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Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by WoundedLamb: 8:03pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
I'm not a lady but I think they should. I mean, it's really a problem if you don't have transport to meet up with your guy at a preplanned location. |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 8:03pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
livinbygrace:Guys actually prefer the jobless broke ones that will always be available. When they see one who has something doing, instead of supporting them, they will want to frustrate them with " when are we seeing". Most of them deserve those broke and jobless girls. When you enter university hostels in the evening, you will see men trooping in to pick students, instead of going after working class ladies. Why, because those ones are available and will do whatever they want for the money. 7 Likes |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Kalatium(m): 8:05pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
mariahAngel:Common dear, the fact that a woman is independent doesn't mean she wont accept anything from him. |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 8:06pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
WoundedLamb:Not just transport to meet up with a guy. Whatever money to pay for your hair, take care of yourself and look good whether the man gives you or not. Some of those broke ladies squander mosnet more than Nigerian government. If they have 10k, they will use is on things that are not necessary. But then as I said before, some men deserve just those kind of ladies and nothing more. |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Samakus(m): 8:07pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
mariahAngel: To the bolded, yes I will be. Very much. Do you know the number of people I take care of? My dear, if I gift her things and she don't accept, not because she's angry or feel that the gifts are small but because she's feeling for me, my respect for her triples. See eh, my point is, we all know that a man will buy things, give you money etc but don't ever feel it's your entitlement. Once you start thinking that being a woman gives you the exclusive reserve of asking for money anytime you want or expecting gifts at anytime, your already losing the essence of relationships. A little story. I met a girl some weeks back. Beautiful lady. We got talking after exchanging numbers. Mind you, due to the nature of my work, we haven't hanged out for the first time. Next thing I saw was a WhatsApp message asking me for money to pay someone she borrowed from. Just imagine that. Someone you met about 2 weeks, you guys haven't even gone on a date and she is already asking for money. I just told her, come to my house and collect it and the rest is history. How can a man respect such a woman? 8 Likes |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 8:10pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
SweetCunt97:I won't feel comfortable in relationship where I can't go out and see something nice and get for the guy. I won't be happy in relationship where I have to ask for money for everything. In fact, without something to give me small small money, I'm.not going into any relationship. Even if I'm a saint, the man will always find away to make me feel like a parasite. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Seyzcham91(m): 8:12pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
abi na Nazgul: 1 Like |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 8:12pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
majamajic:I agree with you. Guys prefer broke girls.they are believed to be humble and cool headed ![]() ![]() |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Nobody: 8:13pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Lucyspa:Madam calm down! If you have too many chores to do, get a maid! You see that's what we are talking about, make your money so you can make life easier for yourself. No one is undermining women's role in the family. We are talking about relationship,the first stage before getting married.A lady who can't pay her own bills shouldn't be thinking of getting into a relationship but getting a job. its very simple. 4 Likes |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Samakus(m): 8:14pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
MISSCONGENIALITY: Don't bother trying to bend a dry stick. She has her mentality and that's not changing soon. I gave up the day I saw her post crying out for any man that will take her to Europe because she's a woman. |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by vickydevoka(m): 8:15pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
mariahAngel:I would be comfortable o. Please show me the lady in Nigeria |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Kalatium(m): 8:15pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Palema007:Gbam 1 Like |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Fearjah: 8:17pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
pocohantas: Lol |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by CHoccolaTE: 8:18pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
I hope men are not expecting their girlfriends to cook for them or wash and I hope they have sense to not treat their girlfriends like inferior gender since everyone is now playing equal roles. Let's erase patriarchy completely not just the parts that favour women. 2 Likes |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 8:18pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
pocohantas:Most guys prefer broke ladies. They are always available. You are a lady going far to meet a guy without transport. What if the guy doesn't go out. I can't go out without my transport too and fro and enough to pay for what every I want for that day. Being broke and going into a relationship not a good thing at all. You will be so frustrated. |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by vickydevoka(m): 8:19pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
MISSCONGENIALITY:God bless you. You've jst spoken my mind |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by ogeodi(f): 8:21pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Yes o.... I am too broke for a relationship. |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Dollanaira: 8:22pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Lol |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Cutehector(m): 8:23pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
mariahAngel:yes I will be very comfortable please |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by tosinhtml: 8:23pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Palema007: Palema the Avatar: The Last Airbender...Bring Balance to The WORLD ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Fearjah: 8:23pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Palema007: Abeg you fit mention some or all of the things you won't take from women? Thank you. 1 Like |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by WoundedLamb: 8:25pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
MISSCONGENIALITY: I agree with you. But sadly, some guys are scared away when a girl is equally boxed up. They see being the girls' source of money as a way of maintaining a strong grip on them. It's actually funny cause these guys complain about girls being dependent but deep within them, they enjoy the sense of superiority that gives them. 3 Likes |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 8:25pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
mariahAngel:He doesn't need to wait for her to beg if he's not comfortable with it. He should give freely when he feels like. I was in relationship for a very long time without asking and the guys had his way of giving me the little things he could give me and I appreciated all of them. He knew there was a way he would give me and I would turn them down. I use to give him too. He started feeling bad that I never asked for anything. He doesn't know when I make new hair cos he will just see me with knew hair. I had more than 30pairs of shoes but when he sees a slippers that he things I will like, he will buy it and I would be very happy. You don't have to wait for your independent lady to ask. They dont ask. I don't ask. Even in my brokest days I don't ask. 7 Likes |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by pocohantas(f): 8:25pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
MISSCONGENIALITY: Lol. I don’t even know how they do it, but then, if the man is willing to help her pay- fine. I prefer two financially stable partners. It isn’t always about materialism, it just makes it easier to enjoy the love and achieve goals. Frustrated is an understatement. All the small small fight and anger, check am, na money be the main issue. ![]() ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Nobody: 8:25pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
pansophist:Pansophist abeg create your own thread biko ![]() ![]() ![]() Which one is physical, emotional and psychological dependency? That's like trying to change the total make up of woman nature. You just add too much salt for this your contribution sha. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by mariahAngel(f): 8:26pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Kalatium:Really? What if she won't accept as a matter of principles? |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by tosinhtml: 8:26pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
gbeymey: Congrats, you did the right thing. Money directly or Indirectly makes people Lord over you, whether we choose to accept or not. Even my parents started respecting me when I started earning some money. 4 Likes |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by CHoccolaTE: 8:26pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Lucyspa: When they get married their eyes go clear. Is it not Nigerian men? The men will still expect them to continue being independent in marriage. They will remind you that you were taking care of yourself before marriage so why are you now turning into someone else? Miss independent, miss independent, that's how they will marry a stingy man that has no interest in providing for them or a man that expects his wife to be obedient submissive slave and co-provider. Look at the lamentations of these two women that were doing miss independence before marriage ![]() https://www.nairaland.com/6173928/life-story#94833128 https://www.nairaland.com/6173928/life-story/1#95793133 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Funkyswagzz(m): 8:26pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
humilitypays: Ma guy no be small mata. The stuff don even taya me.. na so one girl dey vex on top my moni 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 8:26pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Mimiey:Maybe that's his calling. To feed the hungry and clothe the naked ![]() |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Nobody: 8:28pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
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Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by pocohantas(f): 8:29pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
tosinhtml: hahahahahahahahahahahaha! Werey!!! Your mum will start serving you rice and stew with two plates. ![]() 2 Likes |
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