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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 10:28pm On Dec 12, 2020
erico2k2:

Erm so who wrote married and a mother of tow on ur personal text? ur Enemy grin grin grin
Nothing we nor go see for nairaLand

nah me write ooh... Wetin com happen?
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 10:29pm On Dec 12, 2020
DEMZEE:

Heard u were married with two kids though??

NO, I JUST DID THAT TO CATCH CRUISE.
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 10:29pm On Dec 12, 2020
purples25:


You think?

I thought guys are the ones that are better at having sex without getting attached. Even if a girl does everything sexually, they still love the one they love.

You're the first person that's telling me that guys love emotionally. I heard they are more 'logical' beings, hence can have sex and fun, but their emotions stay in check.

Men love emotionally on the condition she's a virgin. If she ain't a virgin then they love logically and sexually.
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 10:30pm On Dec 12, 2020
fati2001:



NO, I JUST DID THAT TO CATCH CRUISE.

Bleep OFF bloody liar

Catch cruise kill ya there

Are u that ashamed of ur marriage and children ni
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Friend22(m): 10:30pm On Dec 12, 2020
fati2001:


find the thing that you missed else where!!

I only asked a question based on the information you put out there.
Why lie that you are virgin?...
Or are they other terms for a married woman with kids?
Let's be consistent.
This kind of inconsistency does not suit you.
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 10:31pm On Dec 12, 2020
erico2k2:

Nah that would be taking the pisssss, You wrote it on your profile you are a mother of two or you 4got?


12 WILL BE OKAY OOOH


*RUNNING TO MAKE IT 12 ON THE PROFILE *
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Fabulouslouie(m): 10:31pm On Dec 12, 2020
Nazgul:
.

Make him see you as someone he can't do without and he'll stick to you regardless of your no sex stand.


bless you brother

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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 10:32pm On Dec 12, 2020
DEMZEE:

Bleep OFF bloody liar
Catch cruise kill ya there
Are u that ashamed of ur marriage and children ni

y so pissed off....

is it you?
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 10:33pm On Dec 12, 2020
fati2001:



y so pissed off....


is it you?

Don't Quote me again

U overstretched pussy of a woman tuehhhhhhh
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by purples25(f): 10:33pm On Dec 12, 2020
DEMZEE:


Men love emotionally on the condition she's a virgin. If she ain't a virgin then they love logically and sexually.


cheesy cheesy

You THINK?

All women used to be virgins, not so? If we calculate by that, then a lot more women would be married by now. Because the men who took them first would have loved them and therefore secured more of them through maximum effort.

No.......a man can disvirgin a girl...... and feel nothing for her.

Absolutely nothing.

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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Nobody: 10:34pm On Dec 12, 2020
fati2001:


lie!!!!!!!!

but I agree... if unah be husband and wife *clapping *
if u see a man connecting with an ashawo on an emotional level then know such a guy don make the woman im side chick.Hope u know there are men who are more in love with their side chicks and mistresses more than their wives.Sex bring couples closers
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 10:34pm On Dec 12, 2020
Friend22:

I only asked a question based on the information you put out there. Why lie that you are virgin?... (so funny... if you lie to yourself I can't lie to myself) Or are they other terms for a married woman with kids? ( go research urself) Let's be consistent. This kind of inconsistency does not suit you. (leave it like that)
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 10:35pm On Dec 12, 2020
purples25:


cheesy cheesy

You THINK?

All women used to be virgins, not so? If we calculate by that, then a lot more women would be married by now. Because the men who took them first would have loved them and therefore secured more of them through maximum effort.

No, a man can disvirgin a girl, and feel nothing for her.

Lemme break it down for u

Wen it comes to marriage, MEN CHOOSE TO WIFE A VIRGIN AND ONLY HER CAN RECEIVE THAT TRUE NATURE OF MEN LOVING EMOTIONALLY AND SEXUALLY

We also have other qualities we seek from the virgin, not all virgins have marriageable qualities

Wen women look at men they don't get attracted to his penis straight up, they are attracted by his financial status

Wen men look at women we are not attracted to ur financial status but ur physical being (sexuality)

That's why women are sexual objects and men are success objects
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by eyinjuege: 10:37pm On Dec 12, 2020
erico2k2:

I agree that Fornication is a SIN in the eyes of God but I always like people to practice what they preach!

She (OP) is actually trying to practice what she preaches. Unfortunately, many of you are discouraging her from doing so.
I understand nobody holy pass, and of course being religious doesn't make you immune to sin. But to those who want to tow the path of truly practicing their religion the way that it should be, encourage them.
I'm not even religious, but I understand this.

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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Friend22(m): 10:38pm On Dec 12, 2020
[quote author=fati2001 post=97008184][/quote]
Sister Fati.
Haba!
Person no fit advise you?
Married and with two kids?
Now,claiming something else?!
Sorry,for intruding..
So long sis.

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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 10:38pm On Dec 12, 2020
DEMZEE:


Don't Quote me again

U overstretched pussy of a woman tuehhhhhhh

I can feel ur pain... nobody force you to lose you virginity to premarital sex and become polygamous in nature... .. MR WORLD WIDE DICK HOLDER......


IT IS CHOICE, SO I CHOOSE TO STAY ON THE PATH
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Codes151(m): 10:38pm On Dec 12, 2020
Your not A virgin?
What are you typing exactly?

You think say we b mumu?
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by erico2k2(m): 10:39pm On Dec 12, 2020
fati2001:



12 WILL BE OKAY OOOH


*RUNNING TO MAKE IT 12 ON THE PROFILE *
Noted! more grease 2 ur Oga at the top grin grin
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 10:39pm On Dec 12, 2020
Friend22:
Sister Fati. Haba! Person no fit advise you? Married and with two kids? Now,claiming something else?! Sorry,for intruding.. So long sis.
as far as u can mind ur business.
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 10:39pm On Dec 12, 2020
Friend22:
Sister Fati. Haba! Person no fit advise you? Married and with two kids? Now,claiming something else?! Sorry,for intruding.. So long sis.
as far as u can mind ur business.
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by erico2k2(m): 10:40pm On Dec 12, 2020
eyinjuege:


She (OP) is actually trying to practice what she preaches. Unfortunately, many of you are discouraging her from doing so.
I understand nobody holy pass, and of course being religious doesn't make you immune to sin. But to those who want to tow the path of truly practicing their religion the way that it should be, encourage them.
I'm not even religious, but I understand this.
My guy leave this matter, did she come here wen she turned him into bie bie bank?
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 10:41pm On Dec 12, 2020
fati2001:


I can feel ur pain... nobody force you to lose you virginity to premarital sex and become polygamous in nature... .. MR WORLD WIDE DICK HOLDER......


IT IS CHOICE, SO I CHOOSE TO STAY ON THE PATH

My dick is on plugged

I don't know why you are ashamed of ur marriage and children though

Pathetic!!!
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 10:42pm On Dec 12, 2020
lefulefu:
if u see a man connecting with an ashawo on an emotional level then know such a guy don make the woman im side chick.Hope u know there are men who are more in love with their side chicks and mistresses more than their wives.Sex bring couples closers

okay oooh, lefulefu
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 10:43pm On Dec 12, 2020
DEMZEE:


My dick is on plugged

I don't know why you are ashamed of ur marriage and children though

Pathetic!!!

okay ooo, PUBLIC DICK HOLDER OOH

POLYGAMOUS IN NATURE!! I DON HEAR OOH
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 10:45pm On Dec 12, 2020
fati2001:


okay ooo, PUBLIC DICK HOLDER OOH.

Okay ooo barren LovePeddler ooh
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Friend22(m): 10:46pm On Dec 12, 2020
fati2001:


as far as u can mind ur business.
In a public forum?
C'mon?!.
If you don't want to be called out then leave this space..
You don't go double speaking and expect to get a pat on your back.
If you are not married why lie?!.
I seriously doubt you are married.
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by chatinent: 10:46pm On Dec 12, 2020
The abnormal has become normal.


Such a finished world.
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by CSTRR: 10:47pm On Dec 12, 2020
I know some very spiritual brothers that absolutely detest the idea of sex before marriage.

If you try to they will dump you like hot potato.

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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by BlackSheep10: 10:47pm On Dec 12, 2020
Misslilbootay:
I am not a virgin because the guy I dated before made it seem like sex was the only thing that could keep him.
Unfortunately, that is another story of its own.


Recently, a friend of mine came and asked me if sex was necessary to keep a relationship. She told me the guy has given her everything she needed in a man but he couldn't stop asking for sex. She said that she wasn't ready to compromise her faith that premarital sex was a sin but she didn't want to lose this guy as he felt that her refusal to have sex with him meant she didn't love him.

The question I'm throwing now is
1. Can a man stay without sex in a relationship and wait till she is ready. (As in this case, she wants to wait till she is married)
2. Why is sex so important to men in a relationship? Do they see it as reciprocating of love especially when they spend heavily on the lady?
3. Also, most men wants a decent lady. Here is a lady who wants to keep herself for her husband but the boyfriend sees it as she manipulating him. Since you guys want a lady that isn't a borehole, why do you demand for sex when you are not sure if it will work out?

Your intelligent opinions will be appreciated.

if you wabt
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by BlackSheep10: 10:48pm On Dec 12, 2020
Misslilbootay:
I am not a virgin because the guy I dated before made it seem like sex was the only thing that could keep him.
Unfortunately, that is another story of its own.


Recently, a friend of mine came and asked me if sex was necessary to keep a relationship. She told me the guy has given her everything she needed in a man but he couldn't stop asking for sex. She said that she wasn't ready to compromise her faith that premarital sex was a sin but she didn't want to lose this guy as he felt that her refusal to have sex with him meant she didn't love him.

The question I'm throwing now is
1. Can a man stay without sex in a relationship and wait till she is ready. (As in this case, she wants to wait till she is married)
2. Why is sex so important to men in a relationship? Do they see it as reciprocating of love especially when they spend heavily on the lady?
3. Also, most men wants a decent lady. Here is a lady who wants to keep herself for her husband but the boyfriend sees it as she manipulating him. Since you guys want a lady that isn't a borehole, why do you demand for sex when you are not sure if it will work out?

Your intelligent opinions will be appreciated.

if you want to keep yourself until marriage. Dont go into relationships until you are very certain you want to fiance.
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 10:48pm On Dec 12, 2020
DEMZEE:

Okay ooo barren LovePeddler ooh
yes ooh, the master of immortality and calamities.... promoting premarital sex.
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Caseywilliams(m): 10:49pm On Dec 12, 2020
erico2k2:
U 4got, there is a new one in town its called Situationship! grin grin grin
grin
erico2k2:
U 4got, there is a new one in town its called Situationship! grin grin grin
do they use to knack kpekus in that one?

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