Don't call it foolish things. It's like asking God why you made a man ahead of woman. Read genesis 2 And genesis 3 to see the reasons.

hmm

Where are the women pleading for a man to marry them? We need them ASAP.

Ekemeze:


Bashing men online but very submissive at home

99.98852% of nigerian girlsborn from 1980 upwards are oloshos

Ok

Hmm..

Humans are the most insatiable set of beings.

We do, wahala.
We no do, wahala...

Lolz desperate for traffic. Eeew

3. Cooking for the guy you are not married to Just to cook for him once is not the problem, but if that became a regular thing that is foolishness.

It is just food. He will eat it and shit it out. What if it is my hobby?

Why will you knack someone raw, lick dick, drink postinor 2 every other day- but cooking regularly becomes foolishness? I see nothing foolish in this one.

I don’t think i will marry someone that is old enough to be her father, if not for love. Will you?

Money.

2. Pleading, begging and crying for men to marry them; Dear sister, you don’t have to do all that to make him marry you, if he is interested he will ask you himself, you don’t have to beg or plead; By doing so, you will tarnish your image in his eyes.

Desperation

4 and 6 ,I can also consider as being foolish, moving in with guy too but not always.

The other 6 opinions show how foolish op is.

A girl that a guy intended to marry is refusing to Cook for the guy and you expect such guy to go ahead and marry her.

Anyone can love irrespective of ages.
Some girls have suffered more than enough from hands of younger guys, who pass them around in name of' I go marry u'

hmmm!

How many women are doing all this for guys they are far richer than or guys that are not giving them money or "taking care of them"....Most of the things you mentioned are not done out of love but greed to keep being with the wrong person cos of what is being gained....Most of those monsters also knw these dynamics

Big lie!!

Nigerian ladies don't fall in love. They're just in it for what they can get.

PLS WHEN NIGERIA SINGLE MOTHER WILL LEAVE US FOR NONE SINGLE MOTHERS_ _____AS NIGERIA SINGLE MOTHERS CONTINUE TO REPACKAGED THEIR LOVE FOR SINGLE MEN

pocohantas:


It is just food. He will eat it and shit it out. What if it is my hobby?

Why will you knack someone raw, lick dick, drink postinor 2 every other day - but cooking regularly becomes foolishness? I see nothing foolish in this one.

propynich123:
Love can make someone sometimes mad; believe me, I was a victim, the person in love can do whatever it takes to please the person that he is in love with, no matter how much it takes.

Today, we will be discussing 9 foolish things Nigerian ladies do everyday in the name of love.

1. Marrying an older man:
I don’t think i will marry someone that is old enough to be her father, if not for love. Will you?

2. Pleading, begging and crying for men to marry them; Dear sister, you don’t have to do all that to make him marry you, if he is interested he will ask you himself, you don’t have to beg or plead; By doing so, you will tarnish your image in his eyes.

3. Cooking for the guy you are not married to Just to cook for him once is not the problem, but if that became a regular thing that is foolishness.

4. Not quitting an abusive relationship:
My sister, the guy that is interested in you will never abuse you in any way because he loves, and he is willing to spend the rest of his life with you.

5. Moving in with a guy that you are not married to, thinking that moving in with him will make him love you. My sister, you are mistaken that will never happen. Sometimes, some even take-in for the man.

6. Dating a man for a long time without talking about your future together, or where your relationship stands.

7. Living in a man resident, that you are not married to:
This is common in our higher institutions today, even outside our unis, and poly, you find this life style too.

8. Sharing secrets:
Girls are always victims of this, they always like to share their past stories with the men they barely know.

9. Unfriending your friends because of a man you are in love with:
Believe my sister, if you are doing so believe me you are in a deep mess.

Have you witnessed this before? Do you really think it's normal?
LET'S HEAR FROM YOU

I pity you.

You condemn these things in the public, yet you do worse in private.

This is the most foolish OP missed

ZIINI:
11 . constant begging of 2k

I’m guilty of number 3.. ONLY!


I remembered cooking for one idiotic fellow during my final year days...

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless....All Of Them

Very soon you will give birth to another one and increase our number.

very right! can't be said any better

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless....All Of Them

Would you also reject any assistance he offers to you?

Jodha:
Yhure actually right op... especially staying with a man yhure not married to....he will never respect yhu or take yhu serious....

That cooking stuff sef I can't do that in the name of any foolish love.... washing yhur clothe and cooking for yhu when yhure not my husband... tufiakwa... I'll sit down and gist with yhu till yhu wash yhur clothe by yhurself and for yhurself...

No one is holy.
I don't judge people.

Na wa oo,

what's the big deal in cooking again.... All the Redpill and feminist people just want to suck out fun in dating


.

propynich123:
Love can make someone sometimes mad; believe me, I was a victim, the person in love can do whatever it takes to please the person that he is in love with, no matter how much it takes.

Today, we will be discussing 9 foolish things Nigerian ladies do everyday in the name of love.

1. Marrying an older man:
I don’t think i will marry someone that is old enough to be her father, if not for love. Will you?

2. Pleading, begging and crying for men to marry them; Dear sister, you don’t have to do all that to make him marry you, if he is interested he will ask you himself, you don’t have to beg or plead; By doing so, you will tarnish your image in his eyes.

3. Cooking for the guy you are not married to Just to cook for him once is not the problem, but if that became a regular thing that is foolishness.

4. Not quitting an abusive relationship:
My sister, the guy that is interested in you will never abuse you in any way because he loves, and he is willing to spend the rest of his life with you.

5. Moving in with a guy that you are not married to, thinking that moving in with him will make him love you. My sister, you are mistaken that will never happen. Sometimes, some even take-in for the man.

6. Dating a man for a long time without talking about your future together, or where your relationship stands.

7. Living in a man resident, that you are not married to:
This is common in our higher institutions today, even outside our unis, and poly, you find this life style too.

8. Sharing secrets:
Girls are always victims of this, they always like to share their past stories with the men they barely know.

9. Unfriending your friends because of a man you are in love with:
Believe my sister, if you are doing so believe me you are in a deep mess.

Have you witnessed this before? Do you really think it's normal?
LET'S HEAR FROM YOU

Women don't do any of these things for love. Love is just the cover they use to make their behaviour seem noble.

If it is not for immediate financial gratification (which your point 1 definitely falls under), it is for the sake of marking their territory on a man who they think has future financial potential, shielding him from female rivals. It's like an investment. The more convinced they are that they will get a high ROI, the longer and harder they will hold on to their 'portfolio' (yes, women often juggle more than one 'investment' at a time).

propynich123:
Love can make someone sometimes mad; believe me, I was a victim, the person in love can do whatever it takes to please the person that he is in love with, no matter how much it takes.

Today, we will be discussing 9 foolish things Nigerian ladies do everyday in the name of love.

1. Marrying an older man:
I don’t think i will marry someone that is old enough to be her father, if not for love. Will you?

2. Pleading, begging and crying for men to marry them; Dear sister, you don’t have to do all that to make him marry you, if he is interested he will ask you himself, you don’t have to beg or plead; By doing so, you will tarnish your image in his eyes.

3. Cooking for the guy you are not married to Just to cook for him once is not the problem, but if that became a regular thing that is foolishness.

4. Not quitting an abusive relationship:
My sister, the guy that is interested in you will never abuse you in any way because he loves, and he is willing to spend the rest of his life with you.

5. Moving in with a guy that you are not married to, thinking that moving in with him will make him love you. My sister, you are mistaken that will never happen. Sometimes, some even take-in for the man.

6. Dating a man for a long time without talking about your future together, or where your relationship stands.

7. Living in a man resident, that you are not married to:
This is common in our higher institutions today, even outside our unis, and poly, you find this life style too.

8. Sharing secrets:
Girls are always victims of this, they always like to share their past stories with the men they barely know.

9. Unfriending your friends because of a man you are in love with:
Believe my sister, if you are doing so believe me you are in a deep mess.

Have you witnessed this before? Do you really think it's normal?
LET'S HEAR FROM YOU

I agree with all except no 1. 40 year old lady can marry 70 year old man !!!

Jodha:
Yhure actually right op... especially staying with a man yhure not married to....he will never respect yhu or take yhu serious....

That cooking stuff sef I can't do that in the name of any foolish love.... washing yhur clothe and cooking for yhu when yhure not my husband... tufiakwa... I'll sit down and gist with yhu till yhu wash yhur clothe by yhurself and for yhurself...

May your character see you through if truly you mean every words you wrote up there.

Even those who do wash still find it hard to get. Age and bitter experience are good teachers.

I will also advice you not to wash his clothes when you guys eventually got married, at least he has two hands or forced him to buy washing marchine. For the cooking stuff, do it only on weekends, if he is angry let him go to fast food joints that scatter all places. Kitchen republic alike are meant for girls(husbands) like you.

Say no to...feminist online and potopoto' in real life.

ladies will come here to brag but behind the nairaland scene they do more than what they listed above. They can do anything to wear that white wedding gown.....if u follow their mouthing, u are on your own.