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I Am Depressed Because I'm A 1minute Man by BennyN: 8:28am On Nov 15, 2020 |
Hello everyone, Please I'm creating this thread to only ask for your help and what I can do to better my condition, No insults please. I have been on nairaland for years now and I have seen people get help from here, although I created this new account because of this thread. My name is Ben, I'm 26yrs old and a final year student. I have always been skeptical about having sex in a relationship even though I have dated couple of girls, for eight years now I have also been battling with masturbation and I have tired all I could to stop, the longer I can go is just 1month. I had a girlfriend before I got admission into uni, broke up with her in my first year and decided not to date again, down to my 3rd year, I met another girl and I strictly told her that I wasn't ready to have sex and she accepted, few months later we had issues and we went our separate ways. Earlier this year, I met another babe, everything was good and I refused to tell her that I was a virgin so that she wouldn't underate me, I actually thought I could perform very well in bed until that faithful day. I had sex, my first ever sex at age 26, after about 45mins of pre-intimacy, I penetrated her and in less than 5 thrust, I ejaculated.... I couldn't believe it myself as she still held me down and was craving for more, I told her and she was disappointed. After couple of minutes again, I was erected and same thing happened, this time she was upset and I begged her and confess that it was my first time but she left with anger. I felt really bad and on the second thought I encouraged myself by saying it was my first time after all, maybe next time I will do better. Yet another time came and still same story for 5times now. But this time she truly understood and always encourage me, I also promised her to see a doctor but I don't have any money with me and I don't want to take anyhow sexual enhancement drug as we all know the side effect. We were supposed to meet again this weekend but I refused because I didn't want to feel depressed again. Please Nairalanders what could be wrong with me, is it normal when you first start having sex, is it because I have been masturbating over the years? Please forgive any error in my writing. Thanks. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed Because I'm A 1minute Man by OLAD042(m): 8:30am On Nov 15, 2020 |
Na 12hours u won go? 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Am Depressed Because I'm A 1minute Man by pyyxxaro: 8:39am On Nov 15, 2020 |
Maybe you get Fowl preek U know say once fowl climb and another fowl , b4 one minute e don come down Lemme give you one of the codes Do a lot of exercise Eat a lot of fruits Chop salad Detox ur system with garlic , ginger Use Burantashi to brush ur teeth at least twice a day Then call the gal to come , let her come and testify When she go see the vein when de ur toools first ehn , she go bust cry ![]() 12 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed Because I'm A 1minute Man by BennyN: 8:40am On Nov 15, 2020 |
OLAD042: Lol but you know how she will feel unsatisfied and it is somehow to look less a man 1 Like |
Re: I Am Depressed Because I'm A 1minute Man by blazepascal(m): 8:46am On Nov 15, 2020 |
mate ..just practice edging and work on your pelvic floor muscle you are good to go, and try stopping masturbation it wont be easy though. 6 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed Because I'm A 1minute Man by OLAD042(m): 8:47am On Nov 15, 2020 |
BennyN: I will advice u not to take drugs to enhance Ur sex life... My advice is u either work on your pre-intimacy... getting the right techniques can satisfy her....den u satisfy Ur self with the drilling... Also more exercise do help.... Nd wat u eat...(make sure u always eat not too ripe plantain...it's helps too) 5-10 minutes penetrations ain't bad... unless na OLOSHO u carry.... 9 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed Because I'm A 1minute Man by Nobody: 8:52am On Nov 15, 2020 |
BennyN: solu 1 think of d bible wen having sex solu 2 use borotashi wen shes around atleast make her aware u about to use it solu 3 look for a girl that doesn't like sex so u can just pour n continue ur life without sex drama solu 4 she can have a side dude to fill her up solu 5 become a rev father MEANWHILE CHECK MY SIGNATURE 7 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed Because I'm A 1minute Man by Juwonmania(m): 8:57am On Nov 15, 2020 |
He said 5 thrust not 5 mind. Get samsu oil and thank me later 4 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed Because I'm A 1minute Man by Blakjewelry(m): 9:00am On Nov 15, 2020 |
BennyN:I suggest you calm down and don't rush it. It is over excitement that is killing you 6 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed Because I'm A 1minute Man by falcon01: 9:01am On Nov 15, 2020 |
there was a time I did 7 thrust and came, it was very awesome to me and very embarrassing but the girl heen know me so everywhere good. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed Because I'm A 1minute Man by kingalli2(m): 9:10am On Nov 15, 2020 |
I was in similar situation early this year, I went to the hospital they did test and they find nothing I took agbo no improvement until I work on my mind and the best sex position that works for me, na my lady they run for me now oooo, my advice for you is to take medical action to see if there is an infection and then work on your mind above all don't let any lady push u into your early grave and more of the time ED cure with time. 5 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed Because I'm A 1minute Man by Auladimeji(m): 9:33am On Nov 15, 2020 |
Firstly, don't ever us sex enhancemen drug to fủck any lady Sencindly,stop eating sugar,porn or whatever rubbish that may hinder you Thirdly, as a male,it's proper not to last long on your first round, but learn to capitalize on it by tell the lady you are fủcking that you are not on drug,tell her to help you by playing with your pẻnis,your mind too should be imagine all sort of style you gonna use,never feel dejected, in fact boost your moral like anything Lastly, whenever you are fủcking,think of what makes you angry,maybe it's friend or football or material things, capitalize on it and use the anger to fủck the lady as if you placed a bet on the pủssy...Don't use drugs ooo, you go die for nothing 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Am Depressed Because I'm A 1minute Man by Nobody: 9:34am On Nov 15, 2020 |
The dangers of chronic masturbation cannot be overemphasized. You have conditioned your system to ejaculate ontime and will take some time to recondition your system. First of stop anything masturbation. Adopt healthy lifestyle ( more fruits and vegetables in your diet, avoid junks and processed foods, exercise regularly). During sex, relax your mind. Sex is never a game or sport but a form of relaxation and fun. Any slight form of performance anxiety can triggers chains of the same. Lastly stay away viagra and the likes. They are even worse than masturbation. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed Because I'm A 1minute Man by iLegendd(m): 9:37am On Nov 15, 2020 |
Keep it up. I'm proudly a minute man too. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed Because I'm A 1minute Man by YungBlacMale: 9:45am On Nov 15, 2020 |
Re: I Am Depressed Because I'm A 1minute Man by 1beat(m): 9:45am On Nov 15, 2020 |
put it in prayer as well |
Re: I Am Depressed Because I'm A 1minute Man by YungBlacMale: 9:47am On Nov 15, 2020 |
The ball is in your courts bro. If you're truly depressed and you want to last long... Meet ilegendd and purchase lasticle. I purchased it, the book is fûcking good. Forget all those useless drugs they'll tell you to take. Lasting long is a physical, mental and psychological thing. It's something you can control if u focus on your body. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed Because I'm A 1minute Man by iLegendd(m): 9:52am On Nov 15, 2020 |
BennyN: I just wanted to laugh and leave this thread, but after reading it, I have realized you truly need help. There are 2 solutions 1. Temporary (by using drugs, herb, concoction, etc.) 2. Permanent (by reading the book Lasticle) Search for it on Google, download it, the free version, and when you're done reading, come back here to thank me later. Listen, I have given you the ONLY solution you'll ever need on Earth. Now, it's left with you to take action. What I'm giving you has never failed and never will in 600 million years from now. To make life easier for you, here is the download link of the free version of the book https://shop.wetclef.com/download-lasticle/ 5 Likes
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Re: I Am Depressed Because I'm A 1minute Man by iLegendd(m): 10:01am On Nov 15, 2020 |
YungBlacMale: You saw the sarcasm. I didn't see it coming. |
Re: I Am Depressed Because I'm A 1minute Man by YungBlacMale: 10:10am On Nov 15, 2020 |
iLegendd:
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Re: I Am Depressed Because I'm A 1minute Man by BennyN: 10:21am On Nov 15, 2020 |
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Re: I Am Depressed Because I'm A 1minute Man by UkBalesNig(f): 10:26am On Nov 15, 2020 |
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Re: I Am Depressed Because I'm A 1minute Man by BennyN: 10:27am On Nov 15, 2020 |
pyyxxaro: Please what is Burantashi and where can I get it?. Thanks |
Re: I Am Depressed Because I'm A 1minute Man by BennyN: 10:28am On Nov 15, 2020 |
musicproducer:Please what is Borotashi and where can I get it. Thanks |
Re: I Am Depressed Because I'm A 1minute Man by PARADIZEPRIEST: 10:41am On Nov 15, 2020 |
YOU NEED TO STOP DRINKIN SOFTDRINKS,STOP EATING CAKES PURGE YOUR SYS OF SUGAR,DRINK PLENTY WATER AND EAT AKPU WITH BITTERLEAFFOR 6MONTHS AND SEE RESULTS. DONT WASTE YA MONEY ON DRUGS. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Depressed Because I'm A 1minute Man by Nobody: 10:42am On Nov 15, 2020 |
BennyN:man power ask ur aboki |
Re: I Am Depressed Because I'm A 1minute Man by Ge0grapher(m): 10:45am On Nov 15, 2020 |
Na your mind... You are getting over exited ... Next time think about the things u hate when you are doing it... For me, I simply think about my employment status.. shit helps me every time. ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed Because I'm A 1minute Man by Temmylee02: 10:51am On Nov 15, 2020 |
Shooooooooooooooots!!!!!!!!!!!! Issokay, Guy lemme tell you first of all too much pre-intimacy will always make u come quickly, highest u should pre-intimacy no post pass 5 minutes And another issue is you should fucking stop masturbating that on it own is a killer. Once u start masturbating with ur palm ur penis skin get used to it so anyday u try having sex u will surely cum early because v@ginal inner is much more tender and it lubricate on it own.... Have been down that lane before thank God I stopped. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Depressed Because I'm A 1minute Man by rollybest(m): 11:11am On Nov 15, 2020 |
iLegendd:The one there is incomplete. Missing chapters as am requested to purchase the complete one 1 Like |
Re: I Am Depressed Because I'm A 1minute Man by ambitiouschap17: 11:22am On Nov 15, 2020 |
rollybest: If you have the money purchase it, or wait for a promo day like he did yesterday. When you get this book, you will thank yourself bro. |
Re: I Am Depressed Because I'm A 1minute Man by ruggedtimi(m): 11:26am On Nov 15, 2020 |
You are new to the system..so far now 3mins is ur max. You will get better as you grow older. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Depressed Because I'm A 1minute Man by Chummynoni(m): 11:29am On Nov 15, 2020 |
Run away from sugary food,and exercise. Your story will change 1 Like |
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