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Re: Virginity Vs Character by BigBrother9ja: 11:23am On Nov 01, 2020 |
Bluezy13:So, what is C? You deserve an award honestly. 4 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Virginity Vs Character by anochuko01(m): 11:25am On Nov 01, 2020 |
jmoore: baba, this is the problem o. you have YOUR OWN DEFINITION of virginity. so i cant do anything about it. 1 Like |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by anochuko01(m): 11:30am On Nov 01, 2020 |
snowat: how would you know if your wife is a virgin ![]() i dont want essay, just one sentence. 2 Likes |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by tfash96(m): 11:30am On Nov 01, 2020 |
thesilentman:lol.which wahala are you facing |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by Bunsenbun(m): 11:37am On Nov 01, 2020 |
jmoore:value is different from worth. |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by FlordFlorez(m): 11:40am On Nov 01, 2020 |
Character has it any day any time but virginity is just an additional virtue. These days, men conventionally pursue ladies with good character cause it's a trait that suits marriage more than virginity. Once u married and deflower her, her virginity is gone forever but her character is there forever! Be wise... 3 Likes |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by JastSiryin(m): 11:41am On Nov 01, 2020 |
If there's anything I've learnt so far from all the discussions about virginity and so on... Is that people would do anything to feel good about themselves or justify their actions. And this is mostly the case with or without a Law Giver(Religion or God). Most people validate their actions through other people's guilt and misfortune, not because they want to please God. I don't understand why what people choose to do or not do with their sexually organs is such a big issue. It's not like it's ever mentioned amongst the credentials of great men and women. E.g "Margaret Thatcher was a great leader who did so and so... She also didn't get some dick until she got married" WTF ![]() |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by jmoore(m): 11:42am On Nov 01, 2020 |
Bunsenbun:Please don't get me started on English tutorials. Valuable is the opposite of valueless. Worthless is a synonym of valueless. That virginity is valuable means it is also worthy. 1 Like |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by advocatejare(m): 11:42am On Nov 01, 2020 |
slyfoxxjoe:You're right, being a virgin doesn't equate to making a good wife material. But like I asked : "But who would you choose if given a choice between two women both with good characters, one being a virgin and the other not a virgin?" 2 Likes |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by kingsmaila(m): 11:44am On Nov 01, 2020 |
Some are not virgin, ugly and ill mannerred while some are virgins, beautiful awith good manner. There fore virginity gives a man as sense of fulfilment in marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by Nobody: 11:49am On Nov 01, 2020 |
stanliwise:I don't see how common sense and street smartness got to really do with high moral standards for the most part. I don't see how your response contradicts anything in my statement but it's OK, no need to take this further. Everyone is socially intelligent based on the settings and environment in which they grew up and their experiences in life. Every man to his opinion. ![]()
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Re: Virginity Vs Character by Bunsenbun(m): 11:50am On Nov 01, 2020 |
jmoore:anything can be valuable,as value systems differ from one person to another but not everything has worth.I don't value wrist watches and would not be caught dead wearing one,but they do have worth.Worth is determined by the caliber/strength/number of people who "value" that thing.As I said earlier,virginity is worthless to men,at least here in Nigeria. By The way i don't think valuable is a direct synonym of worth 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by okoroemeka(m): 11:53am On Nov 01, 2020 |
collinsuchendu:I totally disagree with your perspective,I interviewed a promiscus teenage girl of 17 yrs and she told me things that are truly shocking,even to an unshockable fellow like me,she said her problems started after she lost her virginity last year,since that she simply cannot control her body, having sex 3-5 times a week is just management,she was crying and was telling me men that are currently fvcking her now and I was speechless,all the boys and married men in my area are actively fvcking the girl,,mind you the girl is still in secondary school but her confessions is truly incredible,I asked her what if a friend of mine married her as a virgin and will be rejoicing what will be his fate,she looked me in the eyes and said that she cannot control herself not to fvck everybody from the gate man to me,if I am interested, marrying a virgin is not an assurance of good behavior,you can break the virginity and hell will be let loose. 4 Likes |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by jmoore(m): 11:55am On Nov 01, 2020 |
Bunsenbun: Only if you read my first reply to you very well. You are singular. You are not all men. Read it 30 times. Just say you don't value it. Don't drag all men into your choice. That's the initial point I made. |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by Nobody: 11:56am On Nov 01, 2020 |
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Re: Virginity Vs Character by Bunsenbun(m): 11:58am On Nov 01, 2020 |
jmoore:would you be willing to do a nairaland poll concerning this?.The response here should be a good indicator |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by jmoore(m): 12:00pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
okoroemeka: There is a difference between a virgin who abstained from sex till marriage and a virgin who lost her virginity to boyfriend. You claimed her 'problems' started after losing her virginity. That's not the main point. The main point is that her problems started after she tasted premarital sex. 5 Likes |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by NoToPile: 12:01pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
Loool, the hypocrisy on this thread. No matter how much you guys want to devalue virginity, it is still the best. Virtginity is just an addendum blablabla na una sabi. Do what you want to do with your bodies and leave the virgins alone na. And to think this thread is in the religion section, God expects his children to remain pure till marriage except those that lost theirs though circumstances beyond their control ( rape, peodphila etc) shikena How people they to twist the word of God amazes me. There is a reason why Mary had to be a virgin. Abegi if you are a virgin continue keeping yourself and if you want to stop premarital sex you can still stop. 3 Likes |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by Donspicey: 12:01pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
I fit marry olosho sef if she go dey give me joy and rest of mind...... As i dey so i hate unneccessary naging and arguements.... If u be virgin and u dey give me headache we re Done......no time for story story.... I no even know wetin dis kind post dey do for religion section sef..... Nobody is perfect....Mould ur partner to ur taste.... |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by jmoore(m): 12:02pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
Bunsenbun:Poll? Respond as an individual. Don't respond on behalf of all men. Do I need to shout it a million times? |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by Nobody: 12:03pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
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Re: Virginity Vs Character by IAMBlesssed(f): 12:04pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
I think the right word here is chastity not virginity if we want to discuss from a Christian perspective.. One can be a virgin and immoral at the same time..A non virgin can be chaste and has high morals than a virgin.. In marriage, choose character above ALL OTHER THINGS..for your happiness and peace of mind.. It takes experience to understand this.. 1 Like |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by Donspicey: 12:05pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
jmoore: Oga forget dat talk jareh... If u no get self control u go dey Bleep anyhow Most disvirgined girls dey faithful after marriage compared to dos married as virgin... Inside life........ 2 Likes |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by femi4: 12:06pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
I will go for both. It takes good character to keep your virginity. The last time I checked, having pre marital sex isn't a good character 1 Like |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by jmoore(m): 12:08pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
Donspicey:Fabricated opinion with no empirical evidence. If they had self-control, why did they lose their virginity before marriage? smh 2 Likes |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by Donspicey: 12:10pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
NoToPile: Abeg show me d Bible verse ![]() ![]() Virgin or No Virgin is a choice...... And only Gods Grace can see u through... |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by MightyHand(m): 12:10pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
Bluezy13: I will go with A' Who virginity hElp |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by Donspicey: 12:12pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
jmoore: Dats y i used *IF* [b][/b],,Faithful spouse is not by been a Virgin before marriage.... |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by Omezif(m): 12:14pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
Virginity is the will of God to humans, lacking spirit of God where satan controls some humans, disobedient to God prevail. |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by obowunmi(m): 12:15pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
Marry a hoe. Enjoy your short life. |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by coolsegun2002: 12:17pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
JastSiryin: Wait.....let’s be real.... for once, let’s forget the picture Hollywood and pornn has fed this generation with, including religion or whateva... Am I supposed to be happy the woman I’m going to marry has been drilled by 10 other men with a couple of abortions to match....?? There’s nothing nice about it....so I don’t get why you people try to paint the picture that there’s nothing wrong with not having bodily discipline. That picture is a hollywood script...walk into a bar or club ... have sex with random strangers spontaneously ( have u noticed Hollywood acts movies like condoms don’t exist, arbortion don’t exist, like sex is always magical and everything is cool after wards) over the years people have just come to overlook these things...largely becos u can’t even get 1 virgin out of 100 girls anymore... so the available has become the desired.....that doesn’t mean we should now make chastity an old school thing. Sex is not food...this our generation treats sex like they need it for breathing... 3 Likes |
Re: Virginity Vs Character by Yonce(f): 12:20pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
Interesting how the virginity vs character debate is always about girls. It's almost like men are excluded from being virgins themselves but have strong opinions about marrying one. ![]() 6 Likes |
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