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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:30pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Skepticus:Bro, i have been thinking about that for a while. This contents are esoteric. I got banned close to 10times on this thread. I had to complain before i was unbanned indefinitely. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Red Truth by hahn(m): 9:35pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: Why don't you create a downloadable pdf ebook for the red pill? I can create a blog if you are interested. At a fee of course 1 Like |
Re: The Red Truth by Skepticus: 9:36pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: I'm not surprised. You are sharing valuable knowledge that will last the whole of humanity and these butthurt females know the consequences of liberating men. They are taking note of red pill activities in the romance section and reporting monikers. Do well to archive all the red pill nuggets as quick as possible. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:36pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Vecto:Exactly. Treat her like a celebrity and she treats you like a fan. BTW I like the rhymes 5 Likes |
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:37pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
hahn:I think that will be the solution. 2 Likes |
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:51pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Skepticus:Since i got my first ban, i have started backing up everything. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:01pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
THE PURPLE PILL The purple pill is a position that seeks to enable a man to have the blue pill fantasy, while remaining red pill. In essence leveraging his red pill knowledge in order to experience the blue pill fantasy. The Purple Pill is a euphemism for men who’ve become Red Pill aware, but for a variety of insecurities have decided to temper the uncomfortable truths of that awareness with their previous Blue Pill hopes. The harsh, ugly truths that the nature of women, the nature of Hypergamy and the natural selection process of intersexual dynamics presents to these guys becomes too much to bear. There’s a want for some sort of Red Pill solution in achieving Blue Pill fantasized goals. Learn this now, you will never achieve contentment or emotional fulfillment in a blue pill context with red pill awareness. —Rollo Tomassi Just like the Blue Pill-Red Pill dichotomy, here are views of Purple Pill: 3 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:16pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
¶ Perfect one for you Central to the blue pill fantasy is the idea of there being a “ one “, a perfect partner who fulfills your every need. However, Purple Pill is also of the notion that through being Redpill one can find the perfect partner. Leaving out the part where perfection is a human conception that has no place in reality, and if it did would at best exist in a moment by moment basis, there is no such thing as a perfect partner. Someone may be a better fit for you than another, in transient moments it may feel as they are perfect but this is an illusion. A man cannot at the same time accept AWALT and view his partner in the manner required for the blue pill. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Red Truth by Nobody: 10:18pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Dpsychologist:I learnt a lot from my fathers story my dad is a very redpill man.. he has gone through life the hard way his mum gave birth to him young and so she abandoned him for his dad and went away.. and his dad married another wife who suffered him till he left home at the age of 16.. and his first child at 18.. and he has a total of eight children he only married my mum who gave birth to 3 children.. my dad is more like a love-vendor. my mum puts him first before anyone in this world even before us.. my dad practices 98% of everything u mentioned here... he treats my mum lesser than him my mum respect him like god.. she provides everything for him happily just like a love-vendor. I fought my dad because of her before but my mum nearly disowned me I won't forget when she said "its better for her to die on the hands of my father than anywhere else" although my dad has never touched her physically but he makes her go through sivere emotional rollercoaster which has made her addicted to him.. I love my dad with all my heart because of how emotionally strong he is.. a celebrity that is has similarities with my dad is NBA youngboy.. they talk there mind and don't go down for anyone 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:19pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
¶ Be Your Best Self So You Can Just Be Yourself The Red Pill position is that all men should strive to be their best selves and the blue pill position that men should just be themselves. However, the purple pill positions itself somewhere between these two points, usually with the position that a man should strive to make himself as alpha as possible, in order to facilitate an aspect of being able to be himself. This is reminiscent of the old school pick up artists, who rather than seek to become high value men, would become really good at appearing as high value men. With somewhat disastrous results. It will also create issues as your frame will be non-congruent, as it requires a degree of self-control and conscious presence that is non-sustainable over a long period of time. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Red Truth by Nobody: 10:21pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
michaelandre:pls anywhere u see love-vendor its p'imp 2 Likes |
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:22pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
michaelandre:Mehn this is deep. As you can see women love a dominant man. I will leave you with this quote. If you let yourself to be a push over, its game over —Dpsychologist 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:37pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
¶ Men and Women are Different and Once You Know, You Can Handle That This mirrors the red pill to quite a large degree. However, the assumption that this gives control is flawed. The fact that one knows which variables exist, does not mean that one can control or predict their effects or their inter-dependencies. A lack of control is not the most dangerous, an illusion of control is. If one is aware that one has no control, it is likely that risk management is employed to reduce probability of threats and lessen their impact. If one thinks that the threats are under control, then it is likely that risk management will be neglected. Being red pill aware, and thus knowing of hypergamy, solipsism and so on, does not translate into control over their effects. Perhaps it may serve to reduce the risk of failure somewhat, but that it does not reduce the impact of the risk, merely the probability. In fact, the perception of control and risk management may in and of itself lead to higher risk exposure as a result of underestimating the risk of the event in question. You have little control over what happens the day your submissive, traditional, red pill wife gets a new alpha boss, or gets influenced negatively by her girlfriends. Picking a woman with a good history, young, with the right personality and character traits is a good risk-reduction strategy, but does not totally eliminate risk. I’ve been very entertained by the men who go off to a young girl from the village for marriage, who is then rapidly corrupted the second she spends time with City women. 10 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:38pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
¶ The End-State is a Monogamous Relationship with Children and a Job This is one of the shared views between the blue pill and the purple pill. From my perspective, this is a flawed view, however, I also think that the end-state a man desires for himself, is his choice and his decision as long as he has educated himself on alternative options. The trouble with blue pill men is that they cannot see beyond their social programming and thus fail to see alternate avenues of accomplishment, a purple pill man so far as he has explored his options is perfectly qualified to make such a decision. 3 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:39pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
¶ It is What You Can Do For Yourself and Others The Red pill is based around looking out for number 1, while the blue pill is sacrificing oneself for the benefit of others. The purple pill seeks to strike a balance between self and others. One cannot be both at the same time and thus this play has to be based on average behaviors over time. One cannot be a narcissistic supplicant, these two are opposites, it is as if one were to try to both consume and invest the same N10 000, it is impossible. 3 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 11:05pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
We have come a long way in our discussion of the red pill. However, this is just the beginning. 1 Like |
Re: The Red Truth by Fvcknigga: 11:06pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Dpsychologist:wait so you think the purple pill is backsliding?? |
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 11:12pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Fvcknigga:The Backsliding is just an illustration to depict the purple pill. After taking the Redpill one still wants to go back to the Blue Pill fantasy using Redpill knowledge. |
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 11:29pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
Let me see if i can summarize all the sections |
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 11:43pm On Sep 29, 2020 |
QUESTION OF THE DAY So far, what is your most eye opening topic on this thread? |
Re: The Red Truth by Nobody: 12:14am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: still gathering the key points - there is a sense that the RedPill has undergone adaptive augmentation through the emergence of the Binary gender and the dilution of the "accepted" Male persona over the centuries.. perhaps some comfort pill or dampener 1 Like |
Re: The Red Truth by Nobody: 12:18am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Dpsychologist:I will never forgive wikihow I swear... It almost made me a simp.. My first ever relationship the girl initiated it. She was calling me everyday so I started liking her. Then she started complaining that I didn't like her so I started following wikihow that's the relationship started crumbling. Although I broke up with her but I did it out of the last pride I had left it was painful but. If my father wasn't a simp I won't be either.. I thank God for having a strong man as a father 9 Likes |
Re: The Red Truth by drealcivilceno(m): 12:33am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: Omo no for No 1, I loose that sometimes... Well I'm working on it. I don't wanna give excuses but when you are working with a woman and she is your boss, that energy can also be transferred to other stuff, which can lead to No 9 sometimes. Although when I catch myself doing that, trust me they will always test to see if you will react and when you do then will use it to crucify when you fail, so I just deepen my voice and raise my shoulders and kind use short sentences. Can you explain 5 and 8 1 Like |
Re: The Red Truth by Skepticus: 7:10am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: Pornography which can be addictive too, gave men some measure of freedom in getting access to and enjoying sex in culture where almost everything is rigged against them. Hugh Hefner, one of the pioneers of soft porn once said it that the greatest opposition he faced being in pornography wasn't from conservative religious groups, but from liberal feminists who have advocated for women's freedom through nudity etc. I believe that the feminists were pissed that the new freedom women found for themselves in displaying their bodies on magazines and having sex in front of a camera gave easier access to sex for men. Lol 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:44am On Sep 30, 2020 |
Skepticus: Mehnnnnn Hugh Hefner is a Legend. He is the most successful playboy in 20th century. He is a businessman and at the same had alot of orgies. He was able to convince the cold hearted Marilyn Monroe to appear nude in his playboy magazine. 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: The Red Truth by drealcivilceno(m): 9:51am On Sep 30, 2020 |
¶ Iron Rule of Tomassi #5 NEVER allow a woman to be in control of the birth. ¶ Iron Rule of Tomassi #8 Always let a woman figure out why she wont ƒuck you, never do it for her. @ Dpsychologist, Can you elucidate abeg! 1 Like |
Re: The Red Truth by Nobody: 10:07am On Sep 30, 2020 |
dpsychologist thanks for this eye opener.. although I wasn't a simp before but I am not 100% an alpha male. many girls are attracted to me cus of my looks but moving forward with some girls was kinda hard. and this thread has really opened my eyes more.. I messaged u on WhatsApp pls come online l 1 Like |
Re: The Red Truth by solonubinho(m): 11:19am On Sep 30, 2020 |
johnwaya: They are talking truth, you are talking international number. Will you geddifok! 2 Likes |
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 3:47pm On Sep 30, 2020 |
drealcivilceno: Do not leave birth control to the hands of a woman. There is a level of power that the woman holds when she is controlling the contraceptive. When in a long term relationship this is when you need extra precautions, as “accidental pregnancy” will lead to complexities. Let tge birth control be in your hands e.g Use Condom. Some ladies may be planning to trap you with Pregnancy.
The statement is an illustration of hypergamy. It is her who chooses you. A woman will always go for a guy who is equal or higher in SMV. The complex nature of hypergamy allows woman to be the primary sexual selector, her sexual strategy will lean towards her own attractiveness which allows for her to choose from the best males available to satisfy that strategy. 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 3:56pm On Sep 30, 2020 |
Skepticus:I remember when sexbot was the top of the day, ladies were pissed off. Some were even clamouring for his arrest. 2 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 3:59pm On Sep 30, 2020 |
drealcivilceno:As i once said TRP is like an upgrade of human software to Man:v2.0, it may be challenging at first but you will get used to it. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:03pm On Sep 30, 2020 |
michaelandre:Lol wikihow is good when it comes to other stuff which i really learned from but when it comes to relationship its bullshiT. 5 Likes |
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