KingintheNorth:



Sorry but ,What's a Simp?

Search that word and carefully read and understand it on Google for your own good.

Bro change the girls you meet. Particularly go for girls that are very pretty and well to do as well. Insecurity at play but i guess they not want to spill it to you.

KingintheNorth:


Yes I'm a dude

uhhh... Okay

DaddyRochie1642:




Search that word and carefully read and understand it on Google for your own good.

Ok I get it...but hell no...I'm not and have never been a Simp, I respect women no doubt. I just want someone I can deeply care about and possibly settle down with.

KingintheNorth:
This started about 3 years ago, after my Ex girlfriend of 5yrs got married , it took me awhile to move on ,but when I now finally decided to start seeing other women, they all started acting the way .....they will want to hang out, gist ,laugh ,sex but wouldnt want to date me which is exactly what I've been looking for...
I'm good looking ,very tall have a good job .obviously to me, I don't think any girl will have any excuse for not being interested in dating me. I am tired of trying and having the same results Everytime.. Please what should I do??

I guess we are in the same shoe, I'm not really the type that's interested in ladies but one or two I deeply care about don't See Me as one they can date, have asked what's the issue since u said I'm nice, gentle quiet and good, yet nothing.. The thing just tire ME and even making ME lose interest in the opposite sex fastly

Change environment.

Something is wrong and please don't take it the wrong way. It is not spiritual. What comes to mind is that you may be trying to date the girls who are wrong for you. Maybe they are attracted to your money only but don't want commitment. You may also have mouth odour or body odour. Your written English is play or I would have thought maybe it is bad and you want to date elite babes. Confide in one of them to give you a reason or send a spy to find out. Or do you cry too easily or talk too much about your mother... It can be an unexpected reason but simple to tackle.

KingintheNorth:
This started about 3 years ago, after my Ex girlfriend of 5yrs got married , it took me awhile to move on ,but when I now finally decided to start seeing other women, they all started acting the way .....they will want to hang out, gist ,laugh ,sex but wouldnt want to date me which is exactly what I've been looking for...
I'm good looking ,very tall have a good job .obviously to me, I don't think any girl will have any excuse for not being interested in dating me. I am tired of trying and having the same results Everytime.. Please what should I do??

Maybe you should go online dating and learn some skills first.

oscar4lyf:



I guess we are in the same shoe, I'm not really the type that's interested in ladies but one or two I deeply care about don't See Me as one they can date, have asked what's the issue since u said I'm nice, gentle quiet and good, yet nothing.. The thing just tire ME and even making ME lose interest in the opposite sex fastly

KingintheNorth:


It's basically the same thing that happens...when I meet a girl ,I'm not in a hurry to sleep with any of them until maybe they want to. I treat them good ,give them cash, even allow them handle my phones and go through them because I've nothing to hide , somebody them have even gotten do comfortable that they like spending time with me even sleeping over .but once I mention dating they will run,One of them actually jokingly said I'm too fine to be dated that I'll give her HBP I'm not sure she meant it thou.

Here in this comment lies your dilemma

The problem is that you have too much peace and calmness in your life if I can call it that. Most ladies, especially the fun type, likes a little bit of drama in every man that they meet or will probably wanna date. They are not exactly bad girls, but that's just how ladies are wired. And I won't call you a Simp too.

All these overt acts you are doing to make them find solace in you being a nice guy and all is unnecessary and the cause of your problem.

Roll with multiple girls, have a bit of things to hide, be unpredictable sometimes, prank her, snub her, and things like that, and watch how the tides will sweep in your favor. Just find a way to balance your love for her while creating room for a little bit of drama.

Of course if all those things don't sit well with you, you can find a core mumu church girl to date, and that way, you still maintain your nature.

The only reason they are hanging around you is your cash and looks.

Vicky99:
Change environment.

My work won't allow me to do that.

Blissquare:
Something is wrong and please don't take it the wrong way. It is not spiritual. What comes to mind is that you may be trying to date the girls who are wrong for you. Maybe they are attracted to your money only but don't want commitment. You may also have mouth odour or body odour. Your written English is play or I would have thought maybe it is bad and you want to date elite babes. Confide in one of them to give you a reason or send a spy to find out. Or do you cry too easily or talk too much about your mother... It can be an unexpected reason but simple to tackle.

Thanks for d ad...I really do not think the fault is from me...if I had mouth odour or body odour or can't speak good English ...none of them would be kissing and cuddling me at any giving chance . They re always coming to be around me ...because i have a very high sense of humour too. I really don't get it.

TheManofTomorrow:


Here in this comment lies your dilemma

The problem is that you have too much peace and calmness in your life if I can call it that. Most ladies, especially the fun type, likes a little bit of drama in every man that they meet or will probably wanna date. They are not exactly bad girls, but that's just how ladies are wired. And I won't call you a Simp too.

All these overt acts you are doing to make them find solace in you being a nice guy and all is unnecessary and the cause of your problem.

Roll with multiple girls, have a bit of things to hide, be unpredictable sometimes, prank her, snub her, and things like that, and watch how the tides will sweep in your favor. Just find a way to balance your love for her while creating room for a little bit of drama.

Of course if all those things don't sit well with you, you can find a core mumu church girl to date, and that way, you still maintain your nature.

The only reason they are hanging around you is your cash and looks.

Thanks a lot bro...

Oluwaice1:
Bro change the girls you meet. Particularly go for girls that are very pretty and well to do as well. Insecurity at play but i guess they not want to spill it to you.

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I'm not really attracted by beauty in women...just have straight legs, have good hygiene and admirable character then we re good.

I am in your shoes too.

I am tired of dx random flings.

The funny part is the exes i had in d past i never stressed myself. In fact my last ex na she collect my number on social media and we started dating though that one i was happy it ended because she was so borinng...she doesn't like kissing nor romance just straight to bed and lie down while i penetrate .
So i quit but if i mention dating issh for some i met dey will say no but on normal flings they will succumb but i am tired already...

KingintheNorth:
It's not hype...wouldn't have mentioned looks in my post but added it incase you guys think I'm not good looking ...I'm actually extremely good looking.

Ok. You should try asking them. Rather than having others guess what the problem is, ask these women why they don't want to date you. They're really the ones to ask. Confide in them like @Blissquare suggested above. They probably wouldn't mind giving you some insight

shegunmessi:
Chat me up
08088363582

Guy why??

TheManofTomorrow:


Here in this comment lies your dilemma

The problem is that you have too much peace and calmness in your life if I can call it that. Most ladies, especially the fun type, likes a little bit of drama in every man that they meet or will probably wanna date. They are not exactly bad girls, but that's just how ladies are wired. And I won't call you a Simp too.

All these overt acts you are doing to make them find solace in you being a nice guy and all is unnecessary and the cause of your problem.

Roll with multiple girls, have a bit of things to hide, be unpredictable sometimes, prank her, snub her, and things like that, and watch how the tides will sweep in your favor. Just find a way to balance your love for her while creating room for a little bit of drama.

Of course if all those things don't sit well with you, you can find a core mumu church girl to date, and that way, you still maintain your nature.

The only reason they are hanging around you is your cash and looks.

This is the best advice ever...

Date yourself then.

KingintheNorth:


It's basically the same thing that happens...when I meet a girl ,I'm not in a hurry to sleep with any of them until maybe they want to. I treat them good ,give them cash, even allow them handle my phones and go through them because I've nothing to hide , somebody them have even gotten do comfortable that they like spending time with me even sleeping over .but once I mention dating they will run,One of them actually jokingly said I'm too fine to be dated that I'll give her HBP I'm not sure she meant it thou.

That's the problem... Telling someone you've fukkeed to date you?, what are you guys doing already?, stop looking for it cos they should be the one looking for permanent relationship and stop giving them your phone just to prove you're not a play boy

Are men like this really existing?

SPOLO:
I am in your shoes too.

I am tired of dx random flings.

The funny part is the exes i had in d past i never stressed myself. In fact my last ex na she collect my number on social media and we started dating though that one i was happy it ended because she was so borinng...she doesn't like kissing nor romance just straight to bed and lie down while i penetrate .
So i quit but if i mention dating issh for some i met dey will say no but on normal flings they will succumb but i am tired already...

na wife material u throw away.

@OP, if you wouldn't mind, I'd like to be your friend.

anneboleyn:
@OP, if you wouldn't mind, I'd like to be your friend.

Alright...check ur mail

Volkswagen90:
na wife material u throw away.

God forbid how can i marry someone that doesn't like kissing nor romance before sex?
I am crazy
And the worse part she is not will to learn.

And with her i started loosing my self esteem when it comes to sex.

Nah i can't

shegunmessi:
Chat me up 08088363582

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KingintheNorth:


Sorry but ,What's a Simp?

welcome on board..dat is nairaland anthem

Pardon me, @OP, I have just checked my e-mail but found nothing.

Really? @op

Pweetyccee:
Really? @op

What?