ogohiochola:
My friend and his wife got married since 2015 and the Marriage is blessed with 4 Children but there's no True love, he feels nothing for her and she's like a stranger.

What can he do?

Love is NOT a feeling!
Love is a CHOICE!

Tell him to do the needful

Olarewaju89:


Haba... You shouldn't have called me an idiot.

Anyway, prayer will make her to be more closer to God and from there she will understand where she or her husband have got it wrong in the marriage.

Thank you bro.

No vex bro!

Ahmed0336:
he feels nothing and they're blessed with children?

how comes him pen!s dey erect

Guy between 1am- 5am, feelings do not count, most especially those ladies that sleep naked

Damikjay:
married for 5years with 4 children already, shey na every year the woman dey born, or are they quadruplet.
and as for the man,he as seen everything finish now he is tired, he want fresh fish, because I don't see a reason u should marry someone u don't love wen it is not on a contract basis.

He should tell us about the new Lady he met outside and stop telling us APC story

Damikjay:
married for 5years with 4 children already, shey na every year the woman dey born, or are they quadruplet.
and as for the man,he as seen everything finish now he is tired, he want fresh fish, because I don't see a reason u should marry someone u don't love wen it is not on a contract basis.

guy according to me oo.
I feel the man married the because of beauty, ass or manchester or even fine shape.
But now the manchester don fall, she no fine again and ass dont look attractive again and now he was to end the marriage... .

...this is what happens when boys and girls get married...

Ahmed0336:
he feels nothing and they're blessed with children?

how comes him pen!s dey erect

I wonder o..

shadeyinka:

Love is NOT a feeling!
Love is a CHOICE!

Tell him to do the needful

What is the needful?? Divorce??

ofiko123:


What is the needful?? Divorce??

If love is a choice. Then he should grow up and choose to love his wife. Even if he marries 20 wives without understanding this, he is still back to square one.
Divorce after 4 children based on lack of love is a hight of ignorance and insensitivity to the effects of one's choices.

He was the one who asked this woman to marry him wasn't he?

ogohiochola:
My friend and his wife got married since 2015 and the Marriage is blessed with 4 Children but there's no True love, he feels nothing for her and she's like a stranger.

What can he do?

2015

4 children

Shey Dem born twins 2 times or triplet and one or Quadruplet?

It's so hilarious for a marriage of 5years

Obierika:
The earlier we re-embrace polygamy in Africa the better for us.

This type of situation will not arise if the man has more than one wife because he will be eating a different 'soup' everyday

Idiot! Just look at his nonsense talk.
Hjo de Puta!I wasn't expecting a brilliant opinion, so no qualms. Stupidity is your Default state.

Wild Mountain Gigolo!

The hormones don't fight.

Nuttella:
It's indeed a wonder.

Ahmed0336:
he feels nothing and they're blessed with children?

how comes him pen!s dey erect

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frozen70:


They should focus on their children whom they brought to the this earth

The love was never there from on set, probably they married out of pity or sentiments

Buttresses the point - "marry your friend"

ogohiochola:
My friend and his wife got married since 2015 and the Marriage is blessed with 4 Children but there's no True love, he feels nothing for her and she's like a stranger.

What can he do?

Has to carry his burden and live with it. He made a DECISION from the beginning that may not have been the best to make so now has to face the consequences of that decision....

CalvinGaye:


Idiot! Just look at his nonsense talk.
Hjo de Puta!I wasn't expecting a brilliant opinion, so no qualms. Stupidity is your Default state.

Wild Mountain Gigolo!

Hungry rat!

This is what happens when data is made so cheap...lousy bastards like you will also think the have an opinion

Smelly sewer rat!

Op this ur story get K leg with little or no explanation from you. No love between them and they have 4 kids??







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Obierika:


Hungry rat!

This is what happens when data is made so cheap...lousy bastards like you will also think the have an opinion

Smelly sewer rat!

Hahaha! E pain you die ABI?

Cocksucking Asslicker! You wey get data money, u no see rich forums like Quora and Reddit go dey?? Na nairaland you follow me come chillax for.
Common getaway jhoor!!!
Stupid Polygamous Mountain Gigolo
Circumsiced Bastardo!

virginprincess:
Nonsense, very soon he will start cheating on his wife.

That is if he has not started already.....
Think back to the beginning and find out what the issue is, then try to make conscious efforts to revive the union....

ogohiochola:
My friend and his wife got married since 2015 and the Marriage is blessed with 4 Children but there's no True love, he feels nothing for her and she's like a stranger.

What can he do?

Op are you sure you are not the one? All these my friend this, my friend that. Op never leave your wife, pray to God to renew the love you once had for her

As calabar boy wey i be... I must say that this is another nollywood fake story. 4kids in 5years well i will advice you go and re-write the story maybe some folks will believe you as 4 me i dont give a Bleep.

virginprincess:
Really, and the people they are cheating with, are they animals? are they not men.

i don't intend to cheat on my wife eventually i get married & i believe i'm speaking the mind of every man. Men have good intentions but their spouse make them have a change of mind

RedPhoenix:



Help him by marrying him

bad guy.......

ogohiochola:
My friend and his wife got married since 2015 and the Marriage is blessed with 4 Children but there's no True love, he feels nothing for her and she's like a stranger.

What can he do?

4 children in 5 yrs? there was obviously no time to bond na. Each pregnancy is 9 months ooo

Kelvin30286063:
He feels nothing yet he got her pregnant 4 times! Sorry to say but your friend is crazy.
So if you feel nothing for someone, the way you will show it is by bleeping her and making her give you 4 babies. Your friend should just say he is tired of bleeping a woman with 4 kids.

On a different note, here is an advice to ladies out there, if you know you want to have more than 2 kids, make sure you have C-section in some. Having many babies through your V will render it useless for the man you want to spend the rest of your life with. Especially when you have 4 babies in 4 years like our dear op's friend

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There is no advice and I repeat no advice that will change him from cheating as the fingers on the wall is already clear. peeps like this end up causing marital issues upan dan
DEAR LORD MAY I NOT BE LIKE THIS MAN

Ahmed0336:
he feels nothing and they're blessed with children?

how comes him pen!s dey erect

love nd s!x r two different things

ogohiochola:
My friend and his wife got married since 2015 and the Marriage is blessed with 4 Children but there's no True love, he feels nothing for her and she's like a stranger.

What can he do?

This here, is the mindset of a perpetual fornicator/adulterer who thought that, by getting married he can change his ways, obviously he's tired of sticking with one woman. A leopard can never change its skin. Something tells me the bastard is already cheating on his wife. May God punish him, if he does that.

apatheticme:


Women have really suffered in the hands of Nigerian men! This is a new low!!

So the only advice you could give is for women to subject their body to a demanding surgery both metabolically, mentally and physically (asides the rigors of pregnancy she has faced up to that point, coupled with the new challenges of being a mother, breastfeeding, sleepless nights etc).

And she should undergo this surgery for the flimsy reason just to please her husband so that he won't cheat,not because of labor complications or other obstetric emergencies!!! But just to please you people.

I thought men in our parents generation were worse, the males in this generation (going by the shitty comments one sees on nairaland toxicland these days) are definitely gonna be the worst!

I don't blame people like you, I blame those emotionally drab clingy Broke girls and women who cling to men with warped minds for a life. Its majorly because they've got nothing going on in their lives except marriage.

Let me see the man that will come and tell me to do C-section so that his tiny dicck can still fit, he will not know what hit him. And as for the threat of cheating, he should bloody hell go ahead.

I don't know where y'all get off thinking you have the right to tell a woman what to do with her life every fuvking time just because y'all are born with a dick.

Every time, y'all evade responsibility! Hypocritical beings called men!!! Birth control, mbanu; stay faithful, never. But the woman should be the puppet to be turned into whatever suits you people's fancy abi? She's blamed for EVERYTHING, even for a man's misfortuned life! Husband cheats, she's the reason, kids are wayward, she's the reason. She's Broke with no job, she's a gold digger; she's a career woman with money contributing her quota at home, she's too proud and controlling. She decides to be a virgin and keep herself for marriage, she's too uptight or she's a liar, another guy is shining her Congo somewhere; she decides to sleep around, she's a prostitute, her pusssy is slack, nobody will marry her. She's educated, don't marry her oh guys, you won't be able to control her; she's uneducated, treat her like trash oh, she's dependent on my money, I am the one doing everything etc.... The list is endless, the wailing and hypocrisy especially on this hate forum is alarmingly annoying!

God punish all the misogynistic males on this forum and in real life.

Come to think of it, so all the women who delivered via C-section (either EMCS or ELCS) have husband's who are 100% faithful to them?? Nonsense!

My message is not for broke couples. If you know you can afford a decent hospital where you will have a scarless modern CS done, your headache.

Kelvin30286063:


My message is not for broke couples. If you know you can afford a decent hospital where you will have a scarless modern CS done, your headache.

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