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Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Robinson155(m): 7:31pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
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Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Ucheosefoh(m): 7:31pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
This is Nigerian girls 1 Like
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Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Alexaonfleek: 7:31pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Imagine that kain thing where on your birthday you'll get an iphone 12 pro max and a big birthday bash and all you can do for him on his birthday is to post him on your status and he'll still take you out. Is that not see finish like that ![]() 15 Likes |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by AstuteChap: 7:31pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
It's not very common for people to address certain issues with an "open mind." By default, most people give a "knee-jerk" reaction to certain points of view based on whether they feel it is an attack on their race, religion, gender, political affiliation, etc. It is laudable that the OP got to see things from her friend's perspective, rather than seeing it as an attack on her gender. @OP, one bottle of Baileys for you.
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Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by humilitypays(m): 7:32pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Op why should ladies worry about being broke to be in a relationship when they naturally believe the only thing they should offer to a man is vagina ![]() ![]() ![]() Why should ladies bother about being broke when they naturally believe that any man they allow to penetrate their vagina is a very lucky man ![]() ![]() |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by pocohantas(f): 7:32pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Palema007: Guys think ladies don’t have this fear of social class, we do. There are guys you meet and you will struggle to fit into his class or style of living. When I told him I couldn’t keep up with such an expensive relationship, he asked why I didn’t tell him and he offered to take over the logistics. It didn’t make sense to me. I am not in 200L. Person suppose outgrow some kind thing. If I need sensible support or giveaway, fine- but I should be able to handle my basic recurrent expenses. Some of those guys are not even sex-starved, some are just being men. It is in man to provide for the ones he cares about. Except he is an efulefu or he is angered about something. 3 Likes |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Funkyswagzz(m): 7:33pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
pocohantas: We need more girls like you |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Samakus(m): 7:33pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Mimiey: I suppose you're a woman because if you're a man, you should know that your chances of meeting leeches is very high 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by AfroKnight: 7:34pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Palema007: Somethings you wouldn’t take as a man? ![]() ![]() Anyway, I believe many guys are a always happy when they find women who are not wired to believe men are their ATM’s. The issue is how to locate such women early in life. 1 Like |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Petyprincess(f): 7:35pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Sorry this thread isn't for me ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Nobody: 7:36pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Alexaonfleek:As funny as this sound.. It can be very painful... Imagine the lady is the one getting such treatment. Sometimes I wonder if ladies guilty of such acts have no conscience or shame. ![]() |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by emperorAY(m): 7:37pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
RedNStripes:oya time don reach where is your comment? |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Samakus(m): 7:37pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
pocohantas: You're a rare elite in the pool of elitists 1 Like |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by humilitypays(m): 7:37pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Funkyswagzz:go and check well that lady you quoted must be 30yrs and above, because in Nigeria, ladies start having sense and becoming valuable to men they meet from age 28yrs and above. Girls of 25yrs downwards believe their vagina is more than enough for any man and that's why after guys sample their vagina, they start to remember that Tina, nkechi, Bola, Onome, Aisha, Amina and Chioma cannot cook or greet people, and start to look for a way to break up with her ![]() 12 Likes |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Kalatium(m): 7:42pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
mariahAngel:Madam you did not answer the question of the thread. |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Nobody: 7:45pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
coolsegun2002:This conversation is very real... ![]() |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by 4gunners(m): 7:45pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
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Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Lucyspa: 7:49pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Palema007: Incorrect! A financial independent woman in the Nigerian society very limited options. No need to argue with me just check the female entertainment industry and see how far. One would think that the more money they make the more chances at true love they get but the reality is the opposite. It's either they meet leeches especially if they are not so confident or desperate or they become a babymama for a wealthy man. 8 Likes |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by udemzyudex(m): 7:49pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Palema007: Mad ooo |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Nobody: 7:51pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
AfroKnight:Lol.... That's not true.There are women out there who aren't self centered,women who know what love is, valuable women with healthy sense of responsibility. Believe me, there are. I can't be spending on a woman who wouldn't deem it fit to reciprocate sometimes. I can't 1 Like |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Kalatium(m): 7:53pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
vickydevoka:Hrhehe |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by pansophist(m): 7:53pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Not only financial, but physical, emotional and psychological dependencies. Women wants all. You've iterated the realities of financial dependencies, so I'll iterate the other. Physical dependency is when she expects the man to check out who is banging the door in the middle of the night, and of course take the bullet first if the unfortunate happens. Or expect a man to lift heavy stuff, even carry her for beach pics even if she is x2 heavier than him. Emotional dependence goes when a man has to be a regulator of her emotions, and a source of emotional boost. Women are hardly a bedrock of a man in despair, to encourage and motivate him, to be his resting place and make him gets back on track. A temporary emotional man is repulsive, an attraction killer and instantly dries up her honeypot. Women wants strong men, and its non negotiable. About psychological dependency, women wants to be treated like a goddess, and for a man to actively maintain her delusion. For example a woman would rather hate you tell her she is getting fat, even if it's the truth. She believes she is curvy, plus size, extra large, big bodied and all sugary name she calls herself, but the word "fat" pierces so hard. So a man needs to psychologically makes her feel competent in herself even if she is not. Her delusion must be maintained. This is what men mean when they say women are burden, as it is not only financially. Nuff said. Until then equality is a long thing. 34 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by mariahAngel(f): 7:54pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Samakus: Would you be comfortable in a relationship where the lady takes care of all her needs and never asks or takes anything from you even if you offer her? We all know that it makes a man feel good when he takes care of his woman, and you can only take care of a woman if she allows it. How would it make you feel as a man if a woman you love don't accept gifts from you? Answer honestly, because not all females are materialistic.... 3 Likes |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 7:54pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
No broke person should be thinking of relationship. They should be thinking of breaking the relationship they have with brokenness first before thinking of going into one with another person. You can't be in two relationships at the same time. When you are broke and still decide to go into a relationship, you will frustrate your partner more and if both of you happen to be broke, na die. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by SweetCunt97(f): 7:57pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Palema007:Baba forget. A man who will treat you like a queen will do so regardless. Abi no b Offset cheat on cardi-B with all her money? You people should keep making money a priority in relayionships OK. 4 Likes |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Nobody: 7:57pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
MISSCONGENIALITY:Thank You! |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by banmee(m): 7:58pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
In Nigeria, yes. |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by SweetCunt97(f): 7:59pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
MISSCONGENIALITY:Lies. A lady can be broke and still function good in a relationship. It's even unreasonable to say people should b well financially before relationship so I no get y the discussion sef. 3 Likes |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by SweetDipBenny(m): 8:00pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Mayb in other country Definitely not here |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Blessingrose(f): 8:01pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
I totally agree.. A lady shouldn't depend on a man for everything.. Love shouldn't be the only thing that is reciprocated in a relationship..ladies should help build their man, men tend to respect these kinda women.. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Lucyspa: 8:02pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Palema007: So u mean to say that a woman really has no value except when she pays bills. Gosh.... I'm so pissed. So all those invaluable things such as cooking, cleaning, birthing children and even taking care of them is really nothing till i split bills. Who brainwashed we women like this? . The reality of today's world especially in Nigeria is that a woman has to set a home running at a fast pace of 80% while a man can chip in a miserly 20%. I keep going on the internet to see different miserable standards set by men and women holding on to the standards to show how independent they really are. I pity for u lots. Let men keep shifting the only responsibility they have been accorded to you, u hear? Keep proving how much of a robot u are. The funny thing is that in all this clamour for financial equality on both parties, i have never seen where men are asked to be actively involved in chores. So as a woman, u are expected to change ur surname, cook, clean, birth children, take care of them and still split bills. Wow. Weldone to all the super women out there. Y'all rewards are in heaven #notformethough. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Nobody: 8:02pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
SweetCunt97:This is about Nigeria setting reality. In typical Nigerian relationship, we all know Money is a priority, we only try to shift goals when it doesn't suit our narrative. In Nigerian economy money is needed to run a relationship or marriage. If this thread is about broke shaming guys, you wouldn't have typed this, rather you would have issued the "Go and make Money" command. 1 Like |
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