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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by xristos(m): 1:41pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
How do opposite sex connect here sef on Nairaland.. Amidst d busy schedules except Ure idle..no chat n reply forum, no notification of replies or mentions, dangerous to share phone numbers, no icon/or image...how una dey do am sef?? Is it just by that dumb email notification? Where it can take forever for the person to reply..not even wit a contact detail? There are thousands of pple here...good, mature, single, smart, rich, etc...just Nairaland readers. It's a lot of stress before u finally get to know who Ure chatting with...plzzz.. it's discouraging for quality persons to get on with anyone here(except u knew urselves b4)...hence u attract kids.. Gracias 9 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by do4luv14(m): 1:41pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
All in the name of testing, you break one of the must important rule during fasting @ CalliDora1 5 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by lucky4west: 1:41pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
hahahahahahahha small boys wanna play big.....he got scared thinking u were a liability.....hahahahahahaha |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by valentineuwakwe(m): 1:41pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
you have not really posted what you want from the guy , hence una two still dey beat round the Bush...the simple thing is, if you like him, spell it out to him and let both of you discuss 3 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by brain54(m): 1:41pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
infogenius:she said he asked her and she said nothing. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Lucrativress(f): 1:41pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
infogenius:There's always a grey spot in between She wanted to test him What if he also felt she was playing him I think at times being plain is better Dude to me felt uncomfortable with the responses just didn't want to cross a bridge of being inquisitive For me I think a "don't bother asking if I've eaten" would have been better Men also get ashamed,he came back speaks volume 5 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Jaqenhghar: 1:42pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Bodyodour:Speak for yourself. I dont see that as any intro to askibg for anything. 1 Like |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by dontai(m): 1:42pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Mac12:your own Betta. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by thobbie007(m): 1:42pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Maybe his out of data and airtime �� 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by jaxxy(m): 1:42pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1: He’s probably not emotionally mature or doesn’t know how to handle a conversation or has had or heard of how gals bill guys so assumed that was playing out so soon and decided to avoid such drama. However if u see sm1 as a frnd u shud be able to have a better conversation with them b4 u assume rubbish. His response was poor. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 1:43pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Ishilove: Exactly how I've been replying his text since last night. the next thing was "are you angry at me? Why are you responding like this? ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Mandela27: 1:43pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
But why cant u ladies stop dramas and attitudes? that thing disgusts me so bad. That was how I met this girl last month on fb,she opened up to me that she likes me,I didnt want to act desperate for the vjay,so I never asked for her number,she kept giving hints here and there,and on saturday night,she couldnt hold it anymore and she asked me out.still I dont want to jump and accept,I told her to calm down,and she said if she sleeps and wake the next day she would prepare her brain to move on...men,since that sunday morning,she started acting cold,I tried igniting the spark again,but the friendship seemed sour already and I hate that girly drama and attitude.I blocked her this morning. 7 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by daben1(m): 1:43pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
pocohantas:poco! I've been reading through every comments line by line, but non got me like this your own, very apt and mature response 9 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by mechanics(m): 1:44pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Ishilove:hmmmm, which kind of help does she expect the man to render to her? 4 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 1:44pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
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Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Nobody: 1:44pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1 sorry to say but I think you are not okay mentally. what kind of vague test is this to conclude on the kind of person he is? did you tell him you were dying of hunger? did you tell him you needed someone to be there for you? how would he know you were hungry or fasting or bored? is he a ghost? From today, learn to communicate what you want to know about every situation with the person involved and get the answer you need. life is too short to be making useless assumptions 23 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by infogenius(m): 1:44pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Bodyodour: LOL. Good, once you know the motive is for financial gain, you can choose to give or not to give and move if need be. The lady could be sick you know and if you don't ask she may not say. Leeches are everywhere, however not all babes are leeches. Interestingly there are a few good species out there. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by mrphate(m): 1:44pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
[quote author=CalliDora1 How's he not a good man, since you're friends and you didn't have a fishy motive, what stoops you from saying ur reason (fasting) in between when you broke ur fast why didn't you say "sorry my friend I wasn't hungry but fasting" and like that beside where does it say fasting should be a super secret, take it or not u were looking for an opportunity to ask for financial help, you think he's a genius to guess right and offer to help...this act is so rampant, I have alot of them like that asking help indirectly and o laugh, meanwhile those bold enough to ask i help but not at the detriment of my needs or those around me 9 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Viking007(m): 1:44pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Ishilove:You're now a male? ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Lucrativress(f): 1:45pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
xristos:Eyin lemo o At times just a comment from one person gets you interested in the person,most times probably trading and solution seeking gets the busy ones connecting 1 Like |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by kkins25(m): 1:45pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Ishilove:Help? you now if i tell you to give me urgent 2k just like that, would you? The guy is trying to pave the way for a relationship but a grown ass working lady never chop for good 3 days and most importantly no logical reason was provided. ishilove: kkins how are you? kkins: im fine. ishilove: so whats up how was work? kkins: fine ishilove(trying to find another angle to extend the conversation: ok, what did you eat today? kkins: nothing. ishilove assumes kkins is not interested in having a conversation and decides to give kkins some time. one day later ishilove: kkins, whats up? kkins: fine. ishilove: did you sleep well? kkins: yes. ishilove: have you eaten? kkins: No. ishilove: oh! whats going on? kkins: Nothing. ishilove concludes kkins is not interested decides to give up for now and try again letter.. this is what happened and yet according to you, ishilove is not a good friend. fear naija women!! 27 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Jaqenhghar: 1:45pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Hunger dey deal with people in Niggeria sha. Someone has not eaten automatically means the person wants to collect money from you. No curiousity just conclusion. ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by mechanics(m): 1:45pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Chiquitq:You made a good point in your last statement, but friendship is not all about financial benefits you know? 4 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by daben1(m): 1:46pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Mandela27:you shouldn't have bro, you should have left her with her childish attitude 1 Like |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by NOwazobia: 1:46pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Ishilove: 1:47pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
kkins25:I don't ask people if they have eaten. They are not babies 6 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Viqtour(m): 1:47pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
I think the guy is a little scared of billing. Personally my reaction would be to press you into saying the reason for not eating and I will press you to try to find something to eat. If you now ask for financial assistance to eat or urgent 2k...I'm good in saying No. However, I'll keep calling to check up on you. If you give me attitude I'll japa. If you behave well without emphasis on my refusal to give you money then I'll do more for you. I don't know why guys fear to be asked for urgent 2k or sub. I like being asked, it's the fastest way for me to japa. My favorite reply is I am cash strapped. 18 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Veezy4u(m): 1:47pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Wahala for who get wahala ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by haslaw(m): 1:47pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1 You really can't form an opinion until and unless you speak to him about his actions. For all you know he could also be angry that you never bothered to ask about how he's doing all the days he was away. I think you are a very selfish person. Sometimes relationship is not always about you ladies NB Be careful with people like ishilove and their toxic advice. Their kinds are professional home breakers 32 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by mechanics(m): 1:47pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
CalliDora1:Funny you, to me he was trying to observe to know whether you are the type of ladies interested in eating other men's money and obscondiing. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by Ishilove: 1:48pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Viking007:I am in touch with my masculine side ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Why Did He Do This? I Need To Understand Why Some Act This Way. Is It Right? by fannybaby(f): 1:48pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
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