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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by joyandfaith: 7:10pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
erico2k2: 1 cor 6:9-11,18. 1 cor 7:1-5 Check those verses in copy of your Bible 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Nobody: 7:10pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
erico2k2:Still your opinion! |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by bukatyne(f): 7:12pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
JoyJones2000: Your Bible must be customized. I did not know chastity/ sexual purity was only expected from women. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Mypeople2(m): 7:12pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Misslilbootay:No sex before marriage is okay .But the question is , if that guy ask her hand in marriage will she accept to get married in few months from now ? Will she not say she is not ready for marriage now ? See, the reason why most guys involve in serious relationship ask for sex is they are not sure of the women staying with them for long or the women are demanding too much .Come to think of it, I have seen some women asking men for sex too |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Nobody: 7:15pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
bukatyne:Are you okay at all? ahh pls go away from my mention I don't have time to argue with anyone about anything from the bible |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by 2kurupt(m): 7:15pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Xantel: There are guys that actually do that. Least I forget there are also ladies that demand for it in a relationship too so it goes both ways. People need to understand that sex or no sex is not a guarantee that both parties will remain compatible or that it must lead to marriage. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by TruthSeeker1: 7:15pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Misslilbootay: Sex is not necessary in a relationship. However, you have to understand that MOST men will find it quite hard to do without sex in a relationship. A man naturally and normally has a strong sexual urge that is difficult to control. In fact, it is in seeking to satisfy this sexual urge that most men go into relationships in the first place. It takes a strong determination and self-discipline/self-control for a guy to not engage in premarital sex. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by erico2k2(m): 7:16pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
joyandfaith:I will and come bck |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by openmine(m): 7:16pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
@OP..I cannot determine if its imperative or not! What i can say is that sex doesn't 'really' determine the longevity of a relationship....However,a relationship without sex doesn't also imply that the union will work out well in the foreseeable future! Some folks want to use the 'no sex before marriage' policy to tie a partner down or determine their faithfulness forgetting that both partners can get married, have the long awaited sex and still divorce leading such person who made such policy to go back to square one! It changes nothing if you have sex or not(that should be a decision between both partners)....but what should be paramount or of great importance should be about the level of the partners' emotional maturity and compatibility! In simple terms,date someone with the same mindset like yours.....Don't date a bad guy and expect him to agree wholeheartedly with your 'no sex before marriage' policy 3 Likes |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Nobody: 7:18pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
bukatyne:And besides I never said chastity!sexual purity is only expected from the ladies okay? In short go and read ur bible 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by ImDStar: 7:20pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
this your comment nobi here o BadRadio: |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by erico2k2(m): 7:20pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
joyandfaith: 1cor 6:9-11 9 Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men[a] 10 nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. 11 And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God. 1 cor 7:1-5 New American Standard Bible Stop depriving one another, except by agreement for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer, and come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. New King James Version Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. I cor King James Bible Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by chrisj2(m): 7:23pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Karleb: 18 is even late... 14 and 15+, more like 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by damilare442: 7:23pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Nazgul: One of the best and most reasonable responses I've read on this platform in text times. 6 Likes |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by yeman1(m): 7:26pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
What if the guy is impotent and wanna just carmourflag that he needs sex and after wedding you dictected your man cannot do... So what will do ? |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by erico2k2(m): 7:26pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
joyandfaith:so I quoted them above, how does that relate to not having sex b4 marriage? |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Nnatuu: 7:26pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
No it’s not. The same way him giving you money or taking care of your needs is not necessary too! Anu mpama! |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by angelfallz(m): 7:27pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
bukatyne: Lol in the Bible sexual purity for men is not mentioned. In most cultures sexual purity is expected from women not men. I stand to be corrected. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by enonche85(m): 7:27pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Nazgul: You made sense bro... I'm glad someone shares same opinion with me. 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by erico2k2(m): 7:27pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Karleb:That is it, there was not talk about no sex b4 marriage then cos U wont know much about that anyways back then, but with this,com age, ahaha |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by shaksman96(m): 7:29pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
my view, not neccesary but what have she got to offer, one onbe told me she is a virgin and I tried to cut her off because she is childish. me don't have time for gf/bf stuff because of puna, she is catching feelings while me want to catch cruise. she is a childhood sch friend so i don't want to compromise her, she should decide by herself. a girl @22 asking me if i can't do without it. we move 2 Likes |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by muller101(m): 7:31pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
fati2001:Even this one that is currently on top of an ox at the moment 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by joyandfaith: 7:31pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
erico2k2:If you don't understand, meet your pastor. Those bible verses are self-explanatory.Read and understand. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by des4ella(m): 7:32pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
CalliDora1:what's the difference btw worldly men and sinners?..Cos I know prayer warrior wey dey Bleep in the holy ghost; is he worldly or a sinner?. On your second point; Depending on the partner Sex do keep and make successful relationship in marriage.. Lastly whether chastity pays or not, wetin go be go be just don't hoe around. Have a blessed day Beautiful damsel. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by dayo20002002: 7:32pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Pre- marital sex is a sin in which ever way we see it. The body is meant to be kept till wedding's night. 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by des4ella(m): 7:32pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Problem with a lot of Christian bro & sis is that they lie to themselves and pretend a lot. If tomorrow you marry the bros and prick no stand then you go know say chastity get k-leg. Nobody is asking anybody to hoe around but, once u identify your soulmate kindly grant them small access to the kingdom. Person wey want buy motor must test drive cos if u no test drive anything u see u go manage am like that.. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by joyandfaith: 7:33pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
sureayworld:It depends on what God says |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by THEPACIFIST: 7:33pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
why most guys demand for is simply because the girl who insisted on no sex till marriage and enjoys financial favors from them is probably servicing another man with sex and money gotten the guy who is playing the good guy. most guys just don't want to fall victim of playing nice only to be regarded as foolish or incompetent 4 Likes |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Ephraimchuks(m): 7:33pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
The problem with us in Nigeria is that we tend to be more spiritual than God himself. There is high rate of divorce today because we claim to be who we are not during courtship. Have you asked yourself what will be of her if she eventually marries a man without sex only to find out that the man is a 30sec man, has little manhood, weak erection or cannot even react at all. That's a perpetual bondage and it would be worse looking out for sex outside marriage then. Aside, the overall effect on the later life of the relationship, sex has an incredible health benefits. Sometimes we just have to take permission from whoever we believe in and do the opposite for the sake of our future happiness 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by joyandfaith: 7:34pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
des4ella: What God says matter, not what we think. 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by erico2k2(m): 7:35pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
joyandfaith:you think I do not understand? let me say something here, Im one of the few people who managed to read the whole bible and the whole Quran. Religion is a belief and guides us end off,If you go back to read it properly the bible cannot give you any satisfactory rule as to marriage cos there is nowhere where it supports you marrying just one woman and not having ladies at the side ie king Solomon and co! We in Africa need to get off this bondage, This is how people always scream God of Isreal until they get to Isreal and realise they ain't Christians! |
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