collinsuchendu:
You're a gold digger. Bitch

chinchonglee:

Menopause will do u something las las

Nnemuka:

Is your mum not yet in her age of menopause? is she useless to you? Why do you think threatening a woman with menopause is a curse?
Olodo

Shortyy:
First of all, why are you with him? Is it love? Infatuation? Lust? His personality? The sex? or the money?

Answer this question and I'll tell you what to do.

chinchonglee:

She is legally married!
Go n marry aunty.
Menopause is real

Emuf:


I can I advise you? the prove of love is giving. Any man who can't give you, does not love and cherish you. No matter how little it is. Don't force it!

Nonexistent1:
You said he is not financially stable but here you are doubting his role in your life because he didn't give you money. You see why I call Nigerian girls parasites. The bobo is probably drinking garri and struggling but you are here saying nonsense. I pity men that fall in nonsense love these days.

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
So we've been together for some months, almost a year now and well my current financial state is making me have doubts about our relationship, he's also not stable according to him but a lot of times I doubt that even if he was he probably won't tell me, or he'll leave me to do it all.

I don't demand anything from him, he's not my dad, I loved him so I always try to act like a grown woman even when I need help, but after losing sooooo much money in a scam I'm so broke that I barely have money to eat. He knows this but he didn't do anything to help, that's how I've been living like I'm single. I do every thing for myself but it's not been easy.

Do you think it's okay to let him go and focus on me? Because I really don't understand his role in my life anymore, or should I try to wait while working and see if he's different in the future?

francisbarrack:


Thumb up... Love doesnt exist. Make ur money n u gonna c them begging to b with U.

Nnemuka:

Are you sure she had you in a legal union? Go and ask her again

femi4:
You have poverty mentality on what a relationship is all about. Please get a job to get out of poverty. If you think relationship will do that for you, that's a very big lie

collinsuchendu:
You're a gold digger. Bitch

Kapilta:
Gerrarahere jare. Nonsense topic.

Lucyspa:



Babe, u re a girl, so u have inner instincts that speak to you in times of troubles. The main reason you even came here to talk about this issue is because it is bothering you already and that is not a good sign. A man who loves will willingly do things for you without you having to ask. I don't think that man loves you to be honest. I've been in this sort of situation before and it didn't take long before i broke up with him. That relationship made me unhappy and constantly tired. Infact, before i broke up with him, i started dating this guy that spoilt me silly and i became happy. The greatest need of an average Nigerian guy in a relationship is SEX while that of a woman is constant care and money. If you constantly give a man sex while he doesn't give u care and money, u will be unhappy like u are now. U can talk to him and see his reply. If he doesn't give you a reasonable reply, prepare ur mind for a breakup

chinchonglee:
Exactly!! This has been my thoughts since i read the topic. because she lost money to scammer, the innocent boyfriend will now suffer Men dey suffer. Women will lose money and leave their boyfriends Men will lose money their girlfriends will leave them. Nature is so unfair to men

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
She's also not stable according to him but a lot of times I doubt that even if he was he probably won't tell me, or he'll leave me to do it all.

Pauladex:


Ds one too strong. I can't stop laughing! You don't ask her if the guy dey enjoy am or stingy man just dey manage her palliatives

chinchonglee:

No ooo... Pictures don dey lie na..
Abi she go buy wedding gown jst to snap.
Madam go nd marry

Nnemuka:

You just come online, meet random people and then assume they are single
Nairalanders sha
Ask your mum to go and marry

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
So we've been together for some months, almost a year now and well my current financial state is making me have doubts about our relationship, he's also not stable according to him but a lot of times I doubt that even if he was he probably won't tell me, or he'll leave me to do it all.

I don't demand anything from him, he's not my dad, I loved him so I always try to act like a grown woman even when I need help, but after losing sooooo much money in a scam I'm so broke that I barely have money to eat. He knows this but he didn't do anything to help, that's how I've been living like I'm single. I do every thing for myself but it's not been easy.

Do you think it's okay to let him go and focus on me? Because I really don't understand his role in my life anymore, or should I try to wait while working and see if he's different in the future?

Shortyy:


Look at them and their double standards crawling out. Assuming the guy was the person that lost all, and the lady is still financially okay, the gospel would've been to help him, build with him, suffer with him and all the nonsense y'all say.

Ndi ala

Roseey0:


What of those that can't give sex