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Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by Mrscarter(f): 8:50am On Oct 30, 2020 |
MightySparrow: Wow. How can U do that to anyone when they're going thru loss n grief at that! I couldn't be so heartless. I would let them keep it all if was me n my brother. So a man's family only matters when he's alive? |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by Mrscarter(f): 8:51am On Oct 30, 2020 |
LobsanRampa: Maybe he wasn't that sick when She left? Maybe he encouraged her to go? I guess no one knows but her n him. However his kids shouldn't have to beg 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by thorpido(m): 8:51am On Oct 30, 2020 |
Cantonese:Oga read the English well.There's nowhere in her statement that she travelled when her husband was in crisis. 2 Likes |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by Breadnote: 8:53am On Oct 30, 2020 |
sad news |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by Nobody: 9:02am On Oct 30, 2020 |
sammirano3:education exposes one to the fact that blind stereotypes and tribal prejudice are dangerous. Despite your education so to say, you still dwell in the caveman mentality of tribal jingoism, den you've a long way to go. Funny enough, you're yet to hear from the husband's family and what transpired before condemning. Learn to hear from both sides B4 jumping into hasty conclusion. |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by gbowoade85142: 9:03am On Oct 30, 2020 |
Igbos and snatching of properties from their deceased brother's widows are like 5&6. Tufia. |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by Newton85: 9:07am On Oct 30, 2020 |
Even before I opened the link, I knew the husband's family must be Igbo. These people and their barbaric, money-obsessed culture will never fail. 1 Like |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by Newton85: 9:16am On Oct 30, 2020 |
IkpuNnegiEwu44: Typical Igbo man. You people never change. Always blaming others and never taking any responsibility for their wickedness. As if an Igbo girl didn't make a Twitter thread just last week talking about what his father's family are doing to her mum and her children. Nitwit! 2 Likes |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by whirlwind7(m): 9:41am On Oct 30, 2020 |
JidennaJason: Long story that would have been avoided if the chronically sick man had made a will and left instructions with his lawyer. It is a simple enough thing, but we seem to not appreciate the importance of making wills before death comes knocking. |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by coolsegun2002: 9:50am On Oct 30, 2020 |
Midas01: If you don’t , that’s an indication you are the one who killed your husband...double wahala!!! |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by Rossycee(f): 9:50am On Oct 30, 2020 |
OkoNDOoBo:Lies.. That practice is only in few parts and most people have abolished that tradition while the wise ones buy properties in their children's name. Where i come from such doesn't exist. A father can even will part of his property to his daughter. |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by ayomipoosi: 9:52am On Oct 30, 2020 |
those of you saying ibo this, ibo that... stop please! she left her husband to be with her mum when she was pregnant right? and the husband had chronic ulcer.. in other words, he was sick. don't you think this lady abandoned her sick husband and went to be with her mum using pregnancy as a cover up? for the sibblings to take the man to a hospital, and he died there yet she was not aware, does it not tell you something is wrong somewhere? Have you ever thought of what would have triggered the sibblings anger? she should tell us all that happened and not give us a loopsided story to get sympathy. for your information, i am ibo by marriage. not newly married o! satisfyingly married. proud to say that. By God's grace, my kid sis koyinsola is joining me. i dont hate tribe, i do individual. If i was hating tribe, i wouldn't have been in this heaven on earth called ''my marriage''. my parents eyes have opened. They will be spending the christmas holiday with my parents inlaw, yes! in my husband's village in imo state. This is the second time they will be visiting the east in their life. We may not have plenty money, but we are very happy together. The stage has been set, everything ready. 1 Like |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by coolsegun2002: 9:55am On Oct 30, 2020 |
sylve11: The reason is simple and stupid at the same time though....it’s to keep the wealth in the family. .... the widow will marry another man, that’s how the wealth eventually walks into another man’s hands .. that’s the same reason they don’t allow their female inherit too, because she’ll eventually marry and change name... |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by AfroKnight: 9:56am On Oct 30, 2020 |
We keep hearing of things like this every year because some igbo men do not protect their wives and children from relatives. Write your will and let everybody know that your wife is your next of kin. Make sure they respect her in your presence. Not long ago we read the story of a lady who’s father’s burial was “hijacked” by her relatives. By now some evil practices should have faded away. This is 2020 for crying out loud. |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by coolsegun2002: 9:59am On Oct 30, 2020 |
Mrscarter: It’s their tradition....the woman ddnt have boys to make matters worse........they don’t even allow their own women inherit her father’s property late alone a Yoruba wife wey no born Ronaldo.. |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by shilz(f): 10:04am On Oct 30, 2020 |
Even if oga says don't work LAHOR,EJOR,BIKO get something doing. 1 Like |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by edoairways: 10:07am On Oct 30, 2020 |
JidennaJason:Abduction and seizing of properties in this case has nothing to do with tribe 2 Likes |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by loveth360(f): 10:09am On Oct 30, 2020 |
Lagoon0:You know nothing about IGBO culture. Practice yours and allow us practice ours in peace. |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by delpee(f): 10:18am On Oct 30, 2020 |
DiscoverID: Let's consider the fact that not all Igbos will do this. Even the Uncle spoke up for them. Bad people will always find a reason to mess up. It's not necessarily a tribal issue. |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by jrusky(m): 10:28am On Oct 30, 2020 |
Madam don't be surprise that is my own people for you even to a fellow Igbo woman they will do same even worst talkless of you a Yoruba woman. Sorry madam you have entered one chance. You are even lucky they never ask you to drink wash off water from your husband dead body. My friend aunt saw hell in the same situation despite they are both from same region. I can never advice any non igbo lady to marry igbo man if the man mistakenly die you will regret your life. Its my tribe but very painful character and so ugly norm. Truth hurt them that is why they hate me but I don't give a damn. My take is give woman a chance, stop treating woman like thrash when it comes to property. Its a ugly societal inequality and unfair J have bruised their heads this morning. |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by Amhappy(f): 10:30am On Oct 30, 2020 |
Some widows flip stories around for sympathy. I remember the kind of lies my late uncle wife spread about my family when he died. My dad totally ignored her and made no trouble. But today everybody knows the truth about her. Despite anything the woman did wrong, the man's siblings should have allowed her access to his body, burial and his property. She's his wife and if you love your brother,you will not destroy his family. Love forgives all wrong. Unnecessary bickering destroys generations. |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by Mrscarter(f): 10:36am On Oct 30, 2020 |
coolsegun2002: Still even in death a man cares wat happens to his family |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by Lucyspa: 10:37am On Oct 30, 2020 |
Cantonese: It's clear that you don't understand English. She said that she was pregnant then travelled to stay with her mom in Ondo state. The husband then had a crisis because of his ulcer and family came to take him away to an unknown location. If u read without being bias, u will understand that she is what she said. Before you quote me chatting shit know that I am from Orumba North local Govt, Agbiligba Nanka, Nanka in Anambra state. 1 Like |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by Lucyspa: 10:38am On Oct 30, 2020 |
thorpido: True... Dont mind these bias illiterates. |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by Lucyspa: 10:40am On Oct 30, 2020 |
Midas01: They don't drink water anymore but they still shave their heads. |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by Nobody: 10:43am On Oct 30, 2020 |
Igbo Amaka and their disdain for women's rights. |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by nick50(m): 10:53am On Oct 30, 2020 |
your husband must have seized and refuse to share his father's property amongst his siblings when he was alive reason why the seized n took it away from u guys when he died..u and ur children refused to tell ur husband the truth when he was alive now karma has visited u.. enjoy!! |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by MyChoice1: 10:54am On Oct 30, 2020 |
IkpuNnegiEwu44: Exactly my line of thought too, but I saw people being carried away by ethnic sentiment. How could you abandon your sick husband to go and stay with your mother, for how long? You mentioned you were told he died in 2018 whereas the twins you went to have are already set to go to USA on scholarship, University or what? That clearly means that you continued to stay away even after having the twins, so it's to come and claim properties you're after, right? Where is your conscience woman?! Being married is more than having kids with your partner, love, care, loyalty and companionship are prerequisites 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by Nobody: 11:00am On Oct 30, 2020 |
whirlwind7: correct, but some greedy in-laws can still contest a will, it takes a strong woman to fend off in-laws like these, if the man were a poor man non of this fracas would happen. |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by MightySparrow: 11:14am On Oct 30, 2020 |
Mrscarter:Honestly, I really pitied the helpless woman. 1 Like |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by xjiggy: 11:17am On Oct 30, 2020 |
dadavivo:My brother nothing is too small. What if the cars are worth millions. That will cover visas for the twins and also help in the education of others if placed in a child education account where only school fees can be deducted. That will go a long way in alleviating her suffering. |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by ransomed: 11:25am On Oct 30, 2020 |
loveth360:. Are you daft? She went to take care of her pregnancy and before she could return the man was gone. She gave the history of the late husband's ailment and all you could gather was gold digging. If the man had been your brother, you would have done worst than the usurpers. Apri ogologi... 1 Like |
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