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Re: Parents Who Always Fight Are Abusing Their Children Emotionally by TheLasyBuddha: 2:38pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
Slawormir:Can you imagine this guy! You well at all? I knew you'd comment. I just sey make I check, behold, you don post. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Parents Who Always Fight Are Abusing Their Children Emotionally by Deicide: 2:41pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
Came here to read comments |
Re: Parents Who Always Fight Are Abusing Their Children Emotionally by Cigo1(m): 2:42pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
GreaterFuture1: Shut up |
Re: Parents Who Always Fight Are Abusing Their Children Emotionally by Zimzy(m): 2:44pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
Please do not go into that fight with her or him. Yes am talking to you, because if you do, it will only get worse. I thank God who gave me a father that never laid a hand on my mother all the 30 and plus years I knew them together before daddy left this world. I have vowed to have a better home than my parents by the grace of God and am having it already. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Parents Who Always Fight Are Abusing Their Children Emotionally by RealAlubarika(m): 2:44pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
BluntNigerian: That is the truth, in civilised climes, where parents fight often the government (social welfare) will take custody of the kid(s), cause such act often traumatised the kids emotionally. But most illiterate couple(Parents) don't know this. When you have issue with your spouse resolve it in your closet not in the presence of the kids 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Parents Who Always Fight Are Abusing Their Children Emotionally by Nobody: 2:45pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
That's true. The fight mustn't be 'always' for emotional trauma to take place. Even once alone is very ugly. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Parents Who Always Fight Are Abusing Their Children Emotionally by SocialJustice: 2:46pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
BluntNigerian:Thank goodness that at least your friend and wife know how to resolve their issues. The kids will eventually grow to understand. The main worry are those couples who fight and daddy beats everybody in the house including the kids and refuses to drop feeding money, carries his bag and travels. This is the part where I want every woman to have a source of income they can live on the independent of the man. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Parents Who Always Fight Are Abusing Their Children Emotionally by Almunjid(m): 2:50pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
If parents who Always fight are abusing their children emotionally, what about parents who never got married? Their children were abandoned by their irresponsible father, and their mother single handedly raised them. Can u imagine the emotional and psychological problems the children would pass through? That's y the children of nowadays r inhumane. To be married is to be responsible, if u don't want to be responsible in ur life, don't bring any child to life and abandon them with their mothers. Peace 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Parents Who Always Fight Are Abusing Their Children Emotionally by 1b8m: 2:58pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
My parents are over 70, alive and still fight (abuse each other). They're both born again. The hypocrisy is too much that I swore to stay single than marry a born again. Infact i swore never to get married until i met a lady, the most amazing person I'll ever meet. It turns out she's married to this older man but she keeps promising me that she'll divorce him and be with me. I'm so messed up now because I doubt that's going to happen. My problem now is I don't know how to move on. I don't know where to find someone like her. I don't know why my life is such a puzzle 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Parents Who Always Fight Are Abusing Their Children Emotionally by bukatyne(f): 3:06pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
1b8m: I don't know whether to laugh or cry. It is well. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Parents Who Always Fight Are Abusing Their Children Emotionally by Enugupikin: 3:07pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
Ybaby:Lol.. You're on point |
Re: Parents Who Always Fight Are Abusing Their Children Emotionally by TheWalkingMind: 3:08pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
It's a tiring exercise |
Re: Parents Who Always Fight Are Abusing Their Children Emotionally by TheWalkingMind: 3:11pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
1b8m:Life no balance my brother. Reason I try to stay away from sniper. Things I witnessed growing up. And still witness grown makes me believe in creating a perfect world for my woman and kids, no matter what it takes. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Parents Who Always Fight Are Abusing Their Children Emotionally by Nobody: 3:11pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
well i grew up in a abusive home 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Parents Who Always Fight Are Abusing Their Children Emotionally by relicng: 3:11pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
True Talk |
Re: Parents Who Always Fight Are Abusing Their Children Emotionally by Izabel(f): 3:14pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
1b8m:Maybe you should focus on self development rather than looking for someone to "complete" you. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Parents Who Always Fight Are Abusing Their Children Emotionally by Funmmyastic: 3:16pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
Just like my parents,they were always at each other's throats,which sometimes involves domestic violence like battering. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Parents Who Always Fight Are Abusing Their Children Emotionally by Izabel(f): 3:17pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
Paxxcarl:You're not alone 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Parents Who Always Fight Are Abusing Their Children Emotionally by FLOTAN(m): 3:20pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
Negative influence. The home is the first circle of socialization. If it’s not in good shape the child may not be in good shape except s/he unlearns the negativities. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Parents Who Always Fight Are Abusing Their Children Emotionally by Nobody: 3:23pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
oluwaseyi0:See before I even start talking, I am an atheist, but let's look at things from a straightforward angle, divorce is just as good as staying in a broken home, I've heard of many children that were affected mentally and emotionally by their parents divorce, a good example is Kurt Cobain (not sure if you know him). That is why personally, I believe that parents should stay six years in their marriages before having children or they should live together to know if they are compatible before having kids. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Parents Who Always Fight Are Abusing Their Children Emotionally by 1b8m: 3:23pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
TheWalkingMind:i swear! God knows I'd have literally plucked the stars for her. I just want to have what my parents didn't have. And not with just any kind of woman. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Parents Who Always Fight Are Abusing Their Children Emotionally by IdreamOfUnicorn(f): 3:23pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
Nigerian parents don't seem to realize this and it irks the hell out of me. They don't take domestic violence seriously in this part of this world..cause they know no government is coming to take their kids away when they misbehave. Imagine your child waking up to a nightmare everyday cause he/she is scared of what dad might do to mom or otherwise. Or your child not wanting to come back home from school cause the confinement that's supposed to be called a home SUCKS. A home that's supposed to be a safe haven is the opposite of one. It not only affects emotionally, but psychologically too. Nigerian parents need to do better geeeeeeeez 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Parents Who Always Fight Are Abusing Their Children Emotionally by Nobody: 3:26pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
SocialJustice:Unfortunately Nigerian men (mostly noticed the trend with igbo men) don't want to allow their wives to be independent, my father did this to my mom, now the man is dead and we are here suffering, that is why anytime my grandmom starts whining trash about my mom, I will just be laughing in my head knowing that it's her sons fault. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Parents Who Always Fight Are Abusing Their Children Emotionally by TheWalkingMind: 3:30pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
1b8m:You'll have it bro. But the patience is overbearing. |
Re: Parents Who Always Fight Are Abusing Their Children Emotionally by Nickymichy(m): 3:31pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
Did you make those couple to realize that?...I believe they need this advice more 1 Like |
Re: Parents Who Always Fight Are Abusing Their Children Emotionally by 0neal(m): 3:36pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
A vicious cycle Which can only be unlearned, when those kids come of age and embraces the kind of Love Christ Jesus told his disciples in John 13:34 "So now I am giving you a new commandment: Love each other. Just as I have loved you, you should love each other" E no easy sha BluntNigerian: |
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