des4ella:
And I sincerely hope you are obeying every God's commandments diligently... More Grace.

DEMZEE:


It's the fact

No Woman will boldly say she wants a virgin man and want to marry him. It's not even a quality women seek for in a man they want to settle down with

Men and women are fundamentally not equal get used to it tuehhhhhhh

erico2k2:

I have learnt something new today, this is true, I have never heard a thing like I want to marry only a virgin MAN
record has it that you might have no way of knowing a woman is a virgin or not unless U wan put Cam there to see if the hole seal cos not everyone bleeds

Verysmart101:


Do u know that lack of sexual knowledge has destroyed lots of marriage? For instance,if u married a guy and on ur wedding night u discovered he has a small carrot penis size and cant satisfy u with it,wat will you do? I asked this cos i know ur not a virgin and you know d type of dick fhat satisfies you,cant you endure it plife? Give me an honest answer.

DEMZEE:




2)Sex is very important in a relationship(yeah if one /both are sex Hunter's )be it premarital or extramarital...

because that's the only thing a man cannot do to himself(yeah those who can't control their urges)

Men want women, women need men(but in a holy way . )


In a relationship(what type of relationship?)


men drop commitment, attention and resources asides others while women drop sex and submission asides others
(yeah black people thinking)

fati2001:

CalliDora1:



Why are some of you acting like sex is the only thing required for a relationship and marriage to work? It is this high expectations some people go into marriage with that causes problems. Expecting your man to perform like your ex or your woman like a porn star and when they dont, you start going out to get it.

Do you want to tell me most marriages that crashed didn't practice premarital sex or enjoyed good sex in the marriage? But still it crashed and your Almighty SEX couldn't salvage the marriage.
You meet someone and the next thing you start rushing yourselves with sex and forget to look out for other red flags. Then the next thing marriage ( cos sex is good). Afterwards, you'll begin to see the red flags and you want out.

To your question,.. since sex is not my major drive for entering into marriage, if I meet a "carrot" sized man I wont bother because One...I didn't mess myself up so he'll meet me there with his size.
Two...if you truly love someone and are committed to him, whether or not he satisfies you, you won't bother.

Love is what conquers all. Not sex. In my opinion though.

fati2001:
DEMZEE


I'M DONE WITH YOU, YOU CAN'T DECEIVE THE RIGHT SENSIBLE MASSES WITH UR GILBISH THEORISTS.....



LIVE UR LIFE AS YOU LIKE !

DEMZEE:

It's the truth
Do u females seek virginity from men before u marry them??

DEMZEE:



Lolzz

Ahbi

Virginity is not a quality at all women seek for in a man

fati2001:


if others don't do that... I will!!

illicit:
It creates bond....

donbachi:
no be only bond...na james bond.

DEMZEE:


Answer my question

WHY DO YOU FEMALES NOT SEEK FOR VIRGINITY AS A QUALITY U NEED IN UR FUTURE HUSBANDS

fati2001:



I NEED THAT QUALITY IN MY FUTURE HUSBAND...


CAN'T ACCEPT A PUBLIC BODY ..

DEMZEE:

Lolzzzzzzzzz

And how will you know

erico2k2:

nah dat o be nor follow

Nazgul:
To me sex isn't necessary.

From my past relationships, if I'm to advice any girl I'll tell them to avoid sex and stand on it. Sex makes you suspicious of your partner. It makes you have unnecessary problems, unnecessary commitments, unnecessary responsibilities.... etc. How many guys would you keep offering your body to just to make them stay?

What makes most guys wants sex is when the financial demand from the girl becomes too much. Most girls will tell you that they're not ready for sex, but will still want you to show dedicated financial commitments towards them. No guy will ever agree to that.

Many girls naturally lack wisdom. Let me share a my own experience here. I met this girl some years ago, she told me her usual no sex till marriage. I asked her if she's a virgin she said no that she dated just one guy who broke her heart and now she has decided to zip up till her wedding night.

To me, I didn't have any problem with that. My problem was that this girl literally flirts on the phone with guys even in my presence. When I confront her she'll tell me they're just toasters that she doesn't have anything with them. She receives calls like a call center agent. Always on Facebook and WhatsApp till even midnight. And to make matters worse she's the urgent 2k type. So tell me would any guy in my shoes honour her request to date without sex....of course not. I had to end the whole stuff cos she wasn't contributing to my life in anyway. Most times I initiate a discussion with her on chat, she can't even sustain it without indirectly telling me one problem or the other she has.

My take...if you don't want sex in a relationship and you don't want to have any problem with your man concerning your stand, then avoid unnecessary request so it won't make him feel that you're owing him. Avoid flirting with other guys on phone and in reality. Concentrate on your relationship by looking for ways to make an impact in his life. It could be through business ideas, could be counseling, could be partnership in business, education...etc. also develop yourself. Let him see that your life is progressing. That you're successful in whatever it is that you're into.

Make him see you as someone he can't do without and he'll stick to you regardless of your no sex stand.

fati2001:


many ways to know.

DEMZEE:


Tell me one ��

fati2001:


the truth ( if he's a GOD fearing human)

fati2001:


many ways to know.

kepstone:
[Chai this guy thinks like me.. statistics have shown that 90% of our ladies don't settle down to pray seek God and be led by the Spirit. They are led by what they see and superficial things and in the end they end up making huge mistakes. I will post the reply I have a lady to on Facebook
Copied from my Facebook post.

The post says : Stop making ladies feel bad for dating you because you are broke, Relationship is more fun with movie's, ice creams, night out etc
Here is my reply below to that empty skull of a girl.

There is no sense in what you just posted. That's y you girls keep falling into the wrong hands. It's so painful many people or ladies don't pray to God for his will again. God help our generation. I know of a lady who despite the fact that she was a strong worker in church and God even used a man of God who has spiritual ears to hear Him to warm her not to marry the man asking her hands in marriage defile all odds to go ahead to marry the man because of money. Hmmm sadly 3 months into the marriage the man killed this so called sister and put her body in a fridge. A true life story. Ladies not that glitters is gold oooooo. Pray and Pray, seek his face, cry to him to give your own husband. A guy can be nice to you yet he is not your husband, a guy can give you the world still he is not your husband. There is limitation to how far your physical eyes can see, why not trust the almighty God the all seeing eyes, who knows the future, the future is right before him it's not what He anticipate it's right in His presence.
A case in point there is a girl I want to marry my spec, has curves, has boobs, sexy and beautiful but I went to God in prayers God said she is not the one for you oooo son run, but I said God she has been Good to me, God said run son, leave her alone. I desire her but God does not want her for me yet we both were created in His own Image. Bible said Marriage is a mystery, it's truly spiritual. Only God can show you the content of a man's Heart or someone's heart. Please pray and pray and stop all this dating broke guyz stuff. My elder brother was dead broke when he married Easther his wife and I my self was sore afraid for him, because I was his younger brother and his best man at the wedding. But he told me bro, I heard God she is my wife. I said no problem, to cut the long story short my elder brother today is in 7 digits and has adopted and accommodated many people in his house. Please pray and pray ooooooo. God help us all.




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Yes. Those who are led by the spirit are the sons of God. The problem with this current generation is being carnally minded. Everyone is looking at the superficial.

While the girl is looking at his pocket, the guy is looking at her yansh and bweast. When all these fall apart, marriage packs up.

fati2001:


if others don't do that... I will!!

DEMZEE:


Mtscheww

Hiding under God fearing, ASIF THAT CAN DETERMINE IF A MAN IS A VIRGIN OR NOT

Better wake up from your nap and accept reality


VIRGINITY IS A WOMAN'S TREASURE AND A MAN'S WORSE NIGHTMARE!!!!!!

LOSING ONE'S VIRGINITY IS A PHYSICAL ACT AND NOT A MENTAL ACT

erico2k2:

how? measuring metre or u gonna tell me you will fast and pray