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Re: Should I Let Him Go Or Should I Stay And Try? by DestroyEvil: 3:13pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
You woke or still senselessly asleep. 3 Likes
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Re: Should I Let Him Go Or Should I Stay And Try? by godguy: 3:13pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Danyyyyyyyyyyy: are you married? 1 Like |
Re: Should I Let Him Go Or Should I Stay And Try? by Nobody: 3:13pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Danyyyyyyyyyyy: Sis, dont make someone a priority in your life when you are just an option in his!! A man that truly cares and loves bothers about your needs whether you have or not, whether he has or not, if he cannot bother about your needs now he will never, moreso, he will be taking care of other people's need even wen u are down because he belives u always have and should be the one bringing Dont let no man tie you down , please take a break and find yourself one who will treat you like a lady... 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Let Him Go Or Should I Stay And Try? by AishaYesufu: 3:14pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
You are broke He is broke But you are crying that he doesn't help. Do you know if he is complaining of same against you? I wonder why you can't define your relationship but choose to drag your problems to strangers as if it would change your financial state 6 Likes |
Re: Should I Let Him Go Or Should I Stay And Try? by Nnemuka(f): 3:14pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
If he cannot be of help to you, pls leave him. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Let Him Go Or Should I Stay And Try? by Nobody: 3:14pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Danyyyyyyyyyyy:Like you said, he is not your Dad! he is not your husband. If money is the reason you are dating him, then find someone else. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Let Him Go Or Should I Stay And Try? by fk001(m): 3:15pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Danyyyyyyyyyyy: You should wear your armour... A lady seeking this type of advice on Nairaland knows what she bargained for. 5 Likes |
Re: Should I Let Him Go Or Should I Stay And Try? by wands: 3:16pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
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Re: Should I Let Him Go Or Should I Stay And Try? by Kondomatic(m): 3:16pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
But he also does everything for himself. With no support from you. In fact, you guys are compatible and must marry 7 Likes
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Re: Should I Let Him Go Or Should I Stay And Try? by Seyzcham91(m): 3:16pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
you right and you smart like me despite her trying to prove all independent lady, her parasitic nature as so for all women parasitic nature still dominating and revealing itself see the way she saying it as if its not proper or right to take care of herself and her own need ![]() must a man, boyfriend or partner help you? ![]() as you might never know he might really wish to be supportive and since he no get the power or might, baba can't kill himsef the way you were born is how he was also born! everyone struggling now okay, nobody come to this world to struggle and be taking care of other person, we all trying to survive so you doing yourself a great favor by taking good care or yourself, upgrade yourself by finding another job but what i believe you were asking validation about don't think it. if i'm right your purpose of this thread is to justify your leaving a struggling man that's trying to survive and going after some yahoo boy that will be lavishing money on you not knowing the outcome on you later. afterall we all have one or two problems dealing with so this is still your problem keep on racking your brain on solving it. as far as i'm concern na your own side of the story be this i wish hear hin own side before anything cuz you females(vagina people) can't be trusted for anything. always looking for reason to go Bleep a better person with money in the name of my boyfriend not helping shiiorr ![]() Nonexistent1: 14 Likes |
Re: Should I Let Him Go Or Should I Stay And Try? by pickatyouu: 3:17pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
I give up on Nigerian girls with their type of parasitic relationship mentality. My dear do that your boyfriend a favor and move out of his life. If na him dem scam, what would u have done for him. 7 Likes |
Re: Should I Let Him Go Or Should I Stay And Try? by Mutemenot(m): 3:17pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
duduade: You talk as if only men benefit from chop. Why so much attention attached to a pit that our grandfathers couldn't fill... Back to the topic, sis you were scammed by someone else right, why do you think Oga should be punished for your mistakes ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Let Him Go Or Should I Stay And Try? by delishpot: 3:17pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
GofuckYourself: Forget that talk. Whether GF ó, Friend ó, Neighbour ó, Mother ó, Just passerby I if you have a normal head and you find someone in distress esp someone you spend so much time with, logic dictates that you share their worries with them and ask how you may help them withing your means. So far as I see she did not say he was dead broke or that he can't afford to help in any way So until we know for sure we can't say she is a leech. If someone you are dating is in position to help you in time of distress and refuses to do so claiming she isn't your father or financier I am sure you will find it strange. 10 Likes |
Re: Should I Let Him Go Or Should I Stay And Try? by LoudLord(m): 3:18pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
I don't know what guys/men gain in relationship sef.... As for me,I go for ladies that comes in two whenever I want to vibe and buzz Kilo kan mi pelu relationship Moya fell in love pelu LOUD 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Let Him Go Or Should I Stay And Try? by HelpYourself(m): 3:18pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
[s] Shortyy:[/s] Shut up 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Let Him Go Or Should I Stay And Try? by stonecoldcafe: 3:18pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Danyyyyyyyyyyy: Does he work? Very important o! If he is a student or is currently jobless please ignore the message below. It is only normal that he shows a measure of care if you have been scammed of your entire savings. This is not limited to money alone but just care and concern about you suffering any kind of loss. Now to the koko, he may not have the world but at least a small sum to help you get back on your feet or at least a promise to try if he is expecting funds. If he says absolutely nothing about your predicament or feigns ignorance when you complain, I'll be worried about such a man. Finally, also remember a boyfriend is not an ATM machine. If he has, he will give but he is under no pressure to cater for your every need just because he is dating you. Ask your parents for money if you need it for your upkeep. The average Nigerian girl with gimmie gimmie mentality will get a huge culture shock when she relocates to the west. 7 Likes |
Re: Should I Let Him Go Or Should I Stay And Try? by HelpYourself(m): 3:18pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
[s] delishpot:[/s] Shut up Good digger osi Ole Thief 1 Like |
Re: Should I Let Him Go Or Should I Stay And Try? by 001spice: 3:19pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
You better dnt leave that guy now or else u will regret it. You said it urself that 4 now he`s nt financialy stable. U got scam.did u tell him bout the business b4 u got into it. Dnt take ur frustration on that innocent young man. |
Re: Should I Let Him Go Or Should I Stay And Try? by humilitypays(m): 3:19pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Danyyyyyyyyyyy:The question is does he have enough money to give you, worry more about this ![]() You don't expect a drowning man to rescue another drowning fellow, only Jerk can do that in Titanic and he died of course ![]() ![]() Your guy is broke! Answer the below questions and I will tell you if he is broke or okay: 1.) Does he own a car - Yes or No ![]() 2.) If he owns a car, when did he buy the car ![]() 3.) If he bought the car like 5 years ago and still driving the same car and he is not building any new house or starting a new company or investing in a business expansion, then he is not doing well financially to foot extra unplanned bills 4.) Is he living in a flat or a room self content or a room/parlor apartment ![]() I repeat, if he has not changed his car in the last 5 years, and he is not building any house or starting a visibly viable business or company, my sister he is broke, pity him and instead of crying that he is not giving you money, go on a 30 days dry fasting and prayer for God to change his financial condition, believe me, once he becomes financially buoyant, he will definitely be splashing money on you. Even we the association of stingy men, the amount of money we spend on ladies in a year eh, e go fit buy new yatch oh ![]() ![]() The raw truth is, every man, Nigerian man loves to spend on his woman/women, if he has enough 6 Likes |
Re: Should I Let Him Go Or Should I Stay And Try? by Buksaylor: 3:20pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Danyyyyyyyyyyy: Is he your father to do everything for you.... 7 Likes |
Re: Should I Let Him Go Or Should I Stay And Try? by delishpot: 3:20pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
GofuckYourself: Wow, is that all you can come up with? Come on you can insult better than that na...... Go for it, fire your deadliest shot and it just might hit deeper ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Let Him Go Or Should I Stay And Try? by RichAbujaGuy: 3:20pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Madame Op, Pls try to close your legs and see how long this guy sticks around. Sounds like he's giving it to you real good and you can't let go of the gigolo. ![]() To the committee of NL gigolos, rock on guys! ![]() 1 Like
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Re: Should I Let Him Go Or Should I Stay And Try? by Nobody: 3:20pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
shagasha: Word |
Re: Should I Let Him Go Or Should I Stay And Try? by hardon1(m): 3:21pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Let me ask... Do you give him pussy?. DDid place a condition of NO SEX in the relationship? |
Re: Should I Let Him Go Or Should I Stay And Try? by Godbless3(m): 3:21pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Nonexistent1: Love is a big time scam and fraud and relationship is overrated.. What makes people think they are in love with each other and after may be 1 or 2years love disappear? Love is so overrated... Mbok. 6 Likes |
Re: Should I Let Him Go Or Should I Stay And Try? by Hezmatosky: 3:21pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Ned is available ofcus ![]() |
Re: Should I Let Him Go Or Should I Stay And Try? by Nobody: 3:22pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Danyyyyyyyyyyy:you should ask for his help instead of claiming big woman |
Re: Should I Let Him Go Or Should I Stay And Try? by omoadeleye(m): 3:22pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Re: Should I Let Him Go Or Should I Stay And Try? by sparko1(m): 3:22pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Danyyyyyyyyyyy: What do you mean by his role? Is he suppose to be paying salary, if you need help tell him, don't give him role like you are his mother. Role!!! You took your money and you put it into a scam and you are blaming him for not functioning in a role, did you consult him about his view before you foolishly gave your money to scammers ![]() Always looking for excuse to go looking for a rich guy, madam look for your yahoo boy, you have been together for months, moving forward in the relationship is not on your mind. 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Let Him Go Or Should I Stay And Try? by 001spice: 3:23pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
You actually knw nutin bout relationship. Ur reason is like that of tenn |
Re: Should I Let Him Go Or Should I Stay And Try? by omoadeleye(m): 3:23pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
Danyyyyyyyyyyy: How much did you lose in a scam and how come? 1 Like |
Re: Should I Let Him Go Or Should I Stay And Try? by MrColdsweat: 3:23pm On Dec 18, 2020 |
The difference between us. When a man has money, he looks to improve his woman, invest in her and help her grow. When a woman has money, she doesn't need a man. Men ronu!!! 10 Likes 1 Share |
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