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Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Nobody: 8:31pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE:Here's the reality of things... Only little percentage of Men in Nigeria can foot the whole family bills, either ways Wives contribute financially, so tell me what part of patriarchy favors women in the real sense? Would you rather be treated like a trophy in a relationship only to start blowing air into firewood with your mouth in marriage? Let's be realistic please. It's best when two financially stable people come together. 4 Likes |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 8:31pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
pocohantas:My sister no be lie. Two financially stable partner's ki d of relationship is usually different from the one where one person is the host and the other is the parasite. What I've come to realize no is that being broke is not even the problem. The problem is being broke and expecting your partner toprovide for you like he asked God to creat you. Like he was born to pay your bills. And again, the man will treat you anyhow and no amount of love you give will be genuine because he sees you as a leech. 3 Likes |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 8:33pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
WoundedLamb:Women are not the only confused set of people in this life. Men too are if not more. ; D A man will want a broke girl who is also independent. Where can that kind of girl be found? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Magnoliaa(f): 8:34pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Palema007: Don't you think men who have dated Nigerian feminists (albeit surprisingly non-existent ones to most people) would be in a better position to tell? What responsibilities exactly are feminists shrinking from that make them undeserving of equality, respect and dignity? Because this line is thrown about a lot and it confuses the heck out of me. Abi, all naija babes suddenly don turn feminists? (Let's not even consider the fact that we are bitter, ugly, lonely, frustrated and broken beings who don't have men over our heads ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 8:35pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Samakus:Lol. She also deserve the good things in life nah. |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Nobody: 8:36pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Magnoliaa:Lol.... Nigerian feminists? ![]() ![]() I wouldn't want to go into that... ![]() |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by CHoccolaTE: 8:36pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Palema007: Ok Are you Christian or Muslim 1 Like |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by SweetCunt97(f): 8:37pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
MISSCONGENIALITY:That's you though. Relationship is more than thinking of spending money to do this or do that. Me, I'd love someone who'd appreciate flowers plucked from a gardens jarey. The important thing is to be happy sha. |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by mariahAngel(f): 8:37pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
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Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Nobody: 8:38pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE:Lol... I'm a Christian. |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by SweetCunt97(f): 8:39pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Palema007:Yes, when the man is more focused on a relationship rather than fixing his pockets. When you like someone genuinely, you do so irrespective of their pockets. 1 Like |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 8:41pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
humilitypays:that's for those who have a Virgina to offer. Some do t even have a Virgina for a gift. However, if you deserve only a Virgina from a babe, you shouldn't be given more cos some men actually don't deserve more than a smelly cunt. Yes, a smelly one. So saying women naturally believe the o ly thing they should offer a man in a relationship is Virgina is and understatement. That means those of us who won't thing of a relationship if we can't afford what we need are not women but guys. |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Nobody: 8:41pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
SweetCunt97:Babe, I know you of this opinion because the focus is on ladies... ![]() ![]() No problem, I hear you. Love conquers all, even poverty. ![]() |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Nobody: 8:42pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
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Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Nobody: 8:42pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
ePoster: Gbam! Few words, plenty sense... ![]() |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Samakus(m): 8:42pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 8:46pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
SweetCunt97:Happiness is the highest good at the end of it all. If being broke make you happy, that's great. If being independent makes me happy, thats also great for me. I'm an advocate of Happiness. Real happiness not the one you expect people to give you. The kind that emanates from that feeling of selfhood and knowing that whether you are in a relationship or not, your happiness your responsibility not anyone's. |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Magnoliaa(f): 8:49pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Palema007: Maybe because you don't know one/any; observed or followed her relationship life (I know it sounds somehow) and you're just making conjectures based on strawmen anti-feminists have put up. ![]() For real, though. I wish you'd point me to one feminist (someone we can ascertain she's a feminist in the real sense of it, identifies as one and has been vocal) pushing... responsibilities off her shoulder? Or just ONE instance of them wanting gains and not 'burdens'. No man (I don't mean man-boys) has narrated the hypocrisy or double-standards he experienced personally (being romantically involved) from a feminist. How are naija babes dependent and becoming masculine, footing bills in the home at the same time?? Heck, my brain is not processing that! Maybe, they are just asking for the barest minimum from guys? To contribute something? |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 8:51pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Magnoliaa:You for Waka pass that guy..those set of people have not even discovered themselves let alone know what woman are ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Karlifate: 8:54pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
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Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by CHoccolaTE: 8:54pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Palema007: OK so I hope you will be willing to follow scripture and submit to your husbands authority completely after marriage? Do that while also paying his bills and contributing to his upkeep. All while you are bearing his surname and all your kids bore through 9 months of hardship and hours of labour belong to his family and his lineage. ![]() You share provision which is his major responsibility Does he share leadership with you? Does he share pregnancies and Labour and breastfeeding? Does he let some of your kids bear your own name? Does he think he is equally responsible for housework, cooking and childcare etc? 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by SweetCunt97(f): 8:55pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
MISSCONGENIALITY:Thank you! So being broke or not shouldn't be a limiting factor to being happy. Forget that thing about selfhood, people tend to get depressed when alone no matter how rich they are. Yes my happiness is my responsibility which is why it's mandatory to get a man who won't had to one's problems. |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Magnoliaa(f): 8:56pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
MISSCONGENIALITY: She's a lady, na. |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by SweetCunt97(f): 8:58pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Palema007:But Bros hustle hard sha. Money is indeed important if not, Ruth for Bible no go sleep for Boaz feet like pussycat. Every woman wants a man who can provide security for d family and offcourse she'll b there to support. |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Amarita(f): 8:58pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
I have nothing to say on dis...as a woman wey I be.. na person wey chop belle full dey fyn wu e go date... 1 Like |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Nobody: 9:00pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Magnoliaa:Lol... If I had listed names would I have to add their home addresses and contact line so you would confirm their "feminists" status? Perhaps you would have requested screenshots of ladies begging for alms and also evidences of receipts transport fare, hair bills, lingeries bills or food bills men pay for leeches too. Since in your perfect feminazi world these things don't happen. Woman, if I say I don't want to go into a topic, it's because I don't see it necessary bring such topics up, giving some guys here something to laugh on. If that fact flew over your head, I'm not surprised your brain can't process what's happening in your environment. |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Karlifate: 9:00pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
Palema007:Typical of a Libra. ![]() |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Nobody: 9:01pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
MISSCONGENIALITY:Just when I thought you had sense... I'm a lady. So what's your point? |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by mariahAngel(f): 9:03pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
SweetCunt97: Ruth loun loun! Ahn ahn! ![]() |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by Magnoliaa(f): 9:04pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE: And this is what people try to attribute feminism to: saying it caused women to be working double-shifts, to shoot themselves in the legs, and be cheated... I don't believe that. I see conservative women trying to appropriate liberal ideals. They want to be financially-contributing submissive women or something like that... They don't want to be judged as leeches and they don't want to be seen as (being) <too> progressive. *shrugs* |
Re: Do Ladies Consider Themselves "Being Too Broke" For A Relationship? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 9:04pm On Nov 13, 2020 |
SweetCunt97:You think depression is only when you are alone? Just like people talking of loneliness when they are alone. The worst kind of depression and loneliness comes when you are around people who don't understand you. When you speak,they don't listen and don't even notice you are fading away. It becomes more frustrating when you can't leave them to enjoy your personal moment of peace alone somewhere. Don't let anyone deceive you to believe that being alone translate to loneliness. Not at all 1 Like |
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