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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by tiswell(m): 9:05pm On Dec 12, 2020
chris20000:
See all of them claiming what they can't give, non of you girls are virgin.
I can bet with everything i have that in your current relationship now that you are having sex.
Hypocrites.
ma niggur!!!

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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by erico2k2(m): 9:07pm On Dec 12, 2020
fati2001:



every body is a sinner... no body is holy!!
let me ask you ( are you single or married)?
This is personal info it is not relevant online! smiley
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by tfash96(m): 9:07pm On Dec 12, 2020
Misslilbootay:
I am not a virgin because the guy I dated before made it seem like sex was the only thing that could keep him.
Unfortunately, that is another story of its own.


Recently, a friend of mine came and asked me if sex was necessary to keep a relationship. She told me the guy has given her everything she needed in a man but he couldn't stop asking for sex. She said that she wasn't ready to compromise her faith that premarital sex was a sin but she didn't want to lose this guy as he felt that her refusal to have sex with him meant she didn't love him.

The question I'm throwing now is
1. Can a man stay without sex in a relationship and wait till she is ready. (As in this case, she wants to wait till she is married)
2. Why is sex so important to men in a relationship? Do they see it as reciprocating of love especially when they spend heavily on the lady?
3. Also, most men wants a decent lady. Here is a lady who wants to keep herself for her husband but the boyfriend sees it as she manipulating him. Since you guys want a lady that isn't a borehole, why do you demand for sex when you are not sure if it will work out?

Your intelligent opinions will be appreciated.
Send me your friend's number.. I'm the only guy left in this country that can agree to her term but still marriage ain't involved o but I'll deflower her when she's ready... Real niggars don't do marriage anymore

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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Verysmart101: 9:08pm On Dec 12, 2020
CalliDora1:


Have you ever seen a man without a manhood? The men should stop using that as a bait to lay innocent girls.

Why won't they indulge in a relationship? Must all relationships involve sex? Change your mentality. Biko!

Do u know that lack of sexual knowledge has destroyed lots of marriage? For instance,if u married a guy and on ur wedding night u discovered he has a small carrot penis size and cant satisfy u with it,wat will you do? I asked this cos i know ur not a virgin and you know d type of dick fhat satisfies you,cant you endure it for life? Give me an honest answer.

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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Verysmart101: 9:08pm On Dec 12, 2020
cristy149:
girls will deny it anytime questions like this is asked, but they will never go into a relationship with a guy with tiny dick or an impotent guy
God will bless you a million times
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by erico2k2(m): 9:08pm On Dec 12, 2020
chris20000:
See all of them claiming what they can't give, non of you girls are virgin.
I can bet with everything i have that in your current relationship now that you are having sex.
Hypocrites.
Me sef follow bet,I bet with my RR sport o yah lets go!
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by erico2k2(m): 9:09pm On Dec 12, 2020
Verysmart101:


Do u know that lack of sexual knowledge has destroyed lots of marriage? For instance,if u married a guy and on ur wedding night u discovered he has a small carrot penis size and cant satisfy u with it,wat will you do? I asked this cos i know ur not a virgin and you know d type of dick fhat satisfies you,cant you endure it for life? Give me an honest answer.
So U dey expect answer ni grin grin grin grin 9ja girls dey waka as if say dem nor dey shyte grin grin grin
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 9:10pm On Dec 12, 2020
DEMZEE:



Men see women firstly as sex objects before anything else.
.

THE LOOSE MEN SEE THEIR COUNTERPARTS(LOOSE WOMEN)FIRSTLY AS SEX OBJECTS ...BEFORE ANYTHING ELSE.... * SEX IS THEIR CALLING TONE *

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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Verysmart101: 9:10pm On Dec 12, 2020
[quote author=Liverpoolman post=96996150]Whatta guan man!


First of all, lemme congratulate and welcome you into the school of celibacy, please don't drop out until you meet the Mr. Right that will walk you to the aisle and permanently defiled your admission on your wedding night... God no go shame us.

P.S: please the Gabriel's and Lizzy's, don't quote me, I nor be una friend.[/quote

Sharap joor! There is no difference between you and linda ikeji
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Rexnegro(m): 9:10pm On Dec 12, 2020
Misslilbootay:


God didn't mention relationship but he did say fornication is a sin he will judge by himself.

Can you see a lady and just marry her without first doing courtship?
do your research well bro , fornication is when u are having sex with a prostitute and that on it's own is the sin the bible refered as per sex . wish I can type more but honestly u just do your research.
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Hassanmaye(m): 9:11pm On Dec 12, 2020
larryking540:

are you working , because I kw ladies who work still ask for money,talk more of the ones who don't work ,see babe joke apart ,guys aren't afraid of giving assistant to a lady but what's brings pain and agony to guys is the statement ladies makes ,that's is the real heartvreak when things go south/west bw them "what have you done for me" that little thing" ....
even though there is nothing to benefit from a lady ,sorry I might be rude with dat statement,the only thing we can atleast compensate our self is the sex kalasss
Zanfadama babanka
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 9:11pm On Dec 12, 2020
fati2001:


VIRGINITY IS NOT A MAN'S WORST NIGHTMARE (EXCLUDING YOU AND THE SO CALLED MEN LIKE YOU), SO BOTH GENDERS SHOULD MARRY AS A VIRGIN AND IT'S ALSO A TREASURE TO BOTH...

In theory it's very sweet and nice

But the reality is that men and women are sexual beings.

A man will experience ejaculation one way or the other in his life via wet dreams, watching pornographic movies and masturbation. That's why a man can't be a virgin.The feeling of ejaculation from masturbation is the same from having actual sex.

Due to our sexual nature we have high libidos than women because of our testerones biological makeup. It's 17x more than women

Women can masturbate but will not experience the feelings of sex except they have a dick in their pussy. That's why women can b virgins and not men.

Women can control their sexual Urges more than men. A woman who can't control her sexual urges is tagged a nymphomaniac but a man is tagged a "cheat".

Men are polygamous by nature and women are hypergamous by nature

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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 9:12pm On Dec 12, 2020
erico2k2:
This is personal info it is not relevant online! smiley
fine!

the main question.
you involved urself in the dark act?
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by erico2k2(m): 9:13pm On Dec 12, 2020
fati2001:


fine!


the main question.

you involved urself in the dark act?
what is a dark art, from my understanding and where Im at, dark art is magic, so what did you want to know again??
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Olaideolayemi(m): 9:13pm On Dec 12, 2020
Yes.Woman don't appreciate nice guy,especially if you care for them,they take you as a fool and a novice in a relationship. I don't believe in sex in relationship, but many ladies I met change my belief, especially when am broke, or too nice they will start playing you up and down,even some have another guy eating the pot, pretending as if they are real...Is painful op...That is y...
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 9:14pm On Dec 12, 2020
fati2001:


THE LOOSE MEN SEE THEIR COUNTERPARTS(LOOSE WOMEN)FIRSTLY AS SEX OBJECTS ...BEFORE ANYTHING ELSE.... * SEX IS THEIR CALLING TONE *

This is basic science don't use Christianity for ur situational ethics.

Women are sexual objects before anything else cos a man can't have sex with himself and men enjoy sex more than women and women are more calculative wen it comes to sex.

It's not about loose or not loose

Virginity is a woman's treasure and a man's worse nightmare
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Nobody: 9:14pm On Dec 12, 2020
2kurupt:


grin grin grin

This comment right here really cracked me up

Many today's youths fail to see that there's a lot to gain from a relationship than just money & sex
For real now bro
Everything is now about sex and money
I doubt people see another reason for going into relationships nowadays lol
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Hassanmaye(m): 9:15pm On Dec 12, 2020
erico2k2:

she too should not ask for urgent N2k and credit grin grin grin grin grin
cos that too nah oxygen
Wickedness grin
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Verysmart101: 9:15pm On Dec 12, 2020
Tango123:
Its ok to say no sex

But make sure u dont demand any money from the man

And just like its ok for u to say no sex, its ok for the man to say no giving u money or gifts till marriage
God bess u so much
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by erico2k2(m): 9:16pm On Dec 12, 2020
DEMZEE:


In theory it's very sweet and nice

But the reality is that men and women are sexual beings.

A man will experience ejaculation one way or the other in his life via wet dreams, watching pornographic movies and masturbation. Due to our sexual nature we have high libidos than women because of our testerones biological makeup. It's 17x more than women

Women can control their sexual orgies more than men. A woman who can't control her sexual orgies is tagged a nymphomaniac but a man is tagged a "cheat".

Men are polygamous by nature and women are hypergamous by nature
You know In the Bible there is a verse that allows for a man's brother to have sex and cu*m inside their brother's wife with his permission for the sake of breeding her if the brother cannot!,God curse someone who refused to c*um inside their brother's wife and did it on the floor, this is what pastors use to castigate self-service*ers and vaseline crew grin grin grin grin

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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by erico2k2(m): 9:17pm On Dec 12, 2020
Hassanmaye:

Wickedness grin
yes nah, U wan collect money but not the D , is that one not cheating on its own grin grin grin

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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 9:17pm On Dec 12, 2020
DEMZEE:



WE WANT TO WIFE VIRGINS who have good marriageable qualities BECAUSE THEY RAISE THE BEST CHILDREN AND KEEP A GOOD HOME.


IF YOU WANT A VIRGIN WIFE YOU URSELF SHOULD BE ONE = SO THAT YOU GUY'S CAN RAISE THE BEST CHILDREN AND KEEP A GOOD HOME....

DON'T USE UR DARK AND DIRTY LUSTFUL SIDE TO INFECT A HOLY PERSON.
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 9:20pm On Dec 12, 2020
erico2k2:

what is a dark art, from my understanding and where Im at, dark art is magic, so what did you want to know again??

u are not straight forward.... stop misinterpreting the Bible.... it's takes high spiritually knowledge to understand the verses...
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 9:21pm On Dec 12, 2020
erico2k2:

You know In the Bible there is a verse that allows for a man's brother to have sex and cu*m inside their brother's wife with his permission for the sake of breeding her if the brother cannot!,God curse someone who refused to c*um inside their brother's wife and did it on the floor, this is what pastors use to castigate self-service*ers and vaseline crew grin grin grin grin

Masturbation is not a sin to me

It's laughable to say it's a sin

It is not stated in any religion that's "Masturbation is a sin against humanity"

How does masturbation affect the society and the economy

And I can bet we don't have people who have not masturbated in their lives before so why calling it a SIN
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by erico2k2(m): 9:23pm On Dec 12, 2020
DEMZEE:


Masturbation is not a sin to me

It's laughable to say it's a sin

It is not stated in any religion that's "Masturbation is a sin against humanity"

How does masturbation affect the society and the economy

And I can bet we don't have people who have not masturbated in their lives before so why calling it a SIN
U never see the arguments on here, some sef said the Vaseline crew needs deliverance that there is a demon attached to it just like sleep paralises! U never see how people dey open office unto meaningless natural order!
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Ochyes: 9:23pm On Dec 12, 2020
God hates fornication. The body of a child of God is the temple of the Holy Spirit. God owns your body and your spouse or spouse to be.
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 9:24pm On Dec 12, 2020
fati2001:


IF YOU WANT A VIRGIN WIFE YOU URSELF SHOULD BE ONE = SO THAT YOU GUY'S CAN RAISE THE BEST CHILDREN AND KEEP A GOOD HOME....

DON'T USE UR DARK AND DIRTY LUSTFUL SIDE TO INFECT A HOLY PERSON.

Men can't be virgins before marriage, it's not possible. And it's not our reality

Which man will say he hasn't watched porn and masturbated before

Women are the home keepers and caregivers and because of their genetic makeup if they Bleep around just like men, they can't raise the best children and they can't keep the best homes.

Hoes and whores are not wife materials

Virginity of a woman is her greatest treasure

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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by des4ella(m): 9:25pm On Dec 12, 2020
joyandfaith:


What God says matter, not what we think.
And I sincerely hope you are obeying every God's commandments diligently... More Grace.
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 9:26pm On Dec 12, 2020
erico2k2:

U never see the arguments on here, some sef said the Vaseline crew needs deliverance that there is a demon attached to it just like sleep paralises! U never see how people dey open office unto meaningless natural order!

Like masturbation is an art of sexual pleasure, it's self pleasing.

How do they now want us to handle our sexual Urges or are they trying to downplay men and women don't have sexual Urges??
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 9:26pm On Dec 12, 2020
DEMZEE:



3)BECAUSE I NEED WOMEN, I'M ALWAYS IN A DILEMMA. lm polygamous by nature so I have to acknowledge this nature and
also confirm to monogamy structure and its difficult because I'm constantly fight this nature.

SPEAK FOR URSELF AND OTHER CLUELESS MEN .

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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 9:28pm On Dec 12, 2020
fati2001:


SPEAK FOR URSELF AND OTHER CLUELESS MEN .

It's the fact

No Woman will boldly say she wants a virgin man and want to marry him. It's not even a quality women seek for in a man they want to settle down with

Men and women are fundamentally not equal get used to it tuehhhhhhh
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by erico2k2(m): 9:28pm On Dec 12, 2020
fati2001:


u are not straight forward.... stop misinterpreting the Bible.... it's takes high spiritually knowledge to understand the verses...
where did I miss interpret the bible go on by all means show me

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