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Re: My Wife Says Am Stingy With My Money by Nobody: 7:09pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Damn Make God open doors for you.. you're trying your best |
Re: My Wife Says Am Stingy With My Money by Dorispatternz: 7:10pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
No you are not stingy sir. But to be honest 20k is very small for her manage with in month giving the numbers mouth that she will be feeding plus diapers for the kids and other minor expenses. I will suggest you start up a side hustle that will fetch extra income. Your wife is really trying 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Says Am Stingy With My Money by Nobody: 7:23pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Wow, you are really trying indeed. But the thing is that, the 10k you are giving your mom she wants you to stop it and start giving it to her. You earn just 55k and any penny from that money that leaves that your household she sees it as a waste. It's your mom not hers. Keep working hard that's all. Country too hard. |
Re: My Wife Says Am Stingy With My Money by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:53pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Tell her to go back to basic...and use them old reusable material diapers (that she can clean and reuse).. that way, she can save money on pampers. |
Re: My Wife Says Am Stingy With My Money by TATALoAlaMu: 8:05pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
God will provide for me for you. You are not stingy and your wife is also right. May God open bigger ways for you. |
Re: My Wife Says Am Stingy With My Money by Angelacruz: 8:12pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
You are not stingy...but d money is small for monthly upkeep.Is your wife not working? Prospertochu: |
Re: My Wife Says Am Stingy With My Money by Nobody: 8:13pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
U need to scale up and get more income channel |
Re: My Wife Says Am Stingy With My Money by mamaafrik(m): 8:30pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Dorispatternz:No,i am an original African man. |
Re: My Wife Says Am Stingy With My Money by Nobody: 9:23pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
emeijeh:Is it too small? |
Re: My Wife Says Am Stingy With My Money by Nobody: 9:32pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Prospertochu:Ur Wife No Dey Work? Let Her Get A Job Rada Than Sitting Idle At Home & Be Demanding 4 Money. If Complains Again, Tell Her To Get A Job, Dat Ur Money Won't Be Enough To Meet Up Her Demand, Simple. |
Re: My Wife Says Am Stingy With My Money by muller101(m): 9:33pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
This is why we have a lot of widows. The man must go first. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Says Am Stingy With My Money by fatymore(f): 11:10pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
Explain to her and tell her what you are earning. To be a man isn't easy in this Nigeria ooo |
Re: My Wife Says Am Stingy With My Money by fatymore(f): 11:10pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
![]() muller101: |
Re: My Wife Says Am Stingy With My Money by Burgerlomo: 12:03am On Sep 18, 2020 |
True or false ![]() |
Re: My Wife Says Am Stingy With My Money by Nobody: 12:05am On Sep 18, 2020 |
Prospertochu: Simple.. Let her work and contribute. I don't know why you lots comfortably marry jobless ladies. |
Re: My Wife Says Am Stingy With My Money by cooooooks(m): 6:45am On Sep 18, 2020 |
1. Increase what you give her slightly. 2. Do your other siblings provide for your mom? 3. Is there any way to reduce your daily expenses (hire purchase for small/old car/packing your food/drinking only water?) 4. Can you guys set up a small shop at home? 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Says Am Stingy With My Money by Prospertochu(m): 7:10am On Sep 18, 2020 |
cooooooks:If I increase the money then my mum will have nothing , I am really trying for these 2 special women in my life , I wish I could spend more for them but right now I don’t have, I think she should manage it that way because no condition is permanent. My younger sister is still in school , for now I can’t set up a small shop because of financial issues but maybe next year |
Re: My Wife Says Am Stingy With My Money by Eagba(m): 9:33am On Sep 18, 2020 |
bros God will bless your hustle. God is seeing your efforts and your love for your mum and wife. try to think logically about your situation, create a construct in your head and identify your problems and hack it. we have already given us 65% solutions to all our problems i mean all our problems. |
Re: My Wife Says Am Stingy With My Money by Immacute: 5:52pm On Sep 18, 2020 |
Shey she no dey work |
Re: My Wife Says Am Stingy With My Money by cooooooks(m): 10:33pm On Sep 18, 2020 |
Maybes never work. Your job could disappear at any moment. Having a second or third stream of income is key, even if it is small. Prospertochu: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Says Am Stingy With My Money by Prospertochu(m): 10:44pm On Sep 18, 2020 |
cooooooks:You are 100% right that I pray that things will get much better by next year so I could have my own shop aside from my job |
Re: My Wife Says Am Stingy With My Money by Ayemileto(m): 11:34pm On Sep 18, 2020 |
Tonyspecial: FROGMAN101: bobokeshington: mamaafrik: Truvel: Elder0001: All of you I quoted up there probably missed this post by OP. Prospertochu: Prospertochu, if the place you live is an open place, then your wife can start something from home. It can be selling little little stuffs (mostly food items) that people living on the street can buy, to operating a grinding machine in front of your house. This will help contribute something to the family income. It's not a must she gets a salary job before she can work. Also, isn't it better to be going to office with food flask than to be buying lunch at the office? Buying launch is definitely more expensive than bringing cooked food from home. you can discuss with your wife, you can estimate the amount you spend for food in the office, and add it to what you give to her, in return, you start going to office with packaged launch from home. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Says Am Stingy With My Money by ABANGWABOI(m): 12:16am On Sep 19, 2020 |
#ILMOVON ![]() ![]() #Attitude #Bliv I am having this feeling that your wife wants you to cut the fund you give to your mom.. if you try it.. e no go better for you.. People dey here dey shout it is too small bla bla bla.. make dem go ask how much be police rank and file salary or even a state govt civil servant take home pay in level 7-9.. Yet most live in peace with their family.. Dont allow that woman to push you around.. Kids of barely 11 months.. if na kids of 8,10, & 12 it is different.. Enough said. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Says Am Stingy With My Money by Graysons: 12:34am On Sep 19, 2020 |
dingbang:Because it is. ![]() |
Re: My Wife Says Am Stingy With My Money by Cowbell521: 12:43am On Sep 19, 2020 |
ubunja:Who be this SIMP now? |
Re: My Wife Says Am Stingy With My Money by Nobody: 2:43am On Sep 19, 2020 |
na wao u earning 55k and u have 3 children already and ur wife is na housewife ![]() and from that little money u have u share out nd give to other members of ur family in need so how u managing with the current state of things in naija? anyway since ur wife is not working u should try establish a provision stall for her where she will be selling provisions and drinks and she also help out as well in no make sense that a full grown woman even if she is married will just sit at home doing nothing except maybe u like it d way things are but if u keep on going like this then stress go overwelm u and as for being selfish u far from selfish u trying giving out 20k from the little money u earn that is if ur story is true oo ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Says Am Stingy With My Money by Nobody: 2:49am On Sep 19, 2020 |
ABANGWABOI:there is this guy wey school with my brother ![]() wen dem dey school d guy give one babe belle and dem force the guy to marry the girl bNow if u see am u will feel kinder sorry for him d guy don old by force bros who was looking fresh and handsome when in school don lost all im handsomeness he is now bald and all im cheeks don go inside making his face looking like those old men wey dey drink aromatic shnapps or ogogoro ![]() then the clothes wey im dey wear na the clothes im dad wear as a yuppy youth in the late 1960s and early 70s..u know those kine trousers wey dey wide for bottom ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() anytime the guy see u he will be begging u for 2k.but wetin surprise me be say upon the brokeness and suffering the guy still dey see energy fuk im wife.he has five kids now and he"s living from hand to mouth.i can never live such a life..God forbid |
Re: My Wife Says Am Stingy With My Money by Nobody: 2:53am On Sep 19, 2020 |
cooooooks:his wife should also work.if she no see govt work why not open a small provision stall in front of their house.no be so young ladies who are housewives dey do am? if the husband is rich then its understandable if she sits at home all day watching tv but when ur husband is managing u as the wife should help.then like u suggest they should also have another means of income.55k is too damm small for a family man |
Re: My Wife Says Am Stingy With My Money by Nobody: 2:59am On Sep 19, 2020 |
Prospertochu: I don't know much bout nairas value n wat the cost of living is in naija but sounds like Ur doing your best. U can't give wat U don't have n a loving wife should understand that 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Says Am Stingy With My Money by Nobody: 3:02am On Sep 19, 2020 |
emeijeh:i shock wen i see am oo ![]() ![]() how im dey manage pay school fees for his three kids how e dey buy school books chai! 1 Like
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Re: My Wife Says Am Stingy With My Money by dominique(f): 4:19am On Sep 19, 2020 |
How come the allowance increment she's requesting for is to the tune of the amount you give to your mother. Hope she's not indirectly trying to stop you from giving your mum money. She should try to get small biz doing within your home like soft drinks, recharge cards, liquid soap and other consumables that won't require having to go to big markets to make purchase. It won't be easy juggling business with raising of triplets so you have to assist her whenever you are available. This country is getting too stiff to survive on one income alone, your salary is way too small to sustain a family of five |
Re: My Wife Says Am Stingy With My Money by Aburada: 6:20am On Sep 19, 2020 |
Is your mother working? Do you have other siblings that spend for your mum? If the above questions are both yes, then reduce the amount of money you give to her. In all honesty 20k is small in a month 2 Likes |
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