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Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Angelacruz: 5:19am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Pls tell him anthonyuncle: |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by tunnappa(m): 5:24am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Follow your mind |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by DIVINEEVIDENCE: 5:24am On Nov 29, 2020 |
OP you're just a tiny little simp. But understand that these emotions rushing through you right now could be anything else, but never love. Assuming you end up impregnating her, your eyes will clear and you'll realise you've been living in fool's paradise all along. I'm older than you are, old enough to get married but currently has no time for ladies. Marriage is the last thing on my mind while career and wealth building takes centre stage. Zero heartbreaks, zero exes and a clear-minded focus for life and career. I've amassed knowledge from those who have gone the whole length, the Ubunjas, Rollo Tomassis, Mystery and so on. And guys get to meet me for advice on marriage issues and relationships. If you see women for what they are bro, you'll never waste your time on foolish emotions until you truly want to settle down. It's unfortunate that you'll most likely learn your lessons through a hard and painful experience. At 21 all that's occupying your mind is kissing and smooching and marrying a girl you 'love'. Bro wake up from that dream, dust your life and plan for your future. I'm sure you still depend on your peeps but you're already thinking of sponsoring a girl. Major simping. If you want to marry a virgin, find a virgin who's been through the uni and NYSC. Anything other than this brur, you're on your own. I'm an undergraduate and I've seen too much of uni hoeing. Dem girls ain't loyal to nobody. Whatever you think you got -- comeliness, nice physique, cash, intelligence bla bla bla, she'll find peeps in the uni who're way better than you are. My dream girl is currently in the uni but I don't wanna have no business with her until she's out. Whatever is yours has a way of coming back to you. If you find yourself worrying too much over someone, then it's obvious they have a value way higher than yours. One of these days they're gonna dump your desperate ass (because you just can't get to control the panic) and you'll end up reaching for sniper or a well tied noose... My advice: take a break from this lady and face your future. If she's the one for you your paths will cross again tomorrow. If she ain't then you're better off without the emotional baggage. Fine words butter no parsnips. Las las you'll do what you wish to do. But understand that there are some men who have no time for women, no matter what they look like. It's up to you to be like such or otherwise. 2 Likes |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by tunnappa(m): 5:24am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Follow your mind dudes |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by FashionCookie(f): 5:29am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Donmoscojaja: But bros are you surprised? shey I told you most of them coming here to yarb women can't do without sex? see this one yansh for outside...he don hear virgin, him ear don spread like satellite fish. Tomorrow he'll come here and say virgin or nothing! Talk is cheap and no one knows tomorrow...he fit even disflower her finish and he no go marry her. Life balance! 5 star hotel ko, 5 star Apple ni! |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by FashionCookie(f): 5:31am On Nov 29, 2020 |
fati2001:"Hanty," the matter no shock you? 1 Like |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Agbanasm: 5:31am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Pre marital sex is a sin before God Pre marital sex is immoral in the society What will your parents and her advice you if they have to advise you on this matter. Lucky you , u met a virgin, keep the virginity till when it will be rewarding . Make your education a focus point, if she is yours, she will definitely keep it for you. My candid advise bro 2 Likes |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by FashionCookie(f): 5:33am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Truvel: Abegi! Na today? 2 Likes |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by SarutobiEky(m): 5:40am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Obedinho130: Omo I no know o. Me Neva taste am. |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Godbless3(m): 5:43am On Nov 29, 2020 |
A failed nation indeed. Get a life because puna won't solve everything. Sex before education just show how this nation have wasted her future to the point of telling us am 21 and she is 18. You even want to help her with cash to expand her online business? Nah jumia or konga? Nah your parent self go pay your school fees while you want top the fees to send to her? Love nah scam i swear! Nah so it happen to me around 2009 when i enter sch & my fresh girl dat time was telling me her much she loves me and not my money. But the babe dey collect fron niggas 2times my age and young pally also till i came to reality in 2011 but love over shadow everything but we continue till i my final year the babe broke my hrt when she call quit. But that was the best decision that happen in my life and till today i remain single. Nah only 1 yoruba girl i fit fall inlove with in this life and she was my student when i was serving. NYSC nah scam but i mate her so no regrate at all. |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Archbishop88: 5:54am On Nov 29, 2020 |
In this matter, both of you have roles to play very well. My case as an example, am 32, my woman is 25. She is still a Virgin. Luckily am one too. She broke up with all her exs because they are demanding for sex until when we meet in July this year. Things have been going good between the two of us. We have been standing in gap for one another. We decided that no sex before marriage. She is seeing me as God sent man and that my type is rare among men. So my friend, if you value your future. No do am. When it's time for you to get married. God knows how to compensate you better if you harken into his voice. Though my advise is not compelling you to adhere to it. Life na by choice. Chose wisely. May the two minute enjoyment not destroy your future and power. 1 Like |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by VTJN(m): 5:55am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Truvel:What u wished 4 this small girl so shall it be 4 ur small sisters and future daughters, Amen!!! 1 Like |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Harvesttony(m): 6:03am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Adebami895: You just want to have sex and asking us to give you Advice. Mumu Okay The best thing for you to do is to lead her to Christ Jesus through that both of you can build your relationship in Christ and be patient till when it's right. Apparently, you both are still children who should be seeking to understand and persue the things of light and not bash in irrelevant fornication. 1 Like |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Babyshark: 6:09am On Nov 29, 2020 |
guys on nairaland ehn....there is really no big deal in the whole issh, first she's 18 and you 21so no minor here. second you never forced her to make her decision of having her first with you and not someone else, despite so much pressure from other guys so she obviously wants you..I'd advice if thats what she really wants then go ahead. you having sex with her now or later doesn't guarantee/ facilitate the fact that she would walk down the aisle with you or not. you'd cross that bridge when you get there. Don't overthink the whole issh . The thing is her decision to have or not to have sex with other guys while in school is dependent on her... you have quite a little role to play in that |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by OROSUNBOLB(m): 6:16am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Op,you must be the famous "Lie Mohammed"! ! |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Duru009(m): 6:19am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Bro ! If you don't do it somebody will do it immediately.... Take heart ! GIRL102 |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Auwm1(m): 6:22am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Please don't Disvirgin her cos you would the Consequences after Marriage with her...you guys should hold your chastity and humble yourselves till Marriage so that the respect can still carry on... Please don't do that, you may disvirgin her and later not become her Husband and she later meet her Husband disvirgin which is not right...Logically and religiously! |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by GPOKOKING: 6:23am On Nov 29, 2020 |
I beg you in the Name of the good LORD, do not dabble into what will bring you regret for the rest of your life. What do you stand to gain if you disvirgin a lady you are not yet married to. Don't follow the worldly system, do what you are expected by God to do: stay clear of premarital sex and it's adjoining sins. Stop also to engage in "presex activities", it is sinful. May you receive help from God to do the right thing. Heaven is real, so is Hell! |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Skmoda360(m): 6:29am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Donmoscojaja:Broda, the thing tire me....this kids like taking relationship as if it's their priority or major aim in life.... 1 Like |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by IamPlato(m): 6:33am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Adebami895: If I understand you correctly, you want to leave your virgin girl to pass through university and come out as a virgin, so that is your plan. You believe she will come out a virgin... You are a fool but you don't know... Do whatever the fvck you like |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by TJaguar(m): 6:34am On Nov 29, 2020 |
To tell you the truth, if she has already agreed to have sex and you don't. When she gets into tertiary institution( land of sex sins), she will be disvirgined. She is just a 18 and inexperienced, and you are far away. when she gets to a surrounding like that dude, as far as she has given sex a thought before, very high chance it's gonna happen. She is still young and you guys are going to be in a distance for 4 years or more. Damn she might even enter another relationship |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by fati2001(m): 6:35am On Nov 29, 2020 |
FashionCookie: if he Don use the girl finish.. he will throw her away... |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Cutehector(m): 6:36am On Nov 29, 2020 |
And if she carry belle nko? |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by fati2001(m): 6:38am On Nov 29, 2020 |
johnhood: HI, GOOD MORNING THAT'S NOT TROLLING...... WHY COMPLAINING, YOU GUY'S TROLL AND BASH FEMALES HERE OFTEN... .. I'M JUST RETURNING THE FAVOR.... BACK TO THE MATTER! HE SAID GIRLS ARE EXPOSED TO EARLY SEX AND YET CAN YOU SEE THE ADVISE HE POSTED?... HUMANS SHOULD STOP THIS HYPOCRISY !!!! |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Munzy14(m): 6:38am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Donmoscojaja:No think am o...Age got nothing with making money. In this era of online business, u can see a 20yr old boy with a cool 2M and above in his account. |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Nobody: 6:39am On Nov 29, 2020 |
VTJN:Lol. Na 18yrs Old Girl U Dey Call Small? If U See What 18yrs Girls Are Doing, U Will Be Astonished. My Advice 4 Him Is Just Like An Advice I Would Av Given My Own Son If He Were In His Shoes. I Know My Comment May Sound Weird Or Unpleasant But If Done, Happiness Would Be D Outcome. Dat Doesn't Mean He Won't Face Challenges. At D End He Will Overcome.
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Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Fayuba(m): 6:40am On Nov 29, 2020 |
The world has become something else, immorality is now a normal thing. Lord have mercy On this generation. BRO, DO NOT ENGAGE IN THAT ACT. |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Nobody: 6:40am On Nov 29, 2020 |
fati2001:He Won't If He Truly Loves Her. Not All Guys Are Like Dat. |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Mikee19(m): 6:43am On Nov 29, 2020 |
You say this as if every guy gets to marry a virgin girl, because "it is his job" to "break the hymen". You aren't facing reality like the commenters you just criticised. Those advice is because HARDLY ANYBODY will get to do what you termed "his job"! In reality the hymen doesn't get to be his! What them to do? All this your energy isn't speaking reality! Now BECAUSE in reality the hymen may not be for him (pls let's b real!), isn't any means to make it truly his not to be done? This your advice is based assumptions NOT in the context of the requester. You call him simply lustful, but he said he loved her dearly. From where them are you responding, not also facing reality of things that ACTUALLY HAPPEN! Yes i know things happen, and that's what you're really responding to, and not this matter. But when issues arise, tackle them on their own merit, leaving all the others in your head aside. Also don't lie: in reality the hymen isn't his as husband. It should be, but hardly ever is. What they said is true, someone else would likely indeed take it, let's be real and face what truly happens (not what you wish would happen). If he felt loves her and wishes to go the distance with her to the altar, them your "good sounding advice" may not be the way to go. He will lose that hymen. he wouldn't really get to do his "job" in the end! Sixfeetbelle: |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by Nobody: 6:48am On Nov 29, 2020 |
fati2001:I Posted It. Yes. Like I Said B4 Dis One Is Different Cuz, She Is Not An Underage Girl Who Is Still In Sec Sch. 2nd, My Comments Were Based On D Love Dey Av 4 Each Other & D Marital Plans Dey Intended. I Advised D Guy Just Like D Way I Would Advise My Own Son If He Were In His Shoes. I Know My Comment Is Weird But If Followed, D Outcome Would Be Good 4 Both Of Dem. |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by fati2001(m): 6:53am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Truvel: HE SHOULD WAIT TILL MARRIAGE..... IF HE NOT AMONG THE 24H REGULAR PEOPLE... (TO GOD BE THE GLORY)... 1 Like |
Re: My Dilemma With My Virgin Girlfriend by fati2001(m): 6:56am On Nov 29, 2020 |
Truvel: YOUR COMMENT IS WRONG AND THE OUTCOME WILL BE BAD IF HE IS A FREAKER.... DAT IS NOT LOVE...... IT'S EARLY LUST.. IF THAT IS A GENUINE LOVE BOTH OF THEM SHOULD WAIT UNTIL MARRIAGE... NO BIGGIE. 2 Likes |
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