Dididrumz:
First of all, how old is she?

I'll advise that you wait untill the exact day she's leaving, then search her properly.

but then, don't rule out Your brother too.

Tadeknkeepcalm:
As soon as you noticed you should have kept mute and informed your brother.
A similar case happened here too recently.
I was like, since we haven't seen him directly we can't just accuse him.
But my mum was really bearing the brunt and couldn't take it anymore.
She just went to the boy and said "bring my money out from where you've been keeping it"
The boy couldn't deny, he just kept mute. I was dumbfounded. I was really hoping he wasn't the one. Heck, I told her it could be a jinn. Men, I was dissapointed

tega2luv:
My instinct tells me it's her but how do I milk the money out of her without being embarrassedat the end that shes not the one, it really painful

Kondomatic:
It's also possible your brother did it because there's someone else to suspect.

Don't accuse anyone yet, approach the case with an open mind so you don't end up accusing someone falsely.

overdrive:
Send her on an errand then search her belongings when she must have finished packing,just an to her departure from your house.

tega2luv:
Best advice so far, thank you so much but I noticed yesterday she is locking her bag now with keys, I just hope she doesnt lock it when I wanna send her the errand

overdrive:



If she uses a little padlock then buy an exact replica and break hers and search properly then use the one you bought to lock it after.
If not padlock then search properly for the keys to her bag, there lies your money.
Your time starts now.

Oluwapluto:
We dey wait for d outcome o

effido666:
Do u av neighbors in ur compound? If yes she might av given it out to someone she's very close to in d composed ....dats if she's d culprit ......but my advise is for u to do d searching d day she wants to leave...but dont concentrate in searching her bags alone .....though d money big to hide for body .....but wen it comes to hiding tins for body .....notin women no fit hide for body.....I just pray u find ur hard earn money

tega2luv:
Best advice so far, thank you so much but I noticed yesterday she is locking her bag now with keys, I just hope she doesnt lock it when I wanna send her the errand

ABOVEDELAW:
FORGET THE MONEY IF YOU DON'T HAVE A SOLID PROOF TO AVOID ACCUSING AN INNOCENT PERSON, JUST BE VERY CAREFUL AND SECURITY CONSCIOUS NEXT TIME.

tega2luv:
[b][/b]cutting long stories short,today makes it a week now since I lost my money in my own house, never for once has there been a recorded case of missing money in my house...

It goes like this!!! I live with my junior brother for a long time now and I know him so well just recently my elder brothers daughter came to live with us making us in the house 3, so since she came over she has been the one doing all the house chores..


Since the pandemic I have been saving for this yule tide season with my piggy bank save and just recently I opened it and counted the money in it and realise I have saved 80k this was a month back...


So as I was working the safe to reput it where I hide it my niece saw me with it and she had idea where I kept it, i never suspected her to be a thief so i didnt change the location of the safe, now from that time till a week ago I have also saved another 18k in it...


I happily ordered some stuff online in this jumai black friday deals to pay on delivery only for me to open my safe a day before jumia will bring my stuff I noticed the 80k I saved earlier was missing remaining the recent 18k.


I have turned my hux up and down I cant find the money and nobody including my brother and niece accepting they took it, although it is very bad to suspect someone to be a thief whereas hes not, I have lived with my brother for too long to know what he can do on the other hand i do not know much bout my niece...



Now she has told me shes travelling for the christmas to return after the new year, shes my prime suspect, she knows no one in this phc and has not gone out for once since she came, I said to myself I will check her properly to know what shes leaving my house with from her pants to her comb....


I need advise weda or not to check her properly at the gate before she leaves bcux if I check and found nothing on her, there would be embarrassment and false allegation and false suspicion...



Please my fellow Nlanders how do I search her before she leaves to avoid embarrassment..


Candid advise please

tega2luv:
[b][/b]cutting long stories short,today makes it a week now since I lost my money in my own house, never for once has there been a recorded case of missing money in my house...

It goes like this!!! I live with my junior brother for a long time now and I know him so well just recently my elder brothers daughter came to live with us making us in the house 3, so since she came over she has been the one doing all the house chores..


Since the pandemic I have been saving for this yule tide season with my piggy bank save and just recently I opened it and counted the money in it and realise I have saved 80k this was a month back...


So as I was working the safe to reput it where I hide it my niece saw me with it and she had idea where I kept it, i never suspected her to be a thief so i didnt change the location of the safe, now from that time till a week ago I have also saved another 18k in it...


I happily ordered some stuff online in this jumai black friday deals to pay on delivery only for me to open my safe a day before jumia will bring my stuff I noticed the 80k I saved earlier was missing remaining the recent 18k.


I have turned my hux up and down I cant find the money and nobody including my brother and niece accepting they took it, although it is very bad to suspect someone to be a thief whereas hes not, I have lived with my brother for too long to know what he can do on the other hand i do not know much bout my niece...



Now she has told me shes travelling for the christmas to return after the new year, shes my prime suspect, she knows no one in this phc and has not gone out for once since she came, I said to myself I will check her properly to know what shes leaving my house with from her pants to her comb....


I need advise weda or not to check her properly at the gate before she leaves bcux if I check and found nothing on her, there would be embarrassment and false allegation and false suspicion...



Please my fellow Nlanders how do I search her before she leaves to avoid embarrassment..


Candid advise please

tega2luv:
[b][/b]cutting long stories short,today makes it a week now since I lost my money in my own house, never for once has there been a recorded case of missing money in my house...

It goes like this!!! I live with my junior brother for a long time now and I know him so well just recently my elder brothers daughter came to live with us making us in the house 3, so since she came over she has been the one doing all the house chores..


Since the pandemic I have been saving for this yule tide season with my piggy bank save and just recently I opened it and counted the money in it and realise I have saved 80k this was a month back...


So as I was working the safe to reput it where I hide it my niece saw me with it and she had idea where I kept it, i never suspected her to be a thief so i didnt change the location of the safe, now from that time till a week ago I have also saved another 18k in it...


I happily ordered some stuff online in this jumai black friday deals to pay on delivery only for me to open my safe a day before jumia will bring my stuff I noticed the 80k I saved earlier was missing remaining the recent 18k.


I have turned my hux up and down I cant find the money and nobody including my brother and niece accepting they took it, although it is very bad to suspect someone to be a thief whereas hes not, I have lived with my brother for too long to know what he can do on the other hand i do not know much bout my niece...



Now she has told me shes travelling for the christmas to return after the new year, shes my prime suspect, she knows no one in this phc and has not gone out for once since she came, I said to myself I will check her properly to know what shes leaving my house with from her pants to her comb....


I need advise weda or not to check her properly at the gate before she leaves bcux if I check and found nothing on her, there would be embarrassment and false allegation and false suspicion...



Please my fellow Nlanders how do I search her before she leaves to avoid embarrassment..


Candid advise please

Ihatebuhariwith:

Bro go abattoir, go carry one cow horn n decorate it with red clothes n oil. Then called ur bro n sis to swear. Tell dem d thief will run man in d next 3days and don't 4get to tell dem that they have only 2days to return d money. No 4get to thank me later

Macsjebs:

Really complicated
Maybe your elder brother can wade in, that's if he doesn't get angry over your suspicion because some persons could be overly protective

I really can't give much advice on this, I do hope you get to the bottom of this
Cheers

frozen70:


Like you said to avoid embarrassing situations

Let her go and not to come back again

She should be with her parents while seeking for admission

If you accuse her it becomes an issue, if you keep quiet it means you weren't sure if the money was actually kept there

Tell you brother that things are not really ok and you will want her daughter to stay with them

Meanwhile seat your junior brother down and let him know why you are not sending him back yet because you have never recorded any missing money prior to the girls visit and now that she is going, you want to know the theif that is in your house

andyanders:
Get the exact key, break hers and check. She saw u when u first openned d box. She wants to go for xmas, where did she get money to travel with this hard time.

effido666:
Do u av neighbors in ur compound? If yes she might av given it out to someone she's very close to in d composed ....dats if she's d culprit ......but my advise is for u to do d searching d day she wants to leave...but dont concentrate in searching her bags alone .....though d money big to hide for body .....but wen it comes to hiding tins for body .....notin women no fit hide for body.....I just pray u find ur hard earn money