Mcslize:


Of course you are right. Like I have posted before, there are quite a number of guys that can go on with the no sex relationship with any lady. But experiences had repeatedly shown over and over again that a number of ladies always end up playing such guys by having another secret lover guy they offer sex on a steady basis nullifying the no sex relationship they first entered with the first guy.

That simply means such girls have double standards. Because by the time the guy they agreed on a no sex relationship with finds out the babe had been sleeping with another third party guy in his back, you will agree with me that a great trust has been broken which will make such innocent guy never to agree on such agreement never again with any girl if he decides to go into another relationship in the future.

Go on a no sex relationship with one guy and making out with another totally different guy in the absent of the first guy, that whats most ladies do.

I do believe you understand my point.

xynerise:


You are absolutely right. Betrayal has made many guys shun this no sex relationship stuff. A lot have been scammed. Would you blame them?


Leave some of those hypocrites here making it look like those who are afraid of No sex relationship are sinners and Wicked....whatever they call them.

A lot of people just hate to face reality

Mcslize:


Exactly. The truth is always bitter. And some ladies always want to eat their cake and have it.

No lady can manipulate a guy like me with no sex till marriage trash. If she is not a pure virgin, it purely shows she just wants to play smart cuz I know how hòrny girls can feel when they are ovulating.

They can do anything just to bang at that moment. A girl who has already been bleeping can hardly control that horniness during their ovulation. That's where most that are deceiving naive guys with no sex relationship will start looking out for another guy to bleep cuz they know they can't request it from the guy they are on a no sex relationship with.

They will rather do it with one of the good-bad guys on their WhatsApp lists. Even some do it with their acclaimed male bestie who they are very free with.

Only the fraction small percent of pure virgins who have never experienced sex I can reluctantly still vouch for. Not those that had already been bleeping for years now coming with no sex till marriage scam.

Miarose:
if temi otedola or dj cuppy agrees to date you but no sex, will you agree?

Zzor:
yes

xynerise:


The best thing is to define the kind of relationship you want to have with the said girl so issues as this won't come out from nowhere.

Me wey like kpekus pass oxygen

Debra911:

OK, thanks. I'm chioma

SirMichael1:
You're a wise man. I've made up my mind to stay a virgin for my wife.

Mcslize:


Lol the bolded. No be small.


You are right. Defining a relationship from the beginning will save one from wasting one's time.

I am very blunt and raw with what I want when approaching the opposite sex. I define it from the beginning and I have never been wrong with my approach style.

I don't like beating around the bush. I will tell u what I am bringing to the table and it is left for her to say YES or NO and look elsewhere.

Confidence is every guy's selling point.

The more a guy waste time being too careful with his words with a girl, the more she will get to friend zone him. That's why from the beginning I will tell u what I want and what I am bringing to the table so no one will waste the other time.

Girls like sex more than guys. It is just that we guys no dey hide our own or try pretending.

We hit the nail on the head. No time.

Alaenyieby:
I will like to summarize my point as follows:
*Thinks that looks like love: Romance, Gift, Care, Frequent calls, Attention, Dates, Sex.
*What love truely is include the following: Tolerance, Unconditional acceptance, Sacrifice, Forgiveness, Trust, Support, Loyalty, Respect, Correction without judgement, peace.

sarjam05:


If only the female gene in you would make you truly act like this. I don’t know if it’s nature but women always want to cheat their men. It makes them powerful and if they can’t Bleep another guy they must receive gifts and money for not fucking the other guy. Them like the song win win win by one naija musician. They must always win. You have written very beautifully but I’ve met too many girls who talk wisely but act foolishly and when confronted they say I am a woman. Like wtf?!

Munachisom95:
Being a virgin is cool, we re only 10 in Nigeria. Me and 9 others.

Debra911:

Studied medical physiology, going for medsurge after my nysc. I'm serving in Jigawa

Munachisom95:
Being a virgin is cool, we re only 10 in Nigeria. Me and 9 others.

paul100:

Your type is rare.The thing about guys is that once they have had sex with a girl,they cannot stop so a no-sex relationship is like hell for them.
My own is a responsible male virgin deserves a good and responsible female virgin and
a guy that is obsessed about sex and have bleeped different types of girls deserves a hoe with a wide pu**sy.
I don't understand the talk of Bleep boys on Nairaland that they want to marry a virgin.What of all the girls,they have bleeped.Who will marry them?

Debra911:

Total peace of mind, u don't owe anybody

fati2001:

then he should date a prostitute.... I can't open my legs for a stupid man not husband for the sake of offering me money (what is he talking me for? a hoe because you have money) pls move to the next bus stop....
that's why they said "average ninezeria men don't have anything to collect apart from sex in relationships " a stable man will ask him self those questions.
1, is she worthy
2, why do she only show gratitudes in a similar way (opening of her legs)
3, what value have she offer to my life.
so many...... I can't say, everyone with his /er choice.
but some go sit-down gidibaaa! because of sex... later open their fuckin Negro wide mouth screaming "she has nothing to offer apart from sex "
WHAT A 21 CABBAGE!!!!
and GOD forbid me depending on man money (when I got hands and legs).
and me as a man can't demand for sex because I give a girl a cheap cent or she asked for favour.

zexy2030:

There is no time, stop decieving yourselves. Be responsible and keep a relationship, start a family, sex or no sex. The desire to be married can't be ruled out. You guys are making the mistakes your aunty made and she is still single at 40 dragging ur own bf with u. Well,. Just know the beauty of a woman and strength of a man doesnot last forever. Make hay while the sunshines.

xynerise:


https://www.nairaland.com/3958925/ladies-dont-want-sex-should


The truth is, if you don't want sex, then please don't kiss him or make him ready for it. That's torture. It is just like touching your cucchies and the guys stands up and walks away.

Debra911:

I'm married abi what the hell are u talking about.

CosmicPhoenix:

relationship is for sex,if you are not fvcking in your relationship then why are you in it.