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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Ajens1991: 3:25pm On Nov 30, 2020
Am still suffering from mine... I helped a girl who's later seeing me as an alternative... Don't give anything to a girl or guy until there's a sincere commitment,backed up by law... Tell her to sign undertaking... Also, make her feel that you borrowed the money,so she can pay back. That's my opinion. Thank me later

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by obyrich(m): 3:25pm On Nov 30, 2020
Firstandonly:
My girlfriend is very good in sawing and she has always wanted to have a shop of her own where she can expand. She is still in school and supports her studies from the little sawing she does at home, the truth is she's very hard-working.

Should i take a risk and open a shop for her. I work and i earn 40k a month i can easily save up to 60k from now till January but am scared, I don't want to take a risk i will later regret in life.

Pls has any body faced this kind of situation before or heard of it and how was the outcome?
You earn 40K a month. You can EASILY save 60K in 2 months? This means you will be starving literally while saving the money. Then you go ahead and INVEST in someone you have no valid contract with?

Brother it is not investment. It is father Christmas. After all, we are in the season. Congratulations in advance.

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by saajus: 3:25pm On Nov 30, 2020
Yes, you can. I think it's no risk. Make sure the money won't affect your living or will make you commit suicide if things don't work out. Even if you guys don't eventually marry, at least you have impacted a life. I believe a return for good deed may not come directly from the person you help. Nature has a way of paying back (Karma).
If you plan to marry her, start investing in her now. The investment should go vice versa. If you want to improve an area of her life, start doing it now. I've seen many partners that fail to take this risk because they've heard different stories of betrayal. So, when they eventually get married, the gap between the spouses will be too long. Husband will be speaking Queen's English, the wife can barely form a sentence in English. Husband has a PhD, wife school cert holder. When you are investing in her, count it as a gift. That's why I will advise you to do whatever you can afford.

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by wiloy2k8(m): 3:26pm On Nov 30, 2020
SweetCunt97:
Not all will have ur experience

80% would

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by desmond2pk: 3:26pm On Nov 30, 2020
Dont even try it. I repeat. Don't even try it
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Nobody: 3:26pm On Nov 30, 2020
Nuyokoi:
yes, help her out.
Lol...sarcasm right?
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by joegigs(m): 3:27pm On Nov 30, 2020
Guy,if you can do without the money ,then do it.
but know one thing if she get what she wants and sees someone who is richer than you, she don jepa be that..wetin you go dey hear be "this small thing you did,you won't let her rest"
grin. I no wan see new thread of how my girlfriend duped me ooo
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Bobdaddy0007(m): 3:28pm On Nov 30, 2020
Before you invest on her u better let your family to know about it before u can invest on her because I didn't trust them she can leave you for another man in future think before u invest on her
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Korllami007: 3:28pm On Nov 30, 2020
lereinter:

From the way you put it, you will be angry if you release money and she didn't marry you


You are not sure if she will marry

I have seen a lady who was impregnated by another man different from the guy that paid her rent and school fees

It's better you save the money till you both are married


One guy they spray perfume for the Congo, another guy de shine the Congo like tomorrow no de.

The girl wicked sha. grin grin grin

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by FahBuLous: 3:28pm On Nov 30, 2020
Nazgul:

If you love her so much, marry her then invest in her. At least you'll be confident that she's your wife and the mother of your children.

If you start investing in her while struggling, it's most likely going to end in tears. She's still single and also wants a better life for herself. So when better suitors begin knocking, she might just give them a chance and you'll be back here creating another thread to tell us of how your girl whom you spent all your life savings on ditched you for a more richer guy.
OP follow this advice..
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by AududuNine11: 3:29pm On Nov 30, 2020
coolcharm:
Everything in life is a risk.

If you don't take it, you'll never know.

Personally, I don't generalise things. If you can, do it. But don't bank on your deeds.

If it comes back to meet you for good, fine. If it doesn't, so be it!

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by giddybiggy(m): 3:29pm On Nov 30, 2020
[b][/b]Bro don’t try such mistake…marry her first before anything or else it will end in tears grin
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by kenelink11: 3:30pm On Nov 30, 2020
If you intend to help someone, u help her as a form of charity and don't expect anything in return, maybe to marry her or something else. Any Good you render to someone will always bring back blessings to you in a greater way...
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Nobody: 3:30pm On Nov 30, 2020
CashDiMkpa:


If you are earning N40k a month, you still need help yourself.
Honestly.
40k that is no longer up to $100...
The Guy is a superhuman.
I would have loved to invest in the Guy, since he could manage 40k well and establish his Girlfriend.
He has got no responsibilities in his family.
He's already done with theirs and has now decided to move into his girlfriend's family. grin grin grin grin
May be he just started Tasting women.
He should exercise patience, he will taste them enormously as a wealthy man.

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by AududuNine11: 3:31pm On Nov 30, 2020
vincenteger:
If but if you must expect, expect just expect disappointment.

On another note
Just buy a dog with that money
.

Lol
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Malawian(m): 3:32pm On Nov 30, 2020
If you can help, help! If she fvck up, it is on her not you. At least you would have known. Just dont go broke helping out sha.
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by lanreHeda: 3:32pm On Nov 30, 2020
alizma:

I still wonder what we find difficult to understand in this relationship stuff. If as a girlfriend you love her and have the financial strength enough to help her realize her dream by giving her some money, do it not because you want to marry her tomorrow but because you think she deserves it AND you have enough from where you can give her that little one. People should stop helping others with the hope that they will marry the other person or so. Give as a way of saying in appreciation of the good time we have shared, not in expectation of what you are going to share, you give your partner some money and then expect him/her to control the future that you can not control.
i always wonder why women are the ones that always need this help.....and the men have to keep giving it, not the other way round

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by oluwasegun007(m): 3:34pm On Nov 30, 2020
That's no investment, that's clarity.
It's like bet9ja.

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by henryobinna(m): 3:37pm On Nov 30, 2020
Firstandonly:

my parents are doing well, dad is even taking care of his brothers children. my sister's are all married. the only thing my parents need from me is my love and present not money
Are you comfortable in a job paying you 40k per month?

Why not save and start something else for yourself? A little side hustle won't hurt at all. There's no guarantee you won't feel regrets after doing this, especially as you don't even have the money and would have to save to raise it, meaning you'll deprive yourself of somethings.

Save to better your life oga. But you can choose whatever you want. But know that if you're banking on your father's money, always know that he won't be around forever. Build yourself now while you can, a job of 40k is almost nothing.

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Coolcalmcollect(m): 3:37pm On Nov 30, 2020
Firstandonly:
My girlfriend is very good in sawing and she has always wanted to have a shop of her own where she can expand. She is still in school and supports her studies from the little sawing she does at home, the truth is she's very hard-working.

Should i take a risk and open a shop for her. I work and i earn 40k a month i can easily save up to 60k from now till January but am scared, I don't want to take a risk i will later regret in life.

Pls has any body faced this kind of situation before or heard of it and how was the outcome?
if you were my son and you come to me for an advice on this matter I'd shoot you... men like you shouldn't exist.
if after all you hear about men sponsoring their gf and the later disappointing them and you still wanna do this....dem you're a fool, lower than a simp.

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by owowa145(m): 3:38pm On Nov 30, 2020
Firstandonly:
My girlfriend is very good in sawing and she has always wanted to have a shop of her own where she can expand. She is still in school and supports her studies from the little sawing she does at home, the truth is she's very hard-working.

Should i take a risk and open a shop for her. I work and i earn 40k a month i can easily save up to 60k from now till January but am scared, I don't want to take a risk i will later regret in life.

Pls has any body faced this kind of situation before or heard of it and how was the outcome?
Invest in ur English aspect of sawing to sewing first... Then, we can discuss d next step sir.
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by ComputerWiz007: 3:39pm On Nov 30, 2020
LMAO... investment on a NIGERIAN GIRL that is not ur SISTER or WIFE ?? .. LMAO again.

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by jasman1: 3:39pm On Nov 30, 2020
Are you serious? How stupid can you be? Are you her father or uncle? I’m sure your mother and your siblings can’t even afford onions buffoon. Get sense and invest in yourself and your family

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by henryobinna(m): 3:39pm On Nov 30, 2020
vincenteger:


On another note
Just buy a dog with that money
This other note is the worst advice. It's better he invests in on the girl and she maybe disappoints than buying a dog wasting money on it when there's actually no ROI expected from the dog.
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by ojonugba2014(m): 3:39pm On Nov 30, 2020
I don't have any advice for you.

My question is how are you going to save 60k in January with your 40k salary
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Drelux(m): 3:40pm On Nov 30, 2020
Go on and do that bro, 60k is not too much..
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Nezan(m): 3:41pm On Nov 30, 2020
Firstandonly:
My girlfriend is very good in sawing and she has always wanted to have a shop of her own where she can expand. She is still in school and supports her studies from the little sawing she does at home, the truth is she's very hard-working.

Should i take a risk and open a shop for her. I work and i earn 40k a month i can easily save up to 60k from now till January but am scared, I don't want to take a risk i will later regret in life.

Pls has any body faced this kind of situation before or heard of it and how was the outcome?

Investments comes with profits. I wonder how you will recoup your profits from the lady
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Korllami007: 3:41pm On Nov 30, 2020
henryobinna:
This other note is the worst advice. It's better he invests in on the girl and she maybe disappoints than buying a dog wasting money on it when there's actually no ROI expected from the dog.


Dogs breeding is another profitable business on its own and people are making fortune from it.
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by SILVERLINES: 3:42pm On Nov 30, 2020
Firstandonly:
My girlfriend is very good in sawing and she has always wanted to have a shop of her own where she can expand. She is still in school and supports her studies from the little sawing she does at home, the truth is she's very hard-working.

Should i take a risk and open a shop for her. I work and i earn 40k a month i can easily save up to 60k from now till January but am scared, I don't want to take a risk i will later regret in life.

Pls has any body faced this kind of situation before or heard of it and how was the outcome?
just help the poor girl and don't look back.

Whenever you feel like to help someone do it for charity sake and to God and stop being stupid by calling people attention or seeking advice
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by henryobinna(m): 3:42pm On Nov 30, 2020
MrHighSea:
wetin concern me na...

"save 60k within 2 months from 40k salary"

Guy, how?

rent, food, data, tp, the boys, cousins in university,

you better teach us.o
him no dey pay rent and likely spends almost zero on food just like rent. So he doesn't know what he's saying.

Earning 40k salary a month is enough discomfort for him to invest himself so as to get a better business or job, but oga is looking at investing in a girl when himself isn't doing very fine sef. People and their priorities.

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by chaloskyx: 3:42pm On Nov 30, 2020
you are a dunce you earn 40k and want to open shop what have you done to develop yourself with the 40k you earn talk less of thinking of helping your gf that wont even think of settling down with a man who earns 40k you better keep your money and look for ways to get a better paying job if you want to keep her

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