Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
So we've been together for some months, almost a year now and well my current financial state is making me have doubts about our relationship, he's also not stable according to him but a lot of times I doubt that even if he was he probably won't tell me, or he'll leave me to do it all.

I don't demand anything from him, he's not my dad, I loved him so I always try to act like a grown woman even when I need help, but after losing sooooo much money in a scam I'm so broke that I barely have money to eat. He knows this but he didn't do anything to help, that's how I've been living like I'm single. I do every thing for myself but it's not been easy.

Do you think it's okay to let him go and focus on me? Because I really don't understand his role in my life anymore, or should I try to wait while working and see if he's different in the future?

duduade:
But when he wants to chop you his role in your life is active abi


Abeg break up with him

Let both parties move on individually

Shortyy:


Look at them and their double standards crawling out. Assuming the guy was the person that lost all, and the lady is still financially okay, the gospel would've been to help him, build with him, suffer with him and all the nonsense y'all say.

Ndi ala

delishpot:


Forget that talk. Whether GF ó, Friend ó, Neighbour ó, Mother ó, Just passerby I if you have a normal head and you find someone in distress esp someone you spend so much time with, logic dictates that you share their worries with them and ask how you may help them withing your means. So far as I see she did not say he was broke or that he can't afford to help. So until we know for sure we can't say she is a leach. If someone you are dating is in position to help you in time of distress and refuses to do so claiming she isn't your father or financier I am sure you will find it strange.

LoudLord:
I don't know what guys/men gain in relationship sef....
As for me,I go for ladies that comes in two whenever I want to vibe and buzz
Kilo mi pelu relationship
Moya fell in love pelu LOUD

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
So we've been together for some months, almost a year now and well my current financial state is making me have doubts about our relationship, he's also not stable according to him but a lot of times I doubt that even if he was he probably won't tell me, or he'll leave me to do it all.

I don't demand anything from him, he's not my dad, I loved him so I always try to act like a grown woman even when I need help, but after losing sooooo much money in a scam I'm so broke that I barely have money to eat. He knows this but he didn't do anything to help, that's how I've been living like I'm single. I do every thing for myself but it's not been easy.

Do you think it's okay to let him go and focus on me? Because I really don't understand his role in my life anymore, or should I try to wait while working and see if he's different in the future?

Lilgabby:
Rubbish comments above... See their mouth "yivam" yen yen.... Aunty, bill the idiot. Shebi u date to benefit from each other. I'm sure the idiot also bleeps you. U dey fuckup. Bill am! If e do anyhow.... No japa oh! Just do like say e no exist at all. No even let am near ur punny again make e no spoil am before ur real husband come.

igbosoupkitchen:


Sis, dont make someone a priority in your life when you are just an option in his!!

A man that truly cares and loves bothers about your needs whether you have or not, whether he has or not, if cannot bother about your needs now he will never, moreso, he will be taking care of other people's need even wen u are down because he belives u alwats have and should be the onw bringing

Dont let no man tie you down , please take a break and find yourself one who will treat you like a lady...

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
So we've been together for some months, almost a year now and well my current financial state is making me have doubts about our relationship, he's also not stable according to him but a lot of times I doubt that even if he was he probably won't tell me, or he'll leave me to do it all.

I don't demand anything from him, he's not my dad, I loved him so I always try to act like a grown woman even when I need help, but after losing sooooo much money in a scam I'm so broke that I barely have money to eat. He knows this but he didn't do anything to help, that's how I've been living like I'm single. I do every thing for myself but it's not been easy.

Do you think it's okay to let him go and focus on me? Because I really don't understand his role in my life anymore, or should I try to wait while working and see if he's different in the future?

shagasha:
Sis no one can answer this question for you o

You know what to do but u just want to tell ur self that others helped u make the decision

Seyzcham91:
you right and you smart like me

despite her trying to prove all independent lady, her parasitic nature as so for all women parasitic nature still dominating and revealing itself

see the way she saying it as if its not proper or right to take care of herself and her own need

must a man, boyfriend or partner help you? don't judge your man or other person if you don't really know what they going through

as you might never know he might really wish to be supportive and since he no get the power or might, baba can't kill himsef

the way you were born is how he was also born! everyone struggling now okay, nobody come to this world to struggle and be taking care of other person, we all trying to survive

so you doing yourself a great favor by taking good care or yourself, upgrade yourself by finding another job but what i believe you were asking validation about don't think it.

if i'm right your purpose of this thread is to justify your leaving a struggling man that's trying to survive and going after some yahoo boy that will be lavishing money on you not knowing the outcome on you later.

afterall we all have one or two problems dealing with so this is still your problem keep on racking your brain on solving it. as far as i'm concern na your own side of the story be this i wish hear hin own side before anything cuz you females(vagina people) can't be trusted for anything.

always looking for reason to go Bleep a better person with money in the name of my boyfriend not helping

shiiorr

delishpot:


Wow, is that all you can come up with?

Come on you can insult better than that na...... Go for it, fire your deadliest shot and it just might hit deeper

Nonexistent1:
You said he is not financially stable but here you are doubting his role in your life because he didn't give you money. You see why I call Nigerian girls parasites. The bobo is probably drinking garri and struggling but you are here saying nonsense. I pity men that fall in nonsense love these days.

pickatyouu:


Abeg take the back seat. If na like this your logic dey work no one would be broke cos We all have that one rich friend, support must not always be material, but u as a female won't understand that.
In life learn to be independent, if he wasn't there will she not find a way to pick herself up.
It okay to seek for help or want help but to bring an entitlement mentality into it, is the lowest you can go but as a naija girl na, relationship is about who fit fund ur next meal ticket and lavish life style.

cooooooks:
You got involved in a scam and want to use the results of your decision to scapegoat your supposed boo.

These streets are crazy.

Study well and read your books, let someone not greedily lose money to a scam and write epistle o.

Snaagg:

Me sef I wonder. Relationships are now poverty-alleviation schemes for ladies

GofuckYourself:


Are you done ?

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
So we've been together for some months, almost a year now and well my current financial state is making me have doubts about our relationship, he's also not stable according to him but a lot of times I doubt that even if he was he probably won't tell me, or he'll leave me to do it all.

I don't demand anything from him, he's not my dad, I loved him so I always try to act like a grown woman even when I need help, but after losing sooooo much money in a scam I'm so broke that I barely have money to eat. He knows this but he didn't do anything to help, that's how I've been living like I'm single. I do every thing for myself but it's not been easy.

Do you think it's okay to let him go and focus on me? Because I really don't understand his role in my life anymore, or should I try to wait while working and see if he's different in the future?

Nnemuka:
If he cannot be of help to you, pls leave him.

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
So we've been together for some months, almost a year now and well my current financial state is making me have doubts about our relationship, he's also not stable according to him but a lot of times I doubt that even if he was he probably won't tell me, or he'll leave me to do it all.

I don't demand anything from him, he's not my dad, I loved him so I always try to act like a grown woman even when I need help, but after losing sooooo much money in a scam I'm so broke that I barely have money to eat. He knows this but he didn't do anything to help, that's how I've been living like I'm single. I do every thing for myself but it's not been easy.

Do you think it's okay to let him go and focus on me? Because I really don't understand his role in my life anymore, or should I try to wait while working and see if he's different in the future?

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:

For your information I contribute more to my relationship than my partner , I said I want to work on myself ciz I'm not yet stable , is that what you call poverty mentality? So its wrong that my partner lends a hand when I fall , do you really have to expose yourself ?

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:


I do have feelings for him, but sometimes you feel its one sided, I'll talk to him and find out if he's sincere about everything, if he is I don't mind staying and working together