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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Nobody: 3:43pm On Nov 30, 2020
Firstandonly:
My girlfriend is very good in sawing and she has always wanted to have a shop of her own where she can expand. She is still in school and supports her studies from the little sawing she does at home, the truth is she's very hard-working.

Should i take a risk and open a shop for her. I work and i earn 40k a month i can easily save up to 60k from now till January but am scared, I don't want to take a risk i will later regret in life.

Pls has any body faced this kind of situation before or heard of it and how was the outcome?
oya o Zzor this brother needs ur advice

Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Saviolamemphix(m): 3:43pm On Nov 30, 2020
collinsuchendu:


grin Lol. when she no be my mother or sister..

The worst part is that before someone comes to create a thread about such thing, it's 99.9% sure that he has already made up his mind to do it. SMH


Simping is worse than cancer. Tuah. grin grin

Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by henryobinna(m): 3:45pm On Nov 30, 2020
Korllami007:


Dogs breeding is another profitable business on its own and people are making fortune from it.
yea, you're right. I didn't think of that.

I'm not really a fan of pets that's why I didn't view it from business aspect.
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Fhemmmy: 3:46pm On Nov 30, 2020
Invest in her as in helping a friend or someone that you wanted to assist and not investing in her with expectation of something in return, that will prevent heartbreak just in case, but it is time we learn how to assist without something back in return
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by toscolee(m): 3:46pm On Nov 30, 2020
MrHighSea:
wetin concern me na...

"save 60k within 2 months from 40k salary"

Guy, how?

rent, food, data, tp, the boys, cousins in university,

you better teach us.o






D guy na genius for saving walahi.
I'm ashamed of myself.

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by SweetCunt97(f): 3:48pm On Nov 30, 2020
wiloy2k8:


80% would
ok
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Dpharisee: 3:49pm On Nov 30, 2020
horlahwaley:
You can dash her money that you wont mind loosing to support her, but investment? No.
Are you her father? If she break your heart now, no come here and be creating silly thread on how you opened shop for her and still cheat on you biko.
Use your head.

Expect the silly thread after the investment grin

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by candygist: 3:50pm On Nov 30, 2020
4ckz:


Don't ever invest on any lady that you ain't married to, especially as a struggling man.

Unless you have enough to waste, because you should truly see it as waste not investment.

Exactly.
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Ayandokun2000: 3:53pm On Nov 30, 2020
Firstandonly:
My girlfriend is very good in sawing and she has always wanted to have a shop of her own where she can expand. She is still in school and supports her studies from the little sawing she does at home, the truth is she's very hard-working.

Should i take a risk and open a shop for her. I work and i earn 40k a month i can easily save up to 60k from now till January but am scared, I don't want to take a risk i will later regret in life.

Pls has any body faced this kind of situation before or heard of it and how was the outcome?


I won't say you should invest and I won't still say you shouldn't invest because this life itself is a risk

But this situation you presented before me, I'll take it in a gambling perspective....do not invest what you can't afford to lose

Moral of my write-up.... don't break the bank to satisfy a woman (no matter the amount of love she'd shown you, human beings are unpredictable... including you and I) CHANGE is constant


Look before u leap
If you're capable enough...fine, invest in her
If not... don't put urself in debt or risk just to satisfy her

A word is enough for the.......
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by mayorkent(m): 3:55pm On Nov 30, 2020
With your salary you no suppose take that kind risk oh ,
But if you feel she is Worth it. Run am ,
But don't expect anything in return.
Just bear in mind say na charity matters .


But wait oh,na from your salary you wan save out the Billings ?.. Abi your other source of income?..

Abi you no get savings or another source of income and you chest that kind Billings. undecided undecided

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by favour32(m): 3:57pm On Nov 30, 2020
If you want to spend or invest on your girlfriend make sure the amount is negligible to you.So,if it doesn't favour you las las, you won't go regretting for being a fool in the first place.
Help but not to your detriment but to sure wife inclined endpoint.
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Nobody: 4:00pm On Nov 30, 2020
lefulefu:
oya o Zzor this brother needs ur advice
lol
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Nobody: 4:01pm On Nov 30, 2020
Firstandonly:
My girlfriend is very good in sawing and she has always wanted to have a shop of her own where she can expand. She is still in school and supports her studies from the little sawing she does at home, the truth is she's very hard-working.

Should i take a risk and open a shop for her. I work and i earn 40k a month i can easily save up to 60k from now till January but am scared, I don't want to take a risk i will later regret in life.

Pls has any body faced this kind of situation before or heard of it and how was the outcome?

Earn 40k ,wan save 60k give woman wey you never marry? You must be crazy ( from a lady point of view) in-between you need to be flogged
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Clinghton: 4:02pm On Nov 30, 2020
Let her finish school, marry her before investing.


If you invest now and she meets a man richer than you...

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Burgerlomo: 4:03pm On Nov 30, 2020
Firstandonly:
My girlfriend is very good in sawing and she has always wanted to have a shop of her own where she can expand. She is still in school and supports her studies from the little sawing she does at home, the truth is she's very hard-working.

Should i take a risk and open a shop for her. I work and i earn 40k a month i can easily save up to 60k from now till January but am scared, I don't want to take a risk i will later regret in life.

Pls has any body faced this kind of situation before or he
ard of it and how was the outcome?

Invest in her and don't expect anything in return.
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by humilitypays(m): 4:07pm On Nov 30, 2020
Firstandonly:
My girlfriend is very good in sawing and she has always wanted to have a shop of her own where she can expand. She is still in school and supports her studies from the little sawing she does at home, the truth is she's very hard-working.

Should i take a risk and open a shop for her. I work and i earn 40k a month i can easily save up to 60k from now till January but am scared, I don't want to take a risk i will later regret in life.

Pls has any body faced this kind of situation before or heard of it and how was the outcome?
You are broke and struggling, and instead of investing in your life by buying powerful business/entrepreneurship ebooks, videos, tapes, etc to inspire you to achieve more, you are there planning to mortgage your meagre income to please a girlfriend, honestly to send you to Boko Haram region is hungering me angry angry

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by solonubinho(m): 4:10pm On Nov 30, 2020
Skyfornia:
First give am belle..

On top 40k salary. You are an evil man lol.
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by olakan22: 4:11pm On Nov 30, 2020
Firstandonly:
My girlfriend is very good in sawing and she has always wanted to have a shop of her own where she can expand. She is still in school and supports her studies from the little sawing she does at home, the truth is she's very hard-working.

Should i take a risk and open a shop for her. I work and i earn 40k a month i can easily save up to 60k from now till January but am scared, I don't want to take a risk i will later regret in life.

Pls has any body faced this kind of situation before or heard of it and how was the outcome?
You seem to have a good heart. However for the sake of your relationship, (her not being pressured and you not entitled). Caution is essential.

I guess the shop is worth 60k per annum from your post. You may support her with a token, I suggest a maximum of 10k if it's obvious she needs the extra help.

BTW, a monthly income of 40k may look okay for you now but you should start thinking of long term. What are you doing to be better Financially? What plans for the future do you have? Your 40k monthly big properly harnessed will help your future.

Again, supporting is nice. That should be it. Don't die for the world. Jesus already
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Kennyfancy(m): 4:12pm On Nov 30, 2020
Egungun becarefull nah xpress u they go
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by AceM12: 4:15pm On Nov 30, 2020
Just because of 60k someone is already here asking a silly question. Tufiakwa!!! Poverty is a disease

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Charmedcollecti(f): 4:15pm On Nov 30, 2020
If you love/ worth it then go ahead to invest in her..mind you split the investment into 2 ooo..invest in your self to make extra incime and invest in her too..my 2cent..dont expect anything in return
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by emmanuelewumi(m): 4:18pm On Nov 30, 2020
Firstandonly:
My girlfriend is very good in sawing and she has always wanted to have a shop of her own where she can expand. She is still in school and supports her studies from the little sawing she does at home, the truth is she's very hard-working.

Should i take a risk and open a shop for her. I work and i earn 40k a month i can easily save up to 60k from now till January but am scared, I don't want to take a risk i will later regret in life.

Pls has any body faced this kind of situation before or heard of it and how was the outcome?


Marry her and then invest in her
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by NwaliE01: 4:19pm On Nov 30, 2020
Abeg don't invest in someone's daughter that is not your wife or adopted child. Finally it will end in tears.
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Toks2008(m): 4:20pm On Nov 30, 2020
Firstandonly:
My girlfriend is very good in sawing and she has always wanted to have a shop of her own where she can expand. She is still in school and supports her studies from the little sawing she does at home, the truth is she's very hard-working.

Should i take a risk and open a shop for her. I work and i earn 40k a month i can easily save up to 60k from now till January but am scared, I don't want to take a risk i will later regret in life.

Pls has any body faced this kind of situation before or heard of it and how was the outcome?

Go ahead and invest in her. Be confident as a guy but just take it as if you are helping her destiny... She will never forget you even if she leaves you.
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Nobody: 4:20pm On Nov 30, 2020
stillmaticOG:

It isn't a lot of money to make him regret. I'm certain he has spent close to that amount or more into the relationship already and if they were to break up, it would be painful.
But the 60k won't be enough to cause him a break down
It would bro, I’ll give you the logic.

One he’s seeing it as an investment not a voluntary spending like that, meaning he expects something from it, loyalty/marriage. How do you feel when you invest in a venture and it doesn’t turn out as expected?

Secondly, he’s going to save up to raise it, hence he’s gonna sacrifice and deprive himself somethings, he’s sacrificing to invest in that relationship and his emotions whether he likes it or not will be tied to it and there lies a potential heartbreak victim.

I’m not saying he shouldn’t spend on the babe, but going to that extent to spend a babe and tag it investment makes him vulnerable trust me.

I spend on my babe like spending on alcohol or entertainment, I expect no loyalty in return and I do it at my convenience.

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Kubin: 4:21pm On Nov 30, 2020
Is better u use the money and play bet9ja
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Mrviktor(m): 4:21pm On Nov 30, 2020
Firstandonly:
My girlfriend is very good in sawing and she has always wanted to have a shop of her own where she can expand. She is still in school and supports her studies from the little sawing she does at home, the truth is she's very hard-working.

Should i take a risk and open a shop for her. I work and i earn 40k a month i can easily save up to 60k from now till January but am scared, I don't want to take a risk i will later regret in life.

Pls has any body faced this kind of situation before or heard of it and how was the outcome?

I think u should invest in her. If she's ready to work
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by samuelchimmy(m): 4:22pm On Nov 30, 2020
coolcharm:
Everything in life is a risk.

If you don't take it, you'll never know.

Personally, I don't generalise things. If you can, do it. But don't bank on your deeds.

If it comes back to meet you for good, fine. If it doesn't, so be it!
best advice. In other words op, be a man and do what you want to do, that you deem for and don't expect much
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by emmanuelewumi(m): 4:23pm On Nov 30, 2020
Firstandonly:

my parents are doing well, dad is even taking care of his brothers children. my sister's are all married. the only thing my parents need from me is my love and present not money


Your parents are doing well, what about the parents of your girlfriend.


If your parents are doing well, please date ladies whose parents are equally doing well. If not, you will be the one to cater for your in-laws. You are a young man who is poorly paid, you don't need all these additional responsibilities that will put financial pressure on you

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by toye440: 4:24pm On Nov 30, 2020
investment on 9ja girl be like harvesting rain with basket.
Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Toks2008(m): 4:24pm On Nov 30, 2020
AceM12:
Just because of 60k someone is already here asking a silly question. Tufiakwa!!! Poverty is a disease

That is the biggest mistake many ladies make and this is why many guys don't sacrifice for ladies..

Do you know that the 60k you casually called Is very huge for the guy and Infact the guy is sacrificing so much more than a billionaire who gives the lady N1M but people don't appreciate monatary gift based on the sacrifice made by the giver but wil rather appreciate based on the amount recieved.

Very sad.

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Re: Should I Take The Risk And Invest In My Girlfriend? by Nobody: 4:25pm On Nov 30, 2020
Seyzcham91:
Bro! listen to me carefully as i have no money to give you but this token of Advice!

Never ever, i repeat "never ever" invest in any girl regardless, she may appear hardworking to you but don't try it, as you keep investing your life one ready made sugardaddy will just come and steal her from you instantly and she can never dare to reject a rich man offer as most girls can't

From your story you earn 40k a month which is nothing meaning you need to invest in your self and upgrade yourself first, that 40k you make in a month some guys blow it at a bar one night.

Be wise!
Leave him, someone that needs help wants to become a poverty alleviation program to another

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