snowat:
There is nothing funny here Mrs, you are just too ignorant to Know that anal penetration looses one's virginity, being a virgin as a guy or a lady means not having having any form of sex, self control and being disciplined. Both in males and females. Being a virgin is like having some good characters, you just need little more to be the perfect girl or guy that anyone wants.

How does anal penetration make one lose vagina penetration?

snowat:
There is nothing funny here Mrs, you are just too ignorant to Know that anal penetration looses one's virginity, being a virgin as a guy or a lady means not having having any form of sex, self control and being disciplined. Both in males and females. Being a virgin is like having some good characters, you just need little more to be the perfect girl or guy that anyone wants.

Nooo
If you're adding all those things to virginity, then you're already talking about character. VIRGINITY means NO VIRGINA PENETRATION, regardless of other sexual activity.

Bunsenbun:
Virginity Is Everybody's Default Setting.So why would i rate you high on something that everyone once had,which some gave away,and it was taken away from others.Pack your virginity go one side especially if that is the only thing you are bringing to the table.The fact that virginity is worthless for men,already proves a point.

You are a man, not men.
Virginity is valuable to me as a man. So don't speak on behalf of MEN. Speak for yourself.

collinsuchendu:


Bro, Nigerian girls are more deadlier than snake. Take it or leave it.

How many have you met in your life?

Please get out jare. As if when you have a daughter she would not be a Nigerian girl.

Not being a naive guy doesn’t mean you should start drawing wide generalization. You can’t live life with just bad mouthing everyone. When you spot a bad girl rebuke her when you spot the good one the compliment them.
If not you could start to behave mad little by little

Funny.
Let's say virgins have self control.
Does self control make 100% of good character?
Does it make one respectful?
Does it make one loyal?
Does it make one patient and not hot tempered?
Does it make one considerate and generous?
Does it make one honest and truthful
Does it make one non-manipulative?


Christians make it seem like sexual purity is the only virtue preached in the Bible, whereas it's just one of them.

immortalcrown:
This generation makes so much effort to justify some unethical behaviours. This is not the major problem. The major problem is that the same society ridicules ethical norms to make the unethical behaviours more acceptable. People often say "If you want to marry, go for a woman that has a good character. Virginity does not matter".

Do not tell me to stop searching for a virgin as a wife. Stop telling me that virginity is just for a night while manners last for a lifetime. A mannerless virgin is better than a mannerless person that has been deflowered. A wise virgin is more precious than a wise person that has been deflowered. A beautiful or handsome virgin worths more than a beautiful or handsome person that has been deflowered. Bad character is not unique to virgins or non-virgins. So, what is your point?

You better tell me that some people lost their virginity under life-threatening circumstances. You better tell me that not all the persons that have lost their virginity are irresponsible. Stop sounding as if virginity is worthless. Stop sounding as if all the virgins have bad characters and all the people that have lost their own virginity have good characters. Stop using constructive statements to encourage and justify sexual immorality. If you cannot identify a virgin that has a good character, you cannot identify a deflowered person that has a good character.

I have had this conversation on Facebook before.

I have a small question for you.

How do you identify a virgin?

But virginity is never the opposite of good character, they go hand in hand.

anochuko01:


Nooo
If you're adding all those things to virginity, then you're already talking about character. VIRGINITY means NO VIRGINAL PENETRATION, regardless of other sexual activity.

Virginity means no sex.

Do men have vagina/hymen?

It takes character to abstain from all manners of sex.

Agritech:
Being a virgin lady in this present world shows there is a high probability the lady have other good attributes like :
1. The lady has self control, the urge is there, but controlling sexual urge isn't easy. It is very easy for a lady to have s_x.

2. She is not gullible. guys would try to convince her, non virgins girls would try to convince her, and she still didn't listen. Fews ladies are like that.

3. She is most likely not greedy. Money opens many girls legs.

4. She is most likely a careful person as she must have been avoiding places where there is highly likelihood that her viginity would be forcefully taken.

5. She is more likely to be God fearing. Keeping virginity is very dificulty, the fear of God is most likely what is making her do it.

That is not to say a nonvirgin can't have these attributes, but if you have 10 virgin girls and 10 nonvirgin girls, and you randomly sellect one girl each from the two groups, the girl sellected from the virgin group is most likely to be a better person.

A lot of people are making sense here, the decision to remain a virgin especially in these our times requires so much discipline most times strong spirituality. Such people are most likely to possess good character, if you are blessed to have such persons as partner or spouse then you are truly blessed and it's left for you to appreciate this special gift by being an amazing and wonderful partner or spouse in return.

They said if you want a wife material you should be a good tailor yourself, I have most of my growing up years been building myself up to be the perfect husband. I graduated from university a virgin hoping to get married like that but man fall hand along the way . Sha I got up dusted myself and continue with the quest of being the best to whoever God will give son of man.

Yes I prayed for a wonderful woman but can't remember if I added virgin to that prayer request, so when I started courting my wife I didn't even know she was a virgin until far into the courtship and you know what? I got married to her a virgin!!!

Today I appreciate God for blessing me with much more than I asked for 9 years into our marriage and it keeps getting better.

The question is Virginity vs Character: And I just gave a case study of my life so others can pick 1 or 2 things.

A man or woman who wants the best should position themselves to attract the best, simply put; be the best so God will send the best to you or at least try.

Character actually is the most important when looking for a life partner, and Virginity is great jara if you come across one. The good part in this is that it is easier for you to come across many men and women of good character but it is difficult especially in this our time to come across a virgin whether with good character or not. And in my opinion it is easier to see a Male virgin than a female virgin. Yes I'm talking about virgins from 20 years and above who might have started considering going into courtship not just dating, or at least serious dating.

Virginity is virtuous but not all non-virgins were promiscuous.

Character is very good important.

But who would you choose if given a choice between two women both with good characters, one being a virgin and the other not a virgin.



I will choose the tear leather baby

Elxandre:
Funny.
Let's say virgins have self control.
Does self control make 100% of good character?
Does it make one respectful?
Does it make one loyal?
Does it make one patient and not hot tempered?
Does it make one considerate and generous?
Does it make one honest and truthful
Does it make one non-manipulative?


Christians make it seem like sexual purity is the only virtue preached in the Bible, whereas it's just one of them.

That's exactly my argument.
God bless you big.

As if virginity is what keeps a family or marriage.
No one is encouraging promiscuity, it's just about speaking facts and truth

Ft

stanliwise:

How many have you met in your life?

Please get out jare. As if when you have a daughter she would not be a Nigerian girl.

Not being a naive guy doesn’t mean you should start drawing wide generalization. You can’t live life with just bad mouthing everyone. When you spot a bad girl rebuke her when you spot the good one the compliment them.
If not you could start to behave mad little by little

Go fvck yourself. DUMBASS

collinsuchendu:


Go fvck yourself. DUMBASS

Name-calling.

If you know who I am you would not have engaged me

I have never seen a pure virgin with bad character!! Have you??

I have never seen a pure virgin with bad character!! Have you??

jmoore:


Virginity means no sex.

Do men have vagina/hymen?

It takes character to abstain from all manners of sex.

You're mixing things up oga.
According to English Language, virginity remains intact as long as there's been no PENETRATION, regardless of other dirty things you've done. So one can claim to be a Virgin and yet engage in all sorts of impurity.

And the fact that men have no hymen and hence no clear means of knowing their status is one of the main reason why the virginity debate is so unfair! You think many girls are Virgins because they're "willing"? Many are just scared due to the culture we practice here.

[You are not very incorrect, you make brain. Thumb up.]Being a virgin lady in this present world shows there is a high probability the lady have other good attributes like :
1. The lady has self control, the urge is there, but controlling sexual urge isn't easy. It is very easy for a lady to have s_x.

2. She is not gullible. guys would try to convince her, non virgins girls would try to convince her, and she still didn't listen. Fews ladies are like that.

3. She is most likely not greedy. Money opens many girls legs.

4. She is most likely a careful person as she must have been avoiding places where there is highly likelihood that her viginity would be forcefully taken.

5. She is more likely to be God fearing. Keeping virginity is very dificulty, the fear of God is most likely what is making her do it.

That is not to say a nonvirgin can't have these attributes, but if you have 10 virgin girls and 10 nonvirgin girls, and you randomly sellect one girl each from the two groups, the girl sellected from the virgin group is most likely to be a better person.[/quote]

stanliwise:

Name-calling.

If you know who I am you would not have engaged me

Whatever. Just leave me please

collinsuchendu:


Whatever. Just leave me please

Baby redpill stop mentioning me then.

CHARACTER first... VIRGINITY later, and it's a BLESSING to find both

anochuko01:


exactly what we are talking about!
its your type that would insult your wife over the slightest misunderstanding

you might be a virgin but you lack wisdom.

See who's talking about wisdom

you can't just justify what's wrong simply because you were a victim of it or because you threw yours away cheaply in exchange for indomie noodles and like two eggs.....

I know you ain't a virgin,na why you dey feel pained be that But relax sis,so long you've got a good character besides your slacked towtow,you may be lucky enough to get one Aboki who's gonna propose to you someday.

anochuko01:


character embodies so many things, and "not spreading leg" is just a minute fraction of it.
a person could have self control when it comes to sexual escapades but that same person could rain insults that could lead another person to depression.

You are so correct..reminds me of my elder brother's wife... married a virgin,but one single character no dey!

immortalcrown:
This generation makes so much effort to justify some unethical behaviours. This is not the major problem. The major problem is that the same society ridicules ethical norms to make the unethical behaviours more acceptable. People often say "If you want to marry, go for a woman that has a good character. Virginity does not matter".

Do not tell me to stop searching for a virgin as a wife. Stop telling me that virginity is just for a night while manners last for a lifetime. A mannerless virgin is better than a mannerless person that has been deflowered. A wise virgin is more precious than a wise person that has been deflowered. A beautiful or handsome virgin worths more than a beautiful or handsome person that has been deflowered. Bad character is not unique to virgins or non-virgins. So, what is your point?

You better tell me that some people lost their virginity under life-threatening circumstances. You better tell me that not all the persons that have lost their virginity are irresponsible. Stop sounding as if virginity is worthless. Stop sounding as if all the virgins have bad characters and all the people that have lost their own virginity have good characters. Stop using constructive statements to encourage and justify sexual immorality. If you cannot identify a virgin that has a good character, you cannot identify a deflowered person that has a good character.

you have a point but don't make your views limited have seen women who had done well and far better than so called virgins above it character is still what keeps a home not just virginity

Thattallgirl:
Virginity can never be overrated. A lady who's a virgin with good character is a gift to her husband

Leave these idiots to be spilling nonsense.

And you wonder why there is high divorce rates and society now littered with bastards?

Sonnobax15:
See who's talking about wisdom

you can't just justify what's wrong simply because you were a victim of it or because you threw yours away cheaply in exchange for indomie noodles and like two eggs.....

I know you ain't a virgin,na why you dey feel pained be that But relax sis,so long you've got a good character besides your slacked towtow,you may be lucky enough to get one Aboki who's gonna propose to you someday.

I think we should close this thread already o
imagine what a human is saying to another human

is this the kind of abuse people are willing to face all in the name of marrying a virgin?
yall should imagine this person as a woman that was married as a virgin

enjoy yaself baba, i hope you had an orgasm after your rants

anochuko01:


You're mixing things up oga.
According to English Language, virginity remains intact as long as there's been no PENETRATION, regardless of other dirty things you've done. So one can claim to be a Virgin and yet engage in all sorts of impurity.

And the fact that men have no hymen and hence no clear means of knowing their status is one of the main reason why the virginity debate is so unfair! You think many girls are Virgins because they're "willing"? Many are just scared due to the culture we practice here.

Dictionary says boyfriend/girlfriend are those who have sex together. Going by this definition, those in a relationship but not having sex can't call themselves boyfriend/girlfriend.

Dictionary is not the ultimate.

I view virginity as a whole not just one branch. Total abstinence from all sexual activity. Mary that was a virgin when God chose her was definitely free from all sexual activities.


Culture makes woman to remain virgin?

Virgins are in the minority. If culture, religion etc are influencing ladies to remain virgins then that's a good culture/religion.

You rather prefer promiscuous ladies everywhere?