Strongwoman444:

Wow good if you think it's a movie but this is my life story and my amen for my destiny helper to locate me was not in vain now have bin enjoying my life to the fullest, you may not believe my story but its your choice and you are entitled to your opinion thanks

Strongwoman444:
Thanks you are right I am very grateful to have my 3 wonderful children

Suprnova:



Stop sleeping with the man and let your family return the brideprice first. If your hubby finds out you are cheating it will turn the whole story against you, no matter how gruesomely he has been treating you. A lot of cultural practices do not look favourably at wife cheating so to avoid hassles, please and the marriage

You are in the right part, but you need to speed up

Angelacruz:
So d husband dat is cheating nko??pls free her

mariahAngel:

What about the wife of the man she's cheating with?

mariahAngel:


Did you care to find out what happened between him and his wife at least? Or you just don't care if another woman suffers what you suffered

Strongwoman444:

Thanks I am an adult and I know what I am doing with my life

CalliDora1:



If you knew what you were doing with your life then you won't be here seeking advice.
It's easy to think you know what you're doing because of the money and sex you're getting but the Bible says, there's a way that seemeth right unto a man but in the end leads to destruction.

How are you even sure this man is not lieing to you?
His family is abroad. He's sex starved and has decided to make you his bed mate. When it's time for him to go back to family, I'm sure he'll take you along.

Your life, not mine.

Strongwoman444:

Thanks I like the part that you said it's my life not yours hence I answer I am an adult and I know what I am doing and his wife is not abroad she is Nigeria its only his son who is studying in America

mariahAngel:


First, it started out with you "borrowing" someone else's husband, then you begin to "love and care" more than the wife, after that, you slowly become obsessively jealous and start to demand for more attention....

mariahAngel:
Intriguingly interesting!

mariahAngel:


What about the wife of the man she's cheating with?

Strongwoman444:

It’s a natural thing but I will not let my jealousy to harm her because she was there before me and nothing will change it , our man he is very responsible he knows how he will manage both of us without any problem

Strongwoman444:

It’s a natural thing but I will not let my jealousy to harm her because she was there before me and nothing will change it , our man he is very responsible he knows how he will manage both of us without any problem

bukatyne:


This can be a Spanish Telenova 'Loved Again'

Angelacruz:
Wit tym,everytin will settle

Mindlog:
Why not officially end the marriage? A supposedly counsellor having sex with a vulnerable person who came to him for help, so unethical!

Strongwoman444:

He told me his wife is always busy she is married to her work and they are in a sexeless marriage they have bin living like roommate

Strongwoman444:

Thanks you are right but first I want to leave with my children before telling him about the separation because if I tell him when I am still in the same roof with him, he is a violent man he can kill me or my children I am scared for my life and children

One4me:


Why do you keep saying "MY children"?
Did you have the Children all by yourself or he impregnated you and you had the children?
If the latter is the case, then it is [b]OUR children and you cant deny him access to your Children, you both own the Children.
That said, if all you said is 100% true, separate from him, then divorce him and then make arrangements on how he will have access to his children.[/b]
What you do with your body and your time, is your decision.
If he has not killed you for about 15 years of marriage, even when you denied him sex that time your helper slept with you, then he is not going to harm you in anyway, stop using that B.S to gain sympathy.
Wish you luck

SpicyMimi:

This is stale among these married men that cheat on their wives. You sound naive, why not do your own personal investigation? You’d be shocked at the things that’d be revealed to you.

SpicyMimi:
Have you searched the scriptures to see if this act of yours is Holy? Have you prayed?

devil has a way of packaging destruction for those who stubbornly depart from God.
devil gives them a wolf in form of a sheep.

God has not changed, neither His Standards. I’m not perfect op, we all aren’t...but this sort of situation never ends well. Check today’s date, Note it well, you will remember this post.
There’s no justification for your actions, because God loves us all the same way and He will reward everyone according to their acts, you should have waited on God by being fully repentant and obedient to Him.

SpicyMimi:
Have you searched the scriptures to see if this act of yours is Holy? Have you prayed?

devil has a way of packaging destruction for those who stubbornly depart from God.
devil gives them a wolf in form of a sheep.

God has not changed, neither His Standards. I’m not perfect op, we all aren’t...but this sort of situation never ends well. Check today’s date, Note it well, you will remember this post.
There’s no justification for your actions, because God loves us all the same way and He will reward everyone according to their acts, you should have waited on God by being fully repentant and obedient to Him.

Regex:


I don look for your post tire. Where you go since?

....
I'v been quite busy man...
How about you??...hope you're doing good

bukatyne:


Welcome to the way the average Nigerian thinks.

Something becomes wrong when it affects us.

See how someone's husband became another woman's 'Destiny Helper'.

If that man is their sister's husband, then the OP quickly switches to 'Olosho', 'Wicked Woman' etc.