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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 10:49pm On Dec 12, 2020
fati2001:


yes ooh, the master of immortality and calamities.... promoting premarital sex.

Double standard Queen of all bitches
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 10:50pm On Dec 12, 2020
Friend22:

If you are not married why lie?!. I seriously doubt you are married.
IT'S LEFT FOR YOU.
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by erico2k2(m): 10:51pm On Dec 12, 2020
Caseywilliams:

grin
do they use to knack kpekus in that one?
yes nah, nah upgrade form of friends with benefits, U remember that music, every time I try to leave something keeps holding me back? something like that
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 10:52pm On Dec 12, 2020
DEMZEE:


Double standard Queen of all bitches

DOUBLE STANDARD KING OF ALL RAPISTS...


WHY EN DY PAIN YOU? ... SHEY YOU SAY YOU LIKE TO PROMOTE IMMORALITIES AND DECEIVING THE LOST SOULS..
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by erico2k2(m): 10:53pm On Dec 12, 2020
fati2001:


yes ooh, the master of immortality and calamities.... promoting premarital sex.
[b]Pre marital Se[/b]x, laugh wan kill me here grin grin grin grin 9ja we won't learn! we are extremely religious yet we cannot solve our basic needs, anyway, we will get there o be day!
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Liposure: 10:53pm On Dec 12, 2020
DEMZEE:


Women enjoy sex yet they want to collect money,attention and commitment after the sex.

Men never want to collect money after sex

Why can't women Bleep and not attach money with it, if they are not collecting money, they will want to collect attention or commitment?

its becos women are sexually reluctant. why do you think men pay prostitutes for sex when it is suppose to be free
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by noobsaibot2(m): 10:54pm On Dec 12, 2020
Many people don't practice what they preach...

Nazgul:
To me sex isn't necessary.

From my past relationships, if I'm to advice any girl I'll tell them to avoid sex and stand on it. Sex makes you suspicious of your partner. It makes you have unnecessary problems, unnecessary commitments, unnecessary responsibilities.... etc. How many guys would you keep offering your body to just to make them stay?

What makes most guys wants sex is when the financial demand from the girl becomes too much. Most girls will tell you that they're not ready for sex, but will still want you to show dedicated financial commitments towards them. No guy will ever agree to that.

Many girls naturally lack wisdom. Let me share a my own experience here. I met this girl some years ago, she told me her usual no sex till marriage. I asked her if she's a virgin she said no that she dated just one guy who broke her heart and now she has decided to zip up till her wedding night.

To me, I didn't have any problem with that. My problem was that this girl literally flirts on the phone with guys even in my presence. When I confront her she'll tell me they're just toasters that she doesn't have anything with them. She receives calls like a call center agent. Always on Facebook and WhatsApp till even midnight. And to make matters worse she's the urgent 2k type. So tell me would any guy in my shoes honour her request to date without sex....of course not. I had to end the whole stuff cos she wasn't contributing to my life in anyway. Most times I initiate a discussion with her on chat, she can't even sustain it without indirectly telling me one problem or the other she has.

My take...if you don't want sex in a relationship and you don't want to have any problem with your man concerning your stand, then avoid unnecessary request so it won't make him feel that you're owing him. Avoid flirting with other guys on phone and in reality. Concentrate on your relationship by looking for ways to make an impact in his life. It could be through business ideas, could be counseling, could be partnership in business, education...etc. also develop yourself. Let him see that your life is progressing. That you're successful in whatever it is that you're into.

Make him see you as someone he can't do without and he'll stick to you regardless of your no sex stand.
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 10:55pm On Dec 12, 2020
Liposure:
its becos women are sexually reluctant. why do you think men pay prostitutes to have sex with them when sex is free

Exactly women are very calculative wen it comes to sex

That is why I doubt if women enjoy sex so much.

Men love sex and can pay anything to have it but women don't
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by purples25(f): 10:57pm On Dec 12, 2020
DEMZEE:


Lemme break it down for u

Wen it comes to marriage, MEN CHOOSE TO WIFE A VIRGIN AND ONLY HER CAN RECEIVE THAT TRUE NATURE OF MEN LOVING EMOTIONALLY AND SEXUALLY

We also have other qualities we seek from the virgin, not all virgins have marriageable qualities

Wen women look at men they don't get attracted to his penis straight up, they are attracted by his financial status

Wen men look at women we are not attracted to ur financial status but ur physical being (sexuality)

That's why women are sexual objects and men are success objects

If only men would just marry and love their virgins first and last. Oh well.

Lets hope all the remaining and upcoming virgins are only picked up by men ready for marriage who will wife them up and instantly love them.

Asides this, I wouldn't advice any virgin to give in believing that he's going to love her or something. Based on the deal, marriage first.

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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 10:57pm On Dec 12, 2020
fati2001:


DOUBLE STANDARD KING OF ALL RAPISTS...


WHY EN DY PAIN YOU? ... SHEY YOU SAY YOU LIKE TO PROMOTE IMMORALITIES AND DECEIVING THE LOST SOULS..

QUEEN OF ALL HARLOTS BOTH PHYSICAL AND METAPHYSICAL

TUEHHHHHHH
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 10:58pm On Dec 12, 2020
erico2k2:

[b]Pre marital Se[/b]x, laugh wan kill me here grin grin grin grin 9ja we won't learn! we are extremely religious yet we cannot solve our basic needs, anyway, we will get there o be day!


check my profile.. joor.

Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by favor914: 11:00pm On Dec 12, 2020
DEMZEE:


Exactly women are very calculative wen it comes to sex

That is why I doubt if women enjoy sex so much.

Men love sex and can pay anything to have it but women don't
Who told you?
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 11:00pm On Dec 12, 2020
purples25:


If only men would just marry and love their virgins first and last. Oh well.

Lets hope all the remaining and upcoming virgins are only picked up by men ready for marriage who will wife them up and instantly love them.

Asides this, I wouldn't advice any virgin to give in believing that he's going to love her or something. Based on the deal, marriage first.

That's the whole point of being a virgin, it has a good marriageable quality with it.

But there are also other marriageable qualities that she should also have.

If she doesn't have such qualities she will b bleeped and dumped
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Queenserah26(f): 11:00pm On Dec 12, 2020
Thank you for this, very well said.


Nazgul:
To me sex isn't necessary.

From my past relationships, if I'm to advice any girl I'll tell them to avoid sex and stand on it. Sex makes you suspicious of your partner. It makes you have unnecessary problems, unnecessary commitments, unnecessary responsibilities.... etc. How many guys would you keep offering your body to just to make them stay?

What makes most guys wants sex is when the financial demand from the girl becomes too much. Most girls will tell you that they're not ready for sex, but will still want you to show dedicated financial commitments towards them. No guy will ever agree to that.

Many girls naturally lack wisdom. Let me share a my own experience here. I met this girl some years ago, she told me her usual no sex till marriage. I asked her if she's a virgin she said no that she dated just one guy who broke her heart and now she has decided to zip up till her wedding night.

To me, I didn't have any problem with that. My problem was that this girl literally flirts on the phone with guys even in my presence. When I confront her she'll tell me they're just toasters that she doesn't have anything with them. She receives calls like a call center agent. Always on Facebook and WhatsApp till even midnight. And to make matters worse she's the urgent 2k type. So tell me would any guy in my shoes honour her request to date without sex....of course not. I had to end the whole stuff cos she wasn't contributing to my life in anyway. Most times I initiate a discussion with her on chat, she can't even sustain it without indirectly telling me one problem or the other she has.

My take...if you don't want sex in a relationship and you don't want to have any problem with your man concerning your stand, then avoid unnecessary request so it won't make him feel that you're owing him. Avoid flirting with other guys on phone and in reality. Concentrate on your relationship by looking for ways to make an impact in his life. It could be through business ideas, could be counseling, could be partnership in business, education...etc. also develop yourself. Let him see that your life is progressing. That you're successful in whatever it is that you're into.

Make him see you as someone he can't do without and he'll stick to you regardless of your no sex stand.
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 11:00pm On Dec 12, 2020
favor914:
Who told you?

I have not heard it as a norm that women pay for sex just because they love it so much
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 11:02pm On Dec 12, 2020
DEMZEE:

QUEEN OF ALL HARLOTS BUT PHYSICAL AND METAPHYSICAL
TUEHHHHHHH
KING OF HARLOT AND ALL THE ABOMINATIONS IN THE UNIVERSAL....



COMING FOR SOMEONE WHO SIN AGAINST HIS OWN BODY....

GODFORBIH.

PUBLIC DICK HOLDER, PREMARITAL SEX MASTER!!
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 11:03pm On Dec 12, 2020
fati2001:


KING OF HARLOT AND ALL THE ABOMINATIONS IN THE UNIVERSAL....




COMING FOR SOMEONE WHO SIN AGAINST HIS OWN BODY....


GODFORBIH.


PUBLIC DICK HOLDER, PREMARITAL SEX MASTER!!

Goodnight make sure you masturbate tight

Kisses******
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by purples25(f): 11:05pm On Dec 12, 2020
DEMZEE:


That's the whole point of being a virgin, it has a good marriageable quality with it.

But there are also other marriageable qualities that she should also have.

If she doesn't have such qualities she will b bleeped and dumped

Who made man a judge
Through whom women pass
Losing their virtue if they don't pass a man's test
Being fvcked and dumped for nothing.

What right does any man have to run through someone's daughter and leave her without virtue?

OK life isn't fair for both genders anyway.
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by fati2001(m): 11:05pm On Dec 12, 2020
DEMZEE:

Goodnight make sure you masturbate tight
Kisses******

PUBLIC DICK HOLDER, I DON'T USE MY PURE BODY FOR DIRTY ACTIONS.
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Liposure: 11:05pm On Dec 12, 2020
DEMZEE:


Exactly women are very calculative wen it comes to sex

That is why I doubt if women enjoy sex so much.

Men love sex and can pay anything to have it but women don't
men love sex. Women weaponise it
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 11:09pm On Dec 12, 2020
Liposure:
men love sex. Women weaponise it

Gbammmmmmm
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Lazykulture: 11:10pm On Dec 12, 2020
Liposure:
i expected a contrary stance from you as chaste person
I'm still confused but ok smiley
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 11:10pm On Dec 12, 2020
purples25:


Who made man a judge
Through whom women pass
Losing their virtue if they don't pass a man's test
Being fvcked and dumped for nothing.

What right does any man have to run through someone's daughter and leave her without virtue?

OK life isn't fair for both genders anyway.

Exactly life aint fair

Nobody is a judge or been judge

It's all about choices and consequences
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by purples25(f): 11:12pm On Dec 12, 2020
DEMZEE:


Exactly life aint fair

Nobody is a judge or been judge

It's all about choices and consequences

And that is why sex is not necessary in a relationship.

Because of choices and consequences. Of which the choice and consequence is not favorable to the woman. grin
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by DEMZEE(m): 11:22pm On Dec 12, 2020
purples25:


And that is why sex is not necessary in a relationship.

Because of choices and consequences. Of which the choice and consequence is not favorable to the woman. grin


But you want to receive commitment, attention and resources from the man and its also Not fair and favorable to him if he doesn't receive sex in return
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Nobody: 11:31pm On Dec 12, 2020
Your relationship, your problem. As for me Capital YES! If I don't get sex from you how do I ease sexual tension? Even sex is overrated, I can live with Bae for 1 month and only have sex once. I'm just not ready for such hide and seek relationship, if you say no sex am off! Keep it for your future husband grin

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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by purples25(f): 11:43pm On Dec 12, 2020
DEMZEE:



But you want to receive commitment, attention and resources from the man and its also Not fair and favorable to him if he doesn't receive sex in return

Who said sex is an assurance that a man will give a woman all these? Are we not even in an age where men expect to have sex without a woman collecting anything, else she is a gold digger? Its not as simple as that..

No sex, no financial giving can be agreed on. Both parties can give attention and love without weaponizing it as a trade for sex or money. From giving love and attention to each other, they can see if they are compatible. If they are, good. If they are not, they part ways. This way nobody is severely hurt. Cuz everyone gave equally.
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by tsagir(m): 11:44pm On Dec 12, 2020
PREMARITIAL SEX ,FORNICATION.ADULTRY IS ALLOWED BY BIBLE..LOOK THE XTIAN (BIBLE FOLLOWER) LIFE STYLE
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by erico2k2(m): 11:45pm On Dec 12, 2020
fati2001:



check my profile.. joor.
wetin I go find if I check grin grin grin
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by kevotek1000(m): 11:46pm On Dec 12, 2020
Virgin or no virgin it doesn't guarantee a long lasting relationship or marriage... You guys should keep deceiving yourself. 99% of people who preach in support for no sex before marriage have actually bleeped and still bleeping. Sex is very important, Christianity aside... It's a way of love expression and it creates bond. Hypocrisy.... So it's good for a lady to be a virgin and what about the men? What's this attachment of female virgin to Africa men...

Virgin or no virgin a wonderful wife and a lovely husband is all we should pray and seek, because virgin woman with a very dirty character is disastrous to a man... Sex shouldn't be a problem.

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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by princehaxky(m): 11:46pm On Dec 12, 2020
Can you like without Sex
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by erico2k2(m): 11:47pm On Dec 12, 2020
purples25:


Who said sex is an assurance that a man will give a woman all these? Are we not even in an age where men expect to have sex without a woman collecting anything, else she is a gold digger? Its not as simple as that..

No sex, no financial giving can be agreed on. Both parties can give attention and love without weaponizing it as a trade for sex or money. From giving love and attention to each other, they can see if they are compatible. If they are, good. If they are not, they part ways. This way nobody is severely hurt. Cuz everyone gave equally.
we dey talk 9ja or abroad? grin grin no money no love 4 9ja period! with all these small girls with big god

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