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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 7:35pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
muller101: SAVE UR SHAME.... STOP TELLING THE PUBLIC ABOUT UR BESTIALITY ACT!! |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by erico2k2(m): 7:35pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
joyandfaith:Y don't you type ur own version of what God says, we keep hiding under religion. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Morenikeji070: 7:36pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Very essential.. don't trynna listen to folks who gonna say sex is not important. For ur info during Jesus and Muhammad time they marry so early so most of them that time marry without having sex. But now you gonna some folks at 40 years ain't marry yet why coz of lack of money. Body ain't firewood matured body gonna need sex. I support sex during relationship it's help and create bond young fella. 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by angelfallz(m): 7:36pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Misslilbootay 1. Yes men can stay in relationship without sex 2. It depends on the kind of man. It can be important to a man because he sees it as a means of releasing tension. And yes some men see it as reciprocating. Look most relationships these days are transactional. 3. Now you hit on the big irony. Men want decent/virgin girls but they still want sex from the girl they may not even marry. It's up to the girl to decide whether the relationship is the one that is leading to marriage, if it is, she can agree to his request for sex. However, nothing is guaranteed. Misslilbootay: |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Sike(m): 7:36pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Yes. I mean No |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Seyzcham91(m): 7:36pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Which Useless and senseless Thread and question be this? Which kind play Dog dey play with Lion?? Misslilbootay: 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by erico2k2(m): 7:37pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
dayo20002002:Ok pls quote a bible section that says sex b4 marriage is a SIN,I really like to understand this and not what pastor says |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Orelafintun: 7:39pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
The truth about sex is that most ladies that pretend not to like sex actually do and from past events guys don't believe when ladies claim to do away with sex. I once had a lady who was demanding for sex but l told her till married because l never had it myself. In summary we later had sex but l told her till after marriage. She accepted but later dating older man that was having regular sex with her. When l ask her she replied because l did not love her and that l was avoiding her. We did not later marry. Since then any woman l date l bleeped. 3 Likes |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by OBTOREPA(m): 7:40pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
That man may even be in that relationship with a sole reason to defile her. And after he will go and marry the one that resisted him before. To your friend to make peace with God, before it will be too late. That which she has is priceless tell her not to lose it because she will certainly regret it tomorrow. The one that you loss your precious virtue to where is he today? |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by eallstar: 7:40pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Is money necessary in a relationship? Let the guy keep his money till after marriage 50/50 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by bukatyne(f): 7:41pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
angelfallz: In the same Bible? It is sir. From Jesus' teachings on Marriage to Proverbs 4 and Proverbs 7 to Galatians 5: 19 etc. Bible especially new testament does not genderilize sin. Christians are neither male nor female spiritually. We are spirits and God expects us to worship Him in spirit and in truth. 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 7:41pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
erico2k2: how about we try Hebrews 13 :4 it talks about pre and extramarital sex... Acts 15 :19-20 Matthew 5 : 28 Mark 7:22-23 |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by joyandfaith: 7:42pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
erico2k2: There are both christianity and Judaism in israel . I do not expect you to agree. Even today people justify stealing , corruption, bribery and even murder. People have no regard for God law. I come in peace. Arguement over internet is stupidity. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by shadeyinka(m): 7:42pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Misslilbootay:1. Can a man stay without sex in a relationship and wait till she is ready. (As in this case, she wants to wait till she is married) Yes! I waited 'for two and a half years until we got married 2. Why is sex so important to men in a relationship? Do they see it as reciprocating of love especially when they spend heavily on the lady? Men are created that way: sex is one of the biggest way a man uses to convince himself that he is loved just like ladies like a man to express love by verbal expressions and kind gestures. But Love isn't sex and sex isn't a proof of love. In an unmarried relationship, on the day sex enters the relationship, the value of the lady diminishes. If she is not careful, she becomes just a mere means of sexual fulfilment for the man. In marriage, it is a bond for better for worse sex or no sex. 3. Also, most men wants a decent lady. Here is a lady who wants to keep herself for her husband but the boyfriend sees it as she manipulating him. Sex doesn't keep any relationship from breaking. Ladies should know that a man can have sex with someone he is not emotionally attracted/attached to. Sexual purity promotes trust in marriage. Any man who threatens to live a relationship because of sex does not love you one bit. The fact that you give in doesnt prevent him from leaving whenever he has had his fill 4 Likes |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by wirinet(m): 7:43pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
merits: Odikwa risky. You took a huge risk, bigger than betting 10,000 odds on Bet9ja. Luckily you won the wager. I have heard of many people that committed or contemplated suicide after they lost out, and the girl brought up silly excuses like "my pastor said you are not my husband". 3 Likes |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by muller101(m): 7:43pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
fati2001:NL freak |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Jack005(m): 7:44pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Well, for me I can't stay without sex in a relationship.. If she's not OK with it, we go our separate ways.period!! 2 Likes |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Coder2Client(m): 7:44pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
CalliDora1:Only worldly women and men, okay? Including you sista. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Chiquitq(f): 7:44pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
It is not black and white. It depends on the parties involved. It also depends on the time frame. For those who are spiritually sound, it might be easier for them to distract themselves from it since they believe it has grave consequences. For those who are wordly, it is the simplest way to spell distrust. A woman might feel she wants to keep herself but if she is genuinely in love, she would struggle with the temptation to give in at every opportunity. Those who do not struggle are simply not in love or do not trust their partners. For a man who is genuinely in love but is worldly, he would be resentful at the lack of trust after a while. In the beginning, he might comply out of respect but as time goes by, it would be difficult. The solution is to get it elsewhere or continue to persuade. It is a very natural phenomena and if one wants to truly abstain, one should not be involved in entanglements. When I was younger, I thought I was disciplined but now I realize that my sex drive is unnaturally low. 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 7:45pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
muller101:yeah... NL freak that's against negative things in our society.... * so proud * |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by riczy(m): 7:45pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Uzomacharles:NB: those speaking against it are only but hypocrites ![]() |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by riczy(m): 7:47pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Misslilbootay:Isaac didn't court Rebecca neither did any Bible character we extol today did! |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by erico2k2(m): 7:47pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
joyandfaith:Have you been to isreal b4 ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by erico2k2(m): 7:48pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
fati2001:y don't you just quote it here ![]() Hebrews 13:4, KJV: "Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge." ... Hebrews 13:4, CSB: "Marriage is to be honoured by all and the marriage bed kept undefiled because God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers." Look at this passage it was talking about marriage, married Persons ![]() ![]() Just so you know, Adultery can only be committed by a married person not an unmarried person cos vast majority of us jump into that bandwagon that once you have sex and you are not married you are committing Adultry |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by danniekute(m): 7:49pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Premarital sex is sin. Let the sister keep to her decision not to do it until she is married. Sex is no proof of love or loving somebody. If the guy really love her , he should respect her faith/decision. Sex is for bonding to people who are married. Thanks. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Nobody: 7:52pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
A relationship is not about one thing. It's about several things. So,if two people must be in a relationship,they will have to deal with several things towards staying in it or ending it. I don't think two people should remain together if it doesn't favour both of them. Whatever children that are derived from such cases cannot make it necessary for them to remain together. Such offspring (s) will only make it worse for either or both people since the relationship is ridiculous. If I am going to be in a relationship,I will say what I want and like for as long as I want and like. If our differences won't permit US,I will also tell you in order for Hell not to let loose the way it shouldn't. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by erico2k2(m): 7:53pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
danniekute:What do you call SEX B4 marriage in the Bible what is the name given to this act ![]() ![]() |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 7:53pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
erico2k2: to engage in premarital and extramarital sex , before or outside marriage..is a sin in the sight of GOD |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by deygar: 7:54pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Nazgul:chaiii your head is there. 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by erico2k2(m): 7:57pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
fati2001:What is the name of this sin an? U see I believe in what the bible says not MAN, so where in the Bible does it blatantly say its a sin just like it says killing is a SIN. The one issue we have with yah lot is you take what man tells you and that of the pastor as law without bothering doing ur own research, |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by joyandfaith: 7:59pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
erico2k2: https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2016/05/10/5-facts-about-israeli-christians/ Online argument is stupidity https://www.theexceptionalskills.com/arguing-on-the-internet/ |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by wirinet(m): 8:02pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
shadeyinka:Different strokes for different folks. There are more that 7 billion people on earth each with different personalities. That you could wait for two and a half years does not make it the standard of other men. Some can't wait for one month. Yes, sex is very important to men in most relationships. A sexless marriage or relationship is likely to fail. Why should the man invest heavily financially and emotionally if he gains nothing from the relationship? What differentiates the relationship from any other relationship? As I said, different strokes for different folks. I have a friend who married his wife because he slept with her the same day they met, and he always boasts of it. He is a successful lawyer today. Same as above. You don't speak for all men. You obviously have never been to divorce court and hear the reason for filing for divorce. Most times sex plays a part. Define sexual purity. If you are talking about body count before marriage. Then there is no scientific data to suggest that virgins have more successful marriages than their non virgin counterparts.
True. Also the fact that you don't give in also does not guarantee he marries you or that if he marries you the marriage will be a successful one. It would even be a travesty if he marries you because of his desire to break your virginity. 1 Like |
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