Barka00:


Zzor
Let's hang out na, all bills on me

so you can come here and announced to them how you used and dumped me abi,try another trick

This one is a bitter, attention seeking person obsessed with men, ASUU should just call of this strike, I'm tired of seeing this girl senseless posts

Petyr1:
don't you have anything to discuss apart from man?

She's so obsessed with men, don't be surprised that it's one broke guy that is banging her steady

Zzor:
Your dad's case does not apply here, he was responsible when he was on his feet.,so your mom did was what was expected of her

I hope you would also do same if something unfortunate happens to the man along the line, but never mind I wish you the best.

Funkyswagzz:


Shes contemplating house wife and working class wife which is better never since anyone so confused like her.. I just pray she's not like this in real life cos it's a huge problem

Personally, I feel there's nothing wrong with being a full time housewife. But even at that, you will still contribute something to the marriage, otherwise she will lose VALUE in the sight of her husband. Nobody likes a wife that's not industrious for too long, the love and respect will gradually fade. There are many stay-at-home wives who are having a wonderful marriage, not because their husbands are contributing 100% finances, but because they make themselves useful even while at home.

Some stay-at-home wives have mini-businesses they run from home, either like a shop in the front of her house or digital sales and then she uses dispatch to deliver goods etc. Some cases, it is the husband that set up the shop, or funded the small business idea she had, but she brought the idea to him, she's not a lazy do nothing.

A husband says his wife should be a sit-at-home wife, he gives her house allowance and pocket money to put the house in order and take care of herself. He pays school fees and house rent, he funded a mini shop or home business to keep her from being completely idle (or maybe not and she's the type that is 100% housewife doing nothing, that's ok too). Whichever case she gets money from him for upkeep.

A wise woman that has sense and has maturity in thinking knows she should save some money aside to do somethings in the house outside of what the husband is doing, to complement his effort. He paid rent, he paid children's school fees, he pays for house provisions and toiletries, plus pocket money for her. A smart housewife will be proactive with the little little bills or miscellaneous expenses than comes up. Those small small bills like when he didn't drop money for food but he comes home to meet dinner prepared, or the money to throw away dustbin, or baby food finished she didn't have to call her husband but she takes care of that on her own with part of the money he gave her for her personal allowance. That's what we are talking about, she's contributing, she's helping out, even as a full-time housewife or stay-at-home wife. There's no man that won't love that kind of housewife.

Not the type that her husband will come home and not meet any food and then she says he should eat empty pot na, since he didn't drop money for food. But duhhhh, he paid rent, paid school fees, pays for shopping, paid to put comfort in the house for everyone, bought the car for the family uses, and still gave you pocket money for yourself and because one day he didn't drop money for food, he must not eat? Na those kain behavior dey make many women destroy their marriage with their own hands, cuz no real man with put up with that kind of nonsense. There will surely be conflict and confrontation.


Then even for a working woman, assuming maybe the husband's salary or business income is 300K a month. The wife earns 50K. The husband pays yearly rent, pays school fees, pays the bulk of the bills. There's nothing stopping the wife from maybe paying utility bills, or if the husband is paying utility bills too, then she pays for groceries and provisions in the house. That's how a practical marriage works. The man is a provider, this is his duty; but the woman is a helper. She is not a helper to herself, she is a helper to him, to his job of providing for the house and making sure all the bills are paid and needs are met and everyone's welfare gets attention.

Even among the extremely wealthy, this fact is applicable. Look at some rich men married to wives that are also doing well by themselves, working class or business wives, they contribute financially to the growth and success of their home. The husband might buy a 4 billion mansion in banana, buy cars etc, then you will see the wife, she pays for the interior decor from her own pocket, or maybe the husband took care of all the bills, and then you see the wife organize domestic workers and she pays them from her pocket, or she's handling the feeding bills, or doing one aspect or more from her own pocket. Or she decides to buy her husband a car, because he bought the house, bought this, bought that, pays all kinds of bils to keep the home as great as possible, so she compliments him.

For a woman to now say she's not ready to be a helper of her husband in marriage, not ready to support his effort or compliment him in sharing or handling some responsibility, that woman ain't ready for marriage, she's living in a fake bubble or just being very dumb or childish.

Zzor:
so you can come here and announced to them how you used and dumped me abi,try another trick

Lol, hanging out has nothing to do with 'use and dump' na.

Zzor:
After you bring your stamina penis, then what else? is that all? then you now invite this same woman u want to kill with your whatever to come share in the financial responsibility you are supposed to take charge of abi, if you want to be a man,be a man in totality, be a masculine man to the core, stop waiting for women to come share bills with you, that's wickedness, it's also against the scripture if you don't know.

Finances is part or aspect of the responsibility a man bears. It is a major or critical aspect but it's not the only aspect. So when we talk about responsibility, we are looking at the full picture, not a part of it. Regarding the full picture, the totality of all the responsibility involved in a marriage, a man cannot bear everything alone. A man is not a beast of burden that carries the weight while a woman sits on top for a jolly ride. That's not reality. That can only be an utopia fantasy of a hallucinating woman. But this is the real world we live in, not Disney Land. Things don't work that way.

Since you want to talk Bible, ok what did God say? He said I will make man a help meet, a helper. This is who or what a woman is - A HELPER of man! The responsibility of this world was giving to man, and the purpose of the woman is to help him fulfill his responsibility, to complement his efforts, to support him by making a contribution. This is the Law of Nature. Same thing is applicable to marrigae. A man is a provider and the woman is his helper to compliment him in achieving his duty of providing. So you must contribute. He can't and should not do everything. You must do something too, even if it's to show or prove you are not useless.

Because there's more to life than child bearing and babysitting, there's more for a woman than being a baby factory. And any woman that limits herself to the sexual arena is functioning at the most basic / fundamental programming of the female specie of the human race. Same way any man that limits himself to just being a sperm donor or community deek that impregnates women to grow the human population is functioning in the most basic programming of the male specie of the human race. And that's primitive behavior, that's humans living or behaving like lower animals that all they do is sleep, play, make babies, repeat etc till they die.

But humans are more than that, and have inbuilt capacity for more than that. And part of your capacity as a woman is to complement your man's efforts. So if your future wedding is N1m, you better be ready to split some of that bill. Cuz that's how stars women with sense do. So u berra start saving so you can have something tangible to bring to the table. Marriage is like an ecosystem where the organisms involved are in a symbiotic relationship, give and take, not a parasite and host relationship. No host likes a parasite to attach to it too long. Nobody wants a parasitic woman. If good puci, boobs en curves is all a woman has to contribute, then she's a bloody parasite. You can either adjust to reality, or be like the women that have the mindset like the picture below: this puci lit... And that's all she's bringing to the table. You will end up as a sex object for men. The choice is yours

Openbusiness:
Finances is part or aspect of the responsibility a man bears. It is a major or critical aspect but it's not the only aspect. So when we talk about responsibility, we are looking at the full picture, not a part of it. Regarding the full picture, the totality of all the responsibility involved in a marriage, a man cannot bear everything alone. A man is not a beast of burden that carries the weight while a woman sits on top for a jolly ride. That's not reality. That can only be an utopia fantasy of a hallucinating woman. But this is the real world we live in, not Disney Land. Things don't work that way.

Since you want to talk Bible, ok what did God say? He said I will make man a help meet, a helper. This is who or what a woman is - A HELPER of man! The responsibility of this world was giving to man, and the purpose of the woman is to help him fulfill his responsibility, to complement his efforts, to support him by making a contribution. This is the Law of Nature. Same thing is applicable to marrigae. A man is a provider and the woman is his helper to compliment him in achieving his duty of providing. So you must contribute. He can't and should not do everything. You must do something too, even if it's to show or prove you are not useless.

Because there's more to life than child bearing and babysitting, there's more for a woman than being a baby factory. And any woman that limits herself to the sexual arena is functioning at the most basic / fundamental programming of the female specie of the human race. Same way any man that limits himself to just being a sperm donor or community deek that impregnates women to grow the human population is functioning in the most basic programming of the male specie of the human race. And that's primitive behavior, that's humans living or behaving like lower animals that all they do is sleep, play, make babies, repeat etc till they die.

But humans are more than that, and have inbuilt capacity for more than that. And part of your capacity as a woman is to complement your man's efforts. So if your future wedding is N1m, you better be ready to split some of that bill. Cuz that's how stars women with sense do. So u berra start saving so you can have something tangible to bring to the table. Marriage is like an ecosystem where the organisms involved are in a symbiotic relationship, give and take, not a parasite and host relationship. No host likes a parasite to attach to it too long. Nobody wants a parasitic woman. If good puci, boobs en curves is all a woman has to contribute, then she's a bloody parasite. You can either adjust to reality, or be like the women that have the mindset like the picture below: this puci lit... And that's all she's bringing to the table. You will end up as a sex object for men. The choice is yours

you are intelligently wicked,thats all I can say

lkillbrokehoes:
She's so obsessed with men, don't be surprised that it's one broke guy that is banging her steady

I took your topic down, e pain you, it's my choice and against my rules to share bills with any man ,learn to respect that

Zzor:
I took your topic down, e pain you, it's my choice and against my rules to share bills with any man ,learn to respect that

You took what down? u must be sick
see let me tell u, independent and matured ladies don't go around talking shít about men, well u are just a broke ass girl who's relying on men money for survival

lkillbrokehoes:
You took what down? u must be sick
see let me tell u, independent and matured ladies don't go around talking shít about men, well u are just a broke ass girl who's relying on men money for survival

Ntorrrrrr

Zzor:
Ntorrrrrr

You are a very lazy girl

Openbusiness:
Personally, I feel there's nothing wrong with being a full time housewife. But even at that, you will still contribute something to the marriage, otherwise she will lose VALUE in the sight of her husband. Nobody likes a wife that's not industrious for too long, the love and respect will gradually fade. There are many stay-at-home wives who are having a wonderful marriage, not because their husbands are contributing 100% finances, but because they make themselves useful even while at home.

Some stay-at-home wives have mini-businesses they run from home, either like a shop in the front of her house or digital sales and then she uses dispatch to deliver goods etc. Some cases, it is the husband that set up the shop, or funded the small business idea she had, but she brought the idea to him, she's not a lazy do nothing.

A husband says his wife should be a sit-at-home wife, he gives her house allowance and pocket money to put the house in order and take care of herself. He pays school fees and house rent, he funded a mini shop or home business to keep her from being completely idle (or maybe not and she's the type that is 100% housewife doing nothing, that's ok too). Whichever case she gets money from him for upkeep.

A wise woman that has sense and has maturity in thinking knows she should save some money aside to do somethings in the house outside of what the husband is doing, to complement his effort. He paid rent, he paid children's school fees, he pays for house provisions and toiletries, plus pocket money for her. A smart housewife will be proactive with the little little bills or miscellaneous expenses than comes up. Those small small bills like when he didn't drop money for food but he comes home to meet dinner prepared, or the money to throw away dustbin, or baby food finished she didn't have to call her husband but she takes care of that on her own with part of the money he gave her for her personal allowance. That's what we are talking about, she's contributing, she's helping out, even as a full-time housewife or stay-at-home wife. There's no man that won't love that kind of housewife.

Not the type that her husband will come home and not meet any food and then she says he should eat empty pot na, since he didn't drop money for food. But duhhhh, he paid rent, paid school fees, pays for shopping, paid to put comfort in the house for everyone, bought the car for the family uses, and still gave you pocket money for yourself and because one day he didn't drop money for food, he must not eat? Na those kain behavior dey make many women destroy their marriage with their own hands, cuz no real man with put up with that kind of nonsense. There will surely be conflict and confrontation.


Then even for a working woman, assuming maybe the husband's salary or business income is 300K a month. The wife earns 50K. The husband pays yearly rent, pays school fees, pays the bulk of the bills. There's nothing stopping the wife from maybe paying utility bills, or if the husband is paying utility bills too, then she pays for groceries and provisions in the house. That's how a practical marriage works. The man is a provider, this is his duty; but the woman is a helper. She is not a helper to herself, she is a helper to him, to his job of providing for the house and making sure all the bills are paid and needs are met and everyone's welfare gets attention.

Even among the extremely wealthy, this fact is applicable. Look at some rich men married to wives that are also doing well by themselves, working class or business wives, they contribute financially to the growth and success of their home. The husband might buy a 4 billion mansion in banana, buy cars etc, then you will see the wife, she pays for the interior decor from her own pocket, or maybe the husband took care of all the bills, and then you see the wife organize domestic workers and she pays them from her pocket, or she's handling the feeding bills, or doing one aspect or more from her own pocket. Or she decides to buy her husband a car, because he bought the house, bought this, bought that, pays all kinds of bils to keep the home as great as possible, so she compliments him.

For a woman to now say she's not ready to be a helper of her husband in marriage, not ready to support his effort or compliment him in sharing or handling some responsibility, that woman ain't ready for marriage, she's living in a fake bubble or just being very dumb or childish.

This is meant for zzor

lkillbrokehoes:
You are a very lazy girl

you are actually right

Zzor:
Yes, I will never bring anything to any man's table because I see that as part of the modern day slavery. A woman will give a man care, bear him children, nurture the children, take good care of his home, gives him sex anytime he wants, wakes up at anytime of the night to attend to the baby's needs, gives selfless emotional needs, prays for the family, works and earn money (99percent of women work these days) and many more. So after doing all these for a man, these same man will want
you to come share bills with him? like seriously? Am i his mother? Am i his slave? Why are men of these generation becoming so mean? Why do you all want to add to the burden of women? I will only spend my money on my kids and parents alone and not any man who is comfortable to still demand that his wife brings something to the table with all these stress women undergo. Don't even bother insulting me, it's a waste of energy. I'm also not against women who are comfortable doing such.

Why hide under a moniker and be saying trash post ur pic join if ur really proud of what you are saying...

Zzor:
Yes, I will never bring anything to any man's table because I see that as part of the modern day slavery. A woman will give a man care, bear him children, nurture the children, take good care of his home, gives him sex anytime he wants, wakes up at anytime of the night to attend to the baby's needs, gives selfless emotional needs, prays for the family, works and earn money (99percent of women work these days) and many more. So after doing all these for a man, these same man will want you to come share bills with him? like seriously? Am i his mother? Am i his slave? Why are men of these generation becoming so mean? Why do you all want to add to the burden of women? I will only spend my money on my kids and parents alone and not any man who is comfortable to still demand that his wife brings something to the table with all these stress women undergo.

Op pls.take d advice of d first guy that commented on ur post for i hear d spirit saying hes speaking words of wisdom

danvault:



You sound like a teenager but that is not a crime. No man in his right mind wants a woman to foot the bills all the time as it is a bruise to his ego and assumed status as the head of the home. But there are exceptions my dear, my dad once lost his job when I was around 6 years old and my mum who was just a teacher took care of us all (3 kids) including my DAD until he got back on his feet. I just wonder how crushed the man would have felt if my mum also had your mindset back then. People who think like you are just selfish and na your type dey record every good deed done to another person while expecting returns. Men really hate selfish women, the easiest way to get gifts or money from me as a man is to show me that you are not selfish as a woman. We learn everyday o, and I wish you the best. Marriage is a collaboration and the burden should never be one sided...

My Guy that babe na goat... My mum paid my school fees from first year to final year..

Because my dad was already a pensioner..

Today i am big boy.

she is just seeking for attention.
Nigeria girls are messed up.
She reasons like an animal.

[quote author=Openbusiness post=96420985]Insult? That was not an insult. One person's insults is another man's statement of fact. I was stating facts. Your posts are always annoying 95% of the time, and you will always find a way to insult the male gender and blame them for one thing or the other.

Bros u still try wey u give her 95%... every of her post I find on here are always always silly rants

Zzor:
Yes, I will never bring anything to any man's table because I see that as part of the modern day slavery. A woman will give a man care, bear him children, nurture the children, take good care of his home, gives him sex anytime he wants, wakes up at anytime of the night to attend to the baby's needs, gives selfless emotional needs, prays for the family, works and earn money (99percent of women work these days) and many more. So after doing all these for a man, these same man will want you to come share bills with him? like seriously? Am i his mother? Am i his slave? Why are men of these generation becoming so mean? Why do you all want to add to the burden of women? I will only spend my money on my kids and parents alone and not any man who is comfortable to still demand that his wife brings something to the table with all these stress women undergo. Don't even bother insulting me, it's a waste of energy. I'm also not against women who are comfortable doing such.

CONFESS YOUR SINS TODAY AND BE FREE
WE KNOW YOU'RE MALE
ONLY GULLIBLE PEOPLE WHO DON'T KNOW

Erojepromise:
zzor sorry oh l beg no vex, no offense but you are complete OLODO

asin ehn.. a typical olodo

Biglittlelois:



Going by your funny analysis, nature gave humans penis and vagina, nature also gave women womb to carry kids for 9 months, and that's where it stops, taking care of kids, cooking, cleaning, working, was not assigned to any gender, anyone can decide to take up any role comfortable for them, therefore, a woman can be the head of the family, and a man can be a domesticated house husband, correct?

What is this one saying? Ogbeni keep quiet!

lkillbrokehoes:
You took what down? u must be sick
see let me tell u, independent and matured ladies don't go around talking shít about men, well u are just a broke ass girl who's relying on men money for survival

Blood of Zechariah!

Zzor:
I wish your sisters what you wish for me and as regards marriage, I'm the one holding back for now

Ehya, I pity the man for the problem he's about to enter .. I know for sure you've never brought this up to him or mentioned this kind view to him

Zzor:
The same way nature made men to be providers but recently they all want to cheat nature SMH

By nature men are protectors and both men and women are providers. Women farm, men hunt, some women also hunt. This was nature in its oldest and simplest form. It has always been a partnership.

jaxxy:


By nature men are protectors and both men and women are providers. Women farm, men hunt, some women also hunt. This was nature in its oldest and simplest form. It has always been a partnership.

women farm and hunt? where did you see that from?

Zzor:
women farm and hunt? where did you see that from?

From history and culture.

Zzor:
Stop twisting things, care are given to whom rightfully deserve it, hope you own a table by the way. shalom

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