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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 10:02pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Virginity carries such a weight mostly for historic, cultural reasons. Its value comes from a time where contraception and abortion didn't exist, and sex outside of marriage was a huge no-no. It still is in some areas of the world. As such, people (mostly women) were seen as more worthy of pursuit if they were virgins. Virgin describes someone or something pure, untouched or untainted. An example of someone who would be described as a virgin is a virgin bride who has never had intercourse and who is innocent and pure. ... EMOTIONAL ISSUES: Post losing your virginity, you may have emotional outbursts, both happy and sad. This is due to the hormonal changes and can make you feel extremes of either of the emotions.......Men don't experience this Survey respondents who tied the knot as virgins had the lowest divorce rates. As in Latin, the English word is also often used with wider reference, by relaxing the age, gender or sexual criteria. In this case, more-mature women can be virgins (the Virgin Queen), men can be virgins, and potential initiates into many fields can be colloquially termed virgins; for example, a skydiving "virgin". In some girls, there is so much tissue that stretching the hymen open during first intercourse may cause pain and bleeding. Guys do not have hymens, so this is not an issue for them. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 10:03pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
fati2001: Lolzzzzzzzzz joker!!! Virginity carries such a weight mostly for historic, cultural reasons. Its value comes from a time where contraception and abortion didn't exist, and sex outside of marriage was a huge no-no. It still is in some areas of the world. As such, people (mostly women) were seen as more worthy of pursuit if they were virgins. M very sure u ain't a virgin ahbi u want to tell me u have not masturbated before or u don't have sexual urges |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by erico2k2(m): 10:06pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
fati2001:Lame ke, stop using foreign words it ain't suitable 4 you love! back to the question at hand, how is one meant to know since you seem to have a robust and vast knowledge of them things! |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by sweet7oyin(m): 10:06pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
What exactly is she giving the guy What does she bring to the relationship?? |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Bahamas95(m): 10:07pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
I can't be in any relationship without sex when I got a "rod" in between my legs. My rod is not for decoration. Any girl that isn't ready to give it to me should fvck off! 1 Like
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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by erico2k2(m): 10:07pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
DEMZEE:Ta bross, this nah MAMA of TWO KIDS |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by erico2k2(m): 10:08pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
sweet7oyin:what else? |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Friend22(m): 10:09pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Misslilbootay: My madam,please take this from me Don't allow any brostitute as they are being called to fool your. Virgnity is not lack of opportunity, but is indeed dignity, purity, morality and worthy thing to keep for a man who will willingly take care of you as a husband not in useless boy friend. A man is man when he picks up the challenge to take care of a woman not going through the back door like a licensed thief. And again,I blame your girls for going into relationship these days. The only relationship recognised by God is marriage. And I will still ask and I will continue to ask;what has boy friend and girl friend relationship done that makes it better than our fathers and mothers. Before they claim is for compatibility and knowing each other.. And I ask: has formication dropped or increased?. As infidelity dropped or increased?. As Human sexual trafficking dropped or increased? As queer sexual tendencies such as gayism,lesbianism, beastiality and other sexaul perversions dropped or increased? You and I know the results today. And we complain men and women are cheating but we don't want to or are too stupidly arrogant to go back to the path which our fathers and mothers threaded that bought them pride and safety in their marriages. |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 10:09pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
DEMZEE: I'M ONE SO I HAVE THE RIGHT TO DEMAND FOR MY HOLY COUNTERPART... AND I WILL PROUDLY SPILL THIS OUT (I DON'T MASTURBATE AND WILL NEVER INVOLVE IN THAT MESS)... EVEY HUMAN HAVE SEXUAL URGES (IT DEPEND ON HOW YOU CONTROL IT NOT HOW IT CONTROL YOU) .. NOW WHAT ELSE DO YOU WANNA KNOW? 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Nobody: 10:11pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Like ur first poster said it creates a bond b/w u and ur partner but then its not a must u two must have sex if u dont want to have sex explain to him in genuine terms why u dont want to do it and if he understands either he will remain or he is free to walk away Its a free world nobody should be forcing each other to have sex 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 10:11pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
erico2k2:2 kids is kinda small make IT 12!!! |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Nobody: 10:14pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Uzomacharles:look at u its like u havent even heard of ladies who marry impotent men .As long as the guy is loaded with money there ladies who wont mind even marrying him if he has no dick.They can always get the d!ck outside 1 Like
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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 10:14pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
lefulefu: so what about the men fuckin prostitutes
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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Nobody: 10:16pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
fati2001:the sex u have with ashawo is different from the one u have with someone u like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 10:16pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
erico2k2: No wonder |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Liposure: 10:17pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
DEMZEE:i totally disagree. Women enjoy sex more thanks to their receptive nature. Men only dominate tho they enjoy it too but not as much as their opposite counterpart coupled with the fact that women enjoy multiple orgasm during sex |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 10:18pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
lefulefu: lie!!!!!!!! but I agree... if unah be husband and wife *clapping * |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by purples25(f): 10:18pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
The best answer to this.... Is the answer a man will give to a daughter he cherishes and loves. Not any random person, but if it was your daughter, as a man, what will you tell her? There lies your answer. Also i realize, if any guy gives you even his attention, a shoulder to cry on, it is at a price. Though not all, there are better people, but most guys, even that emotional support, they expect something. If you are not for sex, its better you state your position and leave or stay as the current goes. By current, i mean his reaction to your decision. In my personal opinion, sex can never make a man love you, so its not a must. Sex does not prove, nor guarantee shiit. If you think it will help you bond, you're wasting your time. A guy loves who he loves, full stop. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 10:19pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
fati2001: Are u married and if so was ur husband a virgin Wen u guys got married or lemme put it this way are u the only one ur husband has slept with and is still having sex with?? Sorry ur husband meet as a virgin ie is it only ur husband u have bleeped and still fucking |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by IngeniousLeez: 10:20pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
alexistaiwo: Oshey Egbon TAIWO!!!! 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 10:20pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
DEMZEE: with shame nah em you take talk am... nothing feels good when you don't mess your body around be it male or female... * feeling happy and excited * |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 10:20pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
purples25: Sex is a powerful tool for women and if used carefully they can get the man of their dreams Women love conditionally and men love emotionally and sexually |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by IngeniousLeez: 10:22pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Liposure: Ehn!! Organism Kwa!! |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 10:23pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Liposure: Women enjoy sex yet they want to collect money,attention and commitment after the sex. Men never want to collect money after sex Why can't women Bleep and not attach money with it, if they are not collecting money, they will want to collect attention or commitment? |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 10:24pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
fati2001: Answer my last question |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Friend22(m): 10:24pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
fati2001:Sorry for poke nosing oh,but weren't the one who claim to be married with two kids in your profile. Am I missing something? 1 Like |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 10:24pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
DEMZEE: NOT MARRIED AND WILL NEVER Bleep TILL MARRIAGE...... SAME AS THE MAN THAT WILL COME ME INTO MY LIFE... ... AND WILL NEVER INVOLVE IN EXTRAMARITAL AFFAIR (IJN) |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by erico2k2(m): 10:25pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
fati2001:Nah that would be taking the pisssss, You wrote it on your profile you are a mother of two or you 4got? |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 10:26pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
fati2001: Heard u were married with two kids though?? |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by erico2k2(m): 10:27pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
fati2001:Erm so who wrote married and a mother of tow on ur personal text? ur Enemy Nothing we nor go see for nairaLand |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 10:27pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Friend22: find the thing that you missed else where!! |
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by purples25(f): 10:28pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
DEMZEE: You think? I thought guys are the ones that are better at having sex without getting attached. Even if a girl does everything sexually, they still love the one they love. You're the first person that's telling me that guys love emotionally. I heard they are more 'logical' beings, hence can have sex and fun, but their emotions stay in check. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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