virginprincess:
I don't blame them, i blame the girls opening their legs for them, there own na chop and go, wetin concern them.

That's just the summary of everything "chop and go" but I still want to believe there's a little effect on them as regards the topic even though most won't admit.

Please... why do we keep talking about men losing their virginity? Only women are virgins. It may be understood what is meant locally... but guys... should you leave these shores and talk about having your virginity/wanting to lose your virginity/have long lost your virginity.... may your ass RIP.

@ topic...... no attachment for men. If you ask women who was the first and how it was.... 95 % will know the answer.... even prostitutes for life. Ask men..... 95% will have to think hard to remember who.... and in the end will not be too sure. As for me... been thinking while I was writing... and am still clueless.

crackhaus:

What exactly were you thinking?

That men who beg for sex, do so because they want to die inside there and NEVER forget the woman?

Well perhaps some do and remain attached to the woman, but it isn't and can never be because of sex.
There has to be something else very special about her that keeps him drawn to her long-term... You need to understand this.

You are saying men don't get attached, ok it's an eye opener anyways.So all those pressures and sweet talk and what have you ends after ejaculation abi but someone up there admitted being attached to the first girl he had sex with,individual differences I guess

Zzor:
Do guys get attached emotionally or in any other way after loosing their virginity? Or do guys get emotionally attached to girls whose virginity they take? lefulefu, pcguru1, Ikillbrokehoes, Descortes, Crackhaus, Ziini, Truvel, MedicH, proclinician, Pansophist, dingbang, Liposure, OKNM and the rest of you should answer me please, also does the lady who took your virginity have any strong grip over you till now ( like kind of make you do things you will be stubborn about ordinarily,vulnerable and succumb easily to her requests) ? Don't insult or abuse anyone here please

Nope ....doesn't affect me at all, the person was my oga at work sef 8 yrs older. all those things are for sentimental people or women

crackhaus:
What a funny topic and post...

Zzor, there's no such thing as an emotional attachment after losing/taking virginity when it comes to guys. And it's not because men like to form hard or anything, please kill that thought... Lol
It simply doesn't happen.

I'm honestly having a hard time trying to remember the face of the girl I had my first sex with.
It's so embarrassing that right now after some hard thinking, I can remember the sexual act itself (as in the sexual positions we used), I can also remember her name and skin colour... but still, I can't seem to place her face.

About this girl I had my first sex with, though I kept seeing her a lot after our first sexual encounter, I honestly don't recall ever feeling like I was under her spell (for lack of a better word) or anything of that sort.
We hardly even talked afterwards, because her boyfriend lived in the same building as I did – this was actually how I met her for the first time.

Can you imagine this virginprincess

Zzor:
You are saying men don't get attached, ok it's an eye opener anyways.So all those pressures and sweet talk and what have you ends after ejaculation abi but someone up there admitted being attached to the first girl he had sex with,individual differences I guess

Please read this part again, SLOWLY...

crackhaus:

Well perhaps some do and remain attached to the woman, but it isn't and can never be because of sex.
There has to be something else very special about her that keeps him drawn to her long-term... You need to understand this.

Zzor:
Can you imagine this virgin.princess

What's there to imagine?

Do you even have an idea how long ago that happened?

Zzor:
Meaning you didn't get attached to the lady you had your first sex with and also no emotional attachment whatsoever with the lady whose virginity you took? or are you trying to form redpill? Or most men generally don't get attached?

That is what works 4 him.

for me i would be emotionally attached to d girl, is why i avoid virgins except it's marriage 0'clock.

Zzor:
That's just the summary of everything "chop and go" but I still want to believe there's a little effect on them as regards the topic even though most won't admit.

Yes it can have effect on them spiritually, but physically i don't think it has much effect on most of them.

crackhaus:


Please read this part again, SLOWLY...

You said some do but not because of sex, I'm only interested to know if sex with a virgin get men attached,its obviously no from your reply

Zzor:
Do guys get attached emotionally or in any other way after loosing their virginity? Or do guys get emotionally attached to girls whose virginity they take? lefulefu, pcguru1, Ikillbrokehoes, Descortes, Crackhaus, Ziini, Truvel, MedicH, proclinician, Pansophist, dingbang, Liposure, OKNM and the rest of you should answer me please, also does the lady who took your virginity have any strong grip over you till now ( like kind of make you do things you will be stubborn about ordinarily,vulnerable and succumb easily to her requests) ? Don't insult or abuse anyone here please

S.ex is both physical and spiritual



So for anyone going into it... You leave a part of yourself in each other that bonds you both.

Especially if its the first cut it will take you almost forever to wipe that experience off your mind.... Even if you get married to another.
That both will be there.....


Some may pretend but it will surely be there

virginprincess:
Yes it can have effect on them spiritually, but physically i don't think it has much effect on most of them.

Most don't believe in the spiritual implications

virginprincess:
Zzor, nairaland men usually says there is nothing like virginity for men, so why do you possibly think they would answer this question.

There Is. A Virgin Man Is Likely To Be Faithful To A Lady Dan A Non-Virgin Man. Dsame Goes To D Ladies.

crackhaus:

What's there to imagine?

Do you even have an idea how long ago that happened?

You are just a bad boy

Zzor:
Can you imagine this virginprincess

Zzor don't tell me you are surprised with what crackhaus typed, like i said, it the girls i blame, all what these men knows how to do is (chop and go), nothing more.

pcguru1:


Nope ....doesn't affect me at all, the person was my oga at work sef 8 yrs older. all those things are for sentimental people or women

Your Own is kind of an abuse ,I'm sure it will have effect on your love life, your emotions must be dead

virginprincess:
Zzor don't tell me you are surprised with what crackhaus typed, like i said, it the girls i blame, all what these men knows how to do is (chop and go), nothing more.

The way he typed everything hmm

Truvel:
There Is. A Virgin Man Is Likely To Be Faithful To A Lady Dan A Non-Virgin Man. Dsame Goes To D Ladies.

Really, but men will always be men, any man that have the tendency of cheating would cheat, whether virgin or non-virgin.

Originalsly:
Please... why do we keep talking about men losing their virginity? Only women are virgins. It may be understood what is meant locally... but guys... should you leave these shores and talk about having your virginity/wanting to lose your virginity/have long lost your virginity.... may your ass RIP.

@ topic...... no attachment for men. If you ask women who was the first and how it was.... 95 % will know the answer.... even prostitutes for life. Ask men..... 95% will have to think hard to remember who.... and in the end will not be too sure. As for me... been thinking while I was writing... and am still clueless.

smh

Zzor:
The way he typed everything hmm

, That how you know someone that doesn't have shame.

Kondomatic:
Taking a girl's virginity is one thing that I will never ever do.

Why..I know many guys dat say dis..but y..are u guys not d ones complaining dat all girls are loose now

virginprincess:
, That how you know someone that doesn't have shame.

Obviously he has so oversexed himself it doesn't mean anything to him anymore, so all this unmarried people I see everyday and everywhere are always having sex in their closet hmm ,they are even having sex more than the married ones

Zzor:
Your Own is kind of an abuse ,I'm sure it will have effect on your love life, your emotions must be dead

No it doesn't I've suffered a lot, so I tend to value relationship alot more, before I wasn't emotional but I no be robot nau, the more time you spend with a woman, you will feel something, unless you are a player or user, which I am not. I do not play on people's emotions. Quickest way to get stabbed. , who no like make him woman dey pet am. am old o , not a young man.

virginprincess:
, That how you know someone that doesn't have shame.

It has nothing to do with shame.. He's just being a male.

wahala for guys wey don kpansh virgins... never bn lucky to get one all my life, I don't long for one anyways

Zzor:
Most don't believe in the spiritual implications

Anyone that doesn't believe in spirituality is a fool, life itself is spiritual, sex has implications physically, mentally, emotional and above all spiritually, you don't commit forunication and think you will get away with it, then that person must be the biggest fool on earth.

robosky02:




S.ex is both physical and spiritual



So for anyone going into it... You leave a part of yourself in each other that bonds you both.

Especially if its the first cut it will take you almost forever to wipe that experience off your mind.... Even if you get married to another.
That both will be there.....


Some may pretend but it will surely be there

This I agree 100%

pcguru1:


No it doesn't I've suffered a lot, so I tend to value relationship alot more, before I wasn't emotional but I no be robot nau, the more time you spend with a woman, you will feel something, unless you are a player or user, which I am not. I do not play on people's emotions. Quickest way to get stabbed. , who no like make him woman dey pet am. am old o , not a young man.

Do men like petting?this shows you are still a young man.

Zzor:
Obviously he has so oversexed himself it doesn't mean anything to him anymore, so all this unmarried people I see everyday and everywhere are always having sex in their closet hmm ,they are even having sex more than the married ones

Yes na, the unmarried ones even have sex than the married ones, may God have mercy on them all.

Zzor:
Do men like petting?this shows you are still a young man.

That's your opinion, there's no hard rule for relationships. you make it what you want from it. not everyday someone will form hard guy.

virginprincess:
Anyone that doesn't believe in spirituality is a fool, life itself is spiritual, sex has implications physically, mentally, emotional and above all spiritually, you don't commit forunication and think you will get away with it, then that person must be the biggest fool on earth.

I concur but you know alot of them don't reason that way on this atheist forum, it's weird to them but tend to find scientific explanation to the spiritual effect when it comes calling and affecting their lives

pcguru1:


That's your opinion, there's no hard rule for relationships. you make it what you want from it. not everyday someone will form hard guy.

hehe , oh I forgot you don't belong to the redpill gang