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Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Liposure: 12:03am On Sep 29, 2020 |
sofiscatedmoron:lol it happened |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Princewell2012(m): 12:06am On Sep 29, 2020 |
oldtruth: Oh God will really bless you for this comment. That's exactly my stands. |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by cosmaschibuzo8: 12:10am On Sep 29, 2020 |
He might be testing you by pretending not to have anything,for him to come back with nothing after 8 good years!! Not possible |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Liposure: 12:13am On Sep 29, 2020 |
Fearlez:hmmm |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by segun82(m): 12:16am On Sep 29, 2020 |
If by chance he makes money and gets on his feet, he will abandon you again and disappear. He is a parasite, run for your life. Ignore the folks here saying stories that touch, run him off! 4 Likes |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Liposure: 12:17am On Sep 29, 2020 |
pocohantas:later they will say bad boys are charismatic 3 Likes |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Liposure: 12:19am On Sep 29, 2020 |
Thossiey:lol your mouth eee 2 Likes |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by mfm04622: 12:21am On Sep 29, 2020 |
Divanona: No long story! Run!!!!! |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Frankmore96: 12:21am On Sep 29, 2020 |
This is really a critical situation that needs a calculative approach to avoid double wahala. However, permitting him to live with you outrightly may not be the better approach, he alto be with his parents whether he come back with something or nothing at least for the moment. For him to be together with you as he's currently doing means you have indirectly accepted him, and it's obvious that you will be in position to provide all and sundry for the time being, and such responsibility is not good for you at the moment. Better for him to be with his parents while you concentrate on solving the quadratic equation at the table, he too will also have the full dose of time to think with his both internal and external memories on what next to do as a man to Savage and remedy the situation. If he continues to live with you in this manner, I can assure you that more children will Soon follow with more responsibilities on you, while he will has little or nothing to contribute because he's yet to find his square roots, worst still, your marrital rights might be obliged. So Op reason and think fast to avert more injuries to the wounds. My simple submission though. |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by mfm04622: 12:22am On Sep 29, 2020 |
dingbang: Every child need a good father. A bad father is worse than no father! 5 Likes |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Liposure: 12:26am On Sep 29, 2020 |
SegFault:i fear person wey no fear u |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Xinox: 12:28am On Sep 29, 2020 |
I am in pains reading this story! I must confess you are from a good family for even accepting to carry all the humiliation and rejection. He knew you are a good lady for him to come back and open up. If he had lied, he would use another lie to cover up. Have you ask yourself these questions; where has he being all these while? Can we burry the hatchet? It could be that he truly loves you but the fear of looking at u helplessly in your agony threw fear into him! He could be restless after he left hoping he may make it big and return to you in a big way. It is not far from these. Babe, all these people claiming didn't put their foot wrong before ran series of abortions just to cover up the damn sh*t! Don't reject your man. I studied what you wrote. You knew he was nice to you. Show him that you re that shoulder to lean and not afraid to carry him. The greatest joy is, that child is not a bastard! Watch, two of you can be very successful if you both decides. This nigga gonna respect you more than ever. Finally, no matter what you are going through, he can't stay in your fam home. You guys should get an apartment and start life. Staying under your family will be a fatal mistake. Dm me please. |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Jeremiahtortor(m): 12:33am On Sep 29, 2020 |
Gee why so na? |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by aimalohi: 12:33am On Sep 29, 2020 |
Madam think well and seek God’ direction. Imagine a man who hv suffered and then nw realize that bfr suffer wld kill him let him come and hide under ur umbrella. He said he wants to marry u, he does not have a shelter of his own, he is sleeping in his (father inlaw to b’) house & eating their food, Haba which kind thing be that. This Na double wahala... he shld go and do d necessity first bfr he can come and ask for ur hand in marriage . He shld get a job no matter how small and he shld also get an accommodation no matter how small also. Otherwise bfr u say jack u will get pregnant again, then u start suffering with 2kids. Think wisely, tell him U r ready but he has to put these two basic on ground. As for d sacrifice of school fee d man already saw himself as a drop Out that was y he gave u his money for school fee. 1 Like |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by franzis(m): 12:37am On Sep 29, 2020 |
Help him if you can but don't take him back for the sake of your peace of mind and sanity because the image of him being absent all these years will continually hunt you no matter how hard you try to forget.. You deserve better ... No responsible guy will abandon his child for 8 good years for any reason even soldiers at the war front try to reach out to their family when they can 2 Likes |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Liposure: 12:39am On Sep 29, 2020 |
Zzor:spot on |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by idtwo: 12:40am On Sep 29, 2020 |
He is just teasing you. OP means Original Poster referring to the individual who started the story thread. AnonymousRebec: |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by MummyD2020(f): 12:42am On Sep 29, 2020 |
padi94: I wish I can like this 1million times. Truest talk! |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Dminister(m): 12:43am On Sep 29, 2020 |
He tried may be he wanted to pull something surprising for you and his child. Everything he tried didn't workout for him. If he had made it he would still find you and his child just like he did. He is a man that wants to do something seriously without help from people around. All that he fried failed him and he returned to you for him to try alternative. He wants to try fighting with you because he thinks fighting with you will make him win. Give him this chance and stay with him to fight together and he will win his fight and crown you as his queen. Forgive him and join him to fight. |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Nobody: 12:47am On Sep 29, 2020 |
Someone asked why I was not married all this while. I've been trying to figure out my life and be a good mom to my son and not give any prospective husband unnecessary responsibility to carry. It was all my fault I didn't allowed any relationship work out with me. The school fees he gave me i stated wasn't the reason for him not graduating. It wasn't my fault that he couldn't graduate, because he sorted it out that semester and wrote his departmental exams as well. It was after I've left |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Raalsalghul: 12:50am On Sep 29, 2020 |
franchasng: 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Xinox: 12:53am On Sep 29, 2020 |
Dminister:Great |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Thereishel: 12:58am On Sep 29, 2020 |
I think you are dreaming don't you have families that can warn and advise you on this? Believe once bitten twice shy so there's no man in the world you can have relationship with? History is going to repeat itself he left you when you are pregnant and he would do that again and abandon you. How do you know he doesn't have anything. Be careful and don't give him a chance. That happened to my woman friend the man abandon him and her boy for 10 years and ran away with another woman he came back using charm to impregnate her the man aged father like 80 years prostrated for the woman. He signed an agreement that he would be taking care of her. 3 months later he reneged on his promise thank God she didn't give hime second chance. It is the case of another man that a wise person learn from according to Yoruba adage don't fall into this trap please |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Liposure: 1:01am On Sep 29, 2020 |
Jamean:you women like justaposing issues instead of looking for way forward. I dont blame you people. Its not your fault |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Nobody: 1:02am On Sep 29, 2020 |
Tell him to hit the road jack, and don't come back no more |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Liposure: 1:03am On Sep 29, 2020 |
1StopRudeness:baba this thing wey u talk remind me of kanayo 1 Like |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Nobody: 1:06am On Sep 29, 2020 |
Divanona: Take him to a good God believing church and see if God will locate him to get delivered from spirit of failure at the edge of breakthrough. Then, monitor his behaviour first before taking further action, assuming he hammer, do you think he will come back for the two of you all these years? U need to answer that question. Lastly,he wants marriage but don't have a job or business,how does he want to achieve that? He should start something first and build from there before initiating marriage, as he can see Ur boy is doing well,he needs to work more now |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Osobi32(m): 1:17am On Sep 29, 2020 |
dingbang:Stop it pls...... How will a man impregnate a lady and elope only to return after eight solid years to tell them stories. Some men are without conscience! No matter how good he was to her, that single act alone has destroyed everything. If he had stayed with the lady and take responsibility i am sure that his life would have been more better. |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by phill63(m): 1:23am On Sep 29, 2020 |
OP please has your son be going to school, who has been paying his fees, clothing him and feeding him? This guy in question does not need education to make money if he is the humble type. Desperate time calls for desperate measures! No matter what he tells you now without proof of nothing just know he's up for another game. Tell him to simply get himself together as a man b4 he comes back to you. It might hurt you, you may stay up crying for sending him away but trust me thats the formula to keep him in check. Women don't know the power they have over men. Don't fall prey for his cheap gimmicks! Cos twill hurt you bad. For crying out loud he should at least have a workable plan readily available to move you guys forward and not playing the pity party game. My sister listen to your brothers if they're grown to understand situations like this or your mom and try to evaluate the situation b4 u make ur final decision. May God help you through this amen 2 Likes |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Analysiscorner: 1:26am On Sep 29, 2020 |
Lead him to getting his own means of livelihood. A must. Don't do sex again. You don't want to make the same mistake again. This is a sober period.. Let it be so in all ramifications. Serious hours. Serious time. No room for I can't do that kind of job. He must earn his own living. I am saying all this because you still love him. And I like that. Now, don't be soft. Be hard so that he can really take care of you. |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by Analysiscorner: 1:29am On Sep 29, 2020 |
Osobi32:You are not giving him the opportunity for repentance. Everybody deserves that to move forward after backwardness. |
Re: Left Us. After Eight Years, He's Back And Had Nothing by kevinexit(m): 1:46am On Sep 29, 2020 |
Forgive him... And settle down with him... There is nothing inside this Life.. av seen everything.. is just a matter of time.. the body you are carrying is just a casing... Plz forgive and make him happy.. ignore what others will say.. only you can give your self happiness.. Read Mark 11:25 Jahadist stay clear.. |
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