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Re: Virginity Vs Character by Fountainofyouth(f): 10:42am On Nov 01, 2020 |
snowat: How does anal penetration make one lose vagina penetration? 3 Likes |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by anochuko01(m): 10:45am On Nov 01, 2020 |
snowat: Nooo If you're adding all those things to virginity, then you're already talking about character. VIRGINITY means NO VIRGINA PENETRATION, regardless of other sexual activity. 4 Likes |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by jmoore(m): 10:45am On Nov 01, 2020 |
Bunsenbun: You are a man, not men. Virginity is valuable to me as a man. So don't speak on behalf of MEN. Speak for yourself. 3 Likes |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by stanliwise(m): 10:47am On Nov 01, 2020 |
collinsuchendu:How many have you met in your life? Please get out jare. As if when you have a daughter she would not be a Nigerian girl. Not being a naive guy doesn’t mean you should start drawing wide generalization. You can’t live life with just bad mouthing everyone. When you spot a bad girl rebuke her when you spot the good one the compliment them. If not you could start to behave mad little by little 2 Likes |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by Elxandre(m): 10:47am On Nov 01, 2020 |
Funny. Let's say virgins have self control. Does self control make 100% of good character? Does it make one respectful? Does it make one loyal? Does it make one patient and not hot tempered? Does it make one considerate and generous? Does it make one honest and truthful Does it make one non-manipulative? Christians make it seem like sexual purity is the only virtue preached in the Bible, whereas it's just one of them. 2 Likes |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by EMIOMOADEOYE: 10:47am On Nov 01, 2020 |
immortalcrown: I have had this conversation on Facebook before. I have a small question for you. How do you identify a virgin? |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by Jackyz: 10:48am On Nov 01, 2020 |
But virginity is never the opposite of good character, they go hand in hand. |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by jmoore(m): 10:48am On Nov 01, 2020 |
anochuko01: Virginity means no sex. Do men have vagina/hymen? It takes character to abstain from all manners of sex. 1 Like |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by Rotji(m): 10:48am On Nov 01, 2020 |
Agritech: A lot of people are making sense here, the decision to remain a virgin especially in these our times requires so much discipline most times strong spirituality. Such people are most likely to possess good character, if you are blessed to have such persons as partner or spouse then you are truly blessed and it's left for you to appreciate this special gift by being an amazing and wonderful partner or spouse in return. They said if you want a wife material you should be a good tailor yourself, I have most of my growing up years been building myself up to be the perfect husband. I graduated from university a virgin hoping to get married like that but ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Yes I prayed for a wonderful woman but can't remember if I added virgin to that prayer request, so when I started courting my wife I didn't even know she was a virgin until far into the courtship and you know what? I got married to her a virgin!!! Today I appreciate God for blessing me with much more than I asked for 9 years into our marriage and it keeps getting better. The question is Virginity vs Character: And I just gave a case study of my life so others can pick 1 or 2 things. A man or woman who wants the best should position themselves to attract the best, simply put; be the best so God will send the best to you or at least try. Character actually is the most important when looking for a life partner, and Virginity is great jara if you come across one. The good part in this is that it is easier for you to come across many men and women of good character but it is difficult especially in this our time to come across a virgin whether with good character or not. And in my opinion it is easier to see a Male virgin than a female virgin. Yes I'm talking about virgins from 20 years and above who might have started considering going into courtship not just dating, or at least serious dating. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by Nobody: 10:49am On Nov 01, 2020 |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by Awesometo: 10:50am On Nov 01, 2020 |
Virginity is virtuous but not all non-virgins were promiscuous. Character is very good important. But who would you choose if given a choice between two women both with good characters, one being a virgin and the other not a virgin. I will choose the tear leather baby 2 Likes |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by anochuko01(m): 10:51am On Nov 01, 2020 |
Elxandre: That's exactly my argument. God bless you big. As if virginity is what keeps a family or marriage. No one is encouraging promiscuity, it's just about speaking facts and truth 1 Like |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by drLammy(m): 10:53am On Nov 01, 2020 |
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Re: Virginity Vs Character by Nobody: 10:53am On Nov 01, 2020 |
stanliwise: Go fvck yourself. DUMBASS |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by stanliwise(m): 10:56am On Nov 01, 2020 |
collinsuchendu:Name-calling. ![]() ![]() If you know who I am you would not have engaged me 1 Like |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by Nobody: 10:57am On Nov 01, 2020 |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by jubianose(m): 10:57am On Nov 01, 2020 |
I have never seen a pure virgin with bad character!!
Have you?? |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by jubianose(m): 10:57am On Nov 01, 2020 |
I have never seen a pure virgin with bad character!!
Have you?? |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by anochuko01(m): 11:00am On Nov 01, 2020 |
jmoore: You're mixing things up oga. According to English Language, virginity remains intact as long as there's been no PENETRATION, regardless of other dirty things you've done. So one can claim to be a Virgin and yet engage in all sorts of impurity. And the fact that men have no hymen and hence no clear means of knowing their status is one of the main reason why the virginity debate is so unfair! You think many girls are Virgins because they're "willing"? Many are just scared due to the culture we practice here. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by Rumor2ruth: 11:01am On Nov 01, 2020 |
[You are not very incorrect, you make brain. Thumb up.]Being a virgin lady in this present world shows there is a high probability the lady have other good attributes like : 1. The lady has self control, the urge is there, but controlling sexual urge isn't easy. It is very easy for a lady to have s_x. 2. She is not gullible. guys would try to convince her, non virgins girls would try to convince her, and she still didn't listen. Fews ladies are like that. 3. She is most likely not greedy. Money opens many girls legs. 4. She is most likely a careful person as she must have been avoiding places where there is highly likelihood that her viginity would be forcefully taken. 5. She is more likely to be God fearing. Keeping virginity is very dificulty, the fear of God is most likely what is making her do it. That is not to say a nonvirgin can't have these attributes, but if you have 10 virgin girls and 10 nonvirgin girls, and you randomly sellect one girl each from the two groups, the girl sellected from the virgin group is most likely to be a better person.[/quote] |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by Nobody: 11:01am On Nov 01, 2020 |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by Nobody: 11:03am On Nov 01, 2020 |
stanliwise: Whatever. Just leave me please |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by stanliwise(m): 11:04am On Nov 01, 2020 |
collinsuchendu:Baby redpill stop mentioning me then. 1 Like |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by Quinniscent(m): 11:07am On Nov 01, 2020 |
CHARACTER first... VIRGINITY later, and it's a BLESSING to find both |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by Sonnobax15(m): 11:10am On Nov 01, 2020 |
anochuko01:See who's talking about wisdom ![]() you can't just justify what's wrong simply because you were a victim of it or because you threw yours away cheaply in exchange for indomie noodles and like two eggs ![]() I know you ain't a virgin,na why you dey feel pained be that ![]() |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by iamdaquin01(f): 11:12am On Nov 01, 2020 |
anochuko01:You are so correct..reminds me of my elder brother's wife... married a virgin,but one single character no dey! 1 Like |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by Kay25(m): 11:13am On Nov 01, 2020 |
immortalcrown:you have a point but don't make your views limited have seen women who had done well and far better than so called virgins above it character is still what keeps a home not just virginity 1 Like |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by plessis: 11:14am On Nov 01, 2020 |
Thattallgirl: Leave these idiots to be spilling nonsense. And you wonder why there is high divorce rates and society now littered with bastards? |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by Nobody: 11:14am On Nov 01, 2020 |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by anochuko01(m): 11:18am On Nov 01, 2020 |
Sonnobax15: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I think we should close this thread already o ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() imagine what a human is saying to another human ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() is this the kind of abuse people are willing to face all in the name of marrying a virgin? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() yall should imagine this person as a woman that was married as a virgin ![]() ![]() ![]() enjoy yaself baba, i hope you had an orgasm after your rants ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by jmoore(m): 11:19am On Nov 01, 2020 |
anochuko01: Dictionary says boyfriend/girlfriend are those who have sex together. Going by this definition, those in a relationship but not having sex can't call themselves boyfriend/girlfriend. Dictionary is not the ultimate. I view virginity as a whole not just one branch. Total abstinence from all sexual activity. Mary that was a virgin when God chose her was definitely free from all sexual activities. Culture makes woman to remain virgin? Virgins are in the minority. If culture, religion etc are influencing ladies to remain virgins then that's a good culture/religion. You rather prefer promiscuous ladies everywhere? 1 Like |
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