First, I am not using this post to say that ladies who desire a no-sex relationship are wrong or are committing a crime. Everyone has the right to decide what idea they feel is right for them or not.

Morally and spiritually speaking, any girl who feels that she doesn't want to have sex till she's married has not committed a crime; it's not out of place. The foundation on which this idea is mostly built on by many young women is where the problem lies.

Romantic affairs are nothing but romantic affairs! They involve romance and I believe everyone reading this post knows what romance is. What romance is, is what romantic relationships entail. Let it not be as if we are still in primary school, learning life basics.

Romantic relationships are not just for kneeling down to pray together, playing ten-ten, ludo, kalokalo or suwe. It involves things that are done behind closed doors. If a girl doesn't want sex in a relationship, she should ask herself first what type of relationship she's into. If it's not a platonic or brother/sister relationship, then she better stay off romantic affairs until she's ready to marry!!!

You own your body as a girl but don't try to turn a full grown sexually active man to a celibate or eunuch because that is what you desire in a ROMANTIC AFFAIR! If he wants sex and you don't, kindly tell him your principle and move on. If he doesn't 'touch' you, who will he touch? Won't he touch somebody outside? Will that not make rubbish of your relationship?

Young ladies who don't want sex in romantic affairs should stay off or look for a celibate who can dance to their tune. After all, most girls have made it a culture not to give anything else in a relationship other than sex. Being that the average African man gives virtually everything, his time, resources, energy including his soul in relationships, what do you, as young women expect him to gain when most of you cannot offer anything other than sex? He won't take that gladly knowing fully well that you are trying to withhold the only thing he knows he can gain from you! If I meet a girl who says she wants a no-sex affair, I should be able to see tangible things I can gain from the relationship. Being a demanding girl in a no-sex affair should be a suicide attempt in relationship.

I might not be too kind with idealism; romantic affairs involve SEX! Even if you go to Madagascar, Norway, Bolivia or Czech Republic, it's the same thing. If you cannot withstand the hotness of the kitchen, stay off the kitchen!

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The truth is, if you don't want sex, then please don't kiss him or make him ready for it. That's torture. It is just like touching your cucchies and the guys stands up and walks away.

Uyaiincomparabl what do you have to say about this since you are a virgin?

dingbang:
Uyaiincomparabl what do you have to say about this since you are a virgin?

how are you doing,good morning lol.Dont insult me ooo,i come in peace

Yes , you are on point .
This is actually true in order to avoid raping accusations and allegations

Where problem dey be say dem go deny you sex and be having knacking sessions with another niqqa... Make I no go lose guard.. No sex? Alaye dey your dey make I dey my own..

A friend of mine told me last week that his relationship of 5years with his babe no sex, i was like wtf!!! I just dey pity him for my mind. I no trust babe reach that one. Hin go shock him on wedding night when he realize she is not a virgin.

na so one Igbo amaka tell me yesterday say no sex wen she visits me to stay for 1 week,she said if i love her I'll wait till i marry her,lol i intend blocking her
me wey like kpekus

Fero24:
Where problem dey be say dem go deny you sex and be having knacking sessions with another niqqa... Make I no go lose guard.. No sex? Alaye dey your dey make I dey my own..

Exactly. That's where the issue lies. There are some guys that can actually go on a no sex relationship with any girl that request that especially those that are on semen retention.

But where the problem lies is that they will still be banging another sharp homie in secret while making the one they are saving for marriage seems like mumu with the no sex till marriage scam.

Who is deceiving who?

SmellySperm:
na so one Igbo amaka tell me yesterday say no sex wen she visits me to stay for 1 week,she said if i love her I'll wait till i marry her,lol i intend blocking her
me wey like kpekus

Most of those girls that usually opt for the no sex till marriage do fvck behind. 90% of them. She will be receiving dick behind while the other will think he has a good girl.

No guy with functional organ will be so foolished to believe any girl that comes in with the no sex scam. I call it scam because majority do get banged behind by kidwaya type of sharp guys.

They are just bunches of pretenders.

Agree with op.

The truth is people should stay away from relationship if they are not ready for sex. People shouldn't tempt themselves.

na so one Igbo amaka tell me today say no intercourse wei she visits me to stay for 1 day,she said if i love her I'll wait till i marry her,lol i intend blocking thoth wey like kpekus

O.p you are very correct on this one. I tend to wonder how people will say no sex in a romantic relationship and still be wanting goodies that comes in a romantic relationship.

If you don't want sex, state it out. if he/she agrees to it game but if he/she disagrees bounce.

No sex, no romance
no romance, no relationship
no relationship, no marriage.

I didn't read it but Op... I support u...


You are very right

I disagree with you o. Some are just cool with being with a guy. A lady even told me that her ex is a good oyimbo man and he doesn't sex her, that they only romance. Another said all her previous relationship were sexless

that's to show that you don't have anything to offer in relationship apart from money and sex, no ambitions, no goal, no sacrifices at all...... may you see urself through.

dingbang:
Uyaiincoml what do you have to say about this since you are a virgin?

I am not in any romantic affair, that's why keeping my virginity has been easy for me. And I endorse the motion.

So called "Alpha males" always masturbating on issues regarding females

80% of threads opened by them all has to do with women. Really? I thought the idea of the movement was to give no Bleep about females. Interesting

Na you go still chase am, na you go still wail if she says no sex

The wailing will blow off if she come chop small money on top .

Las las y'all will result to body shaming. E no go pass evening newspaper, olosho . Try something new

The moment y'all understand that you can't shame the shameless, the better. Una go still open another thread soonest . Alpha males indeed

dingbang:
Uyaiincomparabl what do you have to say about this since you are a virgin?

My grandma is a virgin too

Vyzz:
I didn't read it but Op... I support u...


You are very right

nah only you i dy see for here.

UyaiIncomparabl:


I am not in any romantic affair, that's why keeping my virginity has been easy for me. And I endorse the motion.

but you mentioned in a thread that you like big black gbola what can you say about that?

Iceyjayz:
My grandma is a virgin too

lmao.. Have you had sex with Uyai?

dingbang:
but you mentioned in a thread that you like big black gbola what can you say about that?

Lol believe that girl at your own peril.

dingbang:
but you mentioned in a thread that you like big black gbola what can you say about that?

Don't take me seriously. I was just kidding. You should know me better. And stop asking me foolish questions.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Don't take me seriously. I was just kidding. You should know me better. And stop asking me foolish questions.

no further questions

Iceyjayz:
Lol believe that girl at your own peril.

naah, just catching trips with her

fati2001:
that's to show that you don't have anything to offer in relationship apart from money and sex, no ambitions, no goal, no sacrifices at all...... may you see urself through.

We have heard this talk countless times without a reasonable defense against it. You as a woman, what have you offered so far in your relationship? So money is not something to offer right?

xynerise:

So money is not something to offer right?

yes! money is not everything to offer and collect! also sex is not everything to offer and collect !

fati2001:

yes! money is not everything to offer and collect!
also sex is not everything to offer and collect !

So what have you offered?


Let me guess, you were there for him when he had nothing ?

xynerise:


We have heard this talk countless times without a reasonable defense against it.

because you guy's can't defend the words. and you guys don't stand by the words. simple!

xynerise:

So what have you offered?

Let me guess, you were there for him when he had nothing ?

what you offer is what you get, and how you set your basic statics .