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Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by TheMostComplex1: 11:25am On Oct 30, 2020 |
IkpuNnegiEwu44: Though I don't support the children of the man being left to suffer but it seems the woman abandoned the man while he was sick |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by NoToPile: 11:26am On Oct 30, 2020 |
thorpido: Lool you even have time to explain, they didn't see the part where she was pregnant with twins and needed to be taken care of too. They should continue justifying barbaric acts of their people. Let them continue. |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by NoToPile: 11:29am On Oct 30, 2020 |
Cantonese: Why did you omit the pregnant with twins part? And you just assumed he didn't develop the sickness after she left. Nawa |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by notoriousbabe: 11:54am On Oct 30, 2020 |
This kind of nonsense is so common among the Igbos, they always put eyes on their late brothers' properties not minding what happens to his wife and children |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by Glare247(m): 11:55am On Oct 30, 2020 |
IkpuNnegiEwu44:Trash |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by Zion63(f): 12:05pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
Midas01: |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by bigiyaro(m): 12:10pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
I entered to check the region, I was not disappointed, easterners be waiting for their relatives to die and pounces on their properties like vultures waiting for dead meat. |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by Odidigboigbo(m): 12:10pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
Cantonese:You lied, the whole worlds knows that it is only Igbos that extended families drag properties with nuclear families. Don't try to cover-up, you people should change your ways. |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by Cantonese: 12:23pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
thorpido: Reading through her petition, can you not safely say that she was aware of her husband's health condition while she was away? She said "my husband had been taken away to an unknown location, because he had a crisis". Assumimg the crisis developed while she was in Ondo state, what did she do? Truly no good woman fails to ensure the well being of her husband, but in this case I can safely say there was an existing feud. Do you know that chronic ulcer is a very dangerous medical condition that needs serious attention? Women are known to label their husband's families bad names when such things happen. 1 Like |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by loveth360(f): 12:26pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
ransomed:Then why did her yoruba people no give her landed properties. 1 Like |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by Cantonese: 12:48pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
Lucyspa: Thank you my English teacher. "Chatting shit" depicts improper mannerism in a public forum as this. I perceive Nanka people to be very brutal as I had a bitter first hand experience with the a Nanka lady in such a matter 10 years ago, with the loss of a young man very close to me. I've not looked at the matter from with a bias, if you look at my comments carefully. You agreed with the lady's story, hook, line and sinker without taking your time to think about the extremes in such issues. I looked at the extremes on the basis of experience. Women give wrong information in such matters to make their husband's families look like the devil. We can proceed decently and objectively, if you want, without recourse to rudeness and insults. |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by Cantonese: 12:52pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
Odidigboigbo: Abbeggii. Mention your community in Delta state and I can tell you some of their wicked acts. Which of the communities mention does not practice it? 1 Like |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by loveth360(f): 12:52pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
Mrscarter:But why are you yorubas not talking about a wife leaving her husband when he fall sick. Is she a good wife? 1 Like |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by bukatyne(f): 1:03pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
Cantonese: You are missing a key point. The husband's properties is not the family's to share or give as a reward to a good wife. It is her entitlement and vice versa. Should a woman have a good relationship with her in-laws? Yes! If she was bad to her in-laws, then they can withdraw their support when she needs it. To however seize her husband's properties because she is 'bad'? Mbannu. |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by Midas01: 1:03pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
Oh my God. I'm so sorry about that. I hope you're doing fine now.[quote author=Zion63 post=95496617][/quote] |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by Midas01: 1:05pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
If they do it voluntarily then it's not bad sha. Lucyspa: |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by Midas01: 1:08pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
That's why I always advocate for women to have their own business or careers because I highly doubt they can do this to an exposed successful woman. coolsegun2002: |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by Midas01: 1:09pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
Keep quiet if you got nothing sensible to say. The man was from Ebonyi state which is very much igbo. favor914: |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by Midas01: 1:10pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
Nice one...I think there should be more awareness about this. Indigbo: |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by Midas01: 1:12pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
Well, I don't know about that and I'm not Yoruba. Africans will never cease to amaze me. But in my place, it is unheard of for a brother to inherit his brother's property. Cantonese: |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by Midas01: 1:16pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
Na wa o...so this happens more often in other tribes than I thought. dadavivo: |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by Lucyspa: 1:37pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
Cantonese:Akuko |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by dadavivo: 1:42pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
Samcent: That's why Igbo women always have something doing no matter what. |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by dolarland(m): 2:28pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
heykims:Its never beyond husband and wife, even the Bible says and two would become one. The man did not put things right while alive |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by descarado: 2:35pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
bigiyaro:I have a very good friend where I stay. Igbo lady married to a Yoruba guy. The man died last yr. For the sake of privacy, I won't mention his name. He is that popular and have made headlines. Even his death made headlines. According to her, had she not loved this man with everything in her, she wouldn't have gone for his burial. Was greatly humiliated by the man's family. And property, forget it. She too has looked the other way as they are ready to kill her if she make any noise. Anytime I ask about family life, her face changes like she wanna cry. What I tell my igbo ladies is what I tell others, make sure your name is on the property official paper, that car he bought for you should be in your name, if he say no job, he should place you on salary and make sure your name Should be in documents that matters. Don't know why these women don't think about tomorrow? 1 Like |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by thorpido(m): 4:00pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
Cantonese:While I won't hold brief for her,I think she had to go to stay with her mother when it was close to give birth.She was heavily pregnant with twins and her husband may have agreed she goes. Her husband had chronic ulcer condition but he would have been on medication and it's not like he was bedridden.It's something you can manage and still go about your daily business. As to the question of what she did when the husband had a crisis,she probably was almost due to give birth.She couldn't have travelled then.Her husband may not even allow her. Except there was an existing fued between she and her hubby,she didn't abandon him. |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by vickydevoka(m): 4:15pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
lindareep:My wife will die b4 me |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by ransomed: 4:31pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
loveth360: Go and increase your hustle and stop waiting for death benefits of blood relations. |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by Emekaonline: 4:49pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
nedekid: That is a complete lie. You can never see such in Yoruba land. No family members will take away what belongs to your husband especially when you have children together. That is wickedness |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by eyinjuege: 5:07pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
16 years and 5 children later, wicked family members still had the guts to render them destitute. Many Nigerians are naturally wicked, and this has nothing to do with culture, because common sense and your conscience dictates that certain acts are wicked acts |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by Sixfeetbelle: 6:45pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
IkpuNnegiEwu44: The children nko? Is his children not allowed also to inherit his wealth even if wife won't? |
Re: Olubunmi Kama: My Husband’s Siblings Seized Our Properties After His Death by naijadrivablog: 6:59pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
For those people from "good" families, you won't understand when tales like this are told. Some siblings are lazy and think that their rich brother owes them. They even secretly pray he dies so that they can inherit all he has. |
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