OutsideTheBox:
1. If you're truly good looking as you say (though no pic for us to confirm ooo), they may think you're a player.
2. It could be you're not that cute. Some guys do tend to hype their looks.
3. You haven't met the right person yet
4. Issa spiritual something and you need to fast and pray

KingintheNorth:


Yea I'm very well groomed I'm a banker actually and I have never been a flirt .

KingintheNorth:
This started about 3 years ago, after my Ex girlfriend of 5yrs got married , it took me awhile to move on ,but when I now finally decided to start seeing other women, they all started acting the way .....they will want to hang out, gist ,laugh ,sex but wouldnt want to date me which is exactly what I've been looking for...
I'm good looking ,very tall have a good job .obviously to me, I don't think any girl will have any excuse for not being interested in dating me. I am tired of trying and having the same results Everytime.. Please what should I do??

Miniso:
A lady that will want to hang out, gist ,laugh have sex with you abeg what else do u want. biko nu

samincredible44:


bro he will question them from now til tomorrow there will still be no tangible reply.he need a strong white garment church to flog out that demon

Bizzyman:
What is the age range of these girls? Are they below 25?

loswhite:
lol banker that is not a flirt....lol fantabulous

KingintheNorth:



Both social media and in real life.

KingintheNorth:


Well...I'm not and it's very clear to them .

KingintheNorth:
This started about 3 years ago, after my Ex girlfriend of 5yrs got married , it took me awhile to move on ,but when I now finally decided to start seeing other women, they all started acting the way .....they will want to hang out, gist ,laugh ,sex but wouldnt want to date me which is exactly what I've been looking for...
I'm good looking ,very tall have a good job .obviously to me, I don't think any girl will have any excuse for not being interested in dating me. I am tired of trying and having the same results Everytime.. Please what should I do??

Jacqueline22:
Who na told you I won’t date you?

Skmoda360:

Talk to the village girl to free you....you don offend one babe for your village way done tie your matter for rope say "no woman go marry you"....

Youngpo413:
There are so many important things to focus on apart from women...

Jacqueline22:
Who na told you I won’t date you?

KingintheNorth:



that's not true abeg

KingintheNorth:



What?

BigDick70inch:


U see why u r weak and..can't even decode a girl secret message..

Maybe She's trying to..picking an interest in u or probably wanna get to know u more..Or do u expect to start chykin u on here before u pick up..

See the silly question you typing ehn??

KingintheNorth:




Hahahahaha...calm down, no be fight.
It's possible yes...but what if it's not what she has in mind.

BigDick70inch:


How much is that??

wumi2017:
. Which one sir

PoliticallyInco:
When you combine all these things you have described in your post it is a recipe for disaster! Big one. Especially now that most ladies realize that they can also have fun and have no strings attached relationships but still get material benefits from these men.

In your description:
I
1. You say you are good looking. Let us assume that to be true.

2. You are an incurable Mr. Nice Guy. You are trying too hard to prove you are good. Even the ladies feel this is too good to be true. It is not a bad thing to be very straightforward. Nope. Please don't let anyone deceive you. It makes life easy and simple. It is almost like saying what is on your mind. It works for me. I say what I feel. And I explain it very very well. That way no one is confused or no one will say oh sorry I misinterpreted or misunderstood. You just can't do that when it comes to me. So note that you are perfectly fine being a nice guy who doesn't want to play games and foster doubts.

3. You are dating and meeting girls that do not want to be pressured into anything serious. You are somehow meeting the same age grade or girls with the same mindset, or girl from the same area or something. One way or another that we yet know about, the ladies you meet, they all have something in common controlling their psyche.

4. Depending on where you are, many ladies do not find that let's date seriously thing attractive anymore. More and more ladies in Nigeria are becoming independent. As most of our parents and grandparents pass on, the generations X, Y, Z and millennials see things differently. So, don't go rushing them into having anything serious unless they indicate interest. You are having sex with a lady and still asking her to date you? So how did you two end up in bed? So you see, you pick these type of ladies.

5. You post means you are desperate. Your desperation is something women can read a mile away. They pick it up. They know they are supposed to be the ones doing that when they are good and ready. But to impress them you give them your phone. You probably do anything and everything for them. You quickly let them into your private life. They don't have to work for it or earn it. You just hand it to them?

So this is your math:


Good looks + Nice Guy + Desperation + the set of ladies we have today = Making ladies run from anything serious.

Long story short you are the one acting like a woman and the women acting like how the man should. The relationship you offer isn't a challenge. They have nothing to fight for. Nothing exciting. No suspicion that another girl may want you. Forget the heart attack talk from one of the ladies. She is either lying to you so you don't take offense or she feels you just too "mushy" ,clingy and needy. No excitement per se. She could also feel that if you are this nice, many girls would want such a man so she runs away. Now problem is all the ladies are feeling the same way and running away. It is the same way people see celebrities or a beautiful girl and they assume she has a boyfriend. Meanwhile she notices and is praying you just approach her and say "Hello".

Remember that humans are first of all animals with instinct and then we have intelligence that we use to control, overide or enhance the instinctive behaviours. Human instinct was passed on to us by our cavemen ancestors. The men take risks. Go out to hunt. Are hardly 100 per cent available. They get a life. They chase the mammoth. You are just there available. And the women feel that many other women would want a man like this hence they can't deal.

You are trying to live for the women first. Live for yourself first. Chase your interests and passion. Don't just be available for them. Jeez why is dirt/sand which is quartz and silica not valued as much as diamond even though they are all minerals? Because diamond is scarce. Sand, you can get it anywhere. See it everywhere. Nothing exciting about it.

You simply combine all the anti-seductive characteristics.

KingintheNorth:


I prefer 24 yrs n above

KingintheNorth:



I belong to the night watch now...my duty is to the Wall.