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How Do I Put Off My Neighbour Wife Without Offending Her ?? by Jeremiih(m): 4:26pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
I just created this account, so I can hear you guys views and opinion on what am about to say. Now this isn't some fiction or made up stuff, I am being 100% real here. And please don't mind my errors. I stay with my Elder brother on the mainland who lives in a two bedroom apartment, I have been with him since June this year and I am 23 years old. We occupy one of the flats on the ground floor, while this my said neighbour, his wife and two kids occupies the one on the second floor. I work as a casual staff on the island with an IT firm, I do come back late in the night due to Lagos traffic wahala, so I don't even know most of the people staying around. Now fast forward to 3 weeks ago, I got sick and was down with typhoid, a nurse came around to administer drips on me and I took medications. Since last week I have fully recovered, but my Elder bro told me to relax for now, that he will work out something for me. These days that I have been around, I do see my neighbor wife and we greet ourselves( I must say she's dark, pretty and must be in her early 30s). Just few days back she added me on Facebook, am still surprised how she got my FB username. She chatted me up and we started talking. She said, she just wanna be friends with me. I said no problem. But the thing is, yesterday she said she is crushing on me on FB and don't mind we having intimate relationship. I told her it won't be possible since she's married and besides her husband is a good friend with my Elder bro. Now this morning, while I was alone at home she brought food for me, I don't want her to feel bad, so I took it. Now she's acting so nice around me and I don't want my Elder bro to feel anything. I am even thinking of telling him, but am scared things may turn south if her husband gets to know, she had already begged me not to tell anyone and I promised I won't tell anyone. Now pls how can I stop her from coming around me without causing bad blood ??. I would have given in because she is very hot with nice body, but she is married. I need your advice guys. Thanks 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Do I Put Off My Neighbour Wife Without Offending Her ?? by KingAttitude(m): 4:30pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Please turn such down politely.. it's not ideal 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Put Off My Neighbour Wife Without Offending Her ?? by delishpot: 4:30pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Tell your big bro and tell her off too. You don't want her to feel bad my arse. What is there to protect in her? Reject her food and make it clear you don't want such behaviour from her again. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Put Off My Neighbour Wife Without Offending Her ?? by DasaintHope(m): 4:30pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
God bless you op. Men like us are very few. The best thing will be to tell your brother. Depends on how close you are. Then monitor her, don't lead her on, act uninterested with time she will loose interest. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Put Off My Neighbour Wife Without Offending Her ?? by Fvckhypocrite(f): 4:31pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Wahala wear agbada The matter get as e be That wman husband go dey smwhere dey thnk say he don get wife Guy since you and the woman dey chat tell her say you no dey intrested make she stay off 19 Likes |
Re: How Do I Put Off My Neighbour Wife Without Offending Her ?? by madridguy(m): 4:32pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
![]() ![]() ![]() Your home address let me come and handle the issue physically ![]() ![]() ![]() Evil woman want to give you sour food chop. Call the woman and remind her how close your brother and her husband. Let her know that any attempt to tempt you again you will be left with no other option than to report her to your husband. Mind you, as a young guy, stop greeting married women inside your compound and area. Many Delilah pretending to be married women. 11 Likes |
Re: How Do I Put Off My Neighbour Wife Without Offending Her ?? by Jashub: 4:32pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
You may have to tell your brother. |
Re: How Do I Put Off My Neighbour Wife Without Offending Her ?? by nero2face: 4:38pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
2mins and it's settled, drop her a long note on messenger, tell her ur not comfortable with her coming close to u and she should never in her wildest dream think of u going down with her, let her realize she's married woman and u will never think of having anything with her, give her a mature but serious warming to stay away from u b4 she cause big problem for u and her self. Then monitor her read the message on messenger and block her on Facebook immediately. Bro never let pressure push u to going down with someone's wife, ur life will never be same if u do... But until she refuse to let u be after all these, still keep it to ur self and don't bring ur bro in...u will ruin her already with that 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Put Off My Neighbour Wife Without Offending Her ?? by Jeremiih(m): 4:38pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
delishpot: I have made it clear, but seems she's that flirting type. Telling my bro may cause problems. But I will strictly tell her to stop. Thanks 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Put Off My Neighbour Wife Without Offending Her ?? by Jeremiih(m): 4:41pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
DasaintHope: Well, I know he will tell her husband cos they are close. But I will try and Wade her off. Thanks 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Put Off My Neighbour Wife Without Offending Her ?? by Fvckhypocrite(f): 4:43pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
madridguy:Op follow this guy |
Re: How Do I Put Off My Neighbour Wife Without Offending Her ?? by Bola146(f): 4:44pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
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Re: How Do I Put Off My Neighbour Wife Without Offending Her ?? by DasaintHope(m): 4:45pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Jeremiih:Try and make your brother see reasons not to tell his friend, that will be unwise. It will only make the relationship sour, and what you have been avoiding a reality. like I say communication is the key. |
Re: How Do I Put Off My Neighbour Wife Without Offending Her ?? by tyup(m): 4:48pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
![]() Well in my own opinion, I think you should not sleep on a bicycle on this, straff her but do it boringly like a novice. when she sees how poorly you are on bed you don't need no extra energy chasing her away. thank me later 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Put Off My Neighbour Wife Without Offending Her ?? by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 4:48pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
OP smash the hell outta her and be a man.. You Still acting like a Jew. Anyways your age shows u still a kid. ![]() ![]() |
Re: How Do I Put Off My Neighbour Wife Without Offending Her ?? by nero2face: 4:48pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Bola146:u didn't read well...OP isn't married 4 Likes |
Re: How Do I Put Off My Neighbour Wife Without Offending Her ?? by CuteMike01(m): 4:49pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Reject all her gifts and offers. Avoid staying with her in secluded places then block her from all media. Never show interest in her at all. In fact act like she doesn't exist. If you think you won't offend her by rejecting her, then you are living in a fool's paradise 4 Likes
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Re: How Do I Put Off My Neighbour Wife Without Offending Her ?? by Nobody: 4:49pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Don't Tell Ur Elder Brother. If She Gets To Know She May Start Seeing U As A Coward. Just Keep Maintaining Social Distancing. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Put Off My Neighbour Wife Without Offending Her ?? by Bola146(f): 4:53pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
nero2face: I know. Or op is in a relationship now ![]() I thought op is the owner of the apartment ![]() |
Re: How Do I Put Off My Neighbour Wife Without Offending Her ?? by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 4:55pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
madridguy: OP don already bang dat lady for him mind. Can't you see he was even admiring her beauty and physique. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: How Do I Put Off My Neighbour Wife Without Offending Her ?? by Jeremiih(m): 5:00pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
DasaintHope: My elder bro will surely tell the husband. I know him. |
Re: How Do I Put Off My Neighbour Wife Without Offending Her ?? by Jeremiih(m): 5:02pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
nero2face: I said it in my write up already. I have told her. Anyways thanks for the advice. |
Re: How Do I Put Off My Neighbour Wife Without Offending Her ?? by Jeremiih(m): 5:05pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Truvel: You just said what's exactly on my mind bro. Thanks and I will do that. |
Re: How Do I Put Off My Neighbour Wife Without Offending Her ?? by Jeremiih(m): 5:06pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
CuteMike01: Hmmm... Thanks bro |
Re: How Do I Put Off My Neighbour Wife Without Offending Her ?? by thorpido(m): 5:15pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Tell her straight up that she should stop coming to your apartment and that if it continues,you will have no option but to tell your brother. |
Re: How Do I Put Off My Neighbour Wife Without Offending Her ?? by Dliquidmetal(m): 5:16pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Bola146:read!!!!!!! OP isnt married |
Re: How Do I Put Off My Neighbour Wife Without Offending Her ?? by Nazgul: 5:22pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Be very careful, but don't tell your brother. It could ruin her marriage and you'll be blamed for breaking them up. Just tell her that you value the friendship her husband has with your elder brother, and you value her marriage as well. What she has towards you is infatuation, with time it will fade off. |
Re: How Do I Put Off My Neighbour Wife Without Offending Her ?? by Dreyton36: 5:22pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Op talk true shey na Afonja woman ? Na deir way be that , Dem nor dey use eye see preeq at all 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Put Off My Neighbour Wife Without Offending Her ?? by Jeremiih(m): 5:34pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
thorpido: Told her she coming isn't good, that some other neighbors may notice it. She said we won't do anything around to avoid suspicion, that she knows a far away hotel we can go have fun. She is just that flirting type. |
Re: How Do I Put Off My Neighbour Wife Without Offending Her ?? by Jeremiih(m): 5:36pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Dreyton36: What's Afonja ?? Anyways she's from the south, don't wanna play the ethnic card that is why I didn't mention her tribe. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Put Off My Neighbour Wife Without Offending Her ?? by Matheusmartin: 5:40pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Jeremiih:.. She added u on Facebook and next thing shes crushing on u.. Just like that ![]() Continue. |
Re: How Do I Put Off My Neighbour Wife Without Offending Her ?? by Jeremiih(m): 5:44pm On Dec 15, 2020 |
Matheusmartin: Did you read my post very well??. First she said she just wanna be friends, we chatted well and she asked me questions. Just few days back she brought up the crushing part, I was really surprised cos I didn't even think she would say such. Not immediately it took time. |
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