
1. Sit them down and interact with them as friends. They will be free with you and adhere to your instructions. 2. Use the moral lessons from the scriptures to talk to them. 3. Ensure you keep to your word to punish for any disobedience. 4. Flogging with cane should be done rarely and with care. Don't flog with cane or beat with hands when you are angry. 5. Be calm enough to hear their reasons for committing such offence(s). 6. You can make them do more house chores as part of measures to discipline. 7. You can deny them some of their rights and privileges...the offender can be excused from outing, gifts, etc.. ## Pray with them.[color=#006600][/color] |
Re: What's The Best Way To Discipline A Child? by abbey621(m): 3:46pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
BE LIKE THANOS....PERFECTLY BALANCED.......Flog the child when it is well deserved also temper justice with mercy, sometimes a simple mistake is just a simple mistake, give second and even third chances but when it becomes a pattern bring out father belt or brother koboko....Kids mainly want to know why you're flogging them, the lectures, the talk can be just as much effective as the flogging. For example my father would have us stand for 30 to 45 minutes and he would discuss everything from his childhood to what happened to other kids who disobeyed their parents, this lecture was torture and sometimes we actually begged to be flogged. All in All....BE LIKE THANOS....Let them know that if they misbehave, DISCIPLINE IS INEVITABLE! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What's The Best Way To Discipline A Child? by AmazonTopaz(f): 3:56pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
moscobabs:Beating is for animals. There are other civilized ways to discipline kids not by treating them like animals Try something new |
Re: What's The Best Way To Discipline A Child? by edoairways: 4:01pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
Oghenerobo2002:That is not true. Inspite of the floggings many kids receive while growing up, the society had remained in a bad shape 1 Like |
Re: What's The Best Way To Discipline A Child? by edoairways: 4:03pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
kingxsamz:Exactly! 1 Like |
Re: What's The Best Way To Discipline A Child? by edoairways: 4:05pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
chloride6:Africans flog because they still have that colonial mentality in them. The colonial masters used horsewhip to discpline their fore fathers |
Re: What's The Best Way To Discipline A Child? by chloride6: 4:13pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
edoairways: So Africans didnt flog before the advent of the white man? 1 Like |
Re: What's The Best Way To Discipline A Child? by Nobody: 4:14pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
edoairways: Ok. Thank you. 1 Like |
Re: What's The Best Way To Discipline A Child? by Nobody: 4:14pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
Playermayweda:Exactly. |
Re: What's The Best Way To Discipline A Child? by Nobody: 4:15pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
chloride6:haba and what's all these lies about Europeans don't flog, have you seen the way British schools treat their students. Like animals almost the same way we do here. |
Re: What's The Best Way To Discipline A Child? by Oghenerobo2002(m): 4:18pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
edoairways:That can be attributed to many factors |
Re: What's The Best Way To Discipline A Child? by Nobody: 4:18pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
kingxsamz:Exactly what I've been thinking. We are so corrupt and stupid that you self go dey wonder how far the so called morals. 1 Like |
Re: What's The Best Way To Discipline A Child? by Nobody: 4:19pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
Oghenerobo2002:Like? Let's tell ourselves the truth. |
Re: What's The Best Way To Discipline A Child? by Nobody: 4:20pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
chloride6:Read many books about back then, I am yet to see flogging apart from occasional flares of anger where a father beats up a child with his fists, nothing like whipping. |
Re: What's The Best Way To Discipline A Child? by Nobody: 4:24pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
Oghenerobo2002:Yah the ones who had been flogged, is it not them that are ruling us now, is it not the same people that are all around us. My dad was flogged did that stop him from behaving the way he behaved, rubbish. Let us keep on deceiving ourselves, Africa would always be behind in everything. Rubbish. |
Re: What's The Best Way To Discipline A Child? by Oghenerobo2002(m): 4:24pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
SegFault:Peer influence Bad parenting |
Re: What's The Best Way To Discipline A Child? by Nobody: 4:31pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
Oghenerobo2002:Wow and out of all the ones that did not have "peer influence" or "bad parenting" where are they? So all the Nigerians that have been seeing went through "bad parents" and "peer influence" complete rubbish, I tell you. Flogging a child does nothing except for expose that child to violence, I can tell you that 90% of African fathers beat their wives and believe that it is a good thing, what about the huge amount of corrupt people in this country? Let us not continue with those questions self. |
Re: What's The Best Way To Discipline A Child? by chloride6: 4:43pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
SegFault: Do they flog? |
Re: What's The Best Way To Discipline A Child? by Nobody: 4:46pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
chloride6:Of course, saw it in many movies, and read about it in many places, in the 90's bands like Pink Floyd protested against the I'll treatment of children. If you see the way they flog ehn. |
Re: What's The Best Way To Discipline A Child? by romunu(m): 4:53pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
I think before flogging a child,you should make him understand that he has done wrong,so he won’t feel he’s been oppressed. My opinion, |
Re: What's The Best Way To Discipline A Child? by Reucy(f): 4:54pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
Lemme wait till I marry and become a mum. With that said, I'd raise my kids the same way my parents raised me cos it fashioned me into a better lady in all spheres today. Flogging and advice from parents did it for me. |
Re: What's The Best Way To Discipline A Child? by buzorcharles(m): 5:02pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
Starlight10: My boy will kneel down for 5 mins and complain his knees is paining him and immediately u are not looking he will disappear. |
Re: What's The Best Way To Discipline A Child? by Nobody: 5:17pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
buzorcharles:aww thats cute, but you need to look a bit longer and ensure he understands he needs to serve his punishment since hitting him is never an option. |
Re: What's The Best Way To Discipline A Child? by Deborah98(f): 5:20pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
Flogging ooooh |
Re: What's The Best Way To Discipline A Child? by macho44(m): 5:20pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
If na Ajebo pikin, no give am shawarma or egg roll and ice cream, dia head go come down, but if na Ajepako, bros abeg knack am "AKPAKO", na the only language wey dem dey understand https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vb87XSmmW1E |
Re: What's The Best Way To Discipline A Child? by membranus: 5:37pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
Serious beating with rod, or sweating punishment when younger (like 3 to 12 yrs old). After that, strong rebuke and removal of certain privileges always reset the the teenagers rebellious nature. |
Re: What's The Best Way To Discipline A Child? by Melaninprincess(f): 6:20pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
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