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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:26pm On Sep 28, 2020
Curvinus:


Layycon's ex's spring to mind here. 30 million quids, a house, a car and fame and they are now starting to emerge from their cocoons.
Yea i noticed that too

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:43pm On Sep 28, 2020

The Red Pill
The Red Pill is in many ways focused on “seeing reality” as is. At the core it is about viewing people’s action and the functionality of society with rational cynicism rather than blind idealism.

The Redpill is counterintuitive to the Blue Pill. Below are some counter Redpill truths:

¶ Be Your Best Self

Michelangelo’s David started out as a chunk of marble, but through hard labor, vision and determination was made into perhaps one of the best known works of art in history.

The idea behind being your best self, is to put work in to improve your self in life. The position being that we are all born as something, it is what we do with it that matters.

Many men can be described as objects at rest in a vacuum, they remain inert until acted upon by an external force. The major difference in mindset between the blue pill and the red pill in this regard, is that while the blue pill judges you for lack of birth, the red pill judges you for lack of action.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:45pm On Sep 28, 2020
¶ A Relationship even with a Good Person is Difficult

Any situation where you have to compromise, argue and agree, as opposed to make your decision yourself is inherently prone to conflict.

There is no need for a sexual relationship to be involved, a business relationship, a friendship, or trying to get 4 of your friends to agree where to go can be a discussion that is fraught with frustration, anger, conflict, disagreements and resentment. Add sex to the mix and you just add another ingredient that can cause conflict.

A relationship where feelings are involved as well as assets, sex, potentially children and a friendship, will by its very nature hold all the ingredients for a very volatile mix, and while both parties may want the same thing, it rarely plays out that way.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:48pm On Sep 28, 2020
¶ The Right Partner Does Not Exist

There is no soul-mate, just as there is no perfect person to hire for a job, or a perfect parent. The danger here is projection and what happens when the halo effect takes over.

Men are very visual, and humans in general have a tendency to over-estimate the good qualities in a person who looks good. So, when a man is in lust, he enters a long term relationship that should have ended with the first orgasm. For many men, their “soul-mate” is the person right then and there he wants most to stick his d1ck into.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:52pm On Sep 28, 2020
¶ The End State Depends on Desire

Society from the day you are born, starts programming you. From the day you are born into the world, the path of “ do well in school, get a good job, find a wife and have children ” is communicated to you both covertly and overtly for most of your life. The Blue Pill framework offers you every answer conveniently wrapped up with a little bow, and sets you “free”.

The Red Pill framework on the other hand gives you few answers, in many ways it only prompts your mind to generate more questions. Whether you find the philosophy because you simply want to get laid more often and with more beautiful women, or because you are barely staying on your feet after a divorce massacre or painful heartbreak , eventually, you will have to generate your own answers.

¶ It Is About What You Can do For Self

The Red pill takes the perspective that each man owes it to himself to strive for his own happiness and aspire to be the best version of himself.

Be this as a father, a worker, a community member, the Red Pill makes no judgement as long as it is congruent with the man’s desire.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:55pm On Sep 28, 2020
¶ Men and Women are Different

This is perhaps one of the cardinal principles of The Red Pill, and as such the reason why books like “ Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus” are printed, why magazines are full of advice columns of the type “100 things men/women look for” keep selling, and why so few men and women understand what women want.

Those who are adherents of “ constructivism ” will argue that this is due to the influence of society and culture. Those who are fans of biology, will advocate that differences are biological.

However, It doesn’t matter whether biology or society creates these differences, what matters is that they are there. One has to live according to what is actually there, not what is ideally there.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:01pm On Sep 28, 2020
Summary
Perhaps the best illustration of the Blue Pill mindset is “ Just be yourself “, the Universe will grant you your dreams, your soul-mate, and all the riches of which you dream.

The Red pill on the other hand, while often viewed as seeing reality for what it is, it is in fact viewing reality without blue pill idealism. The narrative structure of the red pill is best likened to the adventures of Conan The Barbarian , wherein every time the hero finds peacefulness, it is taken from him as he lets his guard down.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:53pm On Sep 28, 2020
We will continue tomorrow

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Re: The Red Truth by Nobody: 10:15pm On Sep 28, 2020
Dpsychologist:
¶ The Right Partner Does Not Exist

There is no soul-mate, just as there is no perfect person to hire for a job, or a perfect parent. The danger here is projection and what happens when the halo effect takes over.

Men are very visual, and humans in general have a tendency to over-estimate the good qualities in a person who looks good. So, when a man is in lust, he enters a long term relationship that should have ended with the first orgasm. For many men, their “soul-mate” is the person right then and there he wants most to stick his d1ck into.

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Re: The Red Truth by TrollKiller(m): 10:50pm On Sep 28, 2020
Great thread
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:21am On Sep 29, 2020
TrollKiller:
Great thread
Thanks bro. Is good to have you here.

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Re: The Red Truth by JustBeingFrank(m): 9:34am On Sep 29, 2020
A message for you today.

https://www.nairaland.com/2705292/seeing-demons- angels-fallen-angels
Re: The Red Truth by drealcivilceno(m): 10:02am On Sep 29, 2020
Dpsychologist:
“ Great politicians, military leaders, businessmen, salesmen to be sure, and of course master PUAs all use covert communications to achieve their goals.


“ People resort to denial when recognizing that the truth would destroy something they hold dear.

THen if you wanna do something right, Then it should be of your own volition.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 2:05pm On Sep 29, 2020
I find it very telling, that among the challenges to the red pill theory, I am yet to see long form criticisms based on established facts when it comes to:

¶ Hypergamy
¶ Briffault’s law
¶ Bateman’s principle and the consequences thereof
Or the many other biological principles that underline the red pill.

The case made against the red pill tends to frequently be based on, ideology, values, morals, emotions, ideals or other intangibles. It is never as part of a search for truth

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Re: The Red Truth by drealcivilceno(m): 2:31pm On Sep 29, 2020
Dpsychologist:
It is a well-established mantra throughout the manosphere that the more partners a woman has had, the less capable she is of bonding romantically to any future partner. This is great if you want casual sex but it’s bad if you actually want to be in love/start a family.

And also not taking care of her children properly.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 2:34pm On Sep 29, 2020
drealcivilceno:

And also not taking care of her children properly.
Thats a very good point, i didn't even thought of that.

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Re: The Red Truth by drealcivilceno(m): 2:42pm On Sep 29, 2020
drealcivilceno:


And also not taking care of her children properly.

Not to blow the whistle hard (SexEd)....

If you are a one minute or 24 hours man, to please her is not your business, (she has had sex severally or she will have anytime she wants), just enjoy yourself while you can.

Just like in life, she is just there for the ride (in your own car).

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Re: The Red Truth by drealcivilceno(m): 3:23pm On Sep 29, 2020
Dpsychologist:
Once a boy in his adolescence develops an interest in the opposite sex, he will seek out information to figure out what to do.

He will be inclined to observe countless romantic movies, or he may ask his sister(s), or other female relatives, or his peers who are also clueless.

If he is lucky enough to have a father or other male role-model he may ask them and they may diverge him from simphood.

However, If he is not lucky, he is in for many years of misery until he finds the truth.

Chai this life.

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Re: The Red Truth by drealcivilceno(m): 4:18pm On Sep 29, 2020
Asekhamid:


Any man who loves his mother more than his father is purely a simp
I love my parents the same and give them equal treatment..
Yes my mum gave birth and nurtured me,but my father made a lot of sacrifices for me(he sold his only car just to pay my first year school fees)
I see men always choosing their mum over their dad and I just believe the feminists agenda is really taking over the World.
if you love your mum more than your dad then you will value pussy over your friends and that will be the start of your downfall..
i Love and cherish my parents equally

I cannot love a bloody simp;

when all he taught me was how to simp,
beat me when I corrected my sister,
told me that we were equal, downgraded me in front of any one and everyone the slightest chance he had privately and publicly( feminine traits), could not lift me when I was weak,
maybe pitied me when I was sick but forced me to take drugs, and called me weak,
gave me the name ARTHUR(wtf),
and still had the guts to kick the bucket when i was 17-when i just started seeing life.

I love my mom more, even if she did not teach on how be a man but at least, she did not judge me. I will not lie, she is a handful but my dad was not to leave my juvenile ass hanging from a gallow.

Although, d man gave took me to expensive schools and provided some things but he still needs to apologize... Spare me that he does not own my life anymore but i have been scarred by father not out of love but being a simpleton.

The best knowledge you can give to a male child, is to be content with your life (success of failure) but never be satisfied, NEVER, The guy did not even tell me that, just they put me for cruise (you better be the best/first or you have failed).

Men train your boys to be Kings, Kings who will live their youth thanking the Almighty Father that their fathers was a god.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 6:11pm On Sep 29, 2020
drealcivilceno:

Chai this life.
E no balance grin abi

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 6:33pm On Sep 29, 2020
Lets roll shall we
Re: The Red Truth by Joker09(m): 6:49pm On Sep 29, 2020
Dpsychologist:
Lets roll shall we

Yes, let's roll..
You're making a lot of sense.
Re: The Red Truth by drLammy(m): 8:18pm On Sep 29, 2020
I go like know this Bateman principle abeg
Re: The Red Truth by Nobody: 8:33pm On Sep 29, 2020
Dpsychologist:

– Never elevate a woman beyond your station, should you help a woman to improve herself, ensure it is not to the extent she surpasses you. As the late and great Patrice O’Neal would fondly assert, a king can make a woman queen, but a queen cannot make a king. Even as esteemed as the position of queen is, it’s still beneath that of king, and this dynamic plays out universally in male-female relationships.


i wanna encourage u guys to go to YouTube and listen to the late Patrice O'Neal.. the guy is one of the greatest to ever dish out the redpill.. and he is blunt as hell

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Re: The Red Truth by CosmicPhoenix: 8:44pm On Sep 29, 2020
is there a channel where all his red pill videos are?

michaelandre:
i wanna encourage u guys to go to YouTube and listen to the late Patrice O'Neal.. the guy is one of the greatest to ever dish out the redpill.. and he is blunt as hell
Re: The Red Truth by Vecto(m): 9:01pm On Sep 29, 2020
Dpsychologist:

– Never elevate a woman beyond your station, should you help a woman to improve herself, ensure it is not to the extent she surpasses you. As the late and great Patrice O’Neal would fondly assert, a king can make a woman queen, but a queen cannot make a king. Even as esteemed as the position of queen is, it’s still beneath that of king, and this dynamic plays out universally in male-female relationships.



Treat her like she wears a crown and she shall treat you as a clown.

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Re: The Red Truth by maak400: 9:02pm On Sep 29, 2020
CosmicPhoenix:
is there a channel where all his red pill videos are?

Coach Red Pill channel


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nIXFd0p-bhU

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Re: The Red Truth by Skepticus: 9:18pm On Sep 29, 2020
Dpsychologist:
Mehnnnnn!
I am just coming out from ban a 2nd time.

The CANCEL culture here is real. I also faced the same with comments to help brothers, deleted.

It's got nothing to do with any anti-spam bot.

It's either a simp male mod or some cheeky female mod doing it.

I'm afraid threads with red pill contents may be deleted anytime soon.

Do well to archive the knowledge here to be shared on a private blog or some alternative medium free from the prying eyes of the mainstream.

You are spitting good red pill content. Thumbs up!

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:23pm On Sep 29, 2020
drLammy:

I go like know this Bateman principle abeg
I talked about it extensively earlier, go to page 2 you will see it.
Re: The Red Truth by Nobody: 9:25pm On Sep 29, 2020
Dpsychologist:
She will forget everything the man did to assist her ascension, attributing all credit for her accomplishments to herself whilst allocating blame for her imperfections to her man.
same thing tacha did.. she literally said nobody helped her even when people like jaruma and many others invested in her. thats women for us... pls guys let's share this knowledge with our sons, brothers and friends.. we all have to he emancipated

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:26pm On Sep 29, 2020
39.) BACKSLIDING ; THE PURPLE PILL

In The Matrix: Cypher was willing to betray and kill his friends in the hope of returning to a cozy, simulated reality(Blue Pill world).

When I wrote the blue and red pill dichotomy, the goal was to identify the mutual exclusivity of the two frameworks. I deliberately left out the purple pill, as it requires its own SECTION due to the fact that it appears to contradict the mutual exclusivity that was outlined earlier.

In a sense, once a man learns red pill knowledge, it is impossible to return to the Matrix without significant dissonance, unlike Cypher, there is simply no way to have your mind wiped clean of all aspects of the red pill.

It may be suppressed for a time, or channeled through a defense mechanism or two , but the idealism that is required for a true blue pill fantasy is gone and what remains is merely a hollow shell.

The purple pill is somewhat of an amalgamate of The Blue Pill and the Red Pill. In a sense they are Cypher, aware of the truth but with a deep desire to return to the the dream.—Dpsychologist

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Re: The Red Truth by CosmicPhoenix: 9:29pm On Sep 29, 2020
i'm not talking about CRP
maak400:
Coach Red Pill channel

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nIXFd0p-bhU

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