Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
So we've been together for some months , almost a year now and well my current financial state is making me have doubts about our relationship, he's also not stable according to him but a lot of times I doubt that even if he was he probably won't tell me , or he'll leave me to do it all, I don't demand anything from him he's not my dad, I loved him so I always try to act like a grown woman even when I need help, but after losing sooooo much money in a scam I'm so broke that I barely have money to eat , he knows this but he didn't do anything to help , that's how I've been living like I'm single , I do every thing for myself but it's not been easy, do you think its okay to let him go and focus on me? Because I really don't understand his role in my life anymore, or should I try to wait while working and see if he's different in the future

Are U A Male Or A Female? Cuz I'm Confused Abt Ur Use Of Dis Pronouns: He, She, Him & Her.

Zzor:
As you were forming independent he got used to not helping you, move on he does not cherish you

You're the same person advising a lady to leave her boyfriend because he's not financially stable in one thread like that.

Kingzeez10:

You're the same person advising a lady to leave her boyfriend because he's not financially stable in one thread like that.

Which thread

Shortyy:


Look at them and their double standards crawling out. Assuming the guy was the person that lost all, and the lady is still financially okay, the gospel would've been to help him, build with him, suffer with him and all the nonsense y'all say.

Ndi ala

Ndi ala to you too. Didn't you see the thread where they're advising a lady to leave his boyfriend because he's not financially stable

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
So we've been together for some months , almost a year now and well my current financial state is making me have doubts about our relationship, he's also not stable according to him but a lot of times I doubt that even if he was he probably won't tell me , or he'll leave me to do it all, I don't demand anything from him he's not my dad, I loved him so I always try to act like a grown woman even when I need help, but after losing sooooo much money in a scam I'm so broke that I barely have money to eat , he knows this but he didn't do anything to help , that's how I've been living like I'm single , I do every thing for myself but it's not been easy, do you think its okay to let him go and focus on me? Because I really don't understand his role in my life anymore, or should I try to wait while working and see if he's different in the future

ANOTHER PERSPECTIVE- I Lost a lot of money this year too on the quest to make it; never faulted her or wondered about her usefulness in my life because it isn't her fault though, still sent her a little money when she needed some. Not planning to move on yet, but am still focused on myself. so ask him first,if he has and doesn't give you,you can move on. you get the point now?

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:


I do have feelings for him, but sometimes you feel its one sided, I'll talk to him and find out if he's sincere about everything, if he is I don't mind staying and working together

That's OK

You can still seat him down and let him know how you feel

His response will lead your mind towards whatever you are doing with him whether to stay or leave him

I sense breakdown in communication. Talk things over and express your feelings and watch events unfold...

Shortyy:


Look at them and their double standards crawling out. Assuming the guy was the person that lost all, and the lady is still financially okay, the gospel would've been to help him, build with him, suffer with him and all the nonsense y'all say.

Ndi ala

In this case, both she and the guy are financially unstable, which she attested to. What would you have the young man do?

collinsuchendu:
You're a gold digger. Bitch

Where's the gold? They're both broke.

But what's the point of relationship if you can't help each other when in need?

duduade:
But when he wants to chop you his role in your life is active abi


Abeg break up with him

Let both parties move on individually

Chop her how?
When did man start eating humans?

When they say that most women have nothing to offer in a relationship apart from wet fountain, they feel like suffocating themselves.
I hope you people you have that assertion and have peace.

Zzor:
As you were forming independent he got used to not helping you, move on he does not cherish you

I hate pretenders of which you are the queen.
Come out plain and tell her to quit since the guy is not paying for the only thing she is offering in the relationship which is her wet fountain shikina.

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
So we've been together for some months , almost a year now and well my current financial state is making me have doubts about our relationship, he's also not stable according to him but a lot of times I doubt that even if he was he probably won't tell me , or he'll leave me to do it all, I don't demand anything from him he's not my dad, I loved him so I always try to act like a grown woman even when I need help, but after losing sooooo much money in a scam I'm so broke that I barely have money to eat , he knows this but he didn't do anything to help , that's how I've been living like I'm single , I do every thing for myself but it's not been easy, do you think its okay to let him go and focus on me? Because I really don't understand his role in my life anymore, or should I try to wait while working and see if he's different in the future

Ask her now what her problems could be, you will hear things like;
I need new cloths
I need new shoes
I need to change my phone
I need money for Christmas
My birthday is next week
Are these things what a broke girl should prioritize? The answer is NO.

I move with her boyfriend shikina.

I so much like a lady or a woman,who is so understanding...I can go any length for her.. This situation is a two-sides of a coins..Try to talk to him in a respective and polite manner and see his reaction before any decision... Unless you are not good to him..That is y,he could reject you..thanks..

Dnt mind dem

Shortyy:


Look at them and their double standards crawling out. Assuming the guy was the person that lost all, and the lady is still financially okay, the gospel would've been to help him, build with him, suffer with him and all the nonsense y'all say.

Ndi ala

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:

Thank you I think I'll do that

good

Yes let him go, there is no law or constitution mandating him to spend on you.

Mtchewwww, na mumu post

Nonexistent1:
You said he is not financially stable but here you are doubting his role in your life because he didn't give you money. You see why I call Nigerian girls parasites. The bobo is probably drinking garri and struggling but you are here saying nonsense. I pity men that fall in nonsense love these days.

As in

Bloody gutless leech

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
So we've been together for some months, almost a year now and well my current financial state is making me have doubts about our relationship, he's also not stable according to him but a lot of times I doubt that even if he was he probably won't tell me, or he'll leave me to do it all.

I don't demand anything from him, he's not my dad, I loved him so I always try to act like a grown woman even when I need help, but after losing sooooo much money in a scam I'm so broke that I barely have money to eat. He knows this but he didn't do anything to help, that's how I've been living like I'm single. I do every thing for myself but it's not been easy.

Do you think it's okay to let him go and focus on me? Because I really don't understand his role in my life anymore, or should I try to wait while working and see if he's different in the future?

There is no excuse for an uncaring frnd or partner. No he’s not ur daddy bt that doesn’t mean he shudnt know how to act. Also what value do u add to him b4 demanding what value he adds to u??

The question is why do you love him?

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
I'm so broke that I barely have money to eat.

Even your friend shouldn't watch you go hungry if they have the means let alone your boyfriend.

You too, it's not like you asked him for support and he said no. Even God can't do anything for us if we don't open our mouth.

Thread for expired newspapers to come And vent their frustrations on men

Ask him for help and see na. Maybe he is the type that likes being asked before they move a finger to help. You never can tell.

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Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
So we've been together for some months, almost a year now and well my current financial state is making me have doubts about our relationship, he's also not stable according to him but a lot of times I doubt that even if he was he probably won't tell me, or he'll leave me to do it all.

I don't demand anything from him, he's not my dad, I loved him so I always try to act like a grown woman even when I need help, but after losing sooooo much money in a scam I'm so broke that I barely have money to eat. He knows this but he didn't do anything to help, that's how I've been living like I'm single. I do every thing for myself but it's not been easy.

Do you think it's okay to let him go and focus on me? Because I really don't understand his role in my life anymore, or should I try to wait while working and see if he's different in the future?

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You are a leech
A shameless on at that

Is his role to be your financier ?

Rubbish
It's ladies like you that made us loose respect for women

So he doesn't give you advise ?

Keep you company?

He doesn't listen to your rubbish explanations?

He is more than you deserve

Shameless opportunist

Poverty has ruined your sense

Thief .. carry gun na
I pity any man dumb enough to date you

You are the epitome of a gold digger a liability a two penny trick

You don't understand his role in your Life?

All the times you where sad he cheered you up nko?

Kai this shows you are very very low level
Go online and read what a relationship is ..it doesn't state anywhere ehe takes care of your bills you ingnorant grasshopper

Better go back to your village and look for who will send you to hairdressing school

I blame him for reaching so low to take a partner

Na him be ur papa ni? Using someone else's sweat and hard to judge and test the lifeline of your relationship is stupid. Doesn't he also have his own responsibilities? Even my wife that works, I barely give her money and, I could give no hoot lest, a freaking gf. Nonsense!

I kW u not beautiful if u re u won't come here and seek for advice u will simply move to d next available toaster I pity ugly girls a lot they always suffere in relationship sister no vex o but that d fact