DZTech:
How can food be the primary focus of a new outing/dating?

How can you get to know someone better when hunger is your main focus?
Times are hard, but life goes on; so, it's high time we used our common sense.
The entitlement mentality must stop.

Ladies, gents - if you're going on a date, eat at home and go out for drinks in a bar.
how many cans of malt can you drink in 2 hours?
las las, 1,500 don cover am.
enough of the nonsense.

What d'you think?

Even if I ate before coming to the date, I still won't sit down and be drinking malt or beer with you on a first date. If we ain't eating/snacking, it isn't a date. Simple.

DZTech:
How can food be the primary focus of a new outing/dating?

How can you get to know someone better when hunger is your main focus?
Times are hard, but life goes on; so, it's high time we used our common sense.
The entitlement mentality must stop.

Ladies, gents - if you're going on a date, eat at home and go out for drinks in a bar.
how many cans of malt can you drink in 2 hours?
las las, 1,500 don cover am.
enough of the nonsense.

What d'you think?

Shut up poor man. Only a poor shameless man complain about buying food for a lady he is wooing. Double your hustle and change that stupid poor wretched mentality.

shamsin6300:


Pay me first hunger wan tear my waist

Chaii,you no talk am since na,I don finish everything wash pot keep fa.unless u go drink garri

cicikhemy:



When I go on a date......If the guy can afford it.


I love to eat real food and not junks because I love real food and that has nothing to do with me going on a date just because I do not have food in the house, I just enjoy eating outside sometimes..... #Foodiegeng

can one really get real food from eateries or outside, homemade remains d only certified real food i know.

Organs:


Shut up poor man. Only a poor shameless man complain about buying food for a lady he is wooing. double your hustle and change that stupid poor wretched mentality.

Lol. Be calming down!

Sixfeetbelle:


Even if I ate before coming to the date, I still won't sit down and be drinking malt or beer with you on a first date. If we ain't eating/snacking, it isn't a date. Simple.

I like as you take talk your mind.

QuintessentialW:
Are y'all alright?

Food is cheap!

Would you rather order wine 18k minimum?

Cc: DZTech

2cribz:
Me go on date. Never. Meet me for lounge,bring 1 shawama,1 barbequed fish. After ubdon dey high,pack rest go house. Fuc k u like say tmrw no dey. Shaply 7am i drop u off. No time for dates,all girls be okpo

You missed the point of Op.

You are even ordering barbecue and fish for your sex partner, Op is saying he's not ordering anything food except maybe malt. Like you go to meet someone somewhere and you can't order fish at least? Which kain nonsense thinking is that?

mariahAngel:


Eating before going on a date does not make any sense. That is poverty mentality.
It is also likely to mount up your calorie intake for that day.
A better advice would be for both parties to go with cash just in case...

. Nigerians have converted date to all about food, even on a first date that should be more of interactions and light refreshments..

Happyguy201:
absolutely brother but then again . nigerian girls have poor mentality most of them think that when you ask them out on a date it means free food and drinks for them

Point of correction, some Nigerian girls.
You all need to stop shaming ladies like you've met every lady
Some of these so-called niggers are being fed and all by Nigerian ladies but you'll never hear them say it. Such a shame how some men reason like they've toured every nook and cranny of Nigeria and dated every Nigerian lady, like I always say, men aren't any better.

pocohantas:


I like as you take talk your mind.

I had to ooh because some of these guys act like fools sometimes. When they hang out with their guys, they order everything without blinking or thinking about bills but once it involves a lady, a prospective life partner, they suddenly become wise. Mtcheww.

Why is it that when am walking on the road and somebody starts looking at me, I immediately forget how to walk?

Brachaa:



Lol.... Funnily enough, when I'm going on a date, the last thing on my mind is food especially if it's someone I really fancy because I'll be filled with the excitement of meeting you. But Truth be told, if I don't fancy you, I'll chop you to stupor so that next time, you won't reason a date with me.lol...

Like seriously ... naa you go run, i look out for such impression, i remember taking a gurl to three eateries in one night naa she dey force say she wan go home, i ended up taking are to a bar ... ordered peppersoup she left to pick a bike what infutriated her d most was i gave no option for take away Brachaa pray u don't jam so crazy lagos boiz o

Sixfeetbelle:


I had to ooh because some of these guys act like fools sometimes. When they hang out with their guys, they order everything without blinking or thinking about bills but once it involves a lady, a prospective life partner, they suddenly become wise. Mtcheww.

I think the concern should be those girls who come along with a whole team because them get plans to deplete the guy’s resources . If malt is what we have on the menu, fine, but trying to limit me to malt because you think I am hungry? Haba! If I am really hungry, I will buy food for myself and buy for him too. Nonsense

Jaqenhghar:

I like me a girl with a healthy appetite so when we are going out to eat I expect her to eat well. Its part of the fun.

When are we going for our own date na?

Sarita01:

Chaii,you no talk am since na,I don finish everything wash pot keep fa.unless u go drink garri

If it's not Ejebu garri I no want

mariahAngel:


Rather, most Nigerian guys have inferiority complex who are ashamed to stay within their means.
They are the ones who make the girls believe they can afford heaven and earth.

Be calming down...

The truth is some ladies can be a mess on a date.... Some won't even strike good conversation, but will come alive when ordering anything edible on the menu..


To some guys it can be a turn off, even if the guy is loaded with cash.

Packaging is important.

SegFault:

just look at this one. Since it is ordinary food pay for yourself.

I won't even go out with someone who sees food as a big deal, now run along boy.
And yes, I can pay for my food.

Wierdceo:
Why is it that when am walking on the road and somebody starts looking at me, I immediately forget how to walk?

can you repeat this statement again?

Liposure:
thats not fair. Awoof de run bele

No be waiting some girls ask o...


Another point is those ones that come to occasion with ghana must go size hand bag, Fear them.. if u make them ushers, ur guests will go home empty stomach...

I wont blame girls for having that mentality. The guyz caused it. A guy needs a girls attention for a date and the next thing he says is let me go and flex you. I have seen guys do this countless times.The girl sees this as an opportunity to plunder. So we guys should change the narrative

armyofone:
Everyone pays for their own meals. Ladies should stop depending on a guy to pay for their lunch or dinner. No free meal in life. You work for your keep!
If guy is insistent of paying, allow him but on condition you will pay for next.

That's not how it works though. If you ask someone out on a date, it's mandatory that you're paying and you announce it. If they decide to reciprocate it, fine, but it's not a must.

Ategberoson:
this thread is for those that take ladies to eatery and fast food on a date, you take her to eatery for a date, what were you expecting?


as for me, I don't have a date outside of my house, if you can't visit me in my house then stay in your house

Hahahahaha . No be lie my guy

lefulefu:
there is hunger in the land
food is expensive
most nigerians cant even eat one square meal a day not to mention 3
so give the babes a break wen dem demand u to feed them on a date
if food was plentiful in naija i dont think girls will be hassling for food on a date

Most Nigerians? Haba!

Too many hungry fools, the worse part is them trying to act posh. I remember meeting up with this biitch at one eatery early this year. After chatting for a while, with laughs and all. She then asked what i wanted from her, i bluntly told her strictly FWB, as i just got of a relationship at the time and was never looking forward to getting into another for a long time.

Her mood changed afterwards and the chat became so boring, i then told her i was not going to stop her if she wanted to leave. Biitch said okay and ended her words with "dont call my number again", in my mind i was like, you just spelt out my intention.

But what surprised me was this biitch had the nerve to still demand tfare, I sha vex drop am 1k, then she left with my hollandia youghurt that i hadn't opened. I was more surprised than angry, I just dey laugh for my mind say hunger dey this land no be small.

jornwhite:




Like seriously ... naa you go run, i look out for such impression, i remember taking a gurl to three eateries in one night naa she dey force say she wan go home, i ended up taking are to a bar ... ordered peppersoup she left to pick a bike what infutriated her d most was i gave no option for take away Brachaa pray u don't jam so crazy lagos boiz o

Lol..

I'm not a hungry lion. So??

The only people who tend to do such to me are my male cousins. As in.. they'll spoil until you beg to go. And they'll still drop you home but shishi, they won't give you. So, I stopped following them out when my teeth began to shift from eating too much of nkwobi and isiewu. Lol..

I fear who no fear Lagos boys o. Those my cousins are something else.

Munzy14:

No be waiting some girls ask o...


Another point is those ones that come to occasion with ghana must go size hand bag, Fear them.. if u make them ushers, ur guests will go home empty stomach...

lol

Openbusiness:
Date or no date, women love food, they love eating, once you understand this, half of your problems with women is already solved If you have cohabited with a woman, you will understand. Dem no dey take food play. To a man, food is just food, food is just a casual thing we do to refresh ourselves. But to a woman, food is life, food is a relationship, food is a culture, it is an art, it is a profession, it is a job, it is a hobby, it is an obsession, it is everything. Women can talk to food . How many times do you see women snapping and posting food on social media, with an invisible caption, 'See the love of my life

women love comfort, and good food is part of comfortable living..


u cracked me with this .

Munzy14:

. Nigerians have converted date to all about food, even on a first date that should be more of interactions and light refreshments..

Forget!

If we're being honest with ourselves, food is a major part of the excitement of the date, apart from the person.
That is why I like white people's mentality. They don't pretend.

Munzy14:

Be calming down...

The truth is some ladies can be a mess on a date.... Some won't even strike good conversation, but will come alive when ordering anything edible on the menu..

Who doesn't like item number 7?

To some guys it can be a turn off, even if the guy is loaded with cash.

Packaging is important.

Gluttony is a big turn off in both men and women.
Moderation is everything.

Sex partner. Not me. Na uni girls na.. Id rather spend on chops and flex,than to give u 20k say i be your bf.i get OP point,but ppl still dey go out on dates 4
dis kind time

Sixfeetbelle:


You missed the point of Op.

You are even ordering barbecue and fish for your sex partner, Op is saying he's not ordering anything food except maybe malt. Like you go to meet someone somewhere and you can't order fish at least? Which kain nonsense thinking is that?

Its not a big deal. I can pay but don't abuse the privilege

armyofone:
Everyone pays for their own meals. Ladies should stop depending on a guy to pay for their lunch or dinner. No free meal in life. You work for your keep!
If guy is insistent of paying, allow him but on condition you will pay for next.

Is it Nigerian women you're telling this one?

It's like you've spent too long with uncle Sam and forgotten how your sisters love to enjoy the life their father could not provide for them.