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My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Adebami895: 2:15pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Nairalanders!!! I Need Your Advice Please Good day, my fellow nairalanders. permit me for the blunders, this is just the way I can put it. I have this pretty and honest girl am currently dating, she is 18 while am 21. We have been dating for 8 months now. My parents knows her and her family knows me as well except her dad. She is really into me and I love her dearly too. I have been in relationships but this current relationship seem to be different because I have never been in love to this extent. Despite the richer and well to do guys disturbing her for relationships she still stick to me. Although I never make her lack anything even when she never requested for it. she loves me so much that she can’t do without texting and calling me daily, sometimes she even tells me to send a selfie of my self so that she can see my face. This girl is just one of a kind and God knows I truly love her and I will love to marry her if things continue this way. She runs a small business online and am even planing to surprise her with some cash next year to make the business grow. I love it when a lady is hustling. The problem am having right now is that she is a Virgin, We normally engage in pre-intimacy, although am not satisfied with that, but since I truly love her I just have to wait till she is ready. So recently she finally told me that she is ready to get disvirgined. We have already make a date for that and I have already make plans on booking a 5 star hotel room to make it special and memorable. I started having second taught this morning that I should not disvirgin her yet because I will be leaving for school next year to further my education while she will start processing admission to gain entry into tertiary institution of her choice, with this reason I felt if I got her disvirgined she might meet some bad peers that will make her engage in some sort of negativity and definitely she might become a hoe or she might be craving for sex while am not with her, but i felt if she is still is still a Virgin she will have my fear in her heart and be for me only. Should I disvirgin her? or still let her be a Virgin. Am confused, I just don’t want to loose everything. I don’t want to later end up a looser in the relationship. Please nairalanders I really need your advice!! Bashing is welcome as well. 23 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by grim33(m): 2:22pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Don’t worry... sharper guys go help you do the deed. Advice fire. 365 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Nobody: 2:22pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Focus on your future first. 373 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by 7BigSquids: 2:23pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Don't disvirgin her 171 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Donmoscojaja(m): 2:25pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
am getting tired of seeing stuff like this on nairaland Modified: this story self....18 years and 21 years old and you plan to surprise her with cash?? bros odika iche anyi bu umuaka 438 Likes 24 Shares |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Nobody: 2:26pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
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Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by dermmy(m): 2:26pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Luckyheart: Op pls take this advice. 150 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Sundrus: 2:27pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
ttoto & pricck mata again ![]() 139 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Uzomacharles: 2:35pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
I will advice you to leave her if you really want to marry her.... What is yours is yours... Who can't stay doesn't worth staying... If you open the gate then comot, everybody go wan enter when u no dey... 85 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Nobody: 2:47pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Op, I Want To Advise U As A Good Bad Guy Now. If U Take My Advice D Better 4 U. Do U Really Love Her & Want To Marry Her. Disvirgin Her B4 Going To School, If U Don't, Anoda Guy Dat Doesn't Love Her Or Dat May Not Love Her Will Disvirgin Her B4 U Return 4rm Sch & It Will Hurt U Very Bad. After Disvirgining Her, Get Her Pregnant & Do D Little U Can Do 4 Her B4 Going To Sch. After Ur Sch, U Can Do D Remaining Things. Note: I'm Advising D Way I Would Advise My Own Blood Brother. Getting A Virgin As A Wife Is Hard. Don't Misuse Dis Opportunity U Av. U Can Thank Me Later. 90 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by fati2001(m): 3:16pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Truvel: SAID BY SOMEONE WHO CLAIMED GIRLS ARE EXPOSED TO EARLY SEX ... 102 Likes |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by 2dice01: 3:20pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
![]() Change is Constant 3 Likes |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Angelacruz: 3:21pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
hot premium tears loading...better focus on ur studies 57 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Auladimeji(m): 3:21pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Bro,the only way you can seal your memory in her is by disflowering her,if another dude do it,as wear to God,she'll forget you.... But wait ooo, you dey this nairanland and you no dey read Ubunja right write,he talked about stuff like this naw 36 Likes |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Nobody: 3:21pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
fati2001:Fati2001, Dis One Is Different. Dis Is Someone He Wants To Get Marry To. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Donspicey: 3:33pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Weda u disvirgin her or not you will stil be at the losing end....... Why ![]() because you both are about to go into the main world of immorality(Higher Institution) Most girls don't settle down with who disvirgined dem...... No worry if u reach a certain stage all dis love wey dey shark u go drop....dat time u go begin reason how to be a MAN.. 215 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Adebami895: 3:40pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Donspicey: Am in sch already |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Adebami895: 3:41pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Auladimeji:Ok thanks for your advice 1 Like |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Adebami895: 3:41pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Uzomacharles: Thanx for your advice I think this is useful 4 Likes |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Adebami895: 3:42pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Truvel: We are too young for that. Tanx for your advice anyway 5 Likes |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Donspicey: 3:45pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Adebami895: You are losing her already....... Do wat ur mind permits u to do and move on... You still have a long way to go in life coupled with so many opposite sex distractions..... The ball is in ur court..... Women matter dey complicated bro....... Focus on ur future first..... 25 Likes |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Nobody: 3:52pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Adebami895:We Are Too Young 4 Dat. Lol. I See... It Seems Like U Are Scared. Don't See Urself As Too Young. D Wife Of Kanu Nwakwo Was 18yrs Old When He Got Married To Her. Do U Know What? I Don't Want Sound As If I'm Forcing U, Or I'm Trying To Make U Do Something Dat Is Against Ur Own Will. D Choice Is Urs. If U Want To Marry Her, Dat's D Best Advice I Can Give U. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by 2dice01: 3:58pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Truvel:Person wey just wan start him life ![]() Is you normal sir ![]() Do you know his total networth? Una go just dey update poverty for the country like iPhone 67 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by luminouz(m): 3:59pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
![]() This dude is funny. You wanna wait till she graduates? Well, just know this, once she enters school lasan, she ain't yours anymore,whether virgin or not. Make ya peace with it. 29 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Nobody: 4:04pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
2dice01:U Wey Normal, How U Take Know Say Him Won Just Start Him Life? I Don't See Him As A Kid As U See Him. 2 Likes |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by 2dice01: 4:15pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Truvel:Your advise is Bullshít So you think marrying her while you are in school Will automatically cure any Konji she feel when you are not around ![]() 7 Likes |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Nobody: 4:18pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Op, I'm Not Trying To Push U To Do Things U Don't Want To Do. If U Want To Wait 4 Her Or U Want Her To Wait 4 U B4 U Graduate 4rm Sch. 1. She Would Be Deflowered By Anoda Guy 2. She Might Get Pregnant 4 Anoda Guy B4 Ur Return 4rm Sch. 3. Anoda Guy Would Marry Her B4 U Return Too. 4. She Would Lose Interest In U B4 U Return. Yes. Mark My Word. My 2nd Advice Is Dat If U Are Not Comfortable With It Or U See Dat As A Burden 4 U Because Of Ur Sch, Just 4get Abt Her Totally & Consentrate On Ur Sch. Until U Finish Ur Sch, U Can Look 4 A Wife To Marry. Her Chance Of Waiting 4 U To Graduate Is 2%. Just 4get It, Anoda Guy Would Take Her B4 U Return. Dat's D Ugly Truth. 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Franktom247(m): 4:41pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
I have nothing to say brother righteousness89 the floor is yours 3 Likes |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by fijinjesu92792: 6:17pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
:Person wey just wan start him life Is you normal sir U Wey Normal, Are U Take Know Say Him Won Just Start Him Life? I Don't See Him As A Kid As U See Him. |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Sixfeetbelle: 7:09pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Adebami895: As usual with Nigerian men and their entitlement mentality, you believe you must have the first slice of the cake aka deflower the precious virgin otherwise you lose out of the relationship. And as expected, your fellow entitled eediots will advise you accordingly. Read this well. The hymen isn't for you. Deflowering her isn't your job. That job is meant for her husband and since you're not that, all I see is a selfish guy who is lusting after a young girl. You don't love her if your most concerning thoughts is about what would happen to her virginity when you're not there so delete that claim. You have been advised and since you're young and impressionable, I know what your final decision will be. I only pity the foolish girl who thinks having sex with you is a proof of love. She should know better. 91 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:26pm On Nov 28, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: Well said ![]() 25 Likes 4 Shares |
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