Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,

Looking from the angle of ur children, if u can let go nop. The future welfare of those Children is Paramount...


Thinking about what she did you cud let go but the other way round.... Consider dos innocent lad

I wonder what is wrong with some men here,if it is the guy that cheat what I will hearing here is men always cheat this and that,

or I will be hearing forgive your husband
tufiakwa unu

pls oga poster,if you want to forgive your wife forgive her and bring her back because those people that is telling you not to accept her back,if they are in your shoe they will not chase their wife out
Don't be deceive by those mumu

Am not in any way supporting the adultrous woman in any way but why is it that married men cheats on their wives and get away with it while once a married woman cheats she will be asked to pack out of her husband's house.

But they both took same oath on their wedding day abi?

membranus:


A broken home is better than a knife in the jugular in the middle of a night sleep.

Never condone an adulterous woman, or you are inviting an early death into your life.

The woman is bad: a kid-napper, and a thief and a burglar in addition.

If he wants to live long, let him just rescue his baby, and wave a final goodbye to the evil lady.

What about an adulterous man sir?
What should a lady do to him?

Is he not a kidnapper and a thief and a burglar in addition ?

And nigga, if you know your hoe, that hoe a hoe
You know that hoe gon' hoe for sure, for sure, for sure
She up next and she finna blow, still the same hoE

Igbo man and money this one wants to risk his life and peace of mind because of ordinary bride price.

tell her family to return the bride price,say u no do again,that's the tradition in my village,if you don't want to marry again,u can return the woman and they give u your bride price,though not all the money u spent but most of it(mostly the cash paid)

Are you that broke? Even men who bought cars for girlfriends did not marry them by force. She will always cheat. Move on and pray for a better woman.

Will you drive an accident prone car because you paid so much for it? You can seek for divorce, collect back your bride price( if possible), but please do take care of your child

No, she's never going to change.

This matter tired wrapper, some women are just too accustomed to tasting varieties.

Bros, it's better you move on with your life and count that expensive bride price as a loss, collect your child from her because if you eventually bring her back, she will do it more because you have shown a sense of mediocre and that's a good ahead for women once you pardon their wrong did.

Just a piece �

How sure are you that the so called boy is yours ?? Meh men Dey suffer ooo , thank God for life

Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,

Forgive her. Help her to change and be a better person. As a christian, the docrine of forgiveness IS HIGHER and PREFERRED than the docrine of Divorce

Sebastine1994:
i came back from work on Friday to discover that my wife has ran away with our son and some properties in the house, my neighbor said she is a bad woman that I should let her go, they caught her in adultery and she ran away because of shame.

for the first time in my life I discovered that I have not played my role as a husband. I was just focused on bringing back money home for the family and forgot the sexual responsibility, I agree I am at fault too. but if I calculate all the bride price I spent and wedding cost, I feel like going to bring her back. if not for her sake but for the baby, please advice is needed now

she is an igala while I am igbo,

If it was you that cheated won't you ask her to take you back?
Let's not be biased with our judgement. Men cheat women cheat. Forgive her and get her back guy. Who knows she may be remorseful and not do it again. Remember the oat till death do u part. Meaning even cheating sef no suppose separate two of u. There is forgiveness in marriage. Go and fetch your wife back and kill her with f**k. Infact give her belle number 2 and pay more attention to her this time.
She just might change.

Oga neighbours shouldn't b the ones to tell u what happen, take ittt but investigate more, go and have a good talk with her, if possible take her back ,as no woman abandone a cheating husband, husbands too should b forgiven wives if possible. Make it clear that such never happen if she do anything similar in future send her packing. Try to give her time and intimacy

Let the guy commit the act first

SweetCunt97:
If it were d guy that committed adultery, you wouldn't post this.

Samakus:


Lolz. Alright. Will like to send you a message but I can't access my Nairaland email. Can you help? My siggy

Am not looking for a man

hashtagged:

She kidnapped the kid

Who birthed the kid? learn 2 look b4 u leap.

Its seems to me you love her more than how she love you. First, she committed adultery, run away with your child. That is understandable. But why did she packed your property? Shine your eyes from here.

GodWrites:
An adulterous wife will send you to your grave earlier than a bullet from an SKS.

In some traditions, her people will be mandated to pay back every dime you spent marrying her.

Adultery is not something you take lightly, not in Igbo land or Igala.

Get in touch with your people, so they will accompany you to see her people so they can do the necessary things.

Never accept her back, no matter the magnitude of tears and begging. If you give her a chance, she will poison you or probably kill you in your sleep.

Traditionally, the boy is yours. If she's to seek a legal divorce, you'll win custody on the ground that your wife is a hoe, irresponsible, and a bad influence on your son.

My advice to young folks: If you want peace of mind, never marry, get a baby mama instead. There are some good women, they are few and not worth the gamble.

Shalom!

You said traditionally the child is his, which I agree with You. Because that's the major profit in a marriage and there won't be need wasting his money on DNA. Instead he should take the child and train him. So the child knows him as his father.

You other opinion of having a baby mama instead of marriage. Do You think traditionally the child from a baby mama is the guy that didn't marry the mother or the child. Because in some customs, that child is the mother's. The baby Daddy only did a free donation.

sweetilicious:
Am not looking for a man

. Straight up! Alright, I'm gone

Someone will come for your head.

Reason number 5,000,234,001,345 why bride price is ridiculous.

Chii59:
Forgive and forget.
Maybe it's because you've not been oiling her well.
Pray for her to repent. It's the handwork of Satan trying to scatter your home.
Take a break from work
Take her out
Give her leg massages and mind blowing orgasms
You can even cook for her sef.
Don't forget to be a submissive wife.
Oh no, husband sorry.

I thought this was a post about an adulterous husband. Oh shoot, my bad

banio:


You said traditionally the child is his, which I agree with You. Because that's the major profit in a marriage and there won't be need wasting his money on DNA. Instead he should take the child and train him. So the child knows him as his father.

You other opinion of having a baby mama instead of marriage. Do You think traditionally the child from a baby mama is the guy that didn't marry the mother or the child. Because in some customs, that child is the mother's. The baby Daddy only did a free donation.

If you want a baby mama, make it a written contract that the child is yours and yours alone.

As long as you pay her whatever amount she wants, you both will be fine.

cooooooks:


Someone will come for your head.

Reason number 5,000,234,001,345 why bride price is ridiculous.

Divorce her joor. Awon Olosho Oshi

Jazzafizzy:
Igala Woman doing this ?

Igala women plenty wey d eff up big time. They're no longer what used to be

Don't take her back because she will never change did you even know how long she has being doing it, even Bible condemn such act in some tradition if you sleep with her without doing the normal sacrifice you're a goner no prayer or medicine can save you, just let her go